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After reading hundreds of books on marriage, dating and relationships, here are the books that have most shaped my thinking on how to help men with their marriages:-The Bible (In particular: Love your neighbor as yourself)-The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey-Leadership And Self-Deception by The Arbinger Institute-Passionate Marriage by David SchnarchAs an honorable mention:-How To Win Friends and Influence People by Dale CarnegieEach of these books give powerful tools and ideas that can help you be a better man and have a better marriage.Learn more about this in today’s podcast on Strong Men Strong Marriages.Watch on YouTube here. But, books and podcasts are not enough to really transform your marriage.You have patterns of thoughts, feelings and actions that are deep in your brain.Learning something new from a book feels good, and maybe you make a few changes… but they don’t last. Because your brain hasn’t been rewired from unattractive to attractive.To really transform your life… so that you consistently act in Christlike ways towards your wife… even in difficult situations (turning you down for sex, spending too much money, criticizing you, etc)...You need to:-Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting-Replace them with positive, attractive patterns-Repeat those new patterns until you can’t get them wrongNow you “win” every interaction with your wife. Because you’re prepared for it. You win by acting in a Christlike way.That’s what I do as a coach. Help men prepare to “win” in their interactions with their wives by being Christlike men.When you do that, you feel amazing. You are far more attractive. And you set an example for your children and a legacy to follow.CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy and Legacy program.Rewire your brain so that you become the man that God, you, your wife and your kids want you to be.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to:-Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting-Create new, attractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting-Repeat those new patterns until you can’t get them wrong So you can build yourself in to the man that God wants you to be, create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, create an amazing legacy for your family to follow…Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Anger is a God-given emotion.But, it can also be used for evil.The purpose of anger is to injure and destroy something.It can be used to instill fear in others so that they’ll do what we want. While it can work in the short term (like scaring our kids into doing their chores)...That is an evil use of anger, and one that will not create positive long term relationships.But, Jesus got angry sometimes. Like driving out the money changers or facing down the scribes and pharisees.So what was Jesus trying to destroy with his anger?Evil. His anger was paired with love for the people. He wanted evil destroyed so that people could rise to their full potential as sons and daughters of God.And we can use anger in the same way. Direct it towards evil. But start with yourself. Get your intentions in the right place. Then, move on to others. Help them recognize and defeat the evil that is lying to them and keeping them from feeling God’s love and reaching their potential.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to build yourself into the man that God wants you to be… So you can have incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife…And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow…And get the coaching and accountability to help you get there much FASTER…Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Whether you’re trying to improve your sex life, recover from infidelity, or stop a separation or divorce…It can be easy to get discouraged. You understand that you need to make some changes.And, maybe you’ve already made some and you’re feeling good about them.But, your wife isn’t responding how you would like. Or at least not as quickly as you would like.Today you’ll learn how to approach this common problem.It has to do with the Law Of The Harvest.What you sow is what you reap.How long it takes to change your marriage depends on 3 things:-How bad your negative “seeds” have been-How many of those seeds you have placed-Your wife’s disposition and temperamentThe thing is, you have no control over the third thing, although most men will focus there.Instead, focus on the one thing you can control: Getting rid of the bad seeds and placing only good seeds from now on.When you place good seeds… The type of thoughts, feelings and actions that are Christlike…And commit to doing that NO MATTER WHAT your wife does…A good harvest WILL come. It’s inevitable.And the sooner you take that approach, the faster your marriage will change.It’s a paradox, but the less you focus on speeding up the process…And the more you commit to making the changes no matter how long it takes…The faster the process will happen.Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/8OzotJI4we8Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to build yourself into the man that God wants you to be… So you can have incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife…And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow…And get the coaching and accountability to help you get there much FASTER…Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Most men ask me “What should I do?”What should I do so my wife has sex with me more?What should I do to win my wife’s trust back after infidelity?What should I do to end my separation and win my wife back?Unfortunately, this is the wrong question. You see, it’s not really what you DO that matters.You can DO the right things, like buy your wife flowers.But, if you’re feeling anxious and needy…And have the intention of getting her to have sex with you when you give them to her…Your wife will NOT be attracted to you.It takes 3 steps to genuinely change into a man who is permanently irresistible to his wife:Step 1 - Identify and eliminate all negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and actingStep 2 - Replace them with positive, attractive patterns of thinking, feeling and actingStep 3 - Repeat those new patterns of thinking, feeling and acting until you can’t get them wrongThis simple process rewires your brain on a permanent level, so you go from unattractive to your wife…To irresistible. Permanently.Learn more about these steps in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create a marriage full of love, laughter and passion by rewiring his brain to become permanently attractive to his wife…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call.I look forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

According to famous marriage researcher John Gottman, what’s the #1 thing that women want from a man?Trustworthiness.And what do women want to trust you to do?To protect them. Physically and emotionally.They want to know that you will keep them safe.The main complaints women have about men are:“He’s never there for me” and “there’s not enough intimacy and connection.”These complaints both speak to the idea that their man is not physically protecting them by being present and he’s not emotionally protecting them by genuinely listening and valuing her.Learn how to be the “tender defender” that keeps her body and her heart protected…So she can feel safe with you and be extremely attracted to you…In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create a marriage full of love, laughter an passion by building up his spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and sexual strength…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call.I look forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Last week we talked about how to recover if you had an emotional affair.This week we’re talking about what to do if your wife had an emotional affair.This is a very difficult time for you. You feel betrayed, angry, and depressed.You’re not sure if you should try to stay, try to win her back, or leave her.You don’t know what you should do about this other guy.You can feel frozen as far as what to do.In this episode you’ll discover:-How to process the emotions that you’re feeling effectively-How to take a look at what you can improve in your marriage-How to talk to your wife about the affair-How to bring back trust, communication and intimacy-How to decide what to do about your wife’s affair (stay, leave, or in between)We'll cover emotional affair definition, emotional affair signs, emotional affair stages and emotional affair recovery.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is looking to rebuild his marriage after an emotional affair…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.https://mikefraziermd.com/love-connection-and-intimacy-program/You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. You can get through this. I look forward to speaking with you. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

An emotional affair does major damage to a marriage. Your wife feels angry, depressed and betrayed.You feel guilty, but are not sure what to do to fix it.You’ve broken off the relationship, but your wife still brings it up often.Fortunately, there are steps you can take to recover after an emotional affair.You need to:-Identify and change the reasons why you had the emotional affair-Rebuild trust-Improve communication-Restore intimacyLearn how to take positive steps forward after you had an emotional affair in today’s episode.We'll cover emotional affair definition, emotional affair signs, emotional affair stages and emotional affair recovery.In next week’s episode we’ll be talking about what to do if your wife had an emotional affair.You’ll want to listen to that one as well because it will help you understand her perspective much better.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is looking to rebuild his marriage after an emotional affair…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program.  P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Justin felt like he needed to change or he was going to lose all connection with his wife and end up as roommates.Nikki felt like she “didn’t need Justin” and “couldn’t count on him to do anything.”Their relationship felt co-dependent and strained, and their physical connection was not where either one wanted it to be.Justin decided to join the program (without telling Nikki at first).Nikki was surprised by how fast and how extensive Justin’s changes were.Justin feels more confident, honest, and closer to God than ever.Nikki feels she can trust Justin and feels more loved, admired and valued by Justin than she ever has before.Their physical connection is “exponentially better” according to Nikki.Tune in to hear their story today. I recommend watching the video to see how loving their interaction is.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you want yours to be the next success story… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Infidelity breaks the main foundation of a great marriage: trust.So, how do you rebuild trust after infidelity?Some men think that it’s by apologizing, moving forward, and having her decide to trust you again.But it’s actually the opposite.You need to really dig into her pain for as long as it takes.You need to understand it completely before you can move forward.And you have to understand that she can’t trust you. It’s not something she can give. It’s something that you have to build.Learn more in today’s episode.You absolutely can rebuild trust after infidelity.But you have to avoid the common mistakes and take the right steps to do it.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who wants more mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with his wife (even after infidelity)...CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

If you’re not having the amount or type of sex you would like with your wife…You are doing things that are turning her off.As I’ve worked with high achieving Christian men, there are three main ways that men turn their wife off.Being an emotional terrorist.Acting like a baby.And being a parasite.Learn what these mean…How to stop doing them…And what to do instead…In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who wants a better sex life with his wife…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157