The Powerful Man Show

Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
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Oct 22, 2020 • 21min

When Was The Last Time You Did Something For Yourself?

Episode #265 When was the last time you looked at the stars or walked in the park? When is the last time you did something for yourself? Often guys feel guilty when they take time for themselves to fill their cup. They don't acknowledge the fact that letting themselves become empty makes them weak, and that's why they don't see the need for it. You must first honor the truth that you're weak and empty, and then do something about it. Fill your cup. Find opportunities to improve yourself, start simple. Go out and have some fun. Make an effort for the most important person in your life...yourself. If you do this often, everything from money to relationships becomes easier. Most importantly, you can bring your best self to every interaction you have. In this episode, let's reflect on ourselves. If you haven't done something for yourself in a few months, or years already, NOW is the time to give yourself a reward. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Oct 20, 2020 • 19min

Finding Other Men Who Are Doing The Work

Episode #264 Are you having a hard time finding and connecting with men who are doing the work, like you? What conversations are you starting with people? If you're growing secretly or growing behind closed doors, obviously you will not meet anybody. They will not recognize you. There are tons of guys out there who are doing the work, you just have to show up and let them know that you exist. Exercise courage and take action. Stop complaining and just do what you know you know you should be doing. Show up and start the conversation. In this episode, find out more about how you can find men with the same interests and values as you and help yourself grow. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Oct 17, 2020 • 23min

Divorce Day

Episode #263 Are things not going well in your relationship? What's your wife's primary complaint about you and the relationship? What actions have you taken to address this? Women often drop clues as they move through the marriage, you just have to notice them. Listen to her, and be a man to her, before it's too late. You need the proper tools to help you in the process of maintaining a healthy marriage. Relationships need courage; the courage to hear and know the truth. You may not like what you hear, but it's important to know where you stand in the relationship...and how to improve that standing. Build a connection with your wife, show affection and admiration. Develop the courage to take massive and necessary action. In this episode, we implore you to take the time to check yourself within your marriage, within your relationship. Save your marriage before it's too late. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Oct 15, 2020 • 25min

Do You Turn To Business for Validation?

Episode #262 Are you getting the validation and significance at home that you desire? Will you be able to choose between business and your relationship with your wife? Why choose if you can have both? Men tend to spend most of their time at work because it's where they can demonstrate their control, exercise their power, and feel their significance. Unfortunately, this often leads to broken relationships at home. Men must work to rebuild the harmony in the relationship and learn to fulfill their wife's needs. Then she will see the man that you are. She will see your significance. In addition, you'll find that you can have more of what you want in your business. In this episode, learn more about how you can find your significance both in your workplace and at your home, rescuing your relationship from the brink of collapse. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Oct 13, 2020 • 24min

How White Lies Take Their Toll

Episode #261 Are you doing things that your wife isn't aware of? Is it because you know in your heart that she will not approve it? You're micro-dosing, hanging out with your friends, drinking, or going out to places that your wife probably wouldn't approve of. We are so used to telling 'white' lies when we're doing things that our wives won't agree with or which might cause conflict with them. It's okay to tell 'white' lies occasionally, but if you're doing it constantly...Houston, we have a problem. What kind of distance does it put in a relationship when you're constantly having to lie? It's different when you're trying to create mystery and intimacy in your relationship by not saying something. Like date nights, or if you're working hard to surprise her. However, if your intent is to just lie and to avoid getting into conflict, then there's a problem inside of you. In this episode, join Tim and Doug in discussing one of the most common problems in every relationship that most of us are facing. Stop being a LIAR. Don't fall into the trap of lying constantly because one way or another, it will create chaos in your relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Oct 10, 2020 • 21min

Revisit: Do You Feel Empty?

Episode #260 No matter how much money you have or how successful your business is…if you are not clear on who you want to be, you will still end up feeling empty. We become blinded by the norms set by society and end up following somebody else's guidance on how we should be living our lives instead of finding our own way. We end up striving for somebody else's ideas of what it means to be a man and have success. Until we determine our own definition of success and being a man, we will feel incomplete...like we are not good enough. We become trapped in this belief that when we have more money we can solve everything, and THEN we can be happy. We get to work, keeping ourselves busy making money, and end up losing our connection with our loved ones along the way. In this episode, we dive deep into HOW we can take control of our self-beliefs and shift them to create a happier and more fulfilling mindset. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Oct 8, 2020 • 19min

Revisit: Giving Up The Crutch - A Life Without Coffee or Alcohol

Episode #259 Are you a certified coffee addict or an alcohol lover? Reducing the intake of caffeine and alcohol, or totally getting rid of both, could make a great impact on your life. Especially in terms of large decision-making and how you perform in your business. Being dependent on coffee & alcohol tends to make people more unstable and anxious all the time. It also reduces your alpha brainwaves that you need most when it comes to decision-making, especially for high-performing men. One way to increase your alpha brainwaves is by reducing your caffeine and alcohol intake. It will make you less anxious, more present, more centered, and you will achieve your flow state as a powerful man. It is difficult for most people to give up these two. But in order to do it, you can try using coffee and alcohol alternatives just to get the stimuli that you need. As a result, you will become more focused and in your flow state more often. In this episode, Doug shares his personal experience and journey with coffee & alcohol and why you might want to consider limiting your consumption. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Oct 6, 2020 • 17min

To Porn Or Not To Porn

Episode #258 Is your wife or your partner getting enough sex from you? Or are you just getting it off from your phone or your computer? How do you know when you're consuming too much PORN? Why do you watch porn in the first place? How does it affect us, men, really? One of the things a lot of people don't think about porn is the inhibiting effects it brings to us. For a lot of guys, it becomes HABITUAL. It becomes what they do every night, every morning, every day, in the office, etc. It becomes a compulsive habit for them. And with that habit, like for any compulsion, you're always needing more. This oftentimes can cause issues with your partner. Because now, you're leaking energy outside of the relationship. EXCESSIVE porn creates a false reality about how relationships really are. A lot of men forget that porn is done by actors, who only act out peoples' fantasies rather than the realities. In this episode, we'll have a deeper discussion on the topic of PORN. And at the end of the podcast, ask yourself if you're consuming too much porn. Remember that too much of anything is bad. Don't let porn control you. Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Oct 3, 2020 • 30min

8 Ways To Increase Your Masculinity

Episode #257 Do you feel like you're losing your masculinity? Here are 4 ways you can get it back, and increase your masculinity. 1. Physical Activity such as running, biking, swimming, and lifting weights helps you raise your testosterone levels and can make you push yourself beyond your normal boundaries. 2. Get Out Of Your Head & Get Into Your Body. Bang on your chest. Slap your faces. Do intense breathwork. Get inside your body. 3. Getting Primal. Surround yourself with other men. Be with your pack regularly, like having a weekly activity with them. Feed on each other's energy. 4. Getting Focused. Are you the type of man that starts on a project, then eventually dropped it? This signals your wife about what integrity you have. Be focused and finish what you've started. Want to know more about these four, and get four more? In this episode, you'll learn all about these eight ways to increase your masculinity, and be the better man that we wanted to be for ourselves, for our relationship, for our family, and for our society. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Oct 1, 2020 • 21min

How To Know When To End Things

Episode #256 How do you know when to STOP? When you're reading a book, at what point will you stop reading if you feel like it's not what you're expecting? If you're in a relationship, when are you going to stop doing things that are hurting your partner and your bond? If your business is failing, when should you quit? People are so used to living a life where they feel obligated to say 'yes' to things or self-sacrifice...not because they want to, but because they feel they have to. But most of us don't realize that there are deeper questions underlying this: Why are we doing these things in the first place? Are there patterns and behaviors shaping your life where you just continue to quit? In this episode, we're going to talk about how to identify the signs in your life that it may be time to stop...and make a change. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

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