The Powerful Man Show

Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
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Sep 15, 2020 • 23min

What If Your Wife Wasn't A B*tch

Episode #249 What if your wife wasn't a bitch? Your partner was given to you because she is the teacher of your greatest lessons, protecting you from your greatest fears, anxieties, and those things that trigger you so often. And you are there to learn from each other. In partnership, we attract a woman who is meant to invite us and teach us to be the man that we are capable of being, or we are destined to be in many ways. When you go through this situation with your wife and you choose to see her as a bitch, you should realize that you need to work on yourself so that you can see it differently. It is easy for us humans to put our blame on other people...especially on the person closest to us...but the root of the problem sometimes is inside of you. Instead of wishing for your wife to be easier or instead of wishing that you have married an easier woman, you should focus on how you can be better. You should face the challenges the woman might be presenting to you with playfulness and confidence. Most of the time, women test you to see how solid and secure they are with you. She is pointing out opportunities for you to grow. Look at yourself and start to inquire about what it is within you that has been triggered right now, and what is the opportunity you have to learn and grow. It's all about taking complete ownership so that you can be a better man. When you see it as an opportunity rather than a problem, it becomes something fun to do. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Sep 12, 2020 • 22min

When A Problem In Your Marriage...Isn't

Episode #248 What's the real problem that you're trying to solve? What is the root cause? It's easy for men to stop doing the things that they know work when everything is going so well. It's no coincidence when many problems surface at the same time. These are the symptoms that something is wrong. The cure is to get back to what you know works. Get back to basics. You're always gonna be vulnerable to being triggered. Your routine and how you start your day is very important. When guys start to falter, it usually means that you're not taking good care of your morning routine. Work on yourself, serve yourself, and do something to better yourself. We are designed for continued growth. When you get back to your routine, you will have that solid foundation on which to grow. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to know the symptoms and root causes of your problems, and how to solve them. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Sep 10, 2020 • 26min

When You Stop Caring Results Come

Episode #247 What happens when you stop caring? When you stop caring, you start to focus more on your purpose. There's nothing sexier for a woman than a man who is purposeful. Being focused like this and doing what you like to do can make you attractive. Stop trying to please your wife just to get the reaction that you want from her. When you stop caring in this way, you start attracting your woman back into your life. Create a mystery that will have your wife leaning in towards you to discover. Lead your life first, and you'll lead the relationship. Be a great man, be a great husband, but don't take an action just because you want to win her over. Taking care of yourself first works best. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to get results when you start to stop caring, and what you can do to lead the relationship and attract your woman back into your life. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Sep 8, 2020 • 27min

One Thing That Every Top Performer Does

Episode #246 What is it that you are spending your time dreaming about? Being a business owner is a big source of fulfillment. But it can become a source of pain as well when you start to lose yourself in the work, and the business becomes who you are. So much of your identity becomes tied up in the business. When you let the business take over your life, you start to lose who you really are. You start to lose space in your life and you stop giving yourself the time to imagine and dream. The key to being able to live a happy, fulfilling, and free life is to imagine. Prioritize giving yourself space, play with that vision, and live to it. Envision what you want and feel it as if it were real. In this episode, we are going to talk about things that every top performer does, and how to do them without losing sight of what you are trying to achieve. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Sep 5, 2020 • 28min

Should Every Man Have A Creative Outlet?

Episode #245 Is it important for all men to have a creative outlet? Most men haven't bothered to cultivate a creative outlet. But if you want to live a life of fulfillment and freedom, to express yourself and be who you are, then you must have a creative outlet. Start by figuring out what would be a creative outlet for you. Something that inspires you to express yourself and something that can fill you up when you do it. If you don't have that creative outlet, you start to bottle yourself up and play a little bit smaller in your relationships Your wife, your kids, your family...everyone in your life will get less of you. If you lack a creative outlet, it can leave you feeling a little more empty at home, and that shifts you from being the alpha to becoming a beta. Slowly but surely, you lose your power. In this episode, we are going to go into detail about the importance of having a creative outlet, and how to find out what your creative outlet can be. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Sep 3, 2020 • 26min

Why Men Don't Share When They're Stuck & What To Do About It

Episode #244 Why don't men seek help when they're stuck? Men are taught to be a certain kind of leader...to be a man who doesn't cry and who doesn't show vulnerability. But for men, being stuck is a sign of weakness. Rather than seeing that as weak, think of it as a sign of strength. By talking about it and accepting it, you demonstrate that you don't care about the weakness. Live a transparent life so that no one can point a finger at you, because you have already admitted, accepted, and spoken on all of the things that you have been most ashamed of in the past. Own the 'negativity' about yourself, and own it with pride. In this episode, we are going to talk about what area men usually get stuck in, and what to do about it. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Sep 1, 2020 • 30min

The Power of Being Needy

Episode #243 Is it wrong for you to feel bad if your needs are not being met? As human beings, we need other human beings to survive. And in a relationship, it's important to be able to articulate what your needs are and take a stand for your needs, not coming from a place of neediness but coming from the place of leadership. There is power in understanding what your needs are in the relationship. There are certain things that you must do for yourself to bring your best self into the relationship. If you are not doing those, then you become needy in an unhealthy way. In this episode, we're going to go deeper into the power and pitfalls of need, and how to fulfill your needs for yourself and for your relationship. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Aug 29, 2020 • 22min

What's Your Biggest Complaint?

Episode #242 What is the thing you complain about the most? You will have different complaints from different people. All complaints are a level of victimhood. You are complaining about something that you don't have control over. Ask yourself what your biggest complaints are, and ask the people you spend most of your time with. See what they say. Dig deeply and create a safe space for people to answer you, to better see what your focus is. Your complaint is your focus. When you chose to complain about something, often it means you are focusing on it. Gather some data and start looking at it. Use your wisdom and judgment to determine your biggest complaint. Take it lightly and do something different. This may be an area that you need to work on for the betterment of yourself. Take a massive action to do something about it. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to know your biggest complaint and how to deal with it. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Aug 27, 2020 • 25min

The Importance of Decompression

Episode #241 How well do you take care of yourself? Do you find time to relax and reset after a busy work-week? A lot of times, what happens for us, guys, is we get our identity from what we are able to provide and produce. We're working our tails off to be able to provide for our families. You go to work. You bust your butt. You build an empire. Hoping you can retire in your 60's or maybe 50's, but it doesn't happen. In that journey of working so hard, you get disconnected from the people you love and lose them along the way. In this episode, we will learn how decompression can help us work and provide for the people we love without sacrificing time and connection with them. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Aug 25, 2020 • 37min

Text Game With Franco Burrows

Episode #240 How do you get back in the dating game with your partner? In this episode, we are going to talk about text games and modern ways to flirt with your partner. Women are looking for a lot more than they used to because they can take care of themselves, so we get to bring more value to the conversation. There is a lot of distraction out there, so we need to be on our game and keep the attraction going. Text game works. The goal is to keep your wife interested, attracted, and keep her attention on you. Be aware of the words you are going to send. Think of what effect you like and what are the things that you want to bring out in her. A lot of men have lost connection with their wife and this is a great way to get playfully reconnected. Girls wanna have fun. Bring the fun into your text exchanges and make it light and playful. ————- ATTENTION: MARRIED BUSINESSMEN Give us 4 days and we'll show you how to save your marriage & reconnect with your wife without having to go to marriage counseling or therapy...even if you're on the brink of divorce. Discover more here: https://thealphareset.com/ ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

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