

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast
Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com
Are you ready to Talk To Me?Join Debra Fileta, a licensed professional counselor, national speaker, and bestselling author for an authentic, on-air, counseling-style show where we talk to people about how they are really doing on Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast (formerly known as Love & Relationships).Whether having a conversation with a caller from our hotline, or an on-air counseling session with a notable pastor or leader — each of these episodes is a raw, real, authentic conversation showcasing the best of counseling and psychology rooted in God’s Word. Each episode is meant to show you that we are all on a journey of healing—mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally, together.None of us are immune to the challenges and struggles of life, but we don't have to walk this path alone!So if you're ready... Let's talk...Learn more at TrueLoveDates.com/TalkToMe
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Mar 25, 2020 • 17min
Quarantine Ep. 3: Hand Washing and Heart Washing
There’s been a lot of talk about hand washing lately, as the CDC continually reminds us of the importance of washing our hands during a pandemic.
We’re a hand washing family, and we always emphasize hand washing whether or not there’s a national crisis. But with all the talk about hand washing lately, it’s no surprise that as I was reading through the book of Mark recently, the chapter on hand washing stood out to me like never before.
Hand + Heart Washing
Jesus and his disciplines were confronted by the religious leaders of the time and criticized for their lack of ceremonial hand washing. Jesus’ response to those leaders was so powerful, and so applicable to today.
So I’m calling today’s episode Hand Washing and Heart Washing, and I hope you’ll take a minute to tune into this perspective on ways that we can focus in on spiritual cleansing during this time where our tendency is just to focus on physical cleanliness.
Tune in to Quarantine Episode #3 of the Love + Relationships Podcast and subscribe to the show by clicking on the button below!
SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE
Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER – SPOTIFY – GOOGLE PLAY – iHEART RADIO
Get counseling from the comfort of your own home this year! Online professional counseling + Believers in Christ. Check out Faithful Counseling at http://getfaithful.com/debra — 10% off your first month!!
Love + Relationships Podcast Notes:
Do you want to commit to Praying For Your Love Life? If so, you’re going to love 21 Days to Pray For Your Love Life Devotional and Prayer Journal. It’s a 21 Day Course walking you through 21 days of SPECIFIC and MEANINGFUL prayers for love. Join thousands of other singles who have gone through this course and are committed to praying for love! Use code LOVE for 20% off any program.
Is your relationship Healthy? Find out! ORDER DEBRA’S NEW BOOK: Love In Every Season!
For other great episodes of the Love + Relationships Podcast check out:
Spring: Is Your Relationship Growing?
Summer Is When Things Get Hot: On Intimacy
Colors of Fall: Questions To Ask Your Partner NOT Assume
Winter: The frost of Apathy and How To Deal With It
FREE QUIZ: IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP HEALTHY
MORE BOOKS BY DEBRA
Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Love In Every Season: The Four Stages of Every Healthy Relationship, Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life.
And Check out Debra’s Love + Relationships Podcast on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts!
DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her today!
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Mar 24, 2020 • 24min
Quarantine Ep 2: 10 Self Care Tips For Mental and Emotional Health (Part 2)
This week on the blog, I released an article called 10 Quarantine Self Care Tips for Mental and Emotional Health, and today on the podcast I’m reviewing and expanding the second part of this 2 part podcast series, covering the last 5 tips in Part 2 of the Self Care Tips, as well as how they’ve played out in my personal life this week.
In this episode I cover:
The importance of making time for fun and why it matters in times of crisis.
Some ways you can learn and grow during quarantine.
How, why and when you should include counseling as part of your journey.
The healing power of empathy.
And why all the cookie-cutter advice you’re getting about what your daily schedule should look like might actually be wrong for you!!
So tune in to Listen to Part 1 of Quarantine Self Care Tips For Mental and Emotional Health, Click HERE.
Quarantine Self Care Tips 6-10
To tune in to Quarantine Episode #2 of the Love + Relationships Podcast and subscribe to the show by clicking on the buton below!
SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE
Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER – SPOTIFY – GOOGLE PLAY – iHEART RADIO
Get counseling from the comfort of your own home this year! Online professional counseling + Believers in Christ. Check out Faithful Counseling at http://getfaithful.com/debra — 10% off your first month!!
Love + Relationships Podcast Notes:
Do you want to commit to Praying For Your Love Life? If so, you’re going to love 21 Days to Pray For Your Love Life Devotional and Prayer Journal. It’s a 21 Day Course walking you through 21 days of SPECIFIC and MEANINGFUL prayers for love. Join thousands of other singles who have gone through this course and are committed to praying for love! Use code LOVE for 20% off any program.
Is your relationship Healthy? Find out! ORDER DEBRA’S NEW BOOK: Love In Every Season!
For other great episodes of the Love + Relationships Podcast check out:
Spring: Is Your Relationship Growing?
Summer Is When Things Get Hot: On Intimacy
Colors of Fall: Questions To Ask Your Partner NOT Assume
Winter: The frost of Apathy and How To Deal With It
FREE QUIZ: IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP HEALTHY
MORE BOOKS BY DEBRA
Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Love In Every Season: The Four Stages of Every Healthy Relationship, Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life.
And Check out Debra’s Love + Relationships Podcast on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts!
DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her today!
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Mar 23, 2020 • 29min
Quarantine Ep 1: 10 Self Care Tips for Mental and Emotional Health (Part 1)
While we’re all on Corona Quarantine right now, and since our world has come to a halt for a period of time, I wanted to adjust the Love and Relationships Podcast this week.
Instead of the usual hotline style show, I’m going to be focusing on advice and encouragement to help you navigate this season in the best way possible. This week on the podcast, I released an article called 10 Quarantine Self Care Tips for Mental and Emotional Health, and today on the podcast I’m reviewing and expanding on the first 5 points as well as how they’ve played out in my personal life this week.
So tune in to Quarantine Episode #1 of the Love + Relationships Podcast and subscribe to the show by clicking on the buton below!
SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE
Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER – SPOTIFY – GOOGLE PLAY – iHEART RADIO
Get counseling from the comfort of your own home this year! Online professional counseling + Believers in Christ. Check out Faithful Counseling at http://getfaithful.com/debra — 10% off your first month!!
Love + Relationships Podcast Notes:
Do you want to commit to Praying For Your Love Life? If so, you’re going to love 21 Days to Pray For Your Love Life Devotional and Prayer Journal. It’s a 21 Day Course walking you through 21 days of SPECIFIC and MEANINGFUL prayers for love. Join thousands of other singles who have gone through this course and are committed to praying for love! Use code LOVE for 20% off any program.
Is your relationship Healthy? Find out! ORDER DEBRA’S NEW BOOK: Love In Every Season!
For other great episodes of the Love + Relationships Podcast check out:
Spring: Is Your Relationship Growing?
Summer Is When Things Get Hot: On Intimacy
Colors of Fall: Questions To Ask Your Partner NOT Assume
Winter: The frost of Apathy and How To Deal With It
FREE QUIZ: IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP HEALTHY
MORE BOOKS BY DEBRA
Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Love In Every Season: The Four Stages of Every Healthy Relationship, Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life.
And Check out Debra’s Love + Relationships Podcast on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts!
DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her today!
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Mar 17, 2020 • 13min
Taking a Break In a Relationship: How To Do It Well
Are you thinking about taking a break in a relationship? Is it possible to take a break from a relationship and get back together in a healthy way?
Last week on the Love + Relationships podcast we talked about the On Again Off Again Relationship, and what to be on the lookout for in that kind of relationship. Today we’re continuing the conversation by talking about taking a break in a relationship, and how to do it in a way that’s actually beneficial for both parties.
Taking A Break In A Relationship 101
If you’re thinking about taking a break in a relationship, there are some things you need to do in order to make sure the break is beneficial and well-used. Like I said in the last episode: You can’t just hit the pause button and expect the story to change. You’ve actually got to change the whole story.
Find out how taking a break in a relationship can be done in a healthy way, by tuning in 64 of the Love + Relationships Podcast and subscribe to the podcast below!
SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE
Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER – SPOTIFY – GOOGLE PLAY – iHEART RADIO
Love + Relationships Podcast Notes:
MEET OUR SPONSOR: Check out Abide, the #1 Christian meditation app, by going to: abide.co/love and get 25% off your premium subscription!
Do you want to commit to Praying For Your Love Life? If so, you’re going to love 21 Days to Pray For Your Love Life Devotional and Prayer Journal. It’s a 21 Day Course walking you through 21 days of SPECIFIC and MEANINGFUL prayers for love. Join thousands of other singles who have gone through this course and are committed to praying for love!
Is your relationship Healthy? Find out! ORDER DEBRA’S NEW BOOK: Love In Every Season!
For other great episodes of the Love + Relationships Podcast check out:
Spring: Is Your Relationship Growing?
Summer Is When Things Get Hot: On Intimacy
Colors of Fall: Questions To Ask Your Partner NOT Assume
Winter: The frost of Apathy and How To Deal With It
FREE QUIZ: IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP HEALTHY
Get counseling from the comfort of your own home this year!!! Check out Faithful Counseling at http://getfaithful.com/debra — 10% off your first month!!
MORE BOOKS BY DEBRA
Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Love In Every Season: The Four Stages of Every Healthy Relationship, Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life.
And Check out Debra’s Love + Relationships Podcast on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts!
DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her today!
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Mar 10, 2020 • 14min
The On Again Off Again Relationship
What do you do when you find yourself in an on again off again relationship?
Do you end it, or do you continue on the roller coaster ride of trying to make things work? Is it worth it to try and take a break in a relationship, and what does it say about the outcome of a relationship if you have to take a break?
In today’s podcast episode, I’m talking you through what I think about this kind of up and down relationship, and how to navigate through it. If you find yourself in a relationship with someone where you are needing to “take a break” to sort through things and figure things out – than this episode is for you!
Taking a Break
When it comes to taking a break in a relationship, you have to remember why it is you’re taking a break as well as have a plan of what you’re trying to resolve. Tune in to today’s episode and find out what to do in the on again off again relationship.
So check out episode 63 of the Love + Relationships Podcast and subscribe to the podcast below!
SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE
Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER – SPOTIFY – GOOGLE PLAY – iHEART RADIO
Love + Relationships Podcast Notes:
MEET OUR SPONSOR: Check out Abide, the #1 Christian meditation app, by going to: abide.co/love and get 25% off your premium subscription!
Do you want to commit to Praying For Your Love Life? If so, you’re going to love 21 Days to Pray For Your Love Life Devotional and Prayer Journal. It’s a 21 Day Course walking you through 21 days of SPECIFIC and MEANINGFUL prayers for love. Join thousands of other singles who have gone through this course and are committed to praying for love!
Is your relationship Healthy? Find out! ORDER DEBRA’S NEW BOOK: Love In Every Season!
For other great episodes of the Love + Relationships Podcast check out:
Spring: Is Your Relationship Growing?
Summer Is When Things Get Hot: On Intimacy
Colors of Fall: Questions To Ask Your Partner NOT Assume
Winter: The frost of Apathy and How To Deal With It
FREE QUIZ: IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP HEALTHY
Get counseling from the comfort of your own home this year!!! Check out Faithful Counseling at http://getfaithful.com/debra — 10% off your first month!!
MORE BOOKS BY DEBRA
Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Love In Every Season: The Four Stages of Every Healthy Relationship, Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life.
And Check out Debra’s Love + Relationships Podcast on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts!
DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her today!
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Mar 3, 2020 • 26min
8 Ways To Pray For Love (Even Before You Have a Relationship)
How do you pray for love? And what if you don’t even have one yet? Should you still pray for love even before you have a relationship?
If I knew the effect that my future relationships would have on my life, I would have been praying for love since pre-school.
Prayer is the act by which we hand over our needs to the One who actually has the power to impact those needs.
So how do you pray for love? Where do you even begin?
Whether you’re praying for your future spouse, or future dating relationship, I want to offer you some really specific ways to pray for love.
8 Ways To Pray For Love
Today on the podcast, we’re talking about eight ways to pray for love, even before you have a romantic relationships! There are prayers, powerful, specific, prayers that will impact your heart! I know this episode will encourage you, and remind you of the importance of praying for your love life long before you have one.
So check out episode 62 of the Love + Relationships Podcast to learn eight ways to pray for your love life.
SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE
Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER – SPOTIFY – GOOGLE PLAY – iHEART RADIO
Love + Relationships Podcast Notes:
MEET OUR SPONSOR: Check out Abide, the #1 Christian meditation app, by going to: abide.co/love and get 25% off your premium subscription!
Do you want to commit to Praying For Your Love Life? If so, you’re going to love 21 Days to Pray For Your Love Life Devotional and Prayer Journal. It’s a 21 Day Course walking you through 21 days of SPECIFIC and MEANINGFUL prayers for love. Join thousands of other singles who have gone through this course and are committed to praying for love!
Is your relationship Healthy? Find out! ORDER DEBRA’S NEW BOOK: Love In Every Season!
For other great episodes of the Love + Relationships Podcast check out:
Spring: Is Your Relationship Growing?
Summer Is When Things Get Hot: On Intimacy
Colors of Fall: Questions To Ask Your Partner NOT Assume
Winter: The frost of Apathy and How To Deal With It
FREE QUIZ: IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP HEALTHY
Get counseling from the comfort of your own home this year!!! Check out Faithful Counseling at http://getfaithful.com/debra — 10% off your first month!!
MORE BOOKS BY DEBRA
Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Love In Every Season: The Four Stages of Every Healthy Relationship, Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life.
And Check out Debra’s Love + Relationships Podcast on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts!
DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book a session with her today!
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 25, 2020 • 19min
10 Places To Meet Christian Singles
Are you looking for places to meet Christian singles? Why am I even asking – you must be. Because you’re here. Reading this article. And you’re in the right place!!
At TrueLoveDates.com (the #1 Faith-based relationship advice blog!) I surveyed thousands of people asking them WHERE they were meeting Christian singles…and today I’m sharing the Top 10 places to meet Christian singles.
10 Places To Meet Christian Singles…actually 11 including this:
And make sure to listen to the VERY end…because I have a very practical #11 place — an opportunity for you to meet Christian Singles at our upcoming SINGLES MIXERS!
You’re going to be encouraged by this episode, and reminded that yes, Christian singles DO exists, and there are places to meet Christian singles no matter where you live.
So check out episode 61 of the Love + Relationships Podcast all about places to meet Christian singles!
SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE
Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER – SPOTIFY – GOOGLE PLAY – iHEART RADIO
Love + Relationships Podcast Notes:
Is your relationship Healthy? Find out! ORDER DEBRA’S NEW BOOK: Love In Every Season!
For other great episodes of the Love + Relationships Podcast check out:
Spring: Is Your Relationship Growing?
Summer Is When Things Get Hot: On Intimacy
Colors of Fall: Questions To Ask Your Partner NOT Assume
Winter: The frost of Apathy and How To Deal With It
FREE QUIZ: IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP HEALTHY
Get counseling from the comfort of your own home this year!!! Check out Faithful Counseling at http://getfaithful.com/debra — 10% off your first month!!
MORE BOOKS BY DEBRA
Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Love In Every Season: The Four Stages of Every Healthy Relationship, Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life.
And Check out Debra’s Love + Relationships Podcast on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts!
DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book a session with her today!
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 18, 2020 • 19min
12 Signs Your Marriage Needs Help
Do you ever wonder if your marriage needs help? If so, you’re not alone. The natural trajectory of marriage is drift. The pressure and stress of life can slowly begin to pull people away from one another…
If you’re not careful, things can slowly start to drift in you relationship without you ever realizing it’s happening. With a lack of time to connect, crazy schedules, the fast pace of life, financial struggles, the distraction of raising children…
There are so many things that can get in the way of a strong connection between two people in marriage. And if we’re not careful we can find our marriage in a place we never intended it to be.
So how do you recognize if your marriage has drifted to the point where it needs help? And what can you do about it?
12 Sings Your Marriage Needs Help
Today we’re talking about 12 signs to be on the lookout for, signaling that your marriage is in need of some attention; in need of some help. Take a few minutes to listen to this quick episode, and start taking inventory of whether or not your relationship is in a healthy place. Click below to check out Episode 60 of Love + Relationships and find out if your marriage needs help!
SIDENOTE: In case you don’t already know this — I offer relationship sessions via Skype every single week. As a licensed counselor, I love setting aside this time to help you focus on your relationship, and make it the best it can be. You can book a session with me at this link.
But if you’re looking for ongoing counseling to work on your marriage or other mental health issues, consider booking a session with Faithful Counseling, an online counseling opportunity that matches you with a licensed counselor who is ALSO a Christian!! Check out Faithful Counseling at http://getfaithful.com/debra — 10% off your first month!!
SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE
Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER – SPOTIFY – GOOGLE PLAY – iHEART RADIO
Love + Relationships Podcast Notes:
Is your relationship Healthy? Find out! ORDER DEBRA’S NEW BOOK: Love In Every Season!
For other great episodes of the Love + Relationships Podcast check out:
Spring: Is Your Relationship Growing?
Summer Is When Things Get Hot: On Intimacy
Colors of Fall: Questions To Ask Your Partner NOT Assume
Winter: The frost of Apathy and How To Deal With It
FREE QUIZ: IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP HEALTHY
Get counseling from the comfort of your own home this year!!! Check out Faithful Counseling at http://getfaithful.com/debra — 10% off your first month!!
MORE BOOKS BY DEBRA
Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Love In Every Season: The Four Stages of Every Healthy Relationship, Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life.
And Check out Debra’s Love + Relationships Podcast on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts!
DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book a session with her today!
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 14, 2020 • 13min
Valentines Day BONUS Episode! DO THIS TODAY!
SURPRISE!!! Bonus Valentines Day podcast episode today!!! It’s Valentine’s Day, and I just had to release an extra Valentines Day podcast episode for you.
This question comes in time and time again…so I decided to tackle it in today’s podcast! It’s an episode that will mean something to you no matter what your relationship status, and is something I encourage you to take the time to do AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!!!!
What is this, you ask? I’m going to keep it a mystery. But go listen to this short bonus episode and start the process of what I say is the KEY TO EVERY HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP!!! Enjoy Bonus Episode 59!!
SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE
Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER – SPOTIFY – GOOGLE PLAY – iHEART RADIO
Love + Relationships Podcast Notes:
Is your relationship Healthy? Find out! ORDER DEBRA’S NEW BOOK: Love In Every Season!
For other great episodes of the Love + Relationships Podcast check out:
Spring: Is Your Relationship Growing?
Summer Is When Things Get Hot: On Intimacy
Colors of Fall: Questions To Ask Your Partner NOT Assume
Winter: The frost of Apathy and How To Deal With It
FREE QUIZ: IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP HEALTHY
Get counseling from the comfort of your own home this year!!! Check out Faithful Counseling at http://getfaithful.com/debra — 10% off your first month!!
MORE BOOKS BY DEBRA
Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Love In Every Season: The Four Stages of Every Healthy Relationship, Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life.
And Check out Debra’s Love + Relationships Podcast on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts!
DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book a session with her today!
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 11, 2020 • 19min
3 Ways To Avoid Valentines Day Disappointment (No Matter Your Relationship Status)
How do you avoid Valentines Day Disappointment? You know, that terrible let down feeling when the day just doesn’t go how you hoped it would to go? That seems to be the question of the hour with Valentines Day looming just around the corner.
People approach Valentines Day with a range of love/hate feelings for this occasion to celebrate love.
How To Avoid Valentines Day Disappointment (Don’t Do What I DID!!)
In today’s episode, I want to talk to you about three ways you can avoid Valentines Day disappointment whether you’re single, dating, or married. I promise you, these tips are going to help and encourage you to make the absolute most of this week!
I’m starting the episode with telling you about my WORST Valentines Day ever, and how I did the exact opposite of the advice I’m about to give you today about Valentines Day disappointment. You live and learn!
I can’t wait to share this episode with you, and I hope it encourages and instills you with new perspective as you approach Valentines Day this week.
PS. ATTENTION ALL SINGLES OUT THERE…I want to invite you to join us this Wednesday night for our ONLINE SINGLES EVENT! Click here or the photo below for details…we only have a few tickets left, so register today! A practical way to avoid Valentines Day disappointment!
Subscribe on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts, and then tune in to Episode 58 of the Love + Relationship Podcast.
SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE
Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER – SPOTIFY – GOOGLE PLAY – iHEART RADIO
Love + Relationships Podcast Notes:
Is your relationship Healthy? Find out! ORDER DEBRA’S NEW BOOK: Love In Every Season!
For other great episodes of the Love + Relationships Podcast check out:
Spring: Is Your Relationship Growing?
Summer Is When Things Get Hot: On Intimacy
Colors of Fall: Questions To Ask Your Partner NOT Assume
Winter: The frost of Apathy and How To Deal With It
FREE QUIZ: IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP HEALTHY?
MORE BOOKS BY DEBRA
Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Love In Every Season: The Four Stages of Every Healthy Relationship, Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life.
And Check out Debra’s Love + Relationships Podcast on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts!
DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book a session with her today!
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