

The Mark Groves Podcast
Mark Groves
The Mark Groves Podcast is for heart-led humans eager to expand perspectives, explore HARD truths, and break old patterns while cultivating deeper, more honest connections with self, our relationships, community, and the world. Tune in twice a week for powerful guest interviews and solo episodes that deliver real talk, fresh insights, and practical tools to transform (y)our relationships — because relationships are how we truly connect — and supercharge (y)our personal growth.
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Nov 4, 2019 • 57min
#056: What Is Your Dosha? with Sahara Rose
Do you ever find yourself feeling out of balance, maybe with food, energy, or relationships? Sahara Rose opens us up to the world of ancient Ayurvedic medicine and the mind-body dosha system to understand what your body truly needs in order to be in balance. We work through the three dosha types, how to know your dosha, how to know if you’re in balance and how to get into balance if you’re not. If Ayurveda is new to you, then you cannot miss Sahara Rose!
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Discover:
What is Ayurveda?
What is Dosha?
Understanding Ayurvedic nutrition and what works with your body
Vata, Pitta, Kapha energies
The sacred pause
How dosha's fuel our daily choices, cravings and even addiction
Dosha's and their compass in life and relationship
Follow Sahara Rose on Instagram
Check out Sahara’s podcast
Take Sahara’s dosha quiz!
Sahara Rose is the host of the Highest Self Podcast, ranked as the #1 top podcast in the spirituality category on iTunes and best-selling author of Eat Feel Fresh and Idiot's Guide to Ayurveda. She has been called “a leading voice for the millennial generation into the new paradigm shift” by Deepak Chopra. She loves to make spiritual + Ayurvedic wisdom fun and relatable so it can serve the needs of today's people.
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Oct 21, 2019 • 1h 7min
#055: Back By Popular Demand with Amy Young
Our most popular podcast guest @AmyYoungCo is back this week for a no holds barred conversation. We started with a Q&A about connections and friendships with exes. It quickly evolved into a free flowing conversation about speaking without filters, sexualisation of social media, Instagram ‘likes’, gender norms, #MeToo, compassion, unifying with the male experience and healing through connection. If you loved Amy's last episode (of course you did!) then you don't want to miss this one!
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Discover:
Not everything is about you.
Is it possible for you partner to be friends with your ex?
What is empowered sexuality?
Why are men so afraid of therapy?
Men, heartbreak and the responsibility of their pain
Holding the space of the masculine
Follow Amy on her website here and her Instagram here!
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Oct 14, 2019 • 1h 12min
#054: Who Am I Really? with Josh Trent
My good friend Josh Trent, CEO of @wellnessforce has joined me this week to discuss his journey home to truth. Josh started out much like myself in jobs, roles and spaces that did not align with his true inner being. His awakening started with health and wellness, but then became so much more. Josh explains a series of reckonings to be real that pulled him toward alignment, as well as the continuous process of expanding, letting go and coming closer to your true self. As Josh explains, the truth is hidden in plain sight and we can all find it by looking within.
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Discover:
Why we should always let our identity be fluid
If you are open to being wrong, you're open to building a bridge
Why is it so damn hard to create new patterns of communication?
Getting the call to life - do you hang up or answer it?
What is spiritual suicide?
What is emotional wellness?
Why we should lean in to the things that bring you the most growth
The power of psychedelics and intention
How embodiment creates safety
What is the price of being asleep?
Learn more about Josh and Wellness Force here!
Josh Trent is the Founder of Wellness Force Media and host of the Wellness Force Radio Podcast. Josh has spent the past 16 years as a trainer, researcher, and facilitator discovering the physical and emotional intelligence for humans to thrive in our modern world.
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Oct 11, 2019 • 28min
#053: Adulting is Hard - Solo Episode
This week I share more about Ky and I’s breakup and a closing ceremony we did for our relationship. I share about my process. Wow. I’m not gonna lie… this week was a tough one to do. I get emotional, I stay open. I discuss what it means to “adult”. How to navigate life’s pains and how to build trust again in oneself rather than making other people the authority on your life. No one knows you better than you. Enjoy this episode and grab a few Kleenex… not for you, but for me. :)
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Discover:
Navigating through breakups, grief and pain
The conversations we have or don't have change our life
Don't bypass the human in the human experience
How to build self-trust
Your heart is not broken, it's open
Why you should turn towards endings
Let life crack you open
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Oct 7, 2019 • 1h 21min
#052: The Cost Of Toxic Relationships with Erin Skye Kelly
I am proud to call Erin Skye Kelly a true friend, mentor, and all around boss. Not only has she totally transformed my world, but she has done the same for countless others, and most importantly herself too. In this episode we dive right into the power of our own choices, we go deep into my current heartbreak, and we unpack the process by which Erin ended the toxic relationship with her family of origin. This is such an important topic for so many people who struggle with difficult or abusive parents. There is so much to learn about the power of boundaries and choices to shape our future.
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Discover:
Why we can take in wisdom but don't change
Class 1, 2, 3 experiences and how they will change your life
The roadmap to a Class 1 life
When do you know you are forcing something vs. doing the work
Expectations vs. standards
What are we trying to avoid?
Resentment shows you where you aren't prioritizing yourself
How to have boundaries with toxic family relationships
Breaking the branch off the family tree to regrow a new one
Join Erin Skye Kelly here!
Listen to the podcast on silence we were discussing called Gangaji here!
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Sep 30, 2019 • 1h 5min
#051: Ending Family Enmeshment with The Holistic Psychologist
Dr Nicole LePera @the.holistic.psychologist is truly a game changer in the world of psychology and mental wellness. I was so honoured to join her and discuss her very personal journey into becoming the holistic psychologist and her movement for self-healing. Dr LePera opens up with us on her own childhood, her working through familial enmeshment and codependency, and her foundational practices for self care that are so crucial for every one of us. It is a truly courageous journey to confront the harm we may face within our own family unit, and to break free from bonds that may feel impossible to change. I hope that for anyone who is struggling with difficult or enmeshed family patterns, the wisdom of Dr LePera gives you renewed hope for a future of freedom to be your true self.
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Anxiety, psychology, gut health, trauma and the connection to our nervous system
How patterns in family can be passed down
Our subconscious mind runs the show (95%!)
Why we need to look at the imbalances in our gut
Why food, sleep and circadian rhythm affects your nervous system
What is over-activation of the nervous system
Why we as humans have become dysregulated
How to build your mental muscle
Tools to shift your mind when life hits you
What is emotional addiction?
What are your edges?
Ending family enmeshment
Find more of The Holistic Psychologists resources Here!
Find The Holistic Psychologist YouTube Here!
Dr. Nicole LePera was trained in clinical psychology at Cornell University and the New School. She is a holistic psychologist who founded the Mindful Healing Center in Philadelphia. Her work addresses the connection between the mind and body and incorporates nutrition, lifestyle and psychological wellness practices. She is the creator of the movement #selfhealers where people from around the world are joining together in community to take healing into their own hands.
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Sep 23, 2019 • 1h 10min
#050: Holding Space For Heartbreak with Dr. Jeremy Goldberg
My good friend Dr Jeremy Goldberg @longdistancelovebombs has joined me this week to dive deep into heartbreak. We both open up about our past experiences of breakups and heartbreak, we go all the way back to our childhoods and early experiences. We explore how our conceptions of love and heartbreak have radically transformed as we have both done our work as adults over the years. This was such a healing and loving episode for me, where we both explored our pain and held space for each other. I really hope this episode helps you in having compassion for your own heartbreaks too.
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Why we need to have tea with our rock bottom
There is a fundamental aliveness to feeling anything deeply
Grief is a powerful opportunity to get curious
We get to choose who we want to be in the face of pain
Sometimes choosing love means choosing yourself
When you face heartbreak, who are you?
Don't shame the part of you that woke you up
Your greatest lesson is your greatest opportunity
Don't overlook the value of play
Where we find ourselves again
Find out more about the Breakup Recovery Special Live Call Offer here!
Find out more about Dr Jeremy Goldberg here!
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Sep 19, 2019 • 34min
#049: Relationship Endings Aren't Failures - Solo Episode
Maya Angelou famously said that ‘love liberates, it doesn’t bind’. My relationship coming to a close is not a failing, a giving up, or a problem to be solved. In this episode I want to refocus on what is important - the victory isn’t the relationship lasting - the victory is in the process of who you become along the way. And through this process I have been fully liberated, to being all of myself, to loving, and to living all out with no holds barred. This is exactly the delicious, messy, complex journey that I love, that is life. After spending some time connecting to the universe and self, I am surrendering to letting life move through me, I am turning towards it all. I hope that this episode will invite you to do the same.
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Discover:
The beauty of relationships ending
What gifts you find in the challenges
Relationships are mirrors for our own up-leveling
We show up differently when we feel worthy of being chosen
The difference between compassion and tolerance
Where addiction comes from and what it means
The beauty of contrast
Join my special Breakup Recovery Live Here!
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Sep 16, 2019 • 1h 22min
#048: Why You Can’t Just “Get Over It” with Hilary Jacobs Hendel
Every single human has surely suffered with feeling invalidated for their emotions. Author of ’It’s Not Always Depression’ and psychotherapist, Hilary Jacobs Hendel joined us to explore her ground-breaking work on emotions. Many of us have never really learned the true anatomy of our emotions. As Hilary explains, we can build our lives around avoiding the true feeling of our emotions. For many of us our early experiences with emotions involved us being told to ‘get over it’ in one way or another. Fully embracing emotions like anger and hurt means going against our conditioning, and some of these emotions seem downright scary. Could we end up lashing out in rage? Or could embracing our pain actually open the pathway toward calm, composure and compassion? Hilary walks us through the model she uses that allows people to experience - often for the first time in their lives - how to fully feel a feeling, and the freedom that this experiences offers us.
1.30 mins - Introduction to the Break up Recovery course.
4 mins - Introduction to Hilary Jacobs Hendel.
6 mins - Emotions are involuntary physical responses, we cannot just ‘get over them’.
9 mins - What are positive emotions - expansive experiences, what does it feel like to allow them to arise?
14 mins - “It runs in the family” the narrative of inherited patterns.
18 mins - What is anxiety and how does it exist within the body?
22 mins - Understanding the change triangle and the impact of shame.
29 mins - Experiencing the full emotional wave, the emotional experience of anger.
39 mins - Moving though childhood trauma.
47 mins - How do we know if we have suppressed core emotions?
54 mins - I feel therefore I am.
1hr 3mins - Working through other peoples emotions.
1hr 18mins - Free resources from Hilary Jacobs Hendel.
Hilary Jacobs Hendel, LCSW, takes the complex world of emotions and makes them easy to understand for all. She is author of the award-winning self-help book on emotions called, It’s Not Always Depression: Working the Change Triangle to Listen to the Body, Discover Core Emotions, and Connect to Your Authentic Self (Random House, 2018). She is a certified psychoanalyst and AEDP psychotherapist and supervisor. She has published articles in The New York Times, TIME, Oprah, Salon, and professional journals. Hendel also consulted on the psychological development of characters on AMC’s Mad Men. Hilary’s blog on emotions and how to use them for wellbeing is read worldwide. For more FREE resources on emotions and emotional health, visit: Hilaryjacobshendel.com
Find out more about the Change Triangle Here
It's Not Always Depression by Hilary Jacobs Hendel
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Sep 9, 2019 • 1h 20min
#047: End The War Against Yourself with Dr. Kelly Brogan
This game-changing episode will entirely change the way you look at mental health. Dr Kelly Brogan is a psychiatrist and a New York Times bestselling author who has walked the path of integrative and holistic health. While being trained as a psychiatrist, Dr Brogan was a staunch supporter of the pharmaceutical model for symptom suppression. After her own illness and resultant awakening, Dr Brogan entirely changed her clinical practice. Dr Brogan describes the “bait and switch” trap of the medical system, capturing highly sensitive people with medications that often turn situational pain into chronic illness. She argues that rather than suppressing our symptoms we can learn what they are here to teach us, we can see our vulnerability as a gift rather than a curse. Far from being trapped, we are emerging into a zeitgeist of reparenting and unconditional love for self. Dr Brogan describes the joy of liberation from darkness and the power in self care. We can all liberate ourselves to life and Dr Brogan walks us through the model she uses to heal all kinds of illness.
1 min - Introduction from Mark, Dr. Kelly Brogan’s book, psychological science, pharmaceuticals, and all of their interconnectedness.
7 mins - Dr. Kelly Brogan’s introduction.
9 mins - Dr. Kelly Brogan’s background in psychiatry, her journey to integrative and holistic psychiatry. Realising that as a clinician nobody was ever encouraged to investigate the root causes of presenting symptoms.
13 mins - The story we tell ourselves about our mental health, we cannot win the war against ourselves.
18 mins - Doctor induced harm and the impact of medication on making symptoms chronic. The role of habit forming chemicals. Why psychiatrists would remain defensive of a school of thought they’ve invested hundreds of thousands of dollars in learning.
23 mins - The risks of medications emerging in recent research, the benefit of medications going to only 18% of patients.
28 mins - Working with vulnerability rather than against it. Self discovery vs symptom suppression. The bait and switch, capturing highly sensitive people within the system.
32 mins - Beginning to relate to pain as a source of power rather than weakness. The joy of liberation from darkness and secrecy. The power of self care and self liberation.
46 mins - The chemical imbalance theory of mental health and the shift away from it. How to turn off the alarm bells that activate the flight, fight, freeze.
57 mins - Making the decision to heal from the root. Making the decision to end the suffering.
1.05 mins - Dr Brogan’s model for self healing, the common types of illness and the model for healing these. Changing mentality and the resultant shift in your life.\
Kelly Brogan, M.D., is a holistic health psychiatrist, author of the New York Times bestselling book, A Mind of Your Own, and the children’s book, A Time for Rain, and co-editor of the landmark textbook, Integrative Therapies for Depression. She completed her psychiatric training and fellowship at NYU Medical Center after graduating from Cornell University Medical College and has a B.S. from M.I.T. in Systems Neuroscience. She is board-certified in psychiatry, psychosomatic medicine, and integrative holistic medicine and is specialized in a root-cause resolution approach to psychiatric syndromes and symptoms. She is a certified KRI Kundalini Yoga teacher and a mother of two.
Preorder Dr Kelly Brogan's newest book 'Own Your Self' Here!
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