

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD
Alexandra Stockwell, MD
Welcome to "The Intimate Marriage Podcast," the podcast where we explore the secrets to cultivating passionate and intimate relationships. I'm your host, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, aka "The Intimacy Doctor," an experienced intimacy coach and marriage expert.
In every committed marriage, intimacy and connection are the foundation for a fulfilling relationship. Join me as we delve into how small shifts and being uncompromising in your daily interactions can lead to profound and nourishing physical/emotional intimacy.
During each episode, we'll explore topics such as sexual intimacy, emotional awareness, and building an intimate connection that feels comfortable and authentic for you and your partner. I'll share practical advice and strategies to help you unlock the full potential of your relationship.
As "The Intimacy Doctor," I've helped countless couples transform their relationships and create a life filled with passion, purpose, and deep satisfaction. With over two decades of experience, I believe that true intimacy and success stem from being unapologetically yourself. Together, let's uncover the secrets to a juicy, nourishing, and intimate marriage.
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Download the first chapter of my bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book
If you're ready to take your intimacy skills to the next level, explore my Aligned & Hot Marriage program. It's designed specifically for couples who refuse to settle for anything less than extraordinary love and connection. Visit https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/aligned-hot-marriage/?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=ahm to learn more.
Join my email list to stay connected—it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=subscribe
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WHAT DOES AN INTIMACY COACH DO?
An intimacy coach is a trained professional who specializes in helping individuals and couples cultivate deeper connections and enhance their intimate relationships. The role of an intimacy coach is to guide and support their clients in exploring various aspects of intimacy, including emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy.
Intimacy coaches create a safe and non-judgmental space for their clients to express their needs, desires, and concerns related to intimacy. An intimacy coach helps clients develop self-awareness and emotional intelligence, enabling them to better understand their own desires and those of their partner. They provide guidance on effective communication techniques, conflict resolution, and exploring new ways to deepen emotional and physical intimacy.
In every committed marriage, intimacy and connection are the foundation for a fulfilling relationship. Join me as we delve into how small shifts and being uncompromising in your daily interactions can lead to profound and nourishing physical/emotional intimacy.
During each episode, we'll explore topics such as sexual intimacy, emotional awareness, and building an intimate connection that feels comfortable and authentic for you and your partner. I'll share practical advice and strategies to help you unlock the full potential of your relationship.
As "The Intimacy Doctor," I've helped countless couples transform their relationships and create a life filled with passion, purpose, and deep satisfaction. With over two decades of experience, I believe that true intimacy and success stem from being unapologetically yourself. Together, let's uncover the secrets to a juicy, nourishing, and intimate marriage.
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Download the first chapter of my bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book
If you're ready to take your intimacy skills to the next level, explore my Aligned & Hot Marriage program. It's designed specifically for couples who refuse to settle for anything less than extraordinary love and connection. Visit https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/aligned-hot-marriage/?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=ahm to learn more.
Join my email list to stay connected—it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=subscribe
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WHAT DOES AN INTIMACY COACH DO?
An intimacy coach is a trained professional who specializes in helping individuals and couples cultivate deeper connections and enhance their intimate relationships. The role of an intimacy coach is to guide and support their clients in exploring various aspects of intimacy, including emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy.
Intimacy coaches create a safe and non-judgmental space for their clients to express their needs, desires, and concerns related to intimacy. An intimacy coach helps clients develop self-awareness and emotional intelligence, enabling them to better understand their own desires and those of their partner. They provide guidance on effective communication techniques, conflict resolution, and exploring new ways to deepen emotional and physical intimacy.
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Aug 23, 2023 • 33min
140. How Dysfunctional Patterns Interrupt Intimacy And Impede The Archetypes Of Love
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Intimacy Coach Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores the dynamics of genuine connection within marriages and how they can be influenced by two specific false archetypes of love. Delving beyond traditional roles, she navigates two common archetypes that hinder intimacy: the parent-child dynamic and the project manager approach. By embracing the essence of "being" over constant "doing," listeners learn to infuse presence into every interaction, fostering deeper relationships. The episode inspires self-awareness, promoting emotional growth and fulfillment. Discover how to transform roles, prioritize connection, and ignite a profound, soulful bond with your partner. Also in this episode: How historical roles in marriage have shifted toward modern expectations of personal growth and companionship. Overcoming tendencies to seek emotional rescue or dependence on a partner, hindering true connection. Successful individuals may inadvertently impede intimacy by approaching relationships with a managerial mindset. Shift focus from constant doing to cultivating presence and connection in daily interactions. Nurturing intimacy: develop a deeper understanding of genuine connection, essential for passion and fulfillment in relationships. Evolving archetypes, fostering growth, and fostering soulful, emotionally rich bonds with your partner. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

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Aug 16, 2023 • 24min
139. Compromise In Marriage Can Be Very Sneaky
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Intimacy Coach Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares profound insights to help you recognize how varied compromise in marriage can be, and how to let it go. Instead, embrace uncompromising intimacy and all the lusciousness that comes with it! Discover the power of honoring and expressing your authentic desires, while respecting your partner's wishes. Learn how to break free from unconscious habits of compromise and foster transparent communication instead. Uncover the keys to building a collaborative and adult-to-adult relationship, deep emotional intimacy and sensual passion. Take the first step towards transforming your marriage and embrace the journey of uncompromising love and intimacy today! Also in this episode: The four types of relationships that involve some form of compromise. How sneaky and insidious compromise can be. The difference between narcissism and compromise. When a habit becomes routine Pay more attention to your desires. How to figure out what you want to do. It’s a choice to be more empowered. How to know what you truly want. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Aug 9, 2023 • 42min
138. Love, Risk, And Business: An Intense Journey In Personal And Professional Growth | w/ Joshua And Rachel Lee
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Intimacy Coach Dr. Alexandra Stockwell is joined by Joshua and Rachel Lee, a dynamic power couple, who share their rich journey involving both personal and professional growth. Joshua's entrepreneurial successes, including working with MySpace, taught him the importance of finding purpose beyond monetary success. Rachel, a branding expert extraordinaire, emphasizes the value of authenticity in corporate life. Together, they describe unexpectedly falling in love while living in different cities and needing to overcome unanticipated challenges when Rachel moved to be with Joshua and his two kids. They share frankly about the development of their business Standout Authority, which combines both of their distinct skillsets; it’s a business driven by authenticity and the formation of genuine connections. Listen in to hear them talk about the power of love, vulnerability, and unified partnerships, in both life and entrepreneurship. Also in this episode: How Rachel started her entrepreneurial career. What it takes to share your voice authentically. The importance of understanding what matters to both people and giving attention to insecurities in the relationship. The experience of transitioning from company employee to co-owner. Navigating roles and responsibilities as husband and wife, and co-owners too. Using past experiences to educate and inspire others. The power in allowing others to truly see you. About Joshua And Rachel Lee They are the dynamic duo behind Standout Authority. Joshua, a seasoned entrepreneur with 20+ years of experience, is known as "The Dopamine Dealer of LinkedIn" and has built 16 businesses while fostering a beautiful marriage and blended family. He realized the digital landscape had become disconnected, leading him to found Standout Authority in 2014. His focus on LinkedIn helps entrepreneurs and professionals humanize their brands and build authentic relationships. Rachel, a fearless marketing #ladyboss, complements Joshua's expertise by leading the marketing and branding strategy for Standout Authority. With a stellar career in the technology and marketing industry, including roles at Microsoft and Gartner, she brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to the table. Together, Joshua and Rachel are on a mission to help individuals reconnect and build real, lasting relationships in business and life. Through their expertise and passion, they empower clients to find their voice, create influence, and navigate their careers with purpose and success. Connect With Joshua And Rachel Lee Standoutauthority.com | Facebook | Twitter | LinkedIn Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

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Aug 2, 2023 • 29min
137. How To Elevate Married Sex From Good To Great With Expertise From An Intimacy Coach
Enhancing and enjoying your married sex life is the focus of this episode. The importance of open and honest communication about sex, practical tips for initiating conversations, and the impact of discussing sex on emotional and physical intimacy are discussed. Expert tips on how to revive and enjoy your sex life in a long-term, intimate marriage are provided. The power of ongoing dialogue and intimate conversations in enhancing sexual connection and nurturing relationships is emphasized.

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Jul 26, 2023 • 1h 10min
136. Juicy, Straightforward, And Sophisticated: A Conversation On Pleasure And Eroticism | w/ Ruan Willow
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra shares a recording of an interview she did with Ruan Willow on her podcast. The episode explores topics such as uncompromising intimacy, libido mismatch, eroticism, and the importance of bringing all elements of oneself to a relationship, including heart, mind, and genitals. Ruan is an erotica author and a romance novelist, with a smooth silky voice. She’s comfortable talking about all aspects of sex and sexuality and asked some excellent questions, which makes for a deep, precise, and excellent conversation. Alexandra discusses the concept of responsive desire and how it can help address libido mismatch in couples. She also emphasizes understanding and honoring each partner's needs and desires, and the importance of creating a strong emotional and physical connection. Also in this episode: How to marinate in your sensuality Connecting with your hearts and minds The difference between unconditional love and conditional love The myth of libido mismatch How to make sex more inviting How to help women get aroused Sex toys and orgasm. How do you quantify an orgasm? Clitoral mapping About Ruan Willow: Ruan Willow is an erotica & smut author and a romance novelist. She hosts the podcast Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow, where she talks about everything to do with sexuality, including tips, advice, and ideas about sexual wellness, does sexual product reviews, and hosts guest interviews. She is also a voiceover narrator so look for her audiobooks hitting the market too. She narrates for other authors and also for her own work. Her books are loaded with sexual content; if that's what you like in your books, her books are for you! Connect With Ruan Willow Ruanwillowauthor.com | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Podcast Join The Aligned & Hot Marriage Program: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Suggested Episodes To Listen To: Communication As Foreplay | w/ Yvette Racines Uncompromising Intimacy Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Jul 19, 2023 • 15min
135. The Power Of Intimate Connection: How To Define And Have Amazing Sex With Your Partner
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives deep into the concept of amazing sex and what that truly means within the context of a healthy, loving marriage. Alexandra underlines that amazing sex is a deeply personal and subjective experience, emphasizing that the feelings evoked are far more important than the specific acts engaged in. Alexandra speaks of sex as a form of communication within a relationship, with each sexual encounter carrying a specific message between partners, whether expressed verbally or left unspoken. Alexandra provides various examples of these messages, such as expressing love and appreciation, searching for escape or connection, a desire for help with household chores, or simply wanting to feel nurtured. When both partners communications align, they enhance the overall sexual experience and create truly extraordinary passion, where emotional connection, understanding, and fulfillment flourish. Also in this episode: Each sexual encounter conveys a message, serving as a means of communication between partners. How to effectively express the emotions you want to convey. Many women use sex to get husbands to help with household chores. Using sex as a tool to escape daily stress and strengthen emotional bonds. Amazing sex is subjective and can differ from person to person. Using communication to enhance sexual experiences. Exploring the definition of unpleasant sexual experiences. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact

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Jul 12, 2023 • 59min
134. Transformative Intimacy, Stories Of Sexual Fantasy, And Communication In A Deeply Fulfilling Relationship | w/ Intimacy Coach Alexa And Jordan Bowditch
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell MD, is joined by Alexa & Jordan Bowditch, founders of Sex & Love Co., to discuss intimacy, stories of sexual fantasy, and how couples can navigate their way to having more connected relationships. Alexa and Jordan discuss their journey creating a nourishing and passionate marriage while embracing openness of many flavors. They explore the complexities of relationships, communication, and the pursuit of deeply nourishing and fun sex. Drawing from personal experiences, they share practical strategies to enhance presence and connection, including the power of blindfolding. Reflecting on their own growth, they emphasize open communication and introduce programs tailored for couples, like their "Couples Goals" experience. Also in this episode: How to keep sex fun The forbidden pleasure of forbidden pleasures The primary impediment to great sex Very intimates fantasies Differences in awareness between men and women Being sexy is the opposite of intimacy Alexa’s favorite blindfold Intimate relationships as a sacred mirror for partners About Alexa & Jordan Bowditch Alexa is a sex and relationship by design coach and sex coach business mentor on a mission to reform sex education and sexuality across the globe. She is from the deep south of Louisiana and if anyone knows how to bust through taboos regarding sex, it’s her. She is known as @thatsexchick across social media and is the founder of The Sex & Love Co. community, a NY Times featured group with love, sex & relationships as the central focus. Jordan is the CFO and head men’s coach at Sex & Love Co., a (kinda) conscious comedian, certified space-holder, and BROfessional edu-tainer. He facilitates elevated connection by creating safe spaces to not play it safe, integrating bioenergetics, interpersonal polarity, sexuality and social magnetism into his work/play. Connect with Alexa And Jordan Bowditch Sexandlove.co | That Sex Chick With Alexa Podcast | Alexa’s Instagram Jordan’s Instagram | The Sex & Love Co. Facebook Community Alexandra Stockwell’s Recommended Blindfold Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

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Jul 5, 2023 • 19min
133. Is Companionship As Good As It Gets? | Chapter 1 Of ‘Uncompromising Intimacy’
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell MD reads the first chapter of her book, ‘Uncompromising Intimacy,’ we entitled "Is The Comfort Of Companionship As Good As It Gets?" This chapter delves into the fundamental questions many couples face in long-term relationships. Can emotional intimacy and sensual passion coexist? Is it possible to revive a lackluster sex life? How can couples create a deeply fulfilling connection? Exploring the truth about emotional and sensual passion in long-term relationships, Alexandra addresses common struggles faced by couples. Considering couples in toxic relationships, and those tolerating their circumstances, she unveils the blueprint for conscious partnership—a transformative path that nurtures personal growth, authentic self-expression, and deep connection. If you want to continue learning, dive into the rest of the book (available on Amazon and Audible) and unlock the secrets of creating a satisfying, soul-enriching relationship in today's world. Also in this episode: Emotional intimacy and sensual passion in long-term relationships. Challenges maintaining and improving relationships Lack of role model couples Dissatisfaction in relationships Different types of relationships: toxic, termination, toleration, conscious partnership. Transforming relationships and cultivating conscious partnerships and fulfilling, passionate relatioships. Read More Of ‘Uncompromising Intimacy’ by Alexandra Stockwell, MD Click here for paperback or Audible versions: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl A recent review of ‘Uncompromising Intimacy’ on Amazon [Alexandra] talks straight with openness and honesty. She also has a loving perspective and never talks about what is right or wrong but shares more from the standpoint of does it work or not. Anyone who is wanting to improve their relationship and build a solid foundation of love and connection can benefit from this book. Reading this book amazed me and I was so excited in completing all of the assignments because of how much I was learning about myself and my partner. This is definitely going to be a gift to all of my sisters and friends. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

Jun 28, 2023 • 48min
132. Power Couple Reveals Secrets To Keeping The Spark Alive During Military Deployment I With Intimacy Coach Dr. Jacqueline And Paul Sherman
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell MD, welcomes power couple Paul and Dr. Jacqueline Sherman to share their inspiring story of love, strength, and erotic connection while navigating the challenges of military life and years-long deployment. Dr. Sherman is a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in intimacy and relationships, and her husband, Paul, is a senior chief currently on active duty in the US Navy. Through their heartfelt conversation with Alexandra, they reveal the significance of embracing each other's strengths and passions, fostering effective communication, and practicing patience. From navigating difficult conversations after experiencing a miscarriage to seeking advice on leadership and influence, the Shermans offer invaluable insights and wisdom to couples who are geographically separate as well as those who share a bed. Also in this episode: How to define sexual confidence The importance of pushing oneself into uncomfortable situations to build confidence Sexfirmations, the sexual wellness card deck for women Communication, empathy, and creativity improve intimacy in a relationship Navigating grief after a miscarriage Why it’s so important for couples to talk about sex Practice direct communication and assertiveness with your spouse Scheduling sex without shame About Dr. Jacqueline Sherman Dr. Jacqueline Sherman (aka Dr. Jac) is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Certified Intimacy and Relationship Coach, and the Creator of Sexfirmation Cards. She helps women and couples have better intimacy, sex, and relationships. She is passionate about helping women overcome perfectionism, body image issues, and judgmental thoughts that distract from confidence and pleasure. Her specialty is working with couples who have experienced pregnancy loss and/or fertility challenges. She coaches from a sex-positive perspective that integrates the mind and the heart. Connect With Dr. Jacqueline Sherman Drjac.co | Instagram Sexfirmation Cards: Drjac.co/shop *Please use code IMP15 for 15% off Sexfirmation Cards Have a question? Please email Dr. Jac at: hello@drjac.co Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

Jun 21, 2023 • 23min
131. Where An Intimacy Coach Stores Her Bread | w/ Rodd Stockwell
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, welcomes back Rodd Stockwell to explore the infamous bread story that lead to a shift in their marriage to embrace uncompromising intimacy. Initially, a trivial disagreement arose between Alexandra and Rodd regarding bread storage. Rodd grew up storing bread in the refrigerator, while Alexandra stored it on the counter. Ultimately, Alexandra compromised by storing the bread in the fridge, leading to resentment. Over time, they grew curious about each other's perspectives, viewing the issue objectively and depersonalizing it. They realized the importance of being seen, heard, and supported in their relationship; they focused on understanding each other's perspectives and approached the matter objectively and impersonally. They achieved a strong emotional bond by openly communicating their needs while still maintaining their individuality. They worked together to enhance their decision-making process by balancing practicality and spontaneity. This journey brought them closer, improved their relationship, and deepened their understanding. Also in this episode: Differences in upbringing and expectations The similarities between Alexandra and Rodd's backgrounds The first step of compromise is to become curious Compromise is the opposite of drying out Where Alexandra and Rodd store their bread now The power of seeing and hearing your spouse How you do anything is how you do everything How our family cultures may differ Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in the Aligned & Hot Marriage program, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected-it's where I share my latest insights and more personal stories. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!