

The Powerful Man Show
Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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Aug 22, 2020 • 24min
How To Say Sorry Without Giving Away Your Balls
Episode #239 How can you say sorry without giving up your power? Apologizing to our women is one of the hardest things for us men to do. Usually, we don't apologize when we feel that we haven't done anything wrong. However, if we really think that we have done something wrong, we tend to do everything we could and lower ourselves just to make it up to her. This is not healthy. One thing you could do is explain to her why you've gotten angry in the first place. Tell her how did you feel and in return, ask for her side of things. In this way, both of you can learn from each other's shoes and will be more mature when conflicts arise in the future. Listen to this episode and learn more from Doug Holt and Ryan Peach and stop your old ways of apologizing. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 20, 2020 • 31min
How To Be A Magnetic Leader At Home And In The Office
Episode #238 What makes a great leader in business AND at home? A great leader is a person that is always in the front drawing their team to where they are going to and inspiring others through their action and their communication. The first step to becoming a great leader is to take inventory of yourself. The best way to do this is to have smart people around you give you honest feedback. You need to understand where you are succeeding and where you are failing both as an individual and a leader. Once you have that feedback, you then get to take massive action and be the inspired leader that you know you can be. You get to take care of yourself and put yourself first. When you are sacrificing yourself for others, that will put a lot of pressure on your life. The secret to being a great leader is to be a great self leader first. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 18, 2020 • 35min
How To Get Your Power Back
Episode #237 How can you get your power back? How much do you have to do for her to trust you? In this episode, we are going to talk about how men give away their power in their relationships and the six power tips to reclaim your power not only in your business but also in your relationship. A few of the tips: Keep your word. Show up as a man in such a way that your son is going to learn from you and treat his lady like a Queen and in such a way that your daughter is going to learn from you and expect nothing less from her man. Put yourself in a position where you are strong, resourceful, calm, loving, and have the space and capacity to share and show up fully. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 15, 2020 • 30min
Revisit: You Can Never Win An Argument With Your Wife
Episode #236 Do you argue a lot with your wife or your partner? Are you tired of arguing with her? Typically women argue to connect, while men argue to win which is why it's very difficult to win in an argument with your wife. Persuasive communication is the key to avoid being the bad cop in the conversation. If you do this, you will be able to not only get what you want in that situation but also get connection and intimacy with your partner during the communication. As a man, it is very more important that you validate what your partner feels, make her understand that she is your priority and that you don't want her to feel otherwise. Hold your ground and communicate calmly. State what you don't want and what you do want in that situation but at the same time, understand what outcome she wants in that situation so that she will feel seen, heard, and understood. In order for you to be able to hold your ground in these situations, you must have a strong foundation first. Focus on yourself, know who you are as a man, and know that there is a powerful man inside you. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 13, 2020 • 33min
Establishing Boundaries with Your Woman
Episode #235 How do you establish boundaries with your woman? In this episode, we are going to talk about how to maintain peace without giving up your leadership and sticking to your boundaries. It is important to have mutual respect for each other's boundaries and give each other time to do what is important, allowing each other to fill your own cups. Be more vulnerable, open, and transparent to each other and you will have no problem setting boundaries that allow you to be the powerful man you are. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 11, 2020 • 25min
How to Not Be Needy In A Relationship
Episode #234 Should every woman have to fulfill all her man's needs? What most of us men don't realize is that not all our needs can be fulfilled by our wives or our women. It is unfair to give your woman the burden of fulfilling all your needs. The reality is, there are certain needs that can only get fulfilled by being around other men. In this episode, we will learn how we can achieve a much stronger and healthier relationship with our women without sacrificing our needs as men. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 8, 2020 • 24min
Revisit: Getting Out of No Man's Land
Episode #233 Most business owners start their business to make money and have more freedom in their life but they end up becoming a slave to their business. Most business owners are perceived as being successful, charismatic, and leaders within their business but when you take a look into their personal lives & relationships, they're falling short. Their life has become about them serving their business and not the other way around. They typically hold the belief that nobody could replace them. And when they become profitable enough to hire someone who is like them, or even better than them to do the job, they become hesitant because the idea of replacing themselves means they are not going to be needed and this terrifies them. In this episode, we talk about the importance of setting up your business to serve you to your highest purpose and HOW to do that through upgrading yourself, your methodologies, and your belief operating system. You get to discover a way to reset yourself and become a business owner rather than a business operator. You get to be that business owner who is free to experience all the best in life not to become someone who is a slave to their job. Identify where you're at and make a shift. Reset and reclaim. Make your business serve you to it's highest purpose. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 6, 2020 • 25min
What to Do When Your Wife Says You're Selfish
Episode #232 What do you do when your wife says you are selfish? In this episode, we are going to talk about how to focus on yourself without being selfish, how to maintain your energetic state, and how to stand your ground like a man. Taking care of yourself is great and something that can be attractive to a woman provided that your home is also taken care of. Explain to her that you want to be the man that is always fit and that you want to set a good example for your kids. Taking care of yourself for your wife and your kids is extremely important. Invite her and include her in your journey. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 4, 2020 • 25min
What Happened at the Alpha Reset
Episode #231 What is the ALPHA RESET? It is an exclusive event that is extremely immersive and intensely transformational. It is where great men go to better themselves. This experience is the most transformational experience people have ever seen because of the attention to the details. The transformational experience required to get you to where you are now to where you want to go is very individualistic. Everybody is looking for a change but very few people take action on that change. If you want to experience the change in yourself, in your health, relationships, and business, switch your paradigm and make a big shift. Do something, don't wait, do it now. Take some time to listen and find out if the Alpha Reset is the help you've been wanting to have. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 1, 2020 • 24min
Change One Thing, Change Everything
Episode #230 Are you wanting things in your life to change? Here is a secret we tell our men....make one LITTLE shift. In life, we've been doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. One shift of one focus, no matter how small, can open up doors for many other shifts. Take action. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.


