
Avoiding Divorce
Common sense methods for saving your marriage after your spouse has said they want a divorce.
Latest episodes

Feb 1, 2022 • 30min
Episode 14: Taking one day at a time, and moving forward vs. moving on.
In the first segment, how to take your situation one day at a time is discussed. In segment 2, moving forward vs. moving on is the topic.

Jan 20, 2022 • 27min
Episode 13: Sprint vs. marathon, and after doing all I can, spouse still wants a divorce.
In segment 1, the topic of marital problems being a marathon not a sprint is covered. In segment 2, the question about what to do after doing all you can to save your marriage, your spouse still wants a divorce is discussed.

Oct 8, 2021 • 30min
Episode 12: Dating during limbo and walk away spouses that just up and leave
Episode 12 In the first segment the question of whether a left behind spouse should date during limbo is discussed. In segment 2, a walkaway spouse that gives little to no warning before leaving is covered.

Sep 16, 2021 • 32min
Episode 11: Individual counseling, and manipulation vs. sincerity
In this episode, segment 1 deals with why you should get into individual counseling. Segment 2 manipulation vs sincerity is discussed.

Aug 13, 2021 • 31min
Avoiding Divorce Episode 10: Having principles and confronting the affair partner
Segment 1 deals with having core principles that guide your life and actions. Segment 2 explores whether or not you should confront your spouse's affair partner.

Jul 19, 2021 • 29min
Avoiding Divorce Episode 9: Setting Boundaries and Remaining Emotionally Even
Listeners explore the essentials of setting healthy boundaries in relationships. The discussion highlights how crucial these boundaries are, especially during challenging times. Tips for maintaining emotional stability and self-control are shared to enhance communication with partners. Cultivating emotional equanimity is emphasized, offering strategies to remain calm and collected amid stress. This insightful conversation provides valuable tools for improving interactions and navigating relationship dynamics.

Feb 23, 2021 • 25min
Avoiding Divorce Episode 8: Commanding Respect
Commanding Respect is important, no one is attracted to a doormat. Also, understanding the difference between commanding respect and demanding respect.

Aug 25, 2020 • 38min
Avoiding Divorce Episode 7: Handling limbo and frequently asked questions.
The discussion dives into the emotional turmoil faced during a divorce limbo, highlighting the struggles of the left-behind spouse. Tips on managing uncertainty are shared, focusing on self-improvement and boundary-setting. The importance of empowerment through knowledge is emphasized. Listeners also learn how to navigate social media during this challenging time, maintaining a healthy perspective. Questions about love and attachment in these moments are addressed, bringing a blend of insight and support.

Jul 7, 2020 • 37min
Avoiding Divorce Episode 6: What do you do if there is an affair involved?
What happens if there is an affair involved? In this episode we discuss affairs and how you should handle your situation in that case, whether its a physical or emotional affair.

Apr 15, 2020 • 32min
Avoiding Divorce Episode 5: What about marriage counseling? And listening and validating.
In segment 1, marriage counseling is discussed, should you try it in your situation? Segment 2 covers listening and validating in the event your walkaway spouse initiates a relationship discussion.