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In this set of videos, we are going to be talking about early-stage relationships. There’s a lot of science around this but in this episode of Real Relationships Real Revenue, I’m sharing tips for getting your interactions just right early in your relationships for momentum that lasts. I share ways to take notes for hireable and human follow-ups, why you should keep them short, and how to develop systems for implementation.    Topics We Cover in This Episode:    Why your early interactions matter Why following up is so important with new relationships How to take notes when meeting new people  Why you need to do this immediately when meeting someone Why you want to focus on human follow-ups too How to show commonality What types of notes to take How to build a plan Why short interactions are better than long follow-ups Why it’s important to have reminders Tools to use to stay organized The time frame to use to send out your follow-ups     You have to avoid treating new relationships like you would a relationship that you’ve had for a long time. You need extra care, extra value, and extra attention in the first month or two of a relationship. You don’t have to do this for everybody. But for your most important new relationships, you want to have a system for following up and adding value. Using these tips will help you build momentum and create relationships that stick.    Resources Mentioned: Learn more about this study from Dr. Hanan Shteingart Listen to my conversation with Linda Klein Listen to my conversation with Grant Baldwin Listen to my conversation with Dr. Ivan Misner Check out BD Habits

In the last four episodes, we covered the science of early-stage relationships, and how important it is to have a lot of positive interactions within the first couple of weeks and months that you meet someone, also known as the Campaign of Helpfulness. We also covered how to follow up in hireable and helpful ways. In this episode of Real Relationships Real Revenue, we are talking about how you can map them out and create a time-based reminder system to help you send out those reminders.    Topics We Cover in This Episode:  Why it’s important to have reminders Tools to use to stay organized The time frame to use to send out your follow-ups   Avoid having too few touchpoints during this process. When you do these types of follow-ups for a while, your relationships will stick. You’re showing the other person that you care, you’re paying attention, you’re thinking of them, and trying to be helpful. That is going to be well-received.    The key is having systems. To learn more about a great business development  system, make sure to check out BD Habits.    Resources Mentioned: Check out BD Habits

In this episode of Real Relationships Real Revenue, I’m pulling from the last few episodes where we talked about orchestrating a campaign of helpfulness for a very important person that you met recently. We covered notes that you can take so that you can follow up in a hireable way and in a human way. Now we are talking about how you’re going to build a plan.    Topics We Cover in This Episode:    How to build a plan Why short interactions are better than long follow-ups   After a business meeting, avoid falling into the trap of sending one email with all of the business-related follow-ups you can think of. This squashes your momentum. It will just be deferred. You want to instead focus on lots of back and forth that builds momentum.    If you want to learn more about this, make sure to listen to my conversation with the best networker I’ve ever met, Dr. Ivan Misner. He has a very specific way that he does his follow-ups after meeting someone and I think you’ll enjoy hearing about it.    Resources Mentioned: Listen to my conversation with Dr. Ivan Misner

In the last episode, I covered hireable ways that you can follow up with new people that you meet. In this episode of Real Relationships Real Revenue, I’m sharing a second, completely different way to follow up that shows that you’re human. Of course you want to be hireable, but you want to show that you’re human too.     Topics We Cover in This Episode:    Why you want to focus on human follow-ups too How to show commonality What types of notes to take   If you take notes on hireable follow-ups and human follow-ups, then you end up having a big huge list of meaningful ways to follow up. Avoid only using hireable follow-up methods. It is so important to be human too.    If you want to learn more about following up in a human-centric way, make sure to listen to my interview with Grant Baldwin. We had a great conversation about it and I think you’ll really enjoy it.    Resources Mentioned: Listen to my conversation with Grant Baldwin

In the last episode, we talked about how to have a system, plan, or campaign of helpfulness in place for the first couple of months when you meet someone new. This is something that you don’t want to do for everyone but for a few really important people that you meet. In this episode of Real Relationships Real Revenue, I’m sharing ways to follow up in a hireable way.    Topics We Cover in This Episode:    How to take notes when meeting new people  Why you need to do this immediately when meeting someone     The most important thing you can do is write those things down. It will help you remember that person and give you some great things to follow up on. Don’t fall into the trap of thinking you’ll come up with new ways to follow up after the fact.    If you want to learn more about following up and how much success it can bring you, make sure to listen to my conversation with Linda Klein. I think it’ll really bring to life the idea of helpful follow-up.    Resources Mentioned: Listen to my conversation with Linda Klein

In this set of videos, we are going to be talking about early-stage relationships. There’s a lot of science around this but in this episode of Real Relationships Real Revenue, we are focusing on one study from Dr. Hanan Shteingart that shows that if you get your interactions right early on in your relationships, the momentum will stick with you for years to come.    Topics We Cover in This Episode:    Why your early interactions matter Why following up is so important with new relationships   You have to avoid treating new relationships like you would a relationship that you’ve had for a long time. You need extra care, extra value, and extra attention in the first month or two of a relationship. You don’t have to do this for everybody. But for your most important new relationships, you want to have a system for following up and adding value.    If you want to learn more about this study by Dr. Shteingart, make sure to check it out here.    Resources Mentioned: Learn more about this study from Dr. Hanan Shteingart

In this episode of Real Relationships Real Revenue, I’m wrapping up the last several videos where we discussed different methods for meeting new people. I shared several different ways to meet whomever you want, and in this episode, you’ll learn tips for using webinars and speaking engagements, social media for lead generation, Episodic Writing, and so much more.    Topics We Cover in This Episode:    The types of scalable methods How to get started with these methods How to be successful during these events How to create a call to action Who should use social media How to do it properly How to be successful with this method What Episodic Writing is Where to publish your content How to use this method to meet people How to get started Figuring out who to target Pro ninja tips for making these methods work for you   Don’t fall into the trap of thinking you can’t make this happen. I shared several different ways to meet whomever you want, and next, I want you to think through and find a couple of methods that you could best leverage your strengths with.    Different methods work for different people, and it’s important for you to find what’s best for you. Start with who exactly you want to meet and how you can best offer them value. Then, using your strengths, use one of these methods and I know you’ll find success.      Resources Mentioned: Read The Snowball System Check out my conversation with Pat Quinn Listen to my conversation with Katrina Johnson

In this episode of Real Relationships Real Revenue, I’m wrapping up the last 15 videos where we discussed different methods for meeting new people. I shared several different ways to meet whomever you want, and next, I want you to think through and find a couple of methods that you could best leverage your strengths with.    Topics We Cover in This Episode:    How to get started Figuring out who to target Pro ninja tips for making these methods work for you   Different methods work for different people, and it’s important for you to find what’s best for you. Start with who exactly you want to meet and how you can best offer them value. Then, using your strengths, use one of these methods and I know you’ll find success.    If you want to go even deeper on this topic and learn more about targeting, I highly recommend you check out my conversation with Katrina Johnson. She shares a lot of really interesting stuff in this interview and I know you’ll enjoy it.    Resources Mentioned: Listen to my conversation with Katrina Johnson

The last couple of weeks we have been talking about forming new relationships, getting introduced to whoever you want, and how to do all of this in a scalable way. In this episode of Real Relationships Real Revenue, I’m sharing the last method in scalable ways to meet new people. It’s called Episodic Writing. This is when you write about a topic when something relevant happens as a way to meet certain people.   Topics We Cover in This Episode:    What Episodic Writing is Where to publish your content How to use this method to meet people   Avoid thinking that you are done as soon as the piece you wrote posts. You need to think of this as the starting line, not the finish line. Many people try to use this method but they don’t do it right. You want to be strategic with your time and efforts so that it gets in front of the right people.     There’s so much more on this topic in The Snowball System in chapter 6. Make sure to check it out for some really useful information that will help you find success with this method.    Resources Mentioned: Check out The Snowball System

In this episode of Real Relationships Real Revenue, I’m talking about how you can use social media as a lead generation tool. This one is tricky because few people do this well. There is a method that you’ll want to stick to when going this route. Essentially, you want to post content and use social media to amplify it. Then, you get targeted about who you want to meet and get that content in front of them.    Topics We Cover in This Episode:    Who should use social media How to do it properly How to be successful with this method   The goal with this method is that you want to go from social media to actually talking in person. Avoid using a spray-and-pray approach. You want to orchestrate this correctly so that you can get into a conversation with the person you’re hoping to so that you can create new relationships and potentially get hired.    If you want to learn more about social media for lead generation, make sure to check out The Snowball System. It has some really great information on the topic in chapter six.    Resources Mentioned: Check out The Snowball System