

The One Inside: An Internal Family Systems (IFS) podcast
Tammy Sollenberger
The One Inside: An Internal Family Systems podcast is for anyone looking to find balance and harmony. IFS can help you understand the tug-of-war within your mind and rediscover your natural calm, creativity, and clarity. IFS can also heal the parts of you who hold pain. Hosted by certified IFS therapist, Tammy Sollenberger, this show aims to educate, support, and encourage those who are curious about IFS model of psychotherapy. Join Tammy each episode for a fun, warm, engaging conversation with various members of the IFS community.
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Jan 28, 2022 • 37min
Exploring the Integration of IFS and the Enneagram with Joan Ryan Part 4
Joan Ryan and I are spending the next 6 episodes discussing IFS and the Enneagram. These will be weekly episodes that are around 30-minutes. Here is an outline of all the episodes: 1. Introduction to the Integration 2. Centers of Intelligence 3. Heart Center Types and IFS 4. Head Center Types and IFS 5. Body Center Types and IFS 6. Higher Qualities as Access Points to Self Energy ---- We will be running a 6 week Course starting in March---- More details to come! Here is the original podcast Joan did about the Enneagram: IFS and The Enneagram with Joan Ryan - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger Check out Joan's website: Creative Collaborations Purchase Joan's typing cards: Help Me Find My Enneagram Type — Creative Collaborations Here is the workshop Joan and I did at the IFS Annual Conference (up now January 2022- I don't know how long it will be up.): Exploring the Integration of IFS and the Enneagram - YouTube You connect with me on Instagram and Twitter at ifs.tammy and on The One Inside Facebook page. You can also get a free parts meditation and sign up for my monthly newsletter here: Home - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger Enjoy!

Jan 21, 2022 • 35min
Exploring the Integration of IFS and the Enneagram with Joan Ryan Part 3
Joan Ryan and I are spending the next 6 episodes discussing IFS and the Enneagram. These will be weekly episodes that are around 30-minutes. Here is an outline of all the episodes: 1. Introduction to the Integration 2. Centers of Intelligence 3. Heart Center Types and IFS 4. Head Center Types and IFS 5. Body Center Types and IFS 6. Higher Qualities as Access Points to Self Energy ---- We will be running a 6 week Course starting in March---- More details to come! Here is the original podcast Joan did about the Enneagram: IFS and The Enneagram with Joan Ryan - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger Check out Joan's website: Creative Collaborations Purchase Joan's typing cards: Help Me Find My Enneagram Type — Creative Collaborations You connect with me on Instagram and Twitter at ifs.tammy and on The One Inside Facebook page. You can also get a free parts meditation and sign up for my monthly newsletter here: Home - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger Enjoy!

Jan 14, 2022 • 29min
Exploring the Integration of IFS and the Enneagram with Joan Ryan Part 2
Joan Ryan and I are spending the next 6 episodes discussing IFS and the Enneagram. These will be weekly episodes that are around 30-minutes. Here is an outline of all the episodes: 1. Introduction to the Integration 2. Centers of Intelligence 3. Heart Center Types and IFS 4. Head Center Types and IFS 5. Body Center Types and IFS 6. Higher Qualities as Access Points to Self Energy ---- We will be running a 6 week Course starting in March---- More details to come! Here is the original podcast Joan did about the Enneagram: IFS and The Enneagram with Joan Ryan - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger Check out Joan's website: Creative Collaborations Purchase Joan's typing cards: Help Me Find My Enneagram Type — Creative Collaborations You connect with me on Instagram and Twitter at ifs.tammy and on The One Inside Facebook page. You can also get a free parts meditation and sign up for my monthly newsletter here: Home - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger Enjoy!

Jan 7, 2022 • 36min
Exploring the Integration of IFS and the Enneagram with Joan Ryan
Joan Ryan, an Enneagram expert with over 25 years of experience, joins the conversation to explore the fascinating intersection of Internal Family Systems (IFS) and the Enneagram. She discusses how these models can enhance self-discovery, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and reflection. The duo dives into how different Enneagram types reveal internal dynamics and personal growth opportunities. They also shed light on navigating interpersonal relationships and reactivity in social settings, offering insights for greater empathy and understanding.

Dec 3, 2021 • 57min
IFS and Writing as a Path to Self Energy with Kim Schneiderman
On today's podcast I chat with Kim Schneiderman, MSW, LCSW. Kim is an "All but paperwork and a video" away from IFS Certification. She is a psychotherapist with the Psychotherapy and Spirituality Institute (PSI) in Manhattan. She is also the author of "Step Out of Your Story: Writing Exercises to Reframe and Transform Your Life" and the Novel Perspective blog on Psychology Today. She has taught self-discovery writing workshops at the New York Open Center, the 92nd Street Y, the JCC of Manhattan, Vassar College, Sivananda Yoga Ashram in the Bahamas, among other venues, and has lectured on the spirituality of crisis and conflict at NYU’s Post-Graduate certificate program in Social Work and Spiritual Care and PSI’s Summer Certificate Program in Spiritually Informed Psychotherapies. We chat about her self-paced online DailyOm course, Reframing Your Narrative About Challenging Relationships offers perspective-bending writing exercises including IFS-inspired dialogues with triggered parts. You can find this here: Reframing Your Narrative About Challenging Relationships | DailyOM Here are the three articles we talk about: The Self, Lost and Found | Psychology Today Your Anger Knows Your Worth | Psychology Today Believe It or Not, Your Anxiety Loves You | Psychology Today And her psych today page: The Novel Perspective | Psychology Today Kim's website: Kim Schneiderman: Psychotherapist, Author, Columnist, Writing Workshops (stepoutofyourstory.com) My website: Home - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger Enjoy!

Nov 12, 2021 • 57min
IFS and Dissociation with Joanne Twombly
On today's episode I chat with Certified IFS Therapist Joanne Twombly. Joanne wrote a chapter entitled "Integrating Phase Oriented Treatment of Clients with Dissociative Disorders" in the IFS: New Dimensions book found here: Internal Family Systems Therapy: New Dimensions | IFS Institute (ifs-institute.com) Here are all the Controversial (in the IFS world!) topics we cover: - Why we still need coping skills - Firedrill exercise to quickly unblend from parts - Integrating IFS into Phase Oriented Treatment - Why Diagnosis is helpful - Burdens (and Self!) in Managers, Firefighters and Exiles - Safe Spaces - Hypnosis and Trance States ---- Little warning: We talk about Trauma so there is a point (about 49 minutes) that is upsetting and can be triggering. ------ You can email Joanne at j.twombly@verizon.net ---- You can connect with me at The One Inside Podcast Facebook page and on Instagram, Twitter and Clubhouse @ifstammy. Join my email list for a free 'Get to know a Should Part' AND get ALL the NEW book updates (OUT JANUARY 2022) here Home - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger ---- Enjoy!

Oct 22, 2021 • 53min
IFS and Moving Towards with Jenna Riemersma
Join Jenna Riemersma, an expert in addiction and trauma therapy, as she delves into her transformative concept of 'Moving Towards.' She discusses how internal conflict can hinder personal growth and the importance of compassion and self-awareness in healing. Jenna also introduces a three-step framework for connecting with one’s emotions, emphasizing the need for nurturing our inner parts. The conversation highlights the role of these techniques in promoting love-driven change and fostering connections, especially within faith communities.

Sep 30, 2021 • 33min
IFS and Beyond Hopelessness and Despair with Jim Abrams
On today's episode I chat again with my first guest ever, Jim Abrams. Jim is a frequent program assistant at IFS trainings so he is well known by many. Jim emailed me checking in and sharing lessons he is learning, and we wanted to share them with you! Outline: 1. When a problem becomes real. 2. Changing ones experience of the circumstances. 3. Holding and honoring parts who feel sad, grief, worry and joy simultaneously. 4. Sometimes we need someone else. 5. Polarities- Life is hard and life is joyful 6. It is scary to be hopeful. 7. Holding the parts who hold the pain. Here is my favorite quote: "We are not asking the part to be hopeful. We are asking the system to bring comfort and connection to that part so its experience of the circumstance changes." You can email Jim at Jim.abrams.456@gmail.com You can connect with me here: Home - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger I LOVE hearing from you! Enjoy!

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Sep 17, 2021 • 1h 3min
IFS and Hope with OCD with Alessio Rizzo and Robert Fox
On today's podcast I chat with Alessio Rizzo and Robert Fox about having hope when treating and living with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. Alessio is a fully accredited Gestalt psychotherapist in the UK and a psychotherapy lecturer. He is a Level 3 IFS therapist and has been a PA for Derek Scott on the Stepping Out Program. He is working towards his IFS certification. Rob is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor who practices in Woburn, Massachusetts. He is a IFS level 3 trained and Certified and an EMDR Certified Therapist. He presented at the 2018 IFS Conference on the topic of treating OCD with IFS Therapy. He was a guest on the IFS Talks podcast about his own personal challenges with OCD and what helped him. Listen to the episode here: A Talk with Robert Fox on OCD type Parts | IFS (internalfamilysystems.pt) Here is an outline of this episode- all times are ish: - 11 - Their stories and their passion for OCD -18 - Other tx modalities (ERP is Exposure Response Prevention) - 24- Trauma and suffering as an invisible and consistent occurrence - 26- Rob's personal story and Alessio's metaphor (Drop of water on a hard rock) - 35- Frederick Penzel OCD workbook. - 37- Recognizing patterns for OCD: repressed anger, a lot of shame, no witnessing adult, shame about OCD. *OCD parts need to be a powerful enough distraction to keep you away from intense shame 39- Their upcoming workshop (link below- November 27, 2021) 45- Lack of availability of OCD therapists and treatment, Stigma of OCD 51- HOPE -- To sign up for the OCD workshop: IFS & Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) - Sistemas de la Familia Interna (institutoifs.com) To connect with Alessio: Therapy with Alessio To connect with Robert: Home: Family Therapy | Couples Therapy | Woburn, MA 01801 (jobstresssolutions.com) To connect with me: Home - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger Enjoy!

Aug 27, 2021 • 1h 1min
IFS and Self Led Civility and a lot of Funk with David Medeiros
On today's episode I chat with David Mederios, Level Two trained IFS therapist. David has been a program assistant for multiple level one and level two trainings. He has presented at several annual IFS conferences. He spent a year working with Dr. Richard Schwartz and co-presented their experience treating someone diagnosed with Schizophrenia at an annual IFS Conference. David collaborated on the production of Good Grief, which toured nationally. David and I have a lot of a laughs throughout this '101' episode. Here is a bit of an outline: How we met and importance of Dance Parties His presentation and experience with his patient with Schizophrenia Drumming Lessons: asking for help and life lessons His book. Civility and Responsibility. Working with Families struggling in Domestic Violence His goal in writing his book- especially in light of the 2020 election, Capital Riots, and Covid. The Foundation for Self Leadership Web series- He is co-leading the first one. STARTS 9/3/21 I tell a little bit about my upcoming book, "The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self." He plays the drums for us to close us out. This is a 'funky' episode! -------- To find out more about the upcoming web series with the foundation: https://foundationifs.org/bridge To read a Great article about IFS where David is interviewed: https://elemental.medium.com/inside-the-revolutionary-treatment-that-could-change-psychotherapy-forever-8be035d54770 To see a little bit about Good Grief (there performance was unforgettable!): Good Grief Performances in Boston | IFS Institute (ifs-institute.com) David's website: http://www.davidmedeiroslicsw.com/ Connect with me and get a free parts meditation: https://tammysollenberger.com/ Enjoy!