Avoiding Divorce Avoiding Divorce Episode 7: Handling limbo and frequently asked questions.
Aug 25, 2020
The discussion dives into the emotional turmoil faced during a divorce limbo, highlighting the struggles of the left-behind spouse. Tips on managing uncertainty are shared, focusing on self-improvement and boundary-setting. The importance of empowerment through knowledge is emphasized. Listeners also learn how to navigate social media during this challenging time, maintaining a healthy perspective. Questions about love and attachment in these moments are addressed, bringing a blend of insight and support.
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Use Limbo As Time Gift
- Slow down and take time to process your spouse's desire to leave during limbo.
- Use this period as a gift of time to focus on self-improvement and growth.
Avoid Desperation, Focus On Self
- Avoid desperation behaviors like begging, pleading, or pressuring your spouse.
- Focus instead on recapturing your life and becoming a differentiated individual.
Stay Put & Keep Core Values
- Do not move out during an in-home separation; the spouse wanting to leave should vacate.
- Maintain your core values and don’t compromise them to keep the marriage alive.