

At Peace Parents Podcast
Casey
The At Peace Parents Podcast is your source for all things related to understanding, supporting, accommodating, and advocating for your demand avoidant or PDA child. It will completely transform the way you think about your PDA child's brain, behavior, and parenting, and support you in finding your path to more peace and stability in the home. For more information see www.atpeaceparents.com
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Dec 9, 2025 • 55min
Ep. 136 - Teaching Frustration Tolerance to My PDA Child?
In this episode I talk with a mom about her 7-year-old daughter - with PDA, ADHD and anxiety - about when she might help her build her frustration tolerance, and when she likely cannot.We also dive in on a specific challenge she was facing when her both her daughters need support at the same time.The conversation is from Parenting PDA Your Way, the show we stream live on our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube most Fridays at 1pm ET. I hope you find it helpful!xo,Casey

Dec 2, 2025 • 55min
Ep. 135 - PDA Teen Can't Stop Wrestling Dad
In this episode I speak with a mom of a PDA 14-year-old who regulates himself by wrestling his father after school each day, which causes Mom lots of anxiety. Together we use my cost-benefit decision making tool to weigh her options and she then decides a new strategy to try.I hope this episode is helpful for you. It's from Parenting PDA Your Way, the show we stream live on our Instagram, Facebook and YouTube most Fridays at 1pm ET.xo,Casey

Nov 18, 2025 • 39min
Ep. 134 - De-Escalating Your PDA Teen in Public
In this episode I speak with a mother of a PDA teen about:Setting boundaries when other kids are involvedMaking decisions in public when you are being judgedHelping young siblings understand the PDA threat response.The episode is from Parenting PDA Your Way, the show we stream live most Fridays on our Instagram, Facebook, YouTube accounts.xoxo,Casey

Nov 11, 2025 • 58min
Ep. 133 - PDA and ASD Evaluations for You and Your Child
Dr. Alex Klein, a clinical psychologist specializing in neurodivergent evaluations, shares invaluable insights about assessing Autism and PDA. They discuss the significance of self-diagnosis and the emotional factors in seeking formal assessments. Klein highlights the importance of recognizing family patterns and obtaining accurate assessments without relying solely on third-party reports. Additionally, he explores flexible strategies for evaluating children and therapeutic options tailored for PDA, emphasizing the need for safety and understanding in therapy.

Oct 28, 2025 • 42min
Ep. 132 - When PDA Child Won't Let Me Take a Pause
In this episode I speak with a mom about a time her daughter melted down and then wouldn't allow Mom to step away and take the pause she needed to regulate herself to be able to support her daughter. These situations are so tough - and sometimes there is nothing you can do but endure them - and so in this conversation we talked about how to find meaning in this parenting experience.This podcast episode is a recording of Parenting PDA Your Way, the show I host live on our YouTube and Facebook most Fridays at 1pm ET. I hope it's helpful to you!xo,Casey

Oct 21, 2025 • 39min
Ep. 131 - PDA Daughter Pinches and Scratches Me While Falling Asleep
In this episode I speak with a mom about her PDA daughter, who pinches and scratches Mom as she is falling asleep. It's a recording of Parenting PDA Your Way, the show I host live on our YouTube and Facebook most Fridays at 1pm ET. I hope it's helpful to you!xo,Casey

Oct 7, 2025 • 1h 2min
Ep. 130 - Parenting PDA Child Constantly Going to Neighbors' Homes
In this episode I speak with a mom whose PDA son constantly wants to play with neighbors' kids - no matter how many times he may have already knocked on the door that day - and melts down if she says no.It's a recording of Parenting PDA Your Way, the show I host live on our YouTube and Facebook most Fridays at 1pm ET. I hope it's helpful to you!xo,Casey

Sep 30, 2025 • 41min
Ep. 129 - Parenting PDA Teen Who Wants to Buy Everything
Samantha's 13-year-old PDA daughter wants to buy things all the time, and gets dysregulated when her parents say "no." It's a common and difficult problem for many parents of PDA children and teens, and in this week's episode I talk it through with Samantha.The episode is a recording of Parenting PDA Your Way, the show I host live on our YouTube and Facebook most Fridays at 1pm ET. I hope it's helpful to you!xo,Casey

Sep 23, 2025 • 1h 4min
Ep. 128 - Recognizing My Second Son is PDA
In this episode I talk through how I've come to realize my second son is also PDA - with a more internalized expression than my first - and how the process has been both similar and different from the first time. I hope it's helpful for you :)

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Sep 16, 2025 • 40min
Ep. 127 - How to Manage PDA Child Equalizing on the Walk to School
A mother shares her challenges with her PDA child's controlling behavior during their walk to school. They discuss the complexities of neurodiversity and home education. Topics include defining equalizing behavior and exploring whether lowering demands helps. The conversation shifts to coping strategies versus setting boundaries. They emphasize the importance of reframing the walk as a safety task and managing parental expectations. Finally, a unique two-week experiment is proposed to grant the child more autonomy and observe the outcomes.


