
Avoiding Divorce
Common sense methods for saving your marriage after your spouse has said they want a divorce.
Latest episodes

Nov 20, 2024 • 25min
Episode 24: Dealing with the emotions related to your situation.
This discussion dives into the turbulent emotions sparked by a spouse's desire for divorce. Listeners learn techniques to manage their feelings and prevent harmful actions. The episode highlights the challenges of navigating breakups while celebrating a milestone of 75,000 listens. It also emphasizes embracing personal growth instead of dwelling on the past, helping individuals turn fear and sadness into opportunities for positive change.

Feb 16, 2024 • 35min
Episode 23: Inconsistency in the walkaway and left-behind spouses
In segment 1, dealing with inconsistency in the walkway spouse is examined. In segment 2, the importance of emotional consistency in the left-behind spouse is discussed.

Aug 18, 2023 • 34min
Episode 22: Left-behind spouses struggling with Avoiding Divorce and giving up control of things
In segment 1, the discussion centers on why some left-behind spouses struggle with Avoiding Divorce. In segment 2, the topic of trying to control things you have no control over is considered.

Jun 16, 2023 • 36min
Episode 21: Dealing with limbo in an in-home separation and Self-differentiation
In segment 1, dealing with limbo in an in-home separation is considered. In segment 2, self-differentiation and why it is important is discussed.

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May 3, 2023 • 34min
Episode 20: Relationship talks
Discover the dynamics of relationship talks between spouses. Left-behind partners may feel tempted to engage in discussions, but often face disappointment. Conversely, learn why some walkaway spouses initiate these sensitive conversations. The hosts share effective techniques for handling these talks, focusing on the importance of listening and providing emotional validation. Tune in for insights that could reshape your perspective on navigating tough relationship discussions.

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Mar 1, 2023 • 38min
Episode 19: Avoiding Divorce Approach Summary and Snooping vs Intelligence Gathering
Discover practical strategies for preserving your marriage, including insights into personal growth and rekindling pre-marital happiness. Learn the delicate balance between being aware of your spouse's actions and avoiding unhealthy obsession. The discussion also delves into the intriguing differences between snooping and gathering intelligence, highlighting the importance of trust and communication in relationships.

Dec 8, 2022 • 35min
Episode 18: Not doing the dirty work of divorce and avoiding divorce even after divorce
In the first segment, making the walkaway spouse do the dirty work of divorce is discussed. In segment 2 avoiding divorce even after divorce is explained.

Jul 2, 2022 • 30min
Episode 17: Should you try reconnection? And being consistent in avoiding divorce.
In segment 1, reconnection attempts are discussed. In segment 2 Being consistent with avoiding divorce principles is the topic.

Mar 28, 2022 • 35min
Episode 16: The walk away divorce fog and listener questions
In segment 1 the subject of the walk away spouse's divorce fog is considered. In segment 2, listener questions on recapturing the life you once had when you're a parent, and being emotional even to fault are discussed.

Mar 8, 2022 • 31min
Episode 15: Not avoiding divorce to avoid divorce and when the left behind spouse should divorce
In segment 1 (audio fixed), not avoiding divorce to avoid divorce is explained. In segment 2, when should a left behind spouse decide it is okay to move forward with divorce themselves is discussed. (redo)