Avoiding Divorce Episode 19: Avoiding Divorce Approach Summary and Snooping vs Intelligence Gathering
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Mar 1, 2023 Discover practical strategies for preserving your marriage, including insights into personal growth and rekindling pre-marital happiness. Learn the delicate balance between being aware of your spouse's actions and avoiding unhealthy obsession. The discussion also delves into the intriguing differences between snooping and gathering intelligence, highlighting the importance of trust and communication in relationships.
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Recapture Your Former Life
- Recapture the life you had before marriage by engaging in old hobbies and reconnecting with past friends.
- Avoid dating or pursuing others; just become the high-value person your spouse was initially attracted to.
Pursue Genuine Self-Improvement
- Work on self-improvement through counseling, parenting, friendships, or community involvement.
- Focus on becoming the best version of yourself for your own growth, not to manipulate your spouse.
Master Being Happy Alone
- Learn to be happy alone to build resilience after a walkaway spouse's decision.
- Focus on controlling your reaction and prioritizing your own happiness without relying on your spouse.
