Strong Men Strong Marriages

Mike Frazier, MD
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Jun 21, 2022 • 24min

The 3 Keys To Transform Your Marriage

Right now you want your marriage to change.You want more attention, appreciation, affection and sex for your wife.You feel like you’ve tried lots of things, and maybe they’ve helped some.But, you’re still not where you want to be.Here’s the problem.You’re not using the 3 keys to transform your marriage.You need to commit to changing yourself NO MATTER WHAT your wife does.You need to commit to getting outside help to see your blind spots and treat the “personality cancer” that is destroying your relationships.And, you need accountability to make sure that your changes are consistent over time.Without these three keys, you will:-Fall into the mosquito cycle and try to change so that your wife changes. This will lead to you being anxious and manipulative, which will drive her away.-Miss your blind spots, so you will continue to do problematic things that you don’t even realize you’re doing-Make changes for a while, then stop doing them because you don’t have the accountability to keep them upLearn more about these ideas on today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you are a high achieving Christian man and are ready to commit to: -Changing NO MATTER WHAT-Getting coaching to see your blind spots and treat your “personality cancer”-Having accountability to make sure your changes are consistent and permanentCLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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Jun 14, 2022 • 21min

The 3 Pillars Of A Passionate Marriage

You’re trying to get your wife’s attention, appreciation and affection.You’re cooking, cleaning, making the money, and helping with the kids.You’re shutting down activities that you enjoy to spend more time with her.And despite all your sacrifices…It’s not working!You don’t have the mental, emotional and sexual intimacy you want with your wife.There’s good news.You’re a guy who puts in the effort.You’re just directing that effort incorrectly.A passionate marriage is built on 3 pillars:TrustCommunicationAnd Intimacy.Learn how to build all three in today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to build yourself into the man that God wants you to be… So you can have incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife…And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow…And get the coaching and accountability to help you get there much FASTER…Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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Jun 7, 2022 • 14min

Why “Do It Yourself” Isn’t Transforming Your Marriage

You’re working hard to change your marriage.You’re listening to podcasts, reading books, and learning as much as you can.And you’re seeing some changes.But you’re not where you want to be.Why is that?When it comes to changing your behavior in relationships…You have blind spots.Just like everyone else.And you can either humble yourself enough to get the help to see them…And make changes in days or weeks that would take you years on your own…Or you can keep chasing your tail, making little steps…But never quite getting the results you want.I know this first hand.I tried “do it myself” for YEARS.Until I finally humbled myself enough to get coaching.And made monumental shifts in just a few weeks.And you’ll hear my story… and how it turned out…In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to build yourself into the man that God wants you to be… So you can have incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife…And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow…And get the coaching and accountability to help you get there much FASTER…Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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May 31, 2022 • 20min

How To Create The Marriage Of Your Dreams

What does your dream marriage look like?For most of the guys I talk to, it involves being great friends, aligned on big goals, supporting each other, having fun together, and enjoying a great sex life.Being connected spiritually, mentally, emotionally and sexually connected.But, you’re probably not spending much time envisioning that marriage.Probably because you think it’s just not possible.That with your situation, with your wife, it’s just not going to happen.So you start escaping into pornography or fantasizing about other women… Or turning to food or work or alcohol or social media to numb your disappointment.What I’ve learned recently is the power of our dreams.That sounds cheesy, but there’s actual research behind it.Right now you’re picturing (dreaming of) a negative future for yourself. So subconsciously, you’re CREATING that negative future.Instead, you need to actively create the future relationship that you want in your mind…And spend time there each day.Then ask yourself… What kind of husband do I need to be to create that kind of relationship?Then picture yourself becoming that man.That vision will pull you towards it, helping you become the man that creates an amazing marriage.Learn more about these ideas in today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re ready to build yourself into the man that God wants you to be… So you can have incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife…And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to working with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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May 24, 2022 • 20min

How God Can Make Your Marriage Easier

This weekend was powerful for me.As I went through significant struggles recently, a workshop I attended reminded me of my main job.To align myself with God and do His work.To use my skills in alignment with how God wants me to use them.For myself. With my wife. With my kids. And in my business.As a simple and powerful exercise, ask yourself:What’s God’s message for me today?Then write that down. And share it as appropriate.The message and podcast today I feel are the message God wanted me to share.And that feels great.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is ready to build a strong relationship with God so you can be a strong, attractive leader and create deep mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow.Because of this, success is inevitable.See results here.If this calls to you, CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.We’ll talk soon. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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May 17, 2022 • 21min

How To Be Vulnerable (Courageous) With Your Wife

What is vulnerability?The dictionary describes it as being easily hurt, influenced or attacked.That doesn’t sound very sexy.But, Brene Brown and others have redefined vulnerability in a way that IS attractive.That is being courageous enough to risk emotional exposure.This week was a hard week for me, and I exposed myself (emotionally) to my wife at a deeper level than I ever have.It took courage, but resulted in more intimacy, more commitment, and a lot of growth from me.Learn the right and wrong ways to be vulnerable with your wife…In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube (with me on camera for the first time!) here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is ready to create deep mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with his wife starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to become the strong, attractive man that God wants you to be.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow.Because of this, success is inevitable.See results here.Let’s get to work my friend! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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May 10, 2022 • 23min

Top Sex Mistakes In Christian Marriage… And How To Correct Them

If you’re not having the passionate sex that you want in your marriage…You’re probably making some of the common mistakes that high achieving Christian men make.There are common, unattractive ways of thinking, feeling and acting towards sex…That IMMEDIATELY turn your wife OFF.Learn what these are…And how to replace them with ATTRACTIVE ways of thinking, feeling and acting…In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is ready to create deep mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with his wife starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to become the strong, attractive man that God wants you to be.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow.Because of this, success is inevitable.See results here.Let’s get to work my friend! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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May 3, 2022 • 33min

How Marriages Fall Apart... And How To Stop It

Many men I talk to are surprised by the problems in their marriage.They just don’t understand why their wife doesn’t want to have sex with them.Why she had an emotional or sexual affair.Why she wants a separation or divorce.This episode will help you know EXACTLY why these things happen…And how to fix the underlying problems.So that you can create deep mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife and have the marriage that God wants for you.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is ready to create deep mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with his wife starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to become the strong, attractive man that God wants you to be.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow.Because of this, success is inevitable.See results here.Let's get to work! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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Apr 26, 2022 • 26min

How To Pass Your Wife’s Tests… Without Even Trying

You’re trying to win your wife back.Whether that’s wanting to have sex more often, avoid or end a separation, or avoid a divorce.And, maybe you’re starting to make positive changes.The changes your wife has asked for from you for a long time.You’re listening more. Prioritizing her. Getting her gifts.But, she’s not impressed.She doesn’t get excited. She doesn’t say thank you. She barely even notices the effort you’re putting in.Or, she’s even negative about these changes.Saying things like “well, I hope it lasts” or “too little too late.”She is TESTING you through these reactions.And, it’s the RIGHT thing for her to do.You’ll NEED to pass these tests if you want to create a strong marriage.Learn how to pass ALL of these tests…Without even trying…In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is ready to create deep mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with his wife starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to create the mental, emotional and sexual intimacy you want with your wife.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow.Let’s get to work my friend! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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Apr 19, 2022 • 26min

Why Marriage Communication Skills Don't Work

Most high achieving Christian men think that to have a more intimate marriage…They need to DO something different.Communicate better.Buy more gifts. Spend more time. Do the right service for their wife.And if that were the case, then marriage counseling would always work.Because that’s what most marriage counselors focus on.Doing. Action. Skills.But, often, DOING a good thing…Like using marriage communication skills…Actually leads to MORE problems.Find out why in today’s episode.And, find out how to get out of this trap and create consistent and deep mental, emotional and sexual connection with your wife… and a legacy of love for generations.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re ready to improve your relationship 10x faster TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to create the mental, emotional and sexual connection you want with your wife.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike.  Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

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