

The Mark Groves Podcast
Mark Groves
The Mark Groves Podcast is for heart-led humans eager to expand perspectives, explore HARD truths, and break old patterns while cultivating deeper, more honest connections with self, our relationships, community, and the world. Tune in twice a week for powerful guest interviews and solo episodes that deliver real talk, fresh insights, and practical tools to transform (y)our relationships — because relationships are how we truly connect — and supercharge (y)our personal growth.
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Nov 7, 2022 • 1h 9min
#242: A Hopeful Vision for Humanity with Dr. Zach Bush
Themes: Consumerism, Humanity, Biodiversity, Health, Sustainability, Natural Law, the Microbiome
Summary:
Dr. Zach Bush is back for the third time for a deep dive into the health and future of both humanity and our planet. Zach is a renowned, multi-disciplinary physician of internal medicine, endocrinology, and hospice care and is an internationally recognized educator on the microbiome as it relates to human health, soil health, food systems, and a regenerative future.
In this episode, we dive into the planet's vulnerability and how it’s demanding a massive change in our current systems. We also explore the responsibility we all have to reimagine humanity as a system of coherence with nature instead of fighting against natural law.
Discover:
Why the world is in a state of tumultuous transformation and what is possible for humanity and the earth if we’re able to develop a cohesive vision for the future
How over time, humanity has shifted from a mindset of sharing, reverence and abundance to one of ownership, extraction and competition, and the negative consequences this is having on planet earth
The importance of diversity on ALL levels, from bacteria to crops to thoughts and opinions
Natural law and how we can use nature’s ancient wisdom as a template for a new, more coherent human society
00:00 Intro
00:43 Consumerism & outsourcing everything
4:30 The future of humanity
08:29 As above, so below
17:15 Diversity vs. monoculture
24:00 Cancel culture
25:25 The control of information to reduce panic
31:52 Natural law
40:17 Being afraid of change
54:04 Gut health & ION*
Links:
Watch this episode on Youtube
Zach’s Website | zachbushmd.com
Natural Law | naturallawandgov.org
Journey of Intrinsic Health | journeyofintrinsichealth.com
Farmer’s Footprint | farmersfootprint.us
Instagram | @zachbushmd
Zach’s First Episode | Regenerating Health with Dr. Zach Bush
Zach’s Second Episode | Engineering Our Future with Dr. Zach Bush
Sponsors:
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Oct 31, 2022 • 20min
#241: Say YES to Yourself — Solo Episode
Themes: Alignment, Authenticity, Transformation, Self-Love, Values
Summary:
Feel like there’s something more to life? Like you’re not quite reaching your potential? Perhaps you want a more fulfilling career, a better relationship, to heal your relationship with money, your body, social media, or your family. Whatever it may be, this split — the space between what you say you want, who you say you are and who you’re actually being and what you’re choosing — is one of the most significant sources of our pain, our addictions, and our emotional, mental, and physical health issues. I know this firsthand.
Join me as I explore how to merge the gap between where you are now and what is possible for your life. Will you move toward your soul’s calling? Can you say yes to yourself? Can you claim your potential? Consider this your invitation.
Discover:
The wisdom of negative emotions and why life shouldn’t always feel good
The difference between orienting your life around what your soul desires vs. your wounds, around expansion instead of defensiveness
How to decide what to do when you don’t know what to do
What happens when you commit to honouring yourself
00:00 Intro
00:26 The universe has your back
01:09 Life isn’t about feeling good all the time
02:08 The space between what you have and what you want
04:33 Orienting to your soul, not your wounds
09:26 Words don’t teach; actions do
12:41 Be mindful of your choices
13:15 You’re weird, but all the best people are
15:01 Stepping away can also be healing
17:03 When you stop running from who you are
18:30 Learning to say yes to yourself
Links:
Watch this episode on Youtube
Join me on Mine’d!
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Instagram | @createthelove
Facebook | @createthelove
Sponsors:
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Oct 24, 2022 • 1h 8min
#240: Mental Health, Radical Self-Love and Healing Generational Trauma with Zachary Levi
Themes: Social Media, Self Love, Self Worth, Hollywood, Trauma, Mental Health
Summary:
This week I’m joined by one of the most versatile actors in Hollywood, Zachary Levi, with critically acclaimed roles in TV, film, and on Broadway. You may recognize him from his career catapulting role as Chuck Bartowski in the hit NBC series, Chuck, from his recurring role on Amazon Studios’ Emmy winning series, The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, or from his recent roles in American Underdog, the Kurt Warner Story and the 2019 blockbuster hit, Shazam!.
In this episode we jam on the addictive nature of social media, the problems Hollywood and reality TV perpetuate, plus Zachary’s emotional journey through a lifetime of crippling anxiety and depression and how a breakdown led him to ultimately find joy, gratitude, self-love and acceptance.
Discover:
The irony of social media and how it’s both one of the biggest contributors to mental illness today AND a useful platform for amplifying awareness for such conditions
The profit over people model of Hollywood and how it’s affecting the mental health of those working in the industry as well as viewers
How reality TV is modeling an unhealthy approach to relationships and body image
Zachary’s mental, emotional and spiritual breakdown and how it ultimately led him to find joy, gratitude, acceptance and purpose
The beautiful ripple effect that comes with doing the inner work, facing what you’re most afraid of and integrating your wounds
00:00 Intro
00:37 The irony of social media
02:02 Being a parent now
05:38 Is social media safe for kids?
10:02 Media is designed to be addictive
15:18 The problem with Hollywood & reality TV
22:30 Altering your appearance
29:51 Money is not the root of evil
33:16 The breakdown
46:34 Getting the role of Shazam
55:39 Healthy love not being modeled
1:03:44 Therapy
Links:
Instagram | @zacharylevi
Twitter | @zacharylevi
Book | Radical Love: Learning to Accept Yourself and Others
Sponsors:
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Cozy Earth | Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at cozyearth.com
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Oct 17, 2022 • 1h 6min
#239: Healing Through Infidelity with Rainier Wylde & Kristi Born
Themes: Relationships, Transformation, Acceptance, Infidelity, Authenticity, Codependency
Summary:
In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with power couple Rainier Wylde and Kristi Born as they share the intimate details of how their relationship has evolved through infidelity. We discuss relational pain as a potent catalyst for transformation, the beauty in being honest with ourselves and our partner, and viewing ruptures as an invitation to truth.
About Rainier & Kristi:
Rainier Wylde is an author, teacher, and speaker. He has embraced life for all it is, celebrating its highs and learning from its lows. Rainier has managed a Fortune 500 company and built businesses; he has also elegantly blown them up, burned them down, and started over from scratch. Studying with Zen masters and Sufi mystics, Rainier founded and participated in neo-monastic communities for many years, becoming a spiritual director to both individuals and groups. Through the various positions he has held, Rainier discovered that life must be claimed to hold any worth. His work is to inspire others to live, fully and deeply, in the here and now.
Kristi Born is a marriage and family therapist, relationship coach and teacher. She has worked with diverse populations and a wide variety of age groups. As a graduate school professor and popular educator, Kristi thrills in bringing people together to discuss topics that unleash their power and minimize their shame. Kristi specializes in the art of couple’s therapy and relationship healing. Through this work, she helps couples create their own designer relationships; conscious and wholehearted partnerships. She finds joy in partnering with Rainier Wylde to use their personal relational journey to help any and every person accept and step into their own power, telling a beautiful story of their own. Together they host the podcast Love Like Hell, exploring the modern landscape of intimacy and union.
Discover:
Love and relational pain as a potent catalyst for transformation
Why we sometimes hide our past from our current partners
Why we often jump into relationships too fast
The beauty of being honest with ourselves and our partner and where to begin when you have a history of tiptoeing around the truth
Viewing ruptures in relationship as an invitation to truth and an opportunity really see and understand each other
The importance of holding onto yourself and your identity while in relationship
The impact of relationship transformation on kids and what they can learn from seeing a marriage with a foundation of truth
00:00 Intro
03:28 Entering into relationships unconsciously
05:00 When dysfunction is normalized
08:16 Love as a catalyst for transformation
14:23 Fear of knowing your partner’s past
20:45 Why we often jump from relationship to relationship
23:36 Liberation through truth
28:38 Talking about things as they arise vs. burying them
30:10 Ruptures are an opportunity
40:04 How did the community react to the truth?
46:31 Wanting the best for your partner
49:57 Relationships are not risk-free
58:50 Impact of relationship transformation on kids
Links:
Instagram | @rainierwylde & @kristimarieborn
Podcast | Love Like Hell
Book | As You Are: Meditations on Self and Other
Check out my first episode with Rainier | The Complexities of Being Alive with Rainier Wylde
Sponsors:
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Oct 10, 2022 • 48min
#238: Cultivating Mindfulness with Manoj Dias
Themes: Anger, Emotions, Mindfulness, Meditation, Breathwork, Self-Awareness
Summary:
“Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” I’ve loved this quote from Viktor E. Frankl for a long time, and it speaks directly to the topic of today’s episode: mindfulness. Tune in as I explore with returning guest Manoj Dias what is possible when we commit to a practice of loving self-awareness.
Born and raised in the Theravada Buddhist tradition, Manoj Dias is an animated speaker, humble teacher and always a friend. Once tethered to a life of self-management, instead of self-awareness, he now intimately understands what it means to be healed from the inside out. Through mindfulness and meditation, Manoj has helped thousands of people around the world trade mania for pause, so that they may live fearlessly in honor of a happier and more meaningful life.
Discover:
Mindfulness and how developing a practice can quite literally change your life and relationships
The beauty of anger (and what’s often beneath this emotion)
Meditation as a tool for self-awareness and why we may resist it
Somatic mindfulness and how it can help you become more present and grounded
Breathwork as a powerful tool to cultivate more presence, connection and peace
00:00 Intro
01:38 Reconciling our feelings through wisdom
04:49 Choosing how we react
08:56 Why we continue to operate in unhelpful patterns
11:01 The beauty of anger & what’s often beneath it
20:06 Observing your mind
24:21 Somatic mindfulness
33:41 Developing a mindfulness practice
36:59 Breathwork
Links:
Try Open free for 30 days at withopen.com/createthelove and use code CREATETHELOVE at checkout!
Instagram | @manojdias_ & @op_e___n
Website | manojdias.com.au
Book | Still Together: Connection through meditation
Sponsors:
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Cozy Earth | Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at cozyearth.com
Cured Nutrition | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% all products at curednutrition.com/createthelove
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Oct 6, 2022 • 57min
#237: Return to Nature & Take Your Power Back with Darin Olien
Themes: Food Systems, Nutrition, Health, Superfoods, Sovereignty, Environmental Health
Summary:
Join me for an epic chat with Darin Olien: co-host of the Emmy® award-winning docuseries, Down to Earth with Zac Efron, NYT best-selling author, chart-topping podcast host and passionate advocate for human and environmental health. For over 20 years, Darin has traveled the globe in search of ways to holistically heal our society through food, exercise, and mental health and I’m pumped to have had the opportunity to pick his brain in this episode.
Discover:
How Down to Earth with Zac Efron serendipitously came to be
The dire reality and consequences of ultra-processed foods and chemical agriculture
Why we need to return to ancient and indigenous agricultural practices for the health of ourselves and the planet
A strong argument for growing your own food
Darin’s tips for healthy living in a modern world
00:00 Intro
01:38 Down To Earth with Zac Efron
07:07 Hunting superfoods
13:27 Lack of integrity in the food industry
19:54 We’ve divorced nature
30:40 Lab-made foods
37:16 Food switches to make now
43:28 What’s really in your tap water
49:51 Why you should know about Barukas nuts
Links:
Website | darinolien.com & barukas.com
Instagram | @darinolien
Podcast | The Darin Olien Show
Book | Superlife: The 5 Simple Fixes That Will Make You Healthy, Fit and Eternally Awesome
Sponsors:
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Cured Nutrition | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% all products at curednutrition.com/createthelove
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Oct 3, 2022 • 47min
#236: You Don't Have to Suffer Alone with Aaron Albert
Themes: Mental Health, Social Media, Self-Help, Breakups
Summary:
Meet Aaron Albert: my buddy, co-founder and the CEO of Mine'd — a digital platform we co-created to connect you with top emotional wellness experts and community through daily live and on-demand classes. Tune in as we explore the landscape of social media as it pertains to mental health for both consumers and creators, plus our idea to create a different way of orienting towards mental, relational and emotional health challenges.
A former child actor on the Disney Channel and Nickelodeon, Aaron has spent the adult part of his career in the health and wellness space, working with companies to build products and experiences that make people's lives better. As the co-creator of the largest chain of boutique spin studios in Southeast Asia, Absolute Cycle, Aaron was able to merge together two of his personal passions: fitness and motivation. Over the past four years specifically, Aaron really honed in on creating communities and products at multiple consumer, wellness, and tech companies, including Journey Live, Shine Text, Wave Meditation, Sweat with Studio, and Julianne Hough’s KINRGY.
Discover:
Why we felt it necessary to create a new way for people to engage in mental health content outside of the social media platforms that already exist
Why it’s hard for us to get motivated to take care of our mental health
How we can be narcissistic in our pain when the truth is: you’re not alone!
00:00 Intro
01:00 Impact of the pandemic on mental health
02:33 Why don’t we treat mental health like physical health?
06:10 Mental health content on social media
14:06 People want accessibility
21:32 Heartbreak & the birth of Mine’d
27:48 Creating authentic content
34:26 You are not alone
41:05 Narcissism in our pain
43:23 What is Mine’d?
Links:
Check out Mine'd here!
If you’re an expert and interested in joining Mine’d, go here to apply!
Instagram | @doyoumined & @asalbert
LinkedIn | Aaron Albert
Sponsors:
Cured Nutrition | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% all products at curednutrition.com/createthelove
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Sep 27, 2022 • 1h 17min
#235: Eat Smarter with Shawn Stevenson
Themes: Health, Nutrition, Diet, Transformation, Mindset
Summary:
This week I’m joined Shawn Stevenson, author of the USA Today National bestseller Eat Smarter and the international bestselling book Sleep Smarter. In this episode Shawn shares how he was able to heal himself from chronic illness and turn a dire diagnosis around through simple mindset and nutrition changes.
Shawn is also creator of The Model Health Show, featured as the number #1 health podcast in the U.S. with millions of listener downloads each year. A graduate of the University of Missouri–St. Louis, Shawn studied business, biology, and nutritional science and became the cofounder of Advanced Integrative Health Alliance. Shawn has been featured in Forbes, Fast Company, The New York Times, Muscle & Fitness, ABC News, ESPN, and many other major media outlets.
Discover:
How changing his internal narrative from “why me?” to “what can I do?” shifted his mindset and ultimately, his health outcomes
What’s happening in the body when you get a craving
Food as information
Why as a society we are more sick than ever, even though technology is advancing
00:00 Intro
01:17 Writing Eat Smarter
07:00 The link between diet and chronic disease
19:27 From "why me?" to "what can I do?"
23:31 Pain is a great teacher
25:00 Having someone who believes in you
31:43 What is epigenetics?
37:14 Post-ingestive feedback & cravings
40:41 Processed and artificial foods
47:15 Connection between food and relationships
53:47 Food is information
55:47 Eating sacred
1:00:24 Effect of innovation to our health
Links:
Podcast | The Model Health Show
Instagram | @shawnmodel
Book | Eat Smarter
How to Reprogram Your Subconscious Mind with Bruce Lipton, Ph.D
Sponsors:
Cured Nutrition | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% all products at curednutrition.com/createthelove
Organifi | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off all products at organifi.com/createthelove
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Sep 22, 2022 • 47min
#234: Stepping Into Entrepreneurship with Dan Harrison
Themes: Entrepreneurship, Career, Transformation, Purpose
Summary:
If you’re a therapist, practitioner, naturopath or healer looking to build your biz online and cultivate more meaning, abundance and freedom in your life, then this episode is for you! Tune in for an insightful conversation with Dan Harrison; former certified financial planner turned course creator and online business mentor who specializes in authentic selling, relationship-based marketing and transformational leadership.
Discover:
The beauty of entrepreneurship and starting before you’re ready
The best place you can focus your time and energy as an entrepreneur
Selling the transformation vs. your time
Some of the most common challenges when stepping into entrepreneurship
00:00 Intro
02:14 Soulful Sales
07:25 From sales rep to empowering people
10:37 The beauty of entrepreneurship
21:10 Being of service
25:00 Sell the transformation
32:26 Free vs. paid information
36:52 Biggest challenges in entrepreneurship
43:46 Fall in love with the process
Links:
Book a free 15 minute insight coaching call with Dan here and be sure to mention that I sent you!
Instagram | @thedanharrison
Facebook | Private Practice Rebels
Website | Soulful Sales Co.
Sponsors:
Cured Nutrition | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% all products at curednutrition.com/createthelove
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Sep 19, 2022 • 40min
#233: Overcoming Perfectionism with Vitale Buford Hardin
Themes: Perfectionism, Excellence, Career, Authenticity, Self-Compassion, Self-Worth
Summary:
This week I’m pumped to be joined by my good friend, Vitale Buford Hardin who is a top leadership consultant, driver of leadership excellence, and CEO of The Hardin Group, a leadership consulting firm. Tune in as we unpack perfectionism, why it manifests, how it affects us in the workplace and within our relationships, and ultimately how to actually heal from it.
Vitale believes that “who we are is how we lead,” so the real leadership work begins with ourselves. Vitale brings her training and concepts to life in a fun and relatable way, empowering teams and companies to transform the way they work, produce, and relate. She is an iPEC-certified executive coach, trainer, award-winning speaker, and author. Featured in The New York Times, she is the author of the book, Addicted to Perfect, detailing her struggle with perfectionism and how she overcame it.
Discover:
What perfectionism is and the different ways in which it can manifest
The root cause of perfectionism
The first step in detaching from the need to be perfect
How companies and leaders can actually benefit from addressing and healing perfectionism in the workplace
00:00 Intro
00:46 What is perfectionism?
02:55 Why we chase perfection
05:30 Detaching from perfectionism
07:37 Perfectionism in the workplace
12:06 How it affects innovation
17:47 Are men or women more prone to perfectionism?
21:27 Perfectionism in relationships
28:00 Compassion and perfectionism can’t coexist
30:34 Excellence instead of perfectionism
32:23 Vitale’s struggle with perfectionism
Links:
Book | Addicted to Perfect: A Journey Out of the Grips of Adderall
Website | The Hardin Group
LinkedIn | Vitale Buford Hardin
Sponsors:
Cured Nutrition | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% all products at curednutrition.com/createthelove
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Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards
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