The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Julianne Vaccaro, somatic sexologist and spiritual guide, joins Alexandra Stockwell, MD to discuss the erotic blueprints and their impact on pleasure and intimacy. They explore different types of blueprints, from energetic to sensual, and delve into the world of kink, emphasizing its healing potential beyond BDSM. They also touch on the power of consent and the blending of hot and cold sensations during sexual experiences. Get ready for an inspiring and transformative episode on unlocking your erotic power.

Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Tricia Brouk for an honest conversation about the often misunderstood topic of menopause. The conversation is inspired by and centered around their journey co-authoring "The Invitation: Vital Conversations About Menopause," their new book published on September 13, 2023.  Together, Alexandra and Tricia challenge menopause stereotypes, emphasizing the unique and positive potential of each woman in this phase of life. They address the lack of open discussions about menopause and invite both women and men to join this crucial conversation. Reflecting on their collaboration, they stress the importance of an authentic exploration of menopause's diverse experiences. Ultimately, this episode is an invitation to reshape the narrative around menopause, fostering understanding, empowerment, and connection for women and their partners. Also in this episode:  Menopause is an inevitable part of a woman's life, but it doesn't have to be a negative or horrific experience as society sometimes portrays it. Conversations about menopause should be open and inclusive, involving not only women but also their partners and loved ones. Creating a warm and inviting space for discussion is crucial to destigmatize menopause and empower individuals to share their experiences. How interested and responsive men have been about a book on menopause; it's turning out to be an inclusive resource for everyone. Every person going through menopause is the ultimate authority on their own experience. The book "The Invitation: Vital Conversations About Menopause" encourages vital and intimate conversations about menopause, aiming to create connections, expand sexual understanding, and promote a more intimate marriage. Purchase “The Invitation: Vital Conversations About Menopause” here: https://a.co/d/8FpGwZI   About “The Invitation: Vital Conversations About Menopause”:  Whether you’re a woman in the midst of menopause, anticipating it, or close to someone who is, you are invited to join a candid, provocative conversation in a safe space where all experiences are honored.  “The Invitation” is an expansive, meaningful dialogue between two friends that unfolds organically as the authors discuss the nuances of their individual experiences, challenge widely held social constructs, and give rise to empowering new perspectives on the menopause paradigm.  Chapters explore physical manifestations of menopause, sex and intimacy, marriage through the lens of menopause, and how menopause impacts women at work—a topic for which an expert joins the conversation to enlighten readers about both challenges and solutions for female employees going through menopause.  There are also important contributions from three women with diverse backgrounds who share their heartbreaking and poignant personal journeys of feeling abandoned by the medical system and betrayed by their own bodies.  "The Invitation” is not about medical treatments or behavioral solutions. It’s about creating a collective sisterhood; engaging in open, honest dialogue; and validating and empowering one another to embody a different and more inspiring relationship with menopause.   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram  

Alexandra Stockwell, MD, shares heartfelt stories of couples she's coached and her thoughts on what makes a marriage last. From reigniting intimacy in a 21-year marriage to a couple's transformative journey after 27 years, these narratives inspire and inform. Alexandra encourages listeners to reflect on their own marital culture and emphasizes the importance of making a deliberate effort to foster a positive relationship within a marriage and within a family. She also provides insights and strategies to maintain focus and intentionality in long-lasting marriages, ways to reignite the spark and engage in the foundational conversations often left unspoken. Dive into the world of authentic, lasting love and learn to enrich your own relationship in this enlightening episode. Also in this episode:  Long-lasting marriages succeed when at least one partner is willing to stand for the marriage when things get tough Unspoken truths create a lack of intimacy and diminished sexual connection Some couples go through a process of reconfiguring their marriage so it better aligns with their new desires and values The need to pay attention and be deliberate with one another Couples wanting a more fulfilling partnership need to invest attention and intention into their relationship   The Invitation: Vital Conversations about Menopause: https://a.co/d/6KXAqAy Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.  For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!   This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact   The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD  

Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Dr. Rachel Rubin, a renowned urologist and sexual medicine specialist, to discuss sexual medicine, as well as the art/science driving sexual desire. Dr. Rubin emphasizes the vital importance of a biopsychosocial approach to sexual medicine, highlighting the significance of understanding a patient's background and their goals for enhancing their quality of life. She defines sexual medicine, discusses when to seek help and addresses issues like low desire and arousal. Dr. Rubin recommends various treatment options, including the use of devices (ie. vibrators) for enhancing intimacy. The conversation takes a personal turn as she shares she’s happily married with a supportive partner.  Also in this episode: How do you define sexual medicine? Why Dr. Rubin considers herself a sex detective Low desire is a common problem for both men and women  Why it’s important to ask patients about libido, masturbation techniques, cultural and religious issues, and childhood trauma Erectile dysfunction is a marker for cardiovascular disease in men and women Where to find more information about sexual health products How our personal experiences influence our practice of medicine About Dr. Rachel Rubin: Dr. Rachel Rubin is a board-certified urologist and sexual medicine specialist. She is an assistant clinical professor of Urology at Georgetown University and owns her private practice in the Washington DC region. She is one of only a handful of physicians fellowship trained in both male and female sexual medicine. Dr. Rubin is a clinician, researcher, and vocal educator in the field of sexual medicine. She completed her medical and undergraduate training at Tufts University, her urology training at Georgetown University, and her fellowship training under Dr. Irwin Goldstein in San Diego. In addition to being the education chair for the International Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health (ISSWSH), she also serves as an Associate Editor for the Journal Sexual Medicine Reviews. Her work has been featured in the NYT, PBS and NPR. Connect With Dr. Rachel Rubin Rachelrubinmd.com | Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | Threads Links mentioned in the episode: Promescent Devices |  Mystery Vibe    Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.  For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!   This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact   The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD  

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Intimacy Coach Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores the dynamics of genuine connection within marriages and how they can be influenced by two specific false archetypes of love. Delving beyond traditional roles, she navigates two common archetypes that hinder intimacy: the parent-child dynamic and the project manager approach. By embracing the essence of "being" over constant "doing," listeners learn to infuse presence into every interaction, fostering deeper relationships. The episode inspires self-awareness, promoting emotional growth and fulfillment. Discover how to transform roles, prioritize connection, and ignite a profound, soulful bond with your partner. Also in this episode: How historical roles in marriage have shifted toward modern expectations of personal growth and companionship. Overcoming tendencies to seek emotional rescue or dependence on a partner, hindering true connection. Successful individuals may inadvertently impede intimacy by approaching relationships with a managerial mindset. Shift focus from constant doing to cultivating presence and connection in daily interactions. Nurturing intimacy: develop a deeper understanding of genuine connection, essential for passion and fulfillment in relationships. Evolving archetypes, fostering growth, and fostering soulful, emotionally rich bonds with your partner.     Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.  For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!   This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact   The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD  

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Intimacy Coach Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares profound insights to help you recognize how varied compromise in marriage can be, and how to let it go. Instead, embrace uncompromising intimacy and all the lusciousness that comes with it! Discover the power of honoring and expressing your authentic desires, while respecting your partner's wishes. Learn how to break free from unconscious habits of compromise and foster transparent communication instead. Uncover the keys to building a collaborative and adult-to-adult relationship, deep emotional intimacy and sensual passion. Take the first step towards transforming your marriage and embrace the journey of uncompromising love and intimacy today! Also in this episode:  The four types of relationships that involve some form of compromise.  How sneaky and insidious compromise can be.  The difference between narcissism and compromise.  When a habit becomes routine Pay more attention to your desires. How to figure out what you want to do. It’s a choice to be more empowered. How to know what you truly want.  Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.  For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!   This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact   The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD      

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Intimacy Coach Dr. Alexandra Stockwell is joined by Joshua and Rachel Lee, a dynamic power couple, who share their rich journey involving both personal and professional growth. Joshua's entrepreneurial successes, including working with MySpace, taught him the importance of finding purpose beyond monetary success. Rachel, a branding expert extraordinaire, emphasizes the value of authenticity in corporate life. Together, they describe unexpectedly falling in love while living in different cities and needing to overcome unanticipated challenges when Rachel moved to be with Joshua and his two kids. They share frankly about the development of their business Standout Authority, which combines both of their distinct skillsets; it’s a business driven by authenticity and the formation of genuine connections. Listen in to hear them talk about the power of love, vulnerability, and unified partnerships, in both life and entrepreneurship. Also in this episode:  How Rachel started her entrepreneurial career.  What it takes to share your voice authentically.  The importance of understanding what matters to both people and giving attention to insecurities in the relationship. The experience of transitioning from company employee to co-owner. Navigating roles and responsibilities as husband and wife, and co-owners too.  Using past experiences to educate and inspire others. The power in allowing others to truly see you.    About Joshua And Rachel Lee They are the dynamic duo behind Standout Authority. Joshua, a seasoned entrepreneur with 20+ years of experience, is known as "The Dopamine Dealer of LinkedIn" and has built 16 businesses while fostering a beautiful marriage and blended family. He realized the digital landscape had become disconnected, leading him to found Standout Authority in 2014. His focus on LinkedIn helps entrepreneurs and professionals humanize their brands and build authentic relationships. Rachel, a fearless marketing #ladyboss, complements Joshua's expertise by leading the marketing and branding strategy for Standout Authority. With a stellar career in the technology and marketing industry, including roles at Microsoft and Gartner, she brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to the table. Together, Joshua and Rachel are on a mission to help individuals reconnect and build real, lasting relationships in business and life. Through their expertise and passion, they empower clients to find their voice, create influence, and navigate their careers with purpose and success. Connect With Joshua And Rachel Lee Standoutauthority.com | Facebook | Twitter | LinkedIn   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.  For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!   This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact   The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Enhancing and enjoying your married sex life is the focus of this episode. The importance of open and honest communication about sex, practical tips for initiating conversations, and the impact of discussing sex on emotional and physical intimacy are discussed. Expert tips on how to revive and enjoy your sex life in a long-term, intimate marriage are provided. The power of ongoing dialogue and intimate conversations in enhancing sexual connection and nurturing relationships is emphasized.

 In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra shares a recording of an interview she did with Ruan Willow on her podcast. The episode explores topics such as uncompromising intimacy, libido mismatch, eroticism, and the importance of bringing all elements of oneself to a relationship, including heart, mind, and genitals. Ruan is an erotica author and a romance novelist, with a smooth silky voice. She’s comfortable talking about all aspects of sex and sexuality and asked some excellent questions, which makes for a deep, precise, and excellent conversation.  Alexandra discusses the concept of responsive desire and how it can help address libido mismatch in couples.  She also emphasizes understanding and honoring each partner's needs and desires, and the importance of creating a strong emotional and physical connection.  Also in this episode: How to marinate in your sensuality Connecting with your hearts and minds The difference between unconditional love and conditional love The myth of libido mismatch How to make sex more inviting How to help women get aroused Sex toys and orgasm.  How do you quantify an orgasm?  Clitoral mapping   About Ruan Willow:  Ruan Willow is an erotica & smut author and a romance novelist. She hosts the podcast Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow, where she talks about everything to do with sexuality, including tips, advice, and ideas about sexual wellness, does sexual product reviews, and hosts guest interviews. She is also a voiceover narrator so look for her audiobooks hitting the market too. She narrates for other authors and also for her own work. Her books are loaded with sexual content; if that's what you like in your books, her books are for you! Connect With Ruan Willow Ruanwillowauthor.com | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Podcast   Join The Aligned & Hot Marriage Program:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com   Suggested Episodes To Listen To: Communication As Foreplay | w/ Yvette Racines Uncompromising Intimacy   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.  For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!   This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact   The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD    

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives deep into the concept of amazing sex and what that truly means within the context of a healthy, loving marriage. Alexandra underlines that amazing sex is a deeply personal and subjective experience, emphasizing that the feelings evoked are far more important than the specific acts engaged in. Alexandra speaks of sex as a form of communication within a relationship, with each sexual encounter carrying a specific message between partners, whether expressed verbally or left unspoken. Alexandra provides various examples of these messages, such as expressing love and appreciation, searching for escape or connection, a desire for help with household chores, or simply wanting to feel nurtured. When both partners communications align, they enhance the overall sexual experience and create truly extraordinary passion, where emotional connection, understanding, and fulfillment flourish. Also in this episode: Each sexual encounter conveys a message, serving as a means of communication between partners. How to effectively express the emotions you want to convey. Many women use sex to get husbands to help with household chores. Using sex as a tool to escape daily stress and strengthen emotional bonds. Amazing sex is subjective and can differ from person to person. Using communication to enhance sexual experiences. Exploring the definition of unpleasant sexual experiences.   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.  For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!   This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact