At Peace Parents Podcast

In this episode I talk with Carrie - mother of a 12-year-old PDAer - about how to support her son when he gets dysregulated by not knowing what to do during free time - especially after school and on weekends.

In this episode I coach Lierin as she navigates the equalizing her 5-year-old daughter does against her 8-year-old sister. Specifically we discuss how to help the older daughter understand PDA and the "unfairness" it brings about.

Delve into the world of parenting children with Pathological Demand Avoidance. Discover how parental trauma and emotional triggers affect caregiving dynamics. Explore the balance between nurturing a child's unique needs and managing personal challenges. Hear insights on effective coping strategies, emotional resilience, and self-care. The discussion emphasizes transforming parenting hardships into growth opportunities while fostering trust and connection. It's a heartfelt exploration of love, support, and the complexities of raising neurodiverse children.

A mother shares her journey managing her 4-year-old with Pathological Demand Avoidance and navigating sibling dynamics with a younger child. The conversation focuses on strategies for validating emotions and ensuring everyone feels secure. Key insights include co-parenting approaches, emotional safety, and the importance of creating structured plans. The speakers emphasize parenting through modeling and fostering open communication, encouraging a nurturing atmosphere for all children involved.

In this episode I work with Megan, a mom who is frustrated that what other adults think about her parenting impacts her, and unsure if this is an obstacle to radical acceptance of her child's PDA. Thank you Megan for sharing your story to help other families. I know many of us can relate!Also, this is the first podcast episode where I share the coaching conversations I'm doing on my new show: "Parenting PDA Your Way". We're live streaming the show most Fridays at 10am ET on Facebook and YouTube.

Afshan Tafler, a nervous system expert and trauma healer, joins to discuss the unique challenges faced by parents of children with Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA). They dive into how parenting sensitive kids can lead to personal nervous system strain. Afshan offers tools to combat parental burnout and emphasizes the importance of self-regulation and community support. The conversation also includes insights on personal healing, navigating emotional complexities, and the empowering journey of self-discovery for parents amidst their challenges.

Discover effective strategies for nurturing a positive self-image in children and teens with Pathological Demand Avoidance. Learn the importance of empathy and affirmations in fostering their identity. This insightful discussion emphasizes providing autonomy and equality, helping young individuals thrive emotionally. Perfect for parents seeking to uplift their kids regardless of diagnosis!

Caroline Thor, a KonMari consultant and Paradigm Shift Program alumna, discusses her transformative parenting journey with her son who has Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA). She shares how adjusting her approach has improved family dynamics and her professional life. Caroline emphasizes the crucial role of community support and understanding in navigating the emotional challenges of parenting. Additionally, she introduces the flexibility of the KonMari method, offering practical insights on decluttering with compassion while prioritizing joy and connection.

How do I feel about AI, and how do I use it with my PDA child? In this episode I talk through these things and more with Kelly Edwards, founder of the 90-Minute School Day. As a mom of a PDAer herself, and an expert in the homeschooling/unschooling space, Kelly brings great insight to our conversation. I hope you find it helpful!

Not all demand avoidant children and teens are PDA. In this episode I talk through how to know if your child fits the profile for PDA, which is important, because it suggests a different root cause for their avoidance than for non-PDA demand avoidant kids. And of course, you want to know what the root cause is so you know how best to support your child or teen.I hope this is helpful to all.xo,Casey