The Powerful Man Show

What level are you in your relationship? What is your model when it comes to marriage? There are 3 levels to a relationship. Level 3 means your marriage is outstanding. Both of you are playing full out in the relationship. Both parties are completely transparent in everything, and love permeates every day of your lives together. Level 2 means things are just fine. An average relationship when compared to others. Level 1 means things aren't working. Both of you are considering options...or divorce. Level 1 is the danger zone. The wife is not satisfied, the husband is not satisfied, and that dissatisfaction is showing up in your everyday lives. There's no love in the relationship. In this episode, we talk about the importance of acknowledging what level you're at. If you're on level two or one, it's time to do something. Find out how to take massive action to get out of those levels, and more about the tools you need in order to identify your blind spots. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #274 Does your business keep you busy all the time? Do you have trouble "switching off" after work? What's your decompression routine? In martial arts, when leaving a dojo, bowing signifies that you're transitioning from your fight-energy into a different mode. In your business, it can mean you're leaving the work-energy behind to embrace what comes next. Increasing the transition time is really important to avoid dramatic changes in your energy. You need time to relax, change your persona, and leave the work-energy behind. In this episode, we'll talk about how to best decompress and the importance of transition time when it comes to decompression. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #273 Who are your 2 AM friends? Are you someone else's 2 AM friend? We've all had that friend who you can call in your most difficult times and would pick up the phone no matter what. They've always got your back. Hold onto these people. At the same time, as a tree needs some leaves to be removed in order to grow, we must make sure that some people are allowed to fall out of our lives. Spend your time and energy with the people who most contribute to your growth. It's important to distinguish who your real 2 AM friends are. Find friends who are as stable as the roots of a tree. Water that relationship and nurture it. And always strive to be that 2 AM friend you want for yourself. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #272 Are you confident about your decisions? Are you insecure and worried about not getting approval from your wife? Unknowingly, men can become the beta in the relationship, especially when women start to make demands or test their partner. Men become more submissive. This is when the DEER appears: Defending, Excusing, Explaining, and Rationalizing. You only do that with someone you are subordinate to. If a man can effectively validate his wife, complaints will become a lot less frequent because she already feels seen and heard. There's no need for the DEER, just live your own passion, and follow your purpose. In this episode, you will learn how to get rid of the DEER in the relationship, and more about the importance of validation in lessening complaints from your wife. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #271 Success does not always mean having material things, making a lot of money, and getting that feeling of significance and respect from other people. Many financially successful people are unhappy because they became exhausted hustling and working hard thinking that these things will make them happy. There are so many rules in place that are holding them back and that makes their life monotonous. The more money they make, the more they become unhappy because these rules take them farther away from the real essence of what it means to be a human being. This void cannot be filled with material things. Fill this void within by breaking the rules and giving yourself permission to experience spontaneous fun. People often feel the need to be busy all the time, thinking that having fun is a waste of time and money. They do not realize that sometimes, while having fun, more creative ideas pop up. If you bring fun and joy into more areas of your life, you will make a lot more progress. Do not allow your happiness to depend on anything or anyone. We don't need anything else outside ourselves to experience joy. We have the joy and fun inside us, we just need to learn to generate it and radiate it. In this episode, you will learn the importance of allowing yourself to experience spontaneous fun and incorporating fun into more areas of your life. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #270 Are you living in excess? Are you beating yourself up too much? Learn more about your body. Refuse to accept something you don't want to accept. Go and try different approaches. See shifts occur. Reading a book is great, but without application, it's useless. When we see other people achieving great things, it really speaks to something that is innate within all of us - the desire to be great, and the desire to leave something great behind. Take the risk, get out of your comfort zone, be the man, and take the lead. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #269 How is your wife doing? Are you watching out for warning signs? Do you have a methodology to fix problems in your relationship, or to cure your wife's "migraine"? Identify the pattern and the method, and do something about it. This "migraine" causes distance and separation in the relationship. Learn the triggers and find ways to remove them. Help your wife to be better, step up, and cure her by activating the man that she married and addressing her complaints. In this episode, you will learn how to identify and address the causes of your wife's "migraine" and how you can cure it. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #268 Women want to be led by a man who knows what he is doing and knows where he is going. Part of this comes from feeling secure with the person who's leading her. She needs to know that her partner is man enough to be a strong foundation for her and for their family. In order to become The Powerful Man that your wife needs, you should first recognize where you are now and know where you are going. You must define for yourself what it means to be a man and not rely on what society dictates to you. Know your potential and know what kind of man you are capable of becoming. Do not be afraid to step up and be a Powerful Man. Be a man who takes care of himself so that he can take care of his partner. To be a Powerful Man, you must be capable of leading your partner emotionally through your energy, time, attention, and strength. In order for you to lead, you must have a vision for your family. You should know what your desires are and where you want to go. If you have all of this, your partner will see you as a man and they can put their trust in you. They will feel more secure and loved. In this episode, learn what it means to be a Powerful Man, how to understand your potential, and how to lead your partner. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #267 How do you check-in? How do you stay connected? We should keep checking in regularly on people that are important to us because people change day by day. Are you growing as a man? When was the last time you checked on your wife? When you start to feel that you're not engaged or feel that it's meaningless to share anymore, that's a sign that she's starting to lose the connection. As a man, take control of the check-in. Ask your wife how her day is going, or how she's feeling about your relationship. Be in control, but make sure to engage her in making the best out of the day. Be very conversational. Be playful and excited, asking open-ended questions, and get into her world by asking about her magic moments. In this episode, we take a deeper dive into the importance of doing one simple thing that most of us ignore: Checking in with your wife and your loved ones. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #266 Is your wife adding too much to your plate? What do you do when your wife is asking you to do so much? When you feel like your capacity is full, you tend to react quickly and differently. In this kind of situation, it is important to be firm with your boundaries and stand your ground. This will ground her in her femininity and allow her to surrender to your masculinity. Start a conversation with a curious tone. Make her feel seen and respected. Avoid being reactive and strive to understand where she's coming from. Get to the root of the real issue. In this episode, you will learn the importance of having a conversation with your partner without being reactive, and how to make your partner feel respected during that conversation while getting to the heart of the issue. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.