241. Why It’s Hard To Initiate Intimacy —And What to Do About It

You may think that after years of marriage, intimacy should get easier. After all, you know one another better than anyone, you have a routine. So why is it that for so many couples, sexual intimacy becomes more complicated with time?

In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores why initiating sexual intimacy isn’t always intuitive—even in long-term relationships—and what you can do about it. 

With a blend of psychological insight and real-world advice, Dr. Alexandra shares why rejection often creates distance and how to shift that pattern. 

She introduces her five-week program, Initiating, designed to help educated, successful men lead with confidence and create deeper, more connected relationships.

Episode highlights:

• Initiating intimacy isn’t always easy—even in long-term marriages

• Rejection creates distance, but it doesn’t have to stay that way

• Alexandra’s Initiating program helps men lead with confidence

• Simple tools will improve connection and boost relationship energy

Ready to feel more confident initiating intimacy—and get that “yes”?

Join Initiating, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell’s program where she teaches men how to create deeper connection, spark desire, and lead with clarity in your relationship.

Whether you've been married for years or just want to feel more empowered in intimacy, this is your next step. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/initiating

 

 

 

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