The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Vince and Krystina Shirey to discuss the many blended family issues they faced when they got married and combined their families. They also talk about how they learned to let go of expectations in order to have a happier marriage. A pervasive challenge faced by couples when blending a family concerns the delicate balance between prioritizing the children’s needs and wellbeing versus prioritizing one another in the marriage. Unfortunately, societal norms and unconscious biases are unhelpful when navigating all the important considerations. The truth is, in a successful marriage with children, it’s not either-or and it’s key to aim for a harmonious balance. It is crucial to prioritize the marriage while also maintaining a strong bond with the children, which is an inherently lifelong commitment.  Whether you’re in a blended family or not, how do you and your partner prioritize your marriage while also maintaining a strong bond with your children?    Also in this episode:  The challenges of blended families and being a blended family The importance of non-negotiable dates Why you need to start letting go of expectations How to deal with the pressure of your marriage Why sexuality is incompatible with pressure from your spouse   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.  For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by New York Times best-selling author, Laura Doyle, to talk about vulnerability and intimacy in marriage. While discussing her latest book, "The Empowered Wife," Laura shares her experiences and perspectives, while focusing on the importance of vulnerability in relationships. She explains that opening up to one's partner leads to deeper intimacy and a stronger connection. Laura has an inspiring personal story as well as a lot of insight into the painful mistakes wives make when trying to get time, attention, and affection from their husbands.  Also in this episode: Laura’s book “The Empowered Wife” Coping with rage and understanding where it stems from How to express your desires in a way that inspires Why marriage is the best self-improvement project The turning point in Laura’s marriage The professional woman’s dilemma The fear of vulnerability and learning to embrace vulnerability   About Laura Doyle I wrote a book about what I learned and it went to #1 on Amazon, became a New York Times bestseller, and was translated into 19 languages in 30 countries. That’s how I accidentally started a worldwide movement of women who practice The Six Intimacy Skills™ that make relationships playful and passionate, which started me on the mission to end world divorce. I wrote more books, including my latest, The Empowered Wife, started an international relationship coaching school, hosted The Empowered Wife Podcast and starred in the Empowered Wives series on Amazon Prime. But the thing I’m most proud of in the whole world? It’s my playful, passionate, 30-year marriage with my hilarious husband John, who has been dressing himself since before I was born.   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify   Connect With The Show: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.  For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, celebrates the milestone of 100K downloads on the podcast with her son Chris Stockwell! A few weeks back, I hit 100,000 downloads and that means people have been interested in,  and listened to, what I have to say on The Intimate Marriage podcast 100,000 times! For me, it's such an incredible celebration. It's a celebration that belongs for me because I created this podcast and it's my vision. It's also a celebration that belongs to you, the listener, because you have created this with me. What’s most important in my view, is that it's a celebration that really belongs to the world, because the more individuals and couples that know how to create a truly wonderful, intimate marriage, the more likely the world becomes a better place. Today is also a celebration, because my incredible son, Christopher Stockwell, is joining me for the show! We have a wide ranging conversation about intimacy in film, building communities and being present in relationships. Also in this episode: An incredible review from a listener that really touched my heart The privilege for an adult parent to feel seen, not just as a mother or father, but to be seen more fully, in wholeness My mission to change the cultural narrative around long term relationships, so that people know long term relationships are not where passion just tapers off and fades away Intimacy in the movies, and the pace at which relationships evolve in films The best way to center yourself and find yourself present in the moment The importance of respect in relationships and reflections on the volcanic communication style Chris and I navigated when he was in high school Why Chris has accepted that he can have different energy around different people, and connect on different levels with everyone around him.   Get My Course "The Surprising Secret To Having A Fantastic Relationship" For Free! Use this code at checkout: 100K Go here to claim your free course: https://alexandrastockwell.com/secret   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify   Connect With The Show: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.  For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, chats with Kaylee and Justin Poulet about keeping the romance in your marriage alive through intention and using Love Languages. In addition to his knowledge and ambition, I recognized Justin's incredibly intentional support for his wife as a real asset to his marriage.  For context, we met in Arizona at a conference, and there was a massive snow storm back in his hometown.  This made the situation back home somewhat difficult on his wife, Kaylee, who was managing the kids and household on her own. After we got to talking about Justin’s intentional actions to support and connect with Kaylee from afar, I learned just how growth oriented and aware Justin is as a husband. I knew I had to have this couple on the show. I see Justin and Kaylee as true role models: role models for other couples, role models for their children to see what marriage can be like, and I hope, today, they are role models for you too.    Also in this episode: What Justin does to make things easier on Kaylee before he travels out of town How Kaylee receives Justin’s intentional love and acts of kindness How Justin and Kaylee prioritize both their marriage and their family life What Justin views as the most pivotal moment in their life and marriage   Connect With Justin Poulet on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/justin.poulet.3   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify   Connect With The Show: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.  For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, discusses how you can navigate the incredibly difficult landscape when either you, or your partner, suffers through the loss, or terminal illness, of a parent. This is not a fun topic, but it is an extremely important one that eventually comes up, at some point, in most marriages.  After all, real intimacy is not only about the sexy and fun moments–it is also about supporting a loved one through all aspects of life, and an unfortunate truth is that sickness and death find us at both expected and unexpected moments. Whether you or your spouse have lost one or both parents, or if one of you has a sick parent, or even if you currently have four healthy parents/in-laws, this episode will raise your awareness. It can help you navigate through some of the inevitably hard moments in life, in ways that are meaningful for your marriage. For those who haven’t encountered this type of hardship, I realize this is a tough subject and it may even seem morbid. But know that this is about setting yourself and your relationship up, so that you’re not blindsided by realities that will eventually happen. The orientation I provide today can also be successfully applied to other hardships you encounter as well. Also in this episode: The story of when and how I lost both my mother and my father Why the spouse going through the loss can feel lonely even within a strong, connected marriage The differing perspectives between the supportive spouse and the one going through the loss of their parent Guidelines to get through this heartbreaking experience without creating a barrier between you and your partner Specific recommendations for the supportive spouse to be able to love well during this time   How To Stay Present During Sex Webinar: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rCCM_ixzcdE   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify   Connect With The Show: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.  For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, chats with the co-founders of the Cotier Brand, Marx and Amber Succés, about the success in their marriage while building a thriving business together.    Marx and Amber Succés have a very appropriate last name! This growth-oriented couple has seen success romantically in their marriage, as wonderful parents, and as Co-Founders of the Cotier Brand–a lifestyle brand in which the two create unique and modern party supplies and gift products. It takes a special team to bring creative and joyful products into the world the way these two do, especially when, as you’ll hear in this conversation today, they make it seem so easy. The fact that they work well together, with patience and honesty, says so much about them as a couple and as business owners. I absolutely love the fun products they are creating within the Cotier Brand, and I can’t wait for you to learn about their business and relationship.   Listen as Amber and Marx share: How they compartmentalize to be able to communicate separately as business partners, as husband and wife, and as co-parents How their communication styles have evolved since they began their romantic relationship The inspiration behind the creative products in their business Amber and Marx’s biggest piece of advice for couples starting a business together   Follow Marx and Amber Succés & The Cotier Brand Website: www.cotierbrand.com  TikTok and Instagram: @cotierbrand   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify   Connect With The Show: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.  For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!  

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD chats with her husband, Rodd Stockwell, to reflect on their last year of marriage. This conversation has become a wonderful tradition as part of our anniversary celebration, and we share what we’ve loved about the past year, what’s challenged us, and what we’re looking forward to. We believe that sharing this provides an invitation for others to learn from our experiences. This year in particular has been an interesting one as we have re-discovered hobbies that light us up, that we each do on our own. You’ll hear how, even though we don’t directly share in these experiences together, we each bring home a newfound joy that enhances our connection with one another.  No marriage is perfect. We all have our ups and downs. But my goal is for you to see how communication, passion and reflection can deepen your connection so that it continues to improve with each passing year.   Together we discuss:   My initial feelings when we first got married and the surprising outlook I had on the future back then Our reflections on the past year of our lives  How we’ve brought more fun into our lives by individually pursuing passions we each cared about long before we met  What we’re looking forward to as we head into our 28th year together   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify   Connect With The Show: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” HERE Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” HERE   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day.   For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!   Alexandra Stockwell, MD supports family happiness through facilitating healing and joy for couples.

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, chats with Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver about expanding intimacy in your relationship[p through practicing tantra and tantric exercises.  If you’re not familiar with tantra, this conversation will be a great introduction for you, as this isn’t about tantric sex but more so the mind-body connection and meditation practice within the realm of intimacy. It’s about both your sexual center and your love center.  As Freddy says in this episode, “tantra is one of the most effective yogas in terms of shifting something in your life.”  So if you have something you’d like to shift, whether it’s around your relationship or another aspect of your life, I hope you listen to this fascinating conversation.    Also in this episode: How exactly they define the concept of “tantra” Details on the practice of sexual meditation How these sexual practices impact men and women differently The differences in Freddy and Elsbeth’s upbringings in terms of sexual openness and sexual oppression What it’s like for this couple working together day-to-day with completely different work styles and personality types   Stay Connected with Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver: Free online workshop: Ignite Your Relationship: https://tantranova.lpages.co/ignite-your-relationship-webinar/ TantraNova website: https://www.tantranova.com/ Sexual Enlightenment Book: https://www.amazon.com/Sexual-Enlightenment-Lasting-Fulfillment-Intimacy/dp/B09N5JTC2L/ TantraNova YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKincrF-VHfsabcIvsbQEhQ/videos   About Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver are a beautiful couple who work together to bring more love and intimacy, pleasure and bliss into the world. They have built an approach through integrating sex and meditation. Within their practice, TantraNova, they work with couples and singles to discover the secrets to lasting intimacy through private programs and retreats centered around tantra yoga and meditation practices.    Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify   Connect With The Show: Website | Linkedin | Instagram    If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” HERE Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” HERE   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day.   For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!   Alexandra Stockwell, MD supports family happiness through facilitating healing and joy for couples.  

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, host Alexandra Stockwell, MD discusses the ways you can connect with your partner if frequent business trips keep you apart. This can be difficult on both sides – for the person who’s at home (oftentimes managing the day-to-day household and kids on their own) and also for the person traveling–who’s focused on their work project and being present in their job.  This episode will offer you useful advice that both you and your partner can use before the scheduled travel, during the trip, and once you or your partner returns home from a trip.   Also in this episode:   Why I’ve found it’s more challenging for the person at home than for the person traveling How you can support your partner at home while you’re traveling Tips on how to stay connected for both the one traveling and for the one at home  Why existing relationship complications are exasperated by someone being away   FREE 3-Day Make Your Valentine’s Day Special Course: Alexandrastockwell.com/valentines   Sign up for the next Uncompromising Intimacy Workshop: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/workshop/   Subscribe To The Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify   Connect With The Show: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” HERE Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” HERE   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! Alexandra Stockwell, MD supports family happiness through facilitating healing and joy for couples.

A recent coaching call with clients has inspired this episode. The woman in the couple is extremely committed to her personal growth through an extensive morning routine including meditation, journaling, and self-care every day. While not opposed digging into growth, her husband is a very ambitious entrepreneur who, after a hard day at work, desires to hang out with his wife in a lighter manner by focusing on the laughter, and fun moments the majority of the time. This creates an ongoing tension between the two of them because they believed having a growth-oriented relationship, and feeling satisfied and content, were mutually incompatible.   In this episode, I discuss:   How this couple can get into alignment with one another Is feeling content really the opposite of being deeply committed to personal growth? Why a desire does not imply dissatisfaction with the current state of affairs How to want more while being content with what you have   As a relationship and intimacy coach, I always want you to be able to see how what you have is beautiful, while also believing it’s worthwhile to create even more goodness and connection in your relationship. Today you’ll learn that you don’t have to choose one or the other!   FREE 3-Day Make Your Valentine’s Day Special Course: Alexandrastockwell.com/valentines   Sign up for the next Uncompromising Intimacy Workshop: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/workshop/   Subscribe To The Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify   Connect With The Show: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” HERE Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” HERE   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! Alexandra Stockwell, MD supports family happiness through facilitating healing and joy for couples.