Joseph Jaffe is Not Famous

"Sometimes you have to be with your eyes open, even if there is darkness around, because you can still adjust to the darkness and see through." - Dorice Horenstein -------------------------------------------------------------------  In a profound exploration of life’s tapestry, my conversation with Dorice Horenstein, author of "Moments of the Heart" reveals a universal truth: Our lives are not linear narratives but rich mosaics made of moments that shape our very essence. Some of the key highlights and takeaways from this episode include: 1. The importance of choosing positivity over negativity and recognizing negative thought patterns ("saboteurs") like the inner critic/judge. 2. Living in a state of "crescendo" with expanding opportunities rather than feeling stuck in a narrowing "meander". 3. Developing emotional regulation skills to handle life's extreme highs and lows. 4. Cultivating an internal sense of joy that is resilient to external challenges. 5. Leaving a legacy through self-awareness, relationships, and visible positive actions rather than just thoughts or intentions.-------------------------------------------------------------------  Here are the show notes: Business growth and personal development with a focus on positivity. (1:47)Leadership, technology, and humanity. (6:58)Happiness, joy, and emotional regulation in challenging times. (13:55)Positive Intelligence and Personal Growth. (19:11)Choosing positivity over negativity and recognizing saboteurs in our thoughts. (25:42)Personal growth and self-reflection. (31:45)Finding joy and purpose in life despite challenges. (35:55)Living in crescendo vs. stuckness, with a focus on positivity and joy. (44:05)Heart and mind alignment in personal and professional settings. (49:17)Recognizing and acting on life's moments. (53:50)Life, legacy, and personal growth. (58:03) -------------------------------------------------------------------  “Misery might love company, but so does joy. And joy throws much better parties.” - Billy Ivey-------------------------------------------------------------------  If you like what you see, please subscribe to the show: bit.ly/subscribetotheshow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"The best legacy...is to enable those who come after you to function without you." – Alex Brueckmann-------------------------------------------------------------------  In a captivating episode of "Joseph Jaffe is not Famous," I sat down with author of The Strategy Legacy and strategist Alex Brueckmann. Our discussion ventured beyond the corporate landscape into the areas of identity and legacy—topics grounded in the bedrock of organizational success.Highlights from this amazing conversation: - A discussion about organizational identity and purpose, and how few companies can clearly articulate who they are.- Exploring the importance of intentionally designing company culture and values rather than relying on accidental ones.- Sharing personal experiences around generational trauma from World War 2 and its impact on upbringing.- Insights into future-proofing a business through strategic choices, building resilience, and staying true to one's identity and values.- Conversations about building a lasting legacy through enabling successors to function without you, rather than seeking personal statues.- Learning about Alex Brueckmann's books "The Strategy Legacy" and "Creating a Strategy Legacy" and insights into building a lasting business legacy. -------------------------------------------------------------------  Here are the show notes: Identity, growth, and purpose with a humorous twist. (0:06)Identity, purpose, and leadership with a guest expert. (6:17)Strategy, vision, and creativity with a metalhead and a Taylor Swift fan. (12:39)Brand identity, trust, and perception. (17:26)Technology, celebrities, and personal experiences. (24:15)Organizational identity and values. (28:07)Company culture, values, and leadership. (35:19)Company culture and values. (40:09)Generational trauma and its impact on upbringing. (45:55)Future-proofing businesses and leaving a lasting legacy. (51:07)Leadership, legacy, and culture. (57:21) -------------------------------------------------------------------  "The purpose of an organization is to enable common men to do uncommon things." - Peter Drucker-------------------------------------------------------------------  If you like what you see, please subscribe to the show: bit.ly/subscribetotheshow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"It used to be that all you had to do was put yourself out there you know hang up the proverbial shingle the if you build it, they will come myth realized, well I'm in business now. Who cares?" - Cheryl Hunter -------------------------------------------------------------------  In the episode titled "Magnify Your Message with Cheryl Hunter" on "Joseph Jaffe is not Famous," we dive deep into the art of amplifying one's message in today's crowded media landscape. Cheryl Hunter, an accomplished publicist and media personality, shares invaluable insights on how to cut through the noise and make your voice heard.Highlights from this amazing conversation:  You must see to your own fame and promote yourself shamelessly if you have a valuable message or solution. Develop a compelling personal narrative and story around overcoming adversity to connect with audiences. Master media training and learn to discuss topics that serve audiences rather than just promoting yourself. Consider doing your own publicity and brand building rather than relying on expensive publicists with uncertain results. Craft short, impactful messages that grab attention and leave audiences wanting more in order to stand out and get noticed. -------------------------------------------------------------------  Here are the show notes: Fame, brand building, and self-belief. (0:04)Self-promotion and overcoming shame. (1:51)Overcoming adversity and sharing personal stories. (10:04)Earning attention in a noisy world. (12:18)Overcoming adversity and sharing knowledge with others. (20:04)Empowering mission-driven entrepreneurs with a valuable message. (28:28)Personal branding and storytelling with a focus on vulnerability and authenticity. (36:21)Becoming a known public figure with a small budget. (42:00)Public relations and media training. (47:50)Public relations, self-promotion, and client relationships. (53:43)Magnifying one's message and getting noticed in the media. (1:00:07)Storytelling and branding with a focus on passion and connection. (1:07:59)-------------------------------------------------------------------  “Heroes must see to their own fame. No one else will.” - Gore Vidal, Julian-------------------------------------------------------------------  If you like what you see, please subscribe to the show: bit.ly/subscribetotheshow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"My mind is like a bad neighborhood; I try not to go there alone." - Rob Dube -------------------------------------------------------------------  In the bustling sphere of entrepreneurship, where the grind never ceases, and the pursuit of success seems never-ending, Rob Dube offers a revolutionary perspective that challenges the status quo. On a riveting episode of "Joseph Jaffe is not Famous," Dube discusses his collaboration with Gino Wickman on the book "Shine," a tome that delves into the entrepreneurial spirit's heart and soul, urging leaders to seek a harmonious balance between their vigorous professional pursuits and the inner quest for peace. Rob, a visionary who’s traversed the peaks and valleys of entrepreneurial life, brings forth a counterintuitive approach: looking inward. Our discussion wasn't just about success metrics; it ventured into the realms of mindfulness, self-awareness, and the transformative journey to inner peace — territories not often charted in business dialogues.Some of the key highlights of the conversation included: Discussing the importance of inner peace, mindfulness, and self-awareness for entrepreneurs. Exploring concepts like "doing nothing", intuition, fear vs. love in decision-making. Addressing challenges like control issues, identity struggles, and finding purpose/happiness. Emphasizing vulnerability, authenticity and being true to oneself as important leadership qualities. Sharing insights from books like "Shine" and the journey of personal growth and mindfulness. Having a lighthearted discussion while also exchanging thoughtful perspectives on life. -------------------------------------------------------------------  Here are the show notes: Personal growth, entrepreneurship, and leadership. (0:10)The discomfort of being alone with one's thoughts. (10:56)Intuition and inner knowing in business decisions. (15:14)The role of fear and love in decision-making. (20:33)Entrepreneurial nightmares and finding inner peace. (24:09)Entrepreneurship, control, and mindfulness. (30:15)Self-awareness and authenticity. (35:02)Self-importance and the fragility of life. (41:23)Identity and meaning in entrepreneurship. (44:15)Finding lasting happiness and purpose through mindfulness and growth. (48:37)Vulnerability, authenticity, and leadership. (52:51)Personal growth and self-awareness. (57:57) -------------------------------------------------------------------  "Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom."–Aristotle-------------------------------------------------------------------  If you like what you see, please subscribe to the show: bit.ly/subscribetotheshow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"Corporate mindfulness is about appreciating those snatched moments life offers... It's an antidote to burnout." - Patrick Olszowski-------------------------------------------------------------------  In a recent electrifying episode of "Joseph Jaffe is not Famous," Patrick Olszowski, the founder of Outrageous Insight, joined me for a conversation that was nothing short of a roller coaster ride of wisdom, humor, and candid revelations. Olszowski, known for shaking up corporate norms, didn't disappoint as he brought his signature mix of levity and deep insight to our dialogue.Highlights from this amazing conversation:  The importance of empathy, understanding, and respecting people's stories in the workplace.  Finding joy, fun, and moments to recharge through games, collaboration, and mindfulness.  Speaking up courageously to address injustices and make positive changes.  Delivering value to customers through actionable insights and listening with empathy.  The power of collaboration, camaraderie, and humanity in building successful businesses. -------------------------------------------------------------------  Here are the show notes: Board games, culture, and personal growth. (1:38)Podcasting, celebrities, and lies. (10:20)Technology, childhood memories, and work experiences. (14:27)Empathy and understanding in business leadership. (17:25)Empathy in customer experience and hand surfing. (22:37)Workplace productivity and creativity through gaming and collaboration. (26:29)Corporate mindfulness, humor, and psychological safety. (34:11)Education, curiosity, and empathy. (42:16)Workplace challenges and learning from "Ted Lasso". (48:23)Workplace culture, fear, and collaboration. (54:14)Positivity, optimism, and marketing with a Navy SEAL guest. (1:00:37) -------------------------------------------------------------------  “Taking on a challenge is a lot like riding a horse. If you’re comfortable while you’re doing it, you’re probably doing it wrong.” - Ted Lasso-------------------------------------------------------------------  If you like what you see, please subscribe to the show: bit.ly/subscribetotheshow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"I believe in the Jedi Order. Fear leads to suffering, suffering leads to hate, anger. Anger leads to hate." - John Wolpert (referencing Yoda)-------------------------------------------------------------------  In a recent episode of "Joseph Jaffe is not Famous," I had the pleasure of conversing with John Wolpert, a pioneer in technological breakthroughs and the author of "The Two But Rule: Turn Negative Thinking Into Positive Solutions." Our dialogue traversed the landscape of innovation, psychological safety, and the transformative power of negativity when constructively harnessed. Reflections and Takeaways  Cultivating a Constructive Culture: By fostering an environment where every negative is met with a possible positive, we build resilience and creativity within our teams.  Recognizing the Role of Fear: Fear can be a catalyst for caution and precision, provided it's balanced with an equal measure of bravery and action.  Appreciating the Full Spectrum of Emotion: A culture that acknowledges challenges and emotions without sugarcoating them is one that's primed for genuine progress.  Harnessing AI for Innovation: The intelligent application of AI can augment human creativity and lead to solutions that may have otherwise remained obscured.  Valuing Critical Voices: Those who challenge ideas are not just naysayers; they are invaluable members of the team who can drive us to consider new angles and alternatives. -------------------------------------------------------------------  Here are the show notes:Toxic positivity and its opposite, nourishing negativity. (0:03)AI, automation, and human control. (9:56)AI ownership and governance. (15:15)Using "but" to challenge and find solutions. (20:34)Workplace culture, psychological safety, and fearlessness. (28:48)Problem-solving and innovation using the "two buts" rule. (35:35)Toxic positivity and its impact on innovation. (42:08)Political leadership and age. (49:28)Creative problem-solving and AI technology. (55:23)Using AI to analyze audio transcripts and gain insights. (1:00:45)-------------------------------------------------------------------  “We cannot selectively numb emotions, when we numb the painful emotions, we also numb the positive emotions.” - Brené Brown-------------------------------------------------------------------  If you like what you see, please subscribe to the show: bit.ly/subscribetotheshow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"People who really are confident don't need to take other people down." – Ann Betz-------------------------------------------------------------------  In this captivating episode of "Joseph Jaffe is not Famous," I sit down with the remarkable Ann Betz, co-founder of BEabove Leadership, to explore the psychological underpinnings of leadership and the impact of narcissism in both business and broader societal contexts. The key takeaways from this episode are not just words but calls to action and introspection:  Narcissism vs. Confidence: The perils of leadership rooted in narcissism, contrasting with the empowerment of confidence and humility.  Empathy in Coaching: The irreplaceable value of genuine empathy in coaching and leadership, beyond what AI can offer.  Integrity in Action: The significance of integrity and mutual support in entrepreneurial ventures.  Cultivating Leadership: The transformation from positional authority to true leadership that inspires and generates more leaders. -------------------------------------------------------------------  Here are the show notes: Leadership, narcissism, and neuroscience. (1:53)Narcissism, neuroscience, and coaching with Betts. (6:20)Coaching, impostor syndrome, and unlearning bad habits. (12:40)Leadership and neural pathways. (16:44)Leadership, emotional intelligence, and confidence. (22:29)Impostor syndrome, gaslighting, and confidence. (26:47)Self-confidence, insecurity, and narcissism in entrepreneurship. (33:15)Narcissism in leadership and team building. (39:13)Narcissism and its impact on creativity and problem-solving. (44:23)Elon Musk's leadership style and its impact on his companies. (51:10)Narcissism, cults, and political leadership. (58:20)AI, empathy, and narcissism. (1:04:11) -------------------------------------------------------------------  The act of founding a company is its own act of narcissism: 'I alone can do this.' - Andy Dunn-------------------------------------------------------------------  If you like what you see, please subscribe to the show: bit.ly/subscribetotheshow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"We're not meat robots, actually, what makes us magic is this ability to bring different ideas together." - Joanna Bloor-------------------------------------------------------------------  In my recent episode of "Joseph Jaffe is not Famous," I had the pleasure of speaking with Fairy Godmother Joanna Bloor, author of “Tales of Potential - The Cinderella Story You Haven’t Heard.” Our conversation was an explorative journey into the realm of human capability and the narratives that shape our lives, as well as a lively exploration of the latent potential within each of us and how we can harness it to forge our future. P.S. Don't forget to play 2 Truths and a Lie - bit.ly/2t1l_joannabloor -------------------------------------------------------------------   Here are the show notes:  Personal growth and leadership with a focus on the show's purpose and goals. (0:08)Personal growth and potential. (11:03)Finding purpose and identity through intentional living. (16:51)Potential and success metrics with a fairy godmother twist. (23:08)Personal branding and self-awareness at a conference. (27:51)Personal branding, creativity, and potential. (35:30)Sales strategies and personal branding. (40:30)Potential and balance in career development. (45:22)Fairy tales, personal agency, and self-empowerment. (51:24)Realizing potential and overcoming limitations. (59:41) -------------------------------------------------------------------  “Youth is wasted on the young.” - George Bernard Shaw-------------------------------------------------------------------   If you like what you see, please subscribe to the show: bit.ly/subscribetotheshow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"We cannot get return without taking risks, but we can get risk without getting expected returns. So, you know, that's really the master insight of modern portfolio theory." - Victor Haghani-------------------------------------------------------------------  I had the pleasure of speaking with Victor Haghani, the insightful author of "The Missing Billionaires." Our conversation was a lively journey through the concepts of investment strategies and personal tales. Some of the central themes discussed in the conversation included:  The concept of "missing billionaires" and why so few families have been able to maintain and grow their wealth over generations since 1900. The challenges of active investing and beating the market returns. The importance of balancing risk and return in investment decisions. Approaches like active index investing that aim to capture the benefits of both active and passive investing. Factors that contributed to many wealthy families losing their fortunes over time like inappropriate risk levels and inconsistent risk/spending decisions.  P.S. Don't forget to play 2 Truths and a Lie - bit.ly/2t1l_victorhaghani-------------------------------------------------------------------   Here are the show notes:  Personal growth, business coaching, and new book release. (0:37)Investing, wealth management, and generational wealth. (6:45)Investing, unicycling, and underwater basket weaving. (12:35)The challenges of maintaining wealth over time. (22:20)Financial decisions of billionaires and their impact on wealth. (26:16)Investment strategies and risk management. (32:41)Investing strategies and risk management. (37:38)Investing in crypto assets with a focus on predictable cash flows. (45:46)Investing in stocks and Bitcoin with a focus on free markets and cash flows. (53:32)Personal finance and investing with a focus on optimism and simple ideas. (59:46)-------------------------------------------------------------------  “I Will tell You How to Become Rich… Be Fearful When Others Are Greedy. Be Greedy When Others are Fearful.” (Warren Buffett)-------------------------------------------------------------------   If you like what you see, please subscribe to the show: bit.ly/subscribetotheshow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

“It's not about grand gestures but about consistently delivering extraordinary experiences in ordinary interactions.” - Dan Gingiss -------------------------------------------------------------------  In a riveting episode of "Joseph Jaffe is not Famous," I engaged in a thought-provoking conversation with Dan Gingiss, author of "The Experience Maker." The episode was not just a discussion; it was an exploration into the art of crafting customer experiences that resonate and linger long after the interaction is over. 10 Key Takeaways/Insights: 1. Unscripted Authenticity 2. Small Details as Differentiators 3. Empathy in Service 4. Passion Fuels Performance 5. Team Building Through Unconventional Means 6. The Power of Memory in Experiences 7. Siloed Structures as Barriers 8. Digital Transformation and Customer Touchpoints 9. Customer-Centric Employee Empowerment 10. Personal Connection Through Customization-------------------------------------------------------------------   Here are my show notes:  11m - Bricks were heavy; own it versus hide behind it14m - Lead with passion (and/or have fun) - can you have both?16m - Start January with a sprint17m - Chuck E. Cheese21m - Michael Jordan - over my head (CX learning)31m - Experience = Talking about it; Remarkable = Worthy of Remark31m - The perfectly average restaurant33m - Naturally photo worthy (35m - Forcefeeding the hashtag)36m - Dippin Dots38m - I love my....CREDIT CARD???!!!40m - The smallest...cheapest...SIMPLEST....most valuable things (4 filters)40m - Extra Ordinary (sounds expensive!); 42m - Elasticity of Experience43/44m - Flemings46/47m - Little irritants51m - Packaging Easter Eggs55m - Fifedoms; Choppy Experience1h - Doesn't have to be expensive -------------------------------------------------------------------  "Enjoy the little things in life, for one day you'll look back and realise they were big things." - Kurt Vonnegut-------------------------------------------------------------------   If you like what you see, please subscribe to the show: bit.ly/subscribetotheshow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices