The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Alexandra Stockwell, MD
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Oct 1, 2025 • 13min

250. Marital Pleasure for Women (All About Dr. Alexandra's New Program)

Are you ready to experience true marital pleasure and deeper intimacy in your marriage? In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares how women can awaken to more love, connection, and fulfillment through her six-week program Marital Pleasure for Women. With a compelling story of a client who transformed her marriage by first transforming herself, Alexandra shows how self-discovery, communication, and intimacy coaching can change everything. This is an invitation for women who are ready for more — more love, more intimacy, more joy. Episode highlights How marital pleasure creates more intimacy and fulfillment in marriage A client's story of transforming her relationship from the inside out Why self-perception and self-love are key to enhancing your relationship The role of communication in building emotional and sensual intimacy Alexandra's 6-week program Marital Pleasure for Women Discover what's possible when you say yes to yourself. Join Dr. Alexandra Stockwell's 6-week program Marital Pleasure for Women: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/pleasure Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
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Sep 24, 2025 • 34min

249. How the Nine Expressions of Love Will Divorce-Proof Your Marriage | with Kenya K Stevens

What if you could divorce-proof your marriage by expanding your understanding of love? In this episode of the The Intimate Marriage podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell speaks with relationship expert Kenya K. Stevens to explore the Nine Expressions of Love and how they open the door to lasting, authentic connection. Drawing on indigenous wisdom, personal training, and more, they describe how community, archetypes, and fresh perspectives strengthen marriage in powerful ways. Listen to discover how these insights will support you in creating a marriage that truly thrives. In this episode: The Nine Expressions of Love expand how we understand intimacy and connection Community plays a vital role in creating strong, lasting marriages True love means embracing every part of yourself, not just the "love languages" we know Fresh perspectives and new experiences bring renewed energy to marriage With community support, couples ease stress, and build a marriage that truly lasts Meet Kenya Kenya K. Stevens, CEO of Progressive Love Academy, is a relationship expert, love coach, best-selling author, wife, and mother of three. A Howard University graduate, she and her husband Carl Stevens have built Progressive Love Academy into a global coaching community, certifying over 150 love coaches and tantra practitioners. Kenya is trained in yoga, tantra, and metaphysical practices, and has authored several books including Change Your Man and UPLVL Communication. Featured on EBONY, Dr. Phil, Fox News, and more, she is also the creator of innovative programs like The 30 Minute Orgasm™ and Gender Harmonics™, impacting thousands daily through her teaching and community. https://www.progressiveloveacademy.com/ https://progressive-love-academy.mykajabi.com/uplvl https://www.instagram.com/progressive_love_academy Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
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Sep 17, 2025 • 30min

248. Four Gateways to Female Orgasm and Lasting Pleasure | with Melissa Louise

What does female orgasm reveal about intimacy, and lasting pleasure? In this episode, intimacy experts Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and Melissa Louise explore the four gateways to orgasm, revealing how emotional and spiritual health enrich pleasure. Together they share insights to help you reconnect with your body, elevate desire, and experience more joy and connection in your relationships. Join the conversation and learn how to bring more pleasure and connection into your life. In this episode: The four gateways to orgasm open pathways to deeper pleasure A woman's libido is tied to her joy in life and relationships Honest communication creates deeper intimacy and connection Self-exploration helps women know and share their desires Pleasure has the power to transform life far beyond the bedroom Meet Melissa Louise: Melissa Louise Is your Leading Pleasure Advocate, Erotic Blueprint, Sex, Intimacy & Relationship Expert. She supports women to reclaim their divine birthright to feel alive, orgasmic and turned on no matter their age or relationship status. And men to be more attractive, powerful, trustworthy, make more money and find freedom by lasting longer in bed. It's the perfect erotic cocktail that nourishes health, wealth and well being. With certifications also in Kink 101, Accelerated Evolution and Access Consciousness, Melissa Louise truly embodies the principle that how we do life is how we do sex. https://www.instagram.com/melissa_louise_intimacy/ https://melissalouise.substack.com/subscribe www.melissalouise.world Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
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Sep 10, 2025 • 15min

247. How To Spark Desire and Enjoy Make-Up Sex (Without Fighting First)

Have you ever noticed that desire intensifies during challenging moments in your relationship? In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell reveals how emotional intensity—even in the midst of complication—can serve as a catalyst for passion and deeper connection. Through personal insights and stories from the couples she's guided, Dr. Alexandra shows how vulnerability opens the door to profound intimacy. You'll also discover how to welcome this kind of energy, without drama, with practices like honest self-expression, playful variety, and creative role-play. In this episode: Challenging moments can spark passion and connection. Vulnerability and variety deepen intimacy without drama. Playful role-play keeps relationships fresh and exciting. The Aligned and Hot Marriage Program guides couples to lasting love and connection. Take what you hear today even further—explore the Aligned & Hot Marriage Program at www.alignedhotmarriage.com. Use discount code PODCAST99 for $300 off! Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
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Sep 3, 2025 • 13min

246. Beyond Goal-Oriented Intimacy: Why the Journey Is As Important As the Orgasm

Are you ready for a new perspective on intimacy with your partner? In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores how true connection flourishes when couples focus on the journey, not the destination. With stories drawn from decades of marriage and metaphors ranging from mountain biking to fine dining, you'll discover how embracing the richness of each moment deepens love and fulfillment. This conversation is an invitation to move beyond goal-oriented intimacy and instead experience the joy of being fully present with your partner. In this episode: Savor the Journey: Why presence deepens intimacy. Fresh Perspectives: Sports and dining analogies that inspire connection. Break Patterns: Move beyond routines to spark creativity. Slow Down: How extended arousal enriches pleasure. Beyond Goals: Focusing on connection, not outcomes. Want more insights on love, intimacy, and connection? Join Dr. Alexandra's community and receive her best guidance straight to your inbox. Subscribe here Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
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Aug 27, 2025 • 17min

245. Money Dates: Replace Stress and Avoidance with Fun!

Is there a way to talk about finances that isn't stressful or disconnecting? Yes — start having regular money dates! In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares how couples can turn financial conversations into intimate, collaborative, and even playful experiences. Inspired by a conversation with her newlywed daughter, Dr. Alexandra offers a simple, flexible framework for celebrating wins, reviewing your finances, and setting meaningful goals together — all while deepening love, trust, and understanding. Whether you've been together for a few months or many decades, you'll discover how money dates can strengthen both your relationship and your future. Key insights: How to weave connection and love into financial conversations A simple, step-by-step approach for meaningful and enjoyable money dates Begin with celebrations to set a positive, collaborative tone Gently review and organize your finances together Create shared goals that inspire your future as a couple 💌 Ready to start having money dates? Download your free Money Date Guide at www.alexandrastockwell.com/money Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
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Aug 20, 2025 • 13min

244. Why Successful Couples Struggle with Intimacy—and How to Fix It

As a successful couple, do you ever wonder why your relationship doesn't feel as good as it looks? In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores how competence and shame—two complex forces—can quietly shape your intimate life. Through real client stories and expert insights, Dr. Alexandra reveals why emotional intimacy is the key to lasting passion. Learn how high-achieving couples can move past disconnection and rekindle desire, by developing the skills no one teaches—but everyone needs. Tune in to discover how the Aligned and Hot Marriage Program helps couples grow closer, emotionally and physically. Tips in this episode: Why high-achieving couples often feel shame around intimacy How emotional intimacy helps resolve sexual dissatisfaction The link between emotional connection and reigniting passion Tools from the Aligned and Hot Marriage Program to build deeper connection How closing the emotional gap leads to a more passionate relationship Ready to deepen your emotional and physical connection? Sign up for the Aligned & Hot Marriage program at www.alignedhotmarriage.com 🎉 Use coupon code PODCAST99 to get over 75% off! Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
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Aug 13, 2025 • 28min

243. Popular Marriage Myths That Aren't True | with Monica Tanner

Are marriage myths quietly sabotaging your relationship? In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell sits down with returning guest Monica Tanner to challenge the most common (and misleading) advice couples are told. From "happy wife, happy life" to "compromise is key," they unpack why these popular sayings fall short—and what to do instead. If you're ready to trade clichés for true connection, this conversation is for you. Episode highlights: Why "happy wife, happy life" doesn't lead to a wonderful marriage The power of collaboration over compromise in solving relationship challenges How choosing your partner daily leads to growth and deeper connection The role of honest communication in breaking free from unhelpful marriage advice How being intentional and understanding each other's needs creates lasting fulfillment About The Guest: Monica Tanner, RLT trained, Relationship Coach and host of the Secrets of Happily Ever After podcast, transforms marriages with simple communication, connection, conflict resolution and commitment strategies. Her mission is to lower the divorce rate and improve marital satisfaction. Through her engaging podcast, new book, Bad Marriage Advice, vibrant social media community, and couple's coaching practice, Monica's expert guidance has impacted thousands of couples, by helping them ditch resentment and roommate syndrome and get back to living their happily ever after love story. https://monicatanner.com https://badmarriageadvice.com https://www.instagram.com/monitalksmarriage/ https://youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
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Aug 6, 2025 • 7min

242. An Easy Way to Improve Your Sex Life: More Sleep

Did you know better sleep can significantly enhance your sex life? In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell delves into the often-overlooked link between rest, desire, and emotional intimacy. You'll hear how just one extra hour of sleep can increase libido by 14%—and why prioritizing rest is essential for sustaining passion, vitality, and deep connection in your relationship. Tune in and explore how nourishing your body with better sleep awakens more intimacy, joy, and fulfillment in your marriage. Episode Highlights: One extra hour of sleep can boost libido by 14%—a small shift with a big impact on intimacy Rest restores hormonal balance, including testosterone, which naturally supports desire Better sleep lowers stress and creates space for emotional and physical closeness As in so many other areas of life, sleep is foundational for a thriving relationship Prioritizing sleep is an act of devotion—to your well-being and to the love you share Ready to feel more confident initiating intimacy—and get that "yes"? Join Initiating, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell's program where she teaches men how to create deeper connection, spark desire, and lead with clarity in your relationship. Whether you've been married for years or just want to feel more empowered in intimacy, this is your next step. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/initiating Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
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Jul 30, 2025 • 12min

241. Why It's Hard To Initiate Intimacy —And What to Do About It

You may think that after years of marriage, intimacy should get easier. After all, you know one another better than anyone, you have a routine. So why is it that for so many couples, sexual intimacy becomes more complicated with time? In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores why initiating sexual intimacy isn't always intuitive—even in long-term relationships—and what you can do about it. With a blend of psychological insight and real-world advice, Dr. Alexandra shares why rejection often creates distance and how to shift that pattern. She introduces her five-week program, Initiating, designed to help educated, successful men lead with confidence and create deeper, more connected relationships. Episode highlights: Initiating intimacy isn't always easy—even in long-term marriages Rejection creates distance, but it doesn't have to stay that way Alexandra's Initiating program helps men lead with confidence Simple tools will improve connection and boost relationship energy Ready to feel more confident initiating intimacy—and get that "yes"? Join Initiating, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell's program where she teaches men how to create deeper connection, spark desire, and lead with clarity in your relationship. Whether you've been married for years or just want to feel more empowered in intimacy, this is your next step. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/initiating Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact

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