Fatherhood Field Notes

Ned Schaut
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Jul 25, 2025 • 8min

Ep. 515: Sometimes You Need To Force Your Kids…

Ned peels back the curtain on the messy, sacred, and often hilarious real-life moments that define fatherhood. From rescuing his daughter in a parking lot to navigating tough conversations with his son about dirt bikes and responsibility, Ned invites us into the daily decisions that shape our kids—and ourselves. He reflects on presence, parenting with integrity, and the subtle power of being interruptible. This episode reminds every dad that the little, chaotic moments matter—and that showing up, again and again, is heroic.Links and Resources:Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: RUK FitnessThis episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate
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Jul 18, 2025 • 45min

Ep. 514 Bill Marr: Raising Good Humans with Humility and Vulnerability

In this raw and revealing episode, Army and law enforcement veteran Bill Marr opens up about his journey from homeless at 17 to becoming a devoted father of three and founder of Breeze Benefits Group. With Ned, Bill dives deep into the realities of overcoming anxiety, breaking generational cycles, and the relentless work it takes to be present—not perfect—for your children. He shares hard-earned insights like, “Nobody’s coming to save you,” and challenges fathers to “do the work” to show up with integrity, resilience, and love. This episode is a powerful wake-up call for dads to lead with courage, consistency, and vulnerability—because fatherhood is the most important battle you’ll ever fight.Guest Links:Breeze Benefits WebsiteBill on LinkedInLinks and Resources:Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: RUK FitnessThis episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate
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Jul 11, 2025 • 11min

Ep. 513: What is Sacred? Week 5 - Sex

Ned challenges fathers to recognize sex as sacred and to communicate its true meaning and value at home, not just let culture define it for their kids. He shares real ways he and his wife approach open, shame-free conversations about sex, urging dads to align their beliefs, lead with grace, and clean up their own struggles so they can model healthy intimacy for the next generation.Links and Resources:Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: RUK FitnessThis episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate
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Jul 8, 2025 • 52min

Ep. 512 Griff Erickson: How to Raise Kids Who Know Love & Hard Work

Griff Erickson — former pro baseball player turned father of three — shares how he’s learning to “keep it simple” and “stay approachable” while raising kids who know what real love, hard work, and character look like. From life’s unexpected curveballs to messy garages and fatherhood’s hidden gift of leaning into the hard, Griff opens up about what it means to “love the suck,” show up for your kids, and build a solid foundation at home when life never stays tidy for long. If you’ve ever wondered how to stop yelling, stay present, and create a family culture your kids run toward — this episode will inspire you to rebel against low expectations and embrace the beautiful mess of fatherhood.Guest Links:Griff on LinkedInLinks and Resources:Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: RUK FitnessThis episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate
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Jul 4, 2025 • 7min

Ep. 511: What is Sacred? Week 4 - Words and Thoughts

Ned dives deep into the importance of treating words and thoughts as sacred tools in fatherhood. He highlights the profound influence a father can have in shaping his family’s environment simply by mastering self-control and being intentional with the words he speaks. Through personal reflection, Ned explores the idea that fatherhood is about influence, not control, and how managing thoughts and actions can create a peaceful, loving home. This episode is packed with valuable insights for any father looking to lead his family with purpose and integrity. Tune in to learn why your words and thoughts carry the weight to build or disrupt your family’s future.Links and Resources:Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: RUK FitnessThis episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate
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Jul 1, 2025 • 39min

Ep. 510 Amber Vilhauer: Raising your daughters to be Confident, Powerful, and Wise

Ned Schaut and Amber Vilhauer unpack what it means to raise kids who trust their authentic voice. Amber shares how deep conversations, co-parenting with respect, and being fully present can help fathers break generational cycles and guide their kids with awareness and integrity. From her journey as a single mom to reconnecting with her own dad, Amber’s story reminds every father: It’s never too late to show up and lead by example.Guest Links:ambervilhauer.comngngenterprises.comLinkedInLinks and Resources:Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: RUK FitnessThis episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate
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Jun 20, 2025 • 10min

Ep. 509: What Is Sacred? Week 3 – Your Home

Ned continues the "What is Sacred?" series by turning the focus inward—to the very space we call home. With heartfelt storytelling and real-life reflections, Ned challenges fathers to consider: Is your house just a building, or is it a sacred space where peace is cultivated? Through vivid anecdotes—like helping his son buy a first car instead of insisting on a clean garage—Ned explores how the tone we set, the stress we carry, and the way we treat each other inside our homes shapes legacy. This episode dives into practical wisdom on sibling relationships, modeling respect, and creating an atmosphere that feels like rest. If someone looked into your home today, would they know what really matters to you?Links and Resources:Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: RUK FitnessThis episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate
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Jun 17, 2025 • 53min

Ep. 508 John D. Gillespie: How To Be the Man Your Family Needs

In this powerful and convicting episode, John D. Gillespie shares his remarkable journey from American seminary halls to planting churches in rural England. With a voice forged through decades of ministry, fatherhood, and spiritual battle, John invites fathers to reject comfort culture and embrace the calling of servant leadership. He unpacks why the home is not your castle—it’s your Calvary, and how the Western mind has often become a wall to God's work. With seven children, 22 grandchildren, and over 25 years shepherding others, John speaks with grace and urgency on what it means to father with eternal purpose. This conversation is a call to action for Christian dads to stop outsourcing leadership and instead become the shepherds of their homes.Links and Resources:This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate
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Jun 13, 2025 • 7min

Ep. 507: What Is Sacred? Week 2 – The Body

Ned Schaut continues the What Is Sacred? mini-series by diving deep into the often-overlooked gift of the human body. Through candid storytelling (including the discovery of a dead rat in his garage gym), Ned challenges fathers to reflect on how they’re treating their physical health—and what message that sends to their kids. This episode unpacks the idea that the body is sacred, meant to be honored, stewarded, and respected. From making school lunches to squeezing in a workout, Ned asks, “Would your kids say their dad cares about his body?” With heartfelt insight and everyday dad grit, this conversation equips fathers to lead by example—building legacy through discipline, self-care, and intentional living. If you're ready to shift from survival mode to sacred stewardship, this one's for you.Links and Resources:Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: RUK FitnessThis episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate
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Jun 10, 2025 • 37min

Ep. 506 Christopher Stimac: Teaching your kids to Follow Through, setting Boundaries, and Surfing

In this heart-forward episode of Fatherhood Field Notes, host Ned Schaut sits down with Hawaii-born real estate pro and former touring musician, Chris Stimac, to unpack the power of presence, partnership, and purpose in fatherhood. From the stage lights of Europe to the ocean tides of Kona, Chris opens up about choosing intentional family life over fame—and how that one choice redefined his success. Together, Ned and Chris explore how fatherhood calls men to show up, lead by example, and invite their kids into their world, not hide work from them. With wisdom rooted in real-life, this conversation hits on the joys of raising curious, adventurous kids, the sacred rhythm of communication with your spouse, and why letting your kids watch you work might be one of the most powerful things a dad can do. Whether you’re balancing business, beach days, or bedtime stories, this episode will challenge and encourage you to lean all the way in.Links and Resources:Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: RUK FitnessThis episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate

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