The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD
Alexandra Stockwell, MD
Welcome to "The Intimate Marriage Podcast," the podcast where we explore the secrets to cultivating passionate and intimate relationships. I'm your host, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, aka "The Intimacy Doctor," an experienced intimacy coach and marriage expert.
In every committed marriage, intimacy and connection are the foundation for a fulfilling relationship. Join me as we delve into how small shifts and being uncompromising in your daily interactions can lead to profound and nourishing physical/emotional intimacy.
During each episode, we'll explore topics such as sexual intimacy, emotional awareness, and building an intimate connection that feels comfortable and authentic for you and your partner. I'll share practical advice and strategies to help you unlock the full potential of your relationship.
As "The Intimacy Doctor," I've helped countless couples transform their relationships and create a life filled with passion, purpose, and deep satisfaction. With over two decades of experience, I believe that true intimacy and success stem from being unapologetically yourself. Together, let's uncover the secrets to a juicy, nourishing, and intimate marriage.
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Download the first chapter of my bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book
If you're ready to take your intimacy skills to the next level, explore my Aligned & Hot Marriage program. It's designed specifically for couples who refuse to settle for anything less than extraordinary love and connection. Visit https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/aligned-hot-marriage/?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=ahm to learn more.
Join my email list to stay connected—it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=subscribe
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WHAT DOES AN INTIMACY COACH DO?
An intimacy coach is a trained professional who specializes in helping individuals and couples cultivate deeper connections and enhance their intimate relationships. The role of an intimacy coach is to guide and support their clients in exploring various aspects of intimacy, including emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy.
Intimacy coaches create a safe and non-judgmental space for their clients to express their needs, desires, and concerns related to intimacy. An intimacy coach helps clients develop self-awareness and emotional intelligence, enabling them to better understand their own desires and those of their partner. They provide guidance on effective communication techniques, conflict resolution, and exploring new ways to deepen emotional and physical intimacy.
In every committed marriage, intimacy and connection are the foundation for a fulfilling relationship. Join me as we delve into how small shifts and being uncompromising in your daily interactions can lead to profound and nourishing physical/emotional intimacy.
During each episode, we'll explore topics such as sexual intimacy, emotional awareness, and building an intimate connection that feels comfortable and authentic for you and your partner. I'll share practical advice and strategies to help you unlock the full potential of your relationship.
As "The Intimacy Doctor," I've helped countless couples transform their relationships and create a life filled with passion, purpose, and deep satisfaction. With over two decades of experience, I believe that true intimacy and success stem from being unapologetically yourself. Together, let's uncover the secrets to a juicy, nourishing, and intimate marriage.
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Download the first chapter of my bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book
If you're ready to take your intimacy skills to the next level, explore my Aligned & Hot Marriage program. It's designed specifically for couples who refuse to settle for anything less than extraordinary love and connection. Visit https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/aligned-hot-marriage/?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=ahm to learn more.
Join my email list to stay connected—it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=subscribe
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WHAT DOES AN INTIMACY COACH DO?
An intimacy coach is a trained professional who specializes in helping individuals and couples cultivate deeper connections and enhance their intimate relationships. The role of an intimacy coach is to guide and support their clients in exploring various aspects of intimacy, including emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy.
Intimacy coaches create a safe and non-judgmental space for their clients to express their needs, desires, and concerns related to intimacy. An intimacy coach helps clients develop self-awareness and emotional intelligence, enabling them to better understand their own desires and those of their partner. They provide guidance on effective communication techniques, conflict resolution, and exploring new ways to deepen emotional and physical intimacy.
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Oct 22, 2025 • 17min
253. Tired of Parenting Your Partner? Here’s How to Get Past That Dynamic, with Rodd Stockwell, MD
Do you sometimes parent your partner instead of standing side by side as equals? In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and husband Dr. Rodd Stockwell, explore how to move from passive patterns to conscious partnership—where both people show up as active participants in love, marriage, and life. Through open conversation and personal reflection, Drs. Alexandra and Rodd reveal how taking responsibility for your role in the relationship dynamic shifts everything. They share how to replace control with collaboration, dependence with mutual respect, and frustration with emotional intimacy. This episode will help you recognize where you may be over-functioning, under-communicating, or missing opportunities for true connection—and how to step into the kind of real partnership that nourishes both people. What You’ll Learn: How to recognize when you’re parenting your partner instead of relating as equals The key differences between passive participation and conscious engagement How communication and self-awareness transform marriage dynamics Why shared leadership fosters intimacy and mutual respect Steps to create a vibrant, balanced partnership where both thrive Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
Oct 15, 2025 • 9min
252. Why Talking After Intimacy Will Skyrocket Your Experience in the Bedroom
What if talking after intimacy is the key to unlocking deeper passion and lasting connection? In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell reveals how open, heartfelt conversations after intimacy transform your bond, increase desire, and bring more harmony into your bedroom activities. Discover how to make these moments feel safe, so you and your partner can speak honestly; you’ll find yourselves growing closer through increasing trust, curiosity, and appreciation. Learn how mindful communication after intimacy creates a bridge between physical pleasure and emotional closeness—helping you build a relationship that’s both passionate and beautifully connected. What You’ll Learn How talking after intimacy builds trust, vulnerability, and emotional depth Why post-intimacy reflection sustains passion and strengthens your relationship Simple ways to express appreciation without blame or criticism How conscious communication turns physical connection into deeper intimacy The small conversations that lead to extraordinary closeness over time Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
Oct 8, 2025 • 10min
251. How Women Evolve From Feeling Disappointed to Enjoying Fulfilling Relationships
Are you ready to move beyond disappointment and create a truly fulfilling relationship? In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell uncovers how unspoken disappointment shapes women’s emotional lives, and erodes intimacy. Dr. Alexandra explains why acknowledging this often-ignored feeling is the key to deeper connection, greater joy, and authentic love. Drawing from her expertise and her program Marital Pleasure for Women, Dr. Alexandra shows women how to move past settling, embrace their desires fully, and transform their relationships. With practical insights and emotional wisdom, Dr. Alexandra offers a clear path to lasting intimacy and satisfaction. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why a fulfilling relationship requires you to face your disappointment honestly The four core emotions: happiness, anger, sadness, fear How your default emotional responses can sabotage connection The cost of not asking for what you truly want — and what to do about it How Marital Pleasure for Women empowers women to overcome disappointment and create love filled with joy, passion, and meaning Discover what’s possible when you say yes to yourself. Join Dr. Alexandra Stockwell’s 6-week program Marital Pleasure for Women: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/pleasure Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
Oct 1, 2025 • 13min
250. Marital Pleasure for Women (All About Dr. Alexandra’s New Program)
Are you ready to experience true marital pleasure and deeper intimacy in your marriage? In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares how women can awaken to more love, connection, and fulfillment through her six-week program Marital Pleasure for Women. With a compelling story of a client who transformed her marriage by first transforming herself, Alexandra shows how self-discovery, communication, and intimacy coaching can change everything. This is an invitation for women who are ready for more — more love, more intimacy, more joy. Episode highlights How marital pleasure creates more intimacy and fulfillment in marriage A client’s story of transforming her relationship from the inside out Why self-perception and self-love are key to enhancing your relationship The role of communication in building emotional and sensual intimacy Alexandra’s 6-week program Marital Pleasure for Women Discover what’s possible when you say yes to yourself. Join Dr. Alexandra Stockwell’s 6-week program Marital Pleasure for Women: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/pleasure Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
Sep 24, 2025 • 34min
249. How the Nine Expressions of Love Will Divorce-Proof Your Marriage | with Kenya K Stevens
What if you could divorce-proof your marriage by expanding your understanding of love? In this episode of the The Intimate Marriage podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell speaks with relationship expert Kenya K. Stevens to explore the Nine Expressions of Love and how they open the door to lasting, authentic connection. Drawing on indigenous wisdom, personal training, and more, they describe how community, archetypes, and fresh perspectives strengthen marriage in powerful ways. Listen to discover how these insights will support you in creating a marriage that truly thrives. In this episode: The Nine Expressions of Love expand how we understand intimacy and connection Community plays a vital role in creating strong, lasting marriages True love means embracing every part of yourself, not just the “love languages” we know Fresh perspectives and new experiences bring renewed energy to marriage With community support, couples ease stress, and build a marriage that truly lasts Meet Kenya Kenya K. Stevens, CEO of Progressive Love Academy, is a relationship expert, love coach, best-selling author, wife, and mother of three. A Howard University graduate, she and her husband Carl Stevens have built Progressive Love Academy into a global coaching community, certifying over 150 love coaches and tantra practitioners. Kenya is trained in yoga, tantra, and metaphysical practices, and has authored several books including Change Your Man and UPLVL Communication. Featured on EBONY, Dr. Phil, Fox News, and more, she is also the creator of innovative programs like The 30 Minute Orgasm™ and Gender Harmonics™, impacting thousands daily through her teaching and community. https://www.progressiveloveacademy.com/ https://progressive-love-academy.mykajabi.com/uplvl https://www.instagram.com/progressive_love_academy Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
Sep 17, 2025 • 30min
248. Four Gateways to Female Orgasm and Lasting Pleasure | with Melissa Louise
What does female orgasm reveal about intimacy, and lasting pleasure? In this episode, intimacy experts Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and Melissa Louise explore the four gateways to orgasm, revealing how emotional and spiritual health enrich pleasure. Together they share insights to help you reconnect with your body, elevate desire, and experience more joy and connection in your relationships. Join the conversation and learn how to bring more pleasure and connection into your life. In this episode: The four gateways to orgasm open pathways to deeper pleasure A woman’s libido is tied to her joy in life and relationships Honest communication creates deeper intimacy and connection Self-exploration helps women know and share their desires Pleasure has the power to transform life far beyond the bedroom Meet Melissa Louise: Melissa Louise Is your Leading Pleasure Advocate, Erotic Blueprint, Sex, Intimacy & Relationship Expert. She supports women to reclaim their divine birthright to feel alive, orgasmic and turned on no matter their age or relationship status. And men to be more attractive, powerful, trustworthy, make more money and find freedom by lasting longer in bed. It’s the perfect erotic cocktail that nourishes health, wealth and well being. With certifications also in Kink 101, Accelerated Evolution and Access Consciousness, Melissa Louise truly embodies the principle that how we do life is how we do sex. https://www.instagram.com/melissa_louise_intimacy/ https://melissalouise.substack.com/subscribe www.melissalouise.world Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
Sep 10, 2025 • 15min
247. How To Spark Desire and Enjoy Make-Up Sex (Without Fighting First)
Have you ever noticed that desire intensifies during challenging moments in your relationship? In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell reveals how emotional intensity—even in the midst of complication—can serve as a catalyst for passion and deeper connection. Through personal insights and stories from the couples she’s guided, Dr. Alexandra shows how vulnerability opens the door to profound intimacy. You’ll also discover how to welcome this kind of energy, without drama, with practices like honest self-expression, playful variety, and creative role-play. In this episode: Challenging moments can spark passion and connection. Vulnerability and variety deepen intimacy without drama. Playful role-play keeps relationships fresh and exciting. The Aligned and Hot Marriage Program guides couples to lasting love and connection. Take what you hear today even further—explore the Aligned & Hot Marriage Program at www.alignedhotmarriage.com. Use discount code PODCAST99 for $300 off! Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
Sep 3, 2025 • 13min
246. Beyond Goal-Oriented Intimacy: Why the Journey Is As Important As the Orgasm
Are you ready for a new perspective on intimacy with your partner? In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores how true connection flourishes when couples focus on the journey, not the destination. With stories drawn from decades of marriage and metaphors ranging from mountain biking to fine dining, you’ll discover how embracing the richness of each moment deepens love and fulfillment. This conversation is an invitation to move beyond goal-oriented intimacy and instead experience the joy of being fully present with your partner. In this episode: Savor the Journey: Why presence deepens intimacy. Fresh Perspectives: Sports and dining analogies that inspire connection. Break Patterns: Move beyond routines to spark creativity. Slow Down: How extended arousal enriches pleasure. Beyond Goals: Focusing on connection, not outcomes. Want more insights on love, intimacy, and connection? Join Dr. Alexandra’s community and receive her best guidance straight to your inbox. Subscribe here Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
Aug 27, 2025 • 17min
245. Money Dates: Replace Stress and Avoidance with Fun!
Is there a way to talk about finances that isn’t stressful or disconnecting? Yes — start having regular money dates! In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares how couples can turn financial conversations into intimate, collaborative, and even playful experiences. Inspired by a conversation with her newlywed daughter, Dr. Alexandra offers a simple, flexible framework for celebrating wins, reviewing your finances, and setting meaningful goals together — all while deepening love, trust, and understanding. Whether you’ve been together for a few months or many decades, you’ll discover how money dates can strengthen both your relationship and your future. Key insights: How to weave connection and love into financial conversations A simple, step-by-step approach for meaningful and enjoyable money dates Begin with celebrations to set a positive, collaborative tone Gently review and organize your finances together Create shared goals that inspire your future as a couple 💌 Ready to start having money dates? Download your free Money Date Guide at www.alexandrastockwell.com/money Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
Aug 20, 2025 • 13min
244. Why Successful Couples Struggle with Intimacy—and How to Fix It
As a successful couple, do you ever wonder why your relationship doesn’t feel as good as it looks? In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores how competence and shame—two complex forces—can quietly shape your intimate life. Through real client stories and expert insights, Dr. Alexandra reveals why emotional intimacy is the key to lasting passion. Learn how high-achieving couples can move past disconnection and rekindle desire, by developing the skills no one teaches—but everyone needs. Tune in to discover how the Aligned and Hot Marriage Program helps couples grow closer, emotionally and physically. Tips in this episode: Why high-achieving couples often feel shame around intimacy How emotional intimacy helps resolve sexual dissatisfaction The link between emotional connection and reigniting passion Tools from the Aligned and Hot Marriage Program to build deeper connection How closing the emotional gap leads to a more passionate relationship Ready to deepen your emotional and physical connection? Sign up for the Aligned & Hot Marriage program at www.alignedhotmarriage.com 🎉 Use coupon code PODCAST99 to get over 75% off! Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
