

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD
Alexandra Stockwell, MD
Welcome to "The Intimate Marriage Podcast," the podcast where we explore the secrets to cultivating passionate and intimate relationships. I'm your host, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, aka "The Intimacy Doctor," an experienced intimacy coach and marriage expert.
In every committed marriage, intimacy and connection are the foundation for a fulfilling relationship. Join me as we delve into how small shifts and being uncompromising in your daily interactions can lead to profound and nourishing physical/emotional intimacy.
During each episode, we'll explore topics such as sexual intimacy, emotional awareness, and building an intimate connection that feels comfortable and authentic for you and your partner. I'll share practical advice and strategies to help you unlock the full potential of your relationship.
As "The Intimacy Doctor," I've helped countless couples transform their relationships and create a life filled with passion, purpose, and deep satisfaction. With over two decades of experience, I believe that true intimacy and success stem from being unapologetically yourself. Together, let's uncover the secrets to a juicy, nourishing, and intimate marriage.
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Download the first chapter of my bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book
If you're ready to take your intimacy skills to the next level, explore my Aligned & Hot Marriage program. It's designed specifically for couples who refuse to settle for anything less than extraordinary love and connection. Visit https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/aligned-hot-marriage/?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=ahm to learn more.
Join my email list to stay connected—it's where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=subscribe
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WHAT DOES AN INTIMACY COACH DO?
An intimacy coach is a trained professional who specializes in helping individuals and couples cultivate deeper connections and enhance their intimate relationships. The role of an intimacy coach is to guide and support their clients in exploring various aspects of intimacy, including emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy.
Intimacy coaches create a safe and non-judgmental space for their clients to express their needs, desires, and concerns related to intimacy. An intimacy coach helps clients develop self-awareness and emotional intelligence, enabling them to better understand their own desires and those of their partner. They provide guidance on effective communication techniques, conflict resolution, and exploring new ways to deepen emotional and physical intimacy.
In every committed marriage, intimacy and connection are the foundation for a fulfilling relationship. Join me as we delve into how small shifts and being uncompromising in your daily interactions can lead to profound and nourishing physical/emotional intimacy.
During each episode, we'll explore topics such as sexual intimacy, emotional awareness, and building an intimate connection that feels comfortable and authentic for you and your partner. I'll share practical advice and strategies to help you unlock the full potential of your relationship.
As "The Intimacy Doctor," I've helped countless couples transform their relationships and create a life filled with passion, purpose, and deep satisfaction. With over two decades of experience, I believe that true intimacy and success stem from being unapologetically yourself. Together, let's uncover the secrets to a juicy, nourishing, and intimate marriage.
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Download the first chapter of my bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book
If you're ready to take your intimacy skills to the next level, explore my Aligned & Hot Marriage program. It's designed specifically for couples who refuse to settle for anything less than extraordinary love and connection. Visit https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/aligned-hot-marriage/?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=ahm to learn more.
Join my email list to stay connected—it's where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=subscribe
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WHAT DOES AN INTIMACY COACH DO?
An intimacy coach is a trained professional who specializes in helping individuals and couples cultivate deeper connections and enhance their intimate relationships. The role of an intimacy coach is to guide and support their clients in exploring various aspects of intimacy, including emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy.
Intimacy coaches create a safe and non-judgmental space for their clients to express their needs, desires, and concerns related to intimacy. An intimacy coach helps clients develop self-awareness and emotional intelligence, enabling them to better understand their own desires and those of their partner. They provide guidance on effective communication techniques, conflict resolution, and exploring new ways to deepen emotional and physical intimacy.
Episodes
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Jan 14, 2026 • 16min
265. How To Successfully Initiate Sex (Without Pressure Or Rejection)
Learn to initiate sex without pressure by understanding what truly drives desire in long-term relationships. In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares how emotional safety, personal energy, and learnable intimacy skills help men navigate mismatched libido–reducing rejection, and increasing connection with their wives. If you want to learn more, join Dr. Alexandra's exclusive live masterclass for men: How to Ask for Sex So She's More Likely to Say Yes. You'll gain practical tools you can use right away: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/yes/ Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact

Jan 7, 2026 • 36min
264. How Men Build Deeper Intimacy, And Last Longer In Bed | With Melissa Louise
Do you wish intimacy felt easier and more satisfying? Do you wish your man would last longer in bed? Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and pleasure advocate Melissa Louise explore sexual confidence, energy awareness, and emotional connection to help couples deepen intimacy and feel closer without pressure or shame. About The Guest: Melissa Louise Is your Leading Pleasure Advocate , Erotic Blueprint, Sex, Intimacy & Relationship Expert. She supports women to reclaim their divine birthright to feel alive, orgasmic, and turned the fuck on, no matter what their age or relationship status. And men to be more attractive, powerful, trustworthy, make more money and find freedom by lasting longer in bed—the perfect erotic turn on cocktail that nourishes your health, wealth and well being. With certifications also in Kink 101, Accelerated Evolution, and Access Consciousness, Melissa truly embodies how we do life is how we do sex. This is the true revolution of our time lovers. Connect with Melissa: https://www.instagram.com/melissa_louise_intimacy/ https://melissalouise.substack.com/subscribe http://www.melissalouise.world Men In Control is for men wanting to last longer, increase their energy, and experience more pleasure https://melissalouise.world/man-6739?am_id=alexandra915 If you enjoyed this conversation, don't miss Melissa Louise's first interview on the Intimate Marriage Podcast, exploring female orgasm and deeper intimacy: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/four-gateways-to-female-orgasm/ Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact

Dec 31, 2025 • 10min
263. Make 2026 The Year Your Marriage Grows Stronger
Make 2026 the year your marriage grows stronger! In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares how setting intentions for your relationship will deepen intimacy, spark curiosity, and help couples create lasting emotional connection. She shares practical tools for marriage growth, including increased self-awareness and modern relationship coaching. Give your marriage the gift of deeper connection this holiday season. 💞 Start building more intimacy today with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell's Intimate Connection, the Relationship App for Committed Couples💞 👉studio.com/dralexandra/intimacy Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact

Dec 24, 2025 • 12min
262. Avoiding Holiday Burnout: Relationship Tips For Every Couple | with Dr. Rodd Stockwell
Drs. Alexandra and Rodd Stockwell share their best relationship tips for the holidays, revealing how simple, intentional choices nourish your marriage, even during the holidays. If you want to stay close while juggling family demands and holiday responsibilities, this episode will set you up to create a calm, connected experience, together. Give your marriage the gift of deeper connection this holiday season. 💞 Start building more intimacy today with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell's Intimate Connection, the Relationship App for Committed Couples💞 👉studio.com/dralexandra/intimacy Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact

Dec 17, 2025 • 16min
261. My Partner Doesn't Feel Loved: How To Help Him Feel Seen, Needed, and Desired
My partner doesn't feel loved—Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores why this happens and how to help him feel emotionally seen and cared for without losing yourself in the process. Dr. Alexandra offers a calm, grounded path toward rebuilding desire, understanding, and connection. Give your marriage the gift of deeper connection this holiday season. 💞 Start building more intimacy today with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell's Intimate Connection, the Relationship App for Committed Couples💞 👉studio.com/dralexandra/intimacy Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact

Dec 10, 2025 • 11min
260. Why Divorce Spikes In January And How To Keep Your Marriage Strong
The January divorce spike shows how disconnected couples can feel during and after the holidays, but it doesn't have to be that way! In this episode, you'll learn how clear expectations, thoughtful communication, and shared intentions will keep your marriage steady, loving, and deeply connected—despite holiday stressors. Give your marriage the gift of deeper connection this holiday season. 💞 Start building more intimacy today with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell's Intimate Connection app💞 👉studio.com/dralexandra/intimacy Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact

Dec 3, 2025 • 48min
259. Nice Guy Syndrome Explained: Why It Ruins Attraction and How Men Can Break Free | with Dr. Robert Glover
Nice Guy Syndrome influences your relationship more than you may realize, and in this conversation Dr. Robert Glover joins Dr. Alexandra Stockwell to break down why it kills attraction and what men can do to show up with authenticity, confidence, and real connection. If you want a relationship that feels alive, honest, and deeply intimate, this episode gives you the tools to shift old patterns and create the partnership you want. About Dr. Glover: Dr. Robert Glover has over 40 years of professional experience as a relationship therapist and men's coach. He specializes in helping men build community and level up to the best version of themselves. He has authored four books, including the bestselling No More Mr. Nice Guy. He founded Integration Nation, an international community for men in 2023. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drgloverofficial Check out his courses: https://drglover.com/ Books mentioned during the episode: The Way of the Superior Man https://amzn.to/47Ccvd3 Passionate Marriage https://amzn.to/3JH5dwA Mating in Captivity https://amzn.to/47CqkIp Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact

Nov 26, 2025 • 18min
258. How Clutter Creates Conflict in Marriage (and How to Fix It)
Clutter in marriage can spark conflict–it's much more impactful than most people realize. In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell describes how to clear emotional and physical clutter, improve communication, and bring more ease, teamwork, and intimacy into your day-to-day life. Download the Intimate Connection app by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and start building a more fulfilling, intimate marriage today. 💞 👉studio.com/dralexandra/intimacy. Get 20% off from Nov 18–28! Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact

Nov 19, 2025 • 19min
257. These Small Things Make or Break Your Marriage
Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares powerful marriage advice on building deeper intimacy, connection, and joy—one intentional step at a time. Download the Intimate Connection app by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and start building a more fulfilling, intimate marriage today. 💞 👉studio.com/dralexandra/intimacy. Get 20% off from Nov 18–28! Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact

Nov 12, 2025 • 29min
256. How Martial Arts Can Teach You to Be a Better Husband, with Quentin Hafner
Is mastering marriage like mastering a martial art? In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell speaks with Quentin Hafner, marriage therapist and author of Black Belt Husbands, about how to be a better husband through discipline, self-awareness, and vulnerability. Drawing from his background in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, Quentin shares how the principles of humility, emotional safety, and consistency strengthen marriages and deepen intimacy. This conversation offers a powerful framework for couples who want to build emotional resilience, mutual respect, and lasting love. If you've ever asked yourself how to be a better husband, this episode will change your perspective. Key Takeaways The Black Belt Mindset: How martial arts principles apply to marriage growth and mastery. Humility & Self-Awareness: Foundational traits for becoming a better husband and partner. Vulnerability Builds Connection: Why emotional safety leads to deeper intimacy. Mentorship & Male Friendship: The value of support and guidance in men's relational growth. Forgiveness & Faith: How grace and humility sustain a thriving marriage. About Quentin Quentin Hafner is a licensed marriage therapist and men's coach. For nearly two decades, he's been walking alongside husbands and couples who feel stuck, disconnected, or unsure how to fix what's broken at home. Quentin is also the author of Black Belt Husband and has helped thousands of families rewrite their story of marriage. Website: www.quentinhafner.com Black Belt Husband Website: www.blackbelthusband.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/quentin_hafner/ Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact


