Avoiding Divorce Episode 20: Relationship talks
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May 3, 2023 Discover the dynamics of relationship talks between spouses. Left-behind partners may feel tempted to engage in discussions, but often face disappointment. Conversely, learn why some walkaway spouses initiate these sensitive conversations. The hosts share effective techniques for handling these talks, focusing on the importance of listening and providing emotional validation. Tune in for insights that could reshape your perspective on navigating tough relationship discussions.
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Illusion of Action in Talks
- Left-behind spouses often engage in relationship talks due to the illusion of action and hope for change.
- These talks rarely help and usually make the left-behind spouse feel worse afterwards.
Clarity Shows Reconciliation Intent
- When a walkaway spouse wants to reconcile, their intent is unambiguous.
- Confusion about their feelings means relationship talks won't clarify their desire to stay.
Actions Trump Words in Divorce
- Walkaway spouses decide to leave after long, deep contemplation of marital issues.
- You can't talk your way out of problems created by prolonged actions and decisions.