
Self-Helpless
Described as "an unfiltered thera-brunch with your best friends" where we can have "light conversations about heavy sh*t," Self-Helpless candidly explores the highs, lows, and in-betweens of personal growth—with a strong emphasis on everyday activism. Featuring a variety of specialists, public figures, and subscribers, the show garners millions of downloads, frequents the top Apple & Spotify charts, and has been featured on Conan and The Tonight Show. If you're interested in conscious consumption, holistic health, creativity, purpose—basically trying to figure out wtf we're all doing here and how to make the most of it, you'll be into Self-Helpless. Past guests include: Tan France, Michael Buble,' Rachel Rodgers, Pete Holmes, Dr. Ramani, Ed Winters, Kati Morton, Preacher Lawson, Kris Carr, Jessamyn Stanley, Freddie Prinze Jr., Rachel Ricketts, Nikki Glaser, Sonya Renee Taylor, Amie McNee, and more.Hosted by Delanie Fischer, Co-Author of MockTales, Creative Activist, and resident homebody, Self-Helpless has 400+ episodes to browse including a hot combo of long-form and minis ("Self-Helpless Snacks")—integrating guests, solo deep-dives, and even life hacks from extra cool and qualified people like Delanie's dad. New episode every Monday!
Latest episodes

Oct 2, 2024 • 6min
Self-Helpless Snack: Legal Mushroom vs. Ketamine Use For Treating Depression with Dr. Tracey Marks
Forensic psychiatrist of over 20 years, Dr. Tracey Marks, gives us some exciting and hopeful insights into cutting-edge clinical trials, which approach is working best, and what the future of depression treatment may look like.Full episode with Dr. Tracey Marks: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/36a8f408/depression-and-serotonin-syndrome-with-dr-tracey-marksYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 30, 2024 • 43min
When You're Single At 35 (+ Eldest Daughter Syndrome) with Natalie Katona
Delanie Fischer is joined by Natalie Katona, who shares about her experience with eldest daughter syndrome, and being the single one in her family and friend group at age 35. She shares how she handles unsolicited questions about her relationship status, what boundaries she's put in place as the eldest daughter, new traditions she's created with friends, and how she feels about having a life partner. This episode is part of our series, "Subscriber Stories."Plus:+ Your New Favorite Holiday Tradition+ 4 Signs You Have Eldest Daughter Syndrome+ Natalie's Favorite Anchor QuestionMore episodes related to this topic:Why You Became A People-Pleaser: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/27c52c66/why-you-became-a-people-pleaserPeople-Pleasing with Taylor Tomlinson, Kelsey Cook, and Delanie Fischer: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2381a68f/people-pleasing-with-taylor-tomlinson-kelsey-cook-and-delanie-fischerTips For Dating In Your 30s (On And Off The Apps): https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/31372374/tips-for-dating-in-your-30s-on-and-off-the-appsHow Being Children of Divorce Has Influenced Our Relationships: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/1c146b94/how-being-children-of-divorce-has-influenced-our-relationshipsOvercoming Holiday Anxiety with Taylor, Kelsey, and Delanie: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/9ddd1cf7/overcoming-holiday-anxiety-with-taylor-kelsey-and-delanieYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 25, 2024 • 5min
Self-Helpless Snack: Will Naked Yoga Be Your New Favorite Practice?
Co-founder of The Underbelly, yoga teacher, and body positivity advocate, Jessamyn Stanley, shares how her naked yoga practice has changed multiple areas of her life — including healing childhood wounds, body acceptance, and getting comfortable with visibility.Full episode with Jessamyn: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/e814d362/the-body-positivity-movement-whats-working-vs-whats-not-with-jessamyn-stanleyYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 23, 2024 • 56min
20+ Years Thriving With Stage IV Cancer with Kris Carr
Delanie Fischer is joined by New York Times bestselling author and wellness leader, Kris Carr, to discuss her experience thriving with stage IV cancer for over 20 years. Kris shares about the moment she received her diagnosis, how long she was given to live, and how it changed the course of her life — including her health, relationships, and career. Whether you've received a diagnosis, struggle with perfectionism around wellness, have a hard time prioritizing what matters most to you, or need a boost of courage to start something new, this episode is packed with insights.Plus:+ 2 Questions That Will Change Your Life+ A Mindset Hack To Reduce Rumination+ Kris Carr's 5 Pillars of WellnessMore episodes related to this topic:Gratitude, Presence, And Surviving Cancer (Twice) with Janet Knode: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/340285b3/gratitude-presence-and-surviving-cancer-twice-with-janet-knodeReceiving A Cancer Diagnosis with Sofiya Alexandra: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/6f93a8cd/surviving-cancer-with-sofiya-alexandraRumination: How To Break A Negative Thought Loop: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/1a24bc64/rumination-how-to-break-a-negative-thought-loopDebunking Nutrition Myths with Registered Dietician, Dr. Pamela Fergusson: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2af06551/debunking-nutrition-myths-with-registered-dietician-dr-pamela-fergusson50 Simple And Delicious Vegan Swaps: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/1f47872a/50-simple-and-delicious-vegan-swapsExploring Perfectionism with Taylor Tomlinson, Kelsey Cook, and Delanie Fischer: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/d69d8eee/exploring-perfectionism-with-taylor-tomlinson-kelsey-cook-and-delanie-fischerYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 18, 2024 • 8min
Self-Helpless Snack: Stop Being Nice In These 4 Situations ASAP (Tips From A Deputy Sheriff & Domestic Violence Survivor)
Former Deputy Sheriff, Joy Farrow, and Technologist and Domestic Violence Survivor, Laura Frombach, share how to protect yourself, and others, in everyday situations that result in high levels of crime, and which 3 simple tools you can carry to stay safe. Full episode with Joy and Laura: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/218dac18/10-simple-safety-tips-you-need-to-know-with-joy-farrow-and-laura-frombachYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 16, 2024 • 1h 5min
Craving A Healthy Relationship? Understand Your Attachment Style with Thais Gibson
Delanie Fischer is joined by best-selling author, counselor, and Attachment Theory expert, Thais Gibson. Thais breaks down the 4 different attachment styles (with some seriously juicy examples for each), and shares how fixed or flexible your attachment style is throughout your life, what differentiates an attachment style from a disorder, debunks common attachment theory misconceptions, and even gives Delanie a diagnostic of her own attachment style.Plus:+ 3 Things That Will Save Your Relationship+ Is it an Attachment Style or a Personality Disorder?+ The 4 Attachment Styles vs. The 5 Love LanguagesMore episodes related to this topic:7 Shocking Truths About Codependency And Addiction with Heidi Rain: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/24c74079/7-shocking-truths-about-codependency-and-addiction-with-heidi-rain6 Steps To Break A Toxic Relationship Pattern with Justine Carino: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/1a75687c/6-steps-to-break-a-toxic-relationship-pattern-with-justine-carinoThe 4 Intimacy Styles with Dr. Viviana Coles: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2f3f2d2c/the-4-intimacy-styles-with-dr-viviana-colesHow Being Children of Divorce Has Influenced Our Relationships: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/1c146b94/how-being-children-of-divorce-has-influenced-our-relationshipsAttachment Styles with Jessica Michelle Singleton: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/1c815b8a/attachment-styles-with-jessica-michelle-singletonThe 4 Attachment Styles (And Our Quiz Results): https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2283b7fd/the-4-attachment-styles-and-our-quiz-resultsYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 11, 2024 • 6min
Self-Helpless Snack: 5 Things That Can Help You Quit Smoking For Good
Creator of Zen Habits, Leo Babauta, shares how he finally quit smoking 20 years ago after 7 unsuccessful attempts, and the 5 practical things he did differently to make it stick for good.Full episode with Leo: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/39ed9a59/1-new-habit-can-change-your-entire-life-with-leo-babautaYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 9, 2024 • 1h 6min
Creating A Life Brief And Getting "Fuzzy Clear" with Bonnie Wan
Delanie Fischer is joined by Bonnie Wan, author of The Life Brief: A Playbook For No-Regrets Living. They discuss Bonnie's 3-part Life Brief process (inspired by the professional concept of a creative brief) for gaining clarity and implementing small, but mighty, action during times of transition. Whether you're on the brink of burnout, stuck in indecision, or feel ready for a pivot, this episode will inspire you to start your own Life Brief and generate creative solutions that make the biggest impact. Plus:+ The 3 Phases of The Life Brief Process+ How To Get "Fuzzy Clear" When You Feel Stuck+ 1 Simple Exercise That Uncovers Your Biggest ValuesMore episodes related to this topic:Let's Define What Enough Means To YOU: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/20310cb2/lets-define-what-enough-means-to-youMini Habits by Stephen Guise: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/21d7febe/mini-habits-by-stephen-guiseSelf-Helpless Snack: How To Let Your Ideal Lifestyle Inspire Your Next Step with Olivia Mulford: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/24291d42/self-helpless-snack-how-to-let-your-ideal-lifestyle-inspire-your-next-step-with-olivia-mulfordAtomic Habits by James Clear: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/24bc636e/atomic-habits-by-james-clear10 Tips For Applying Minimalism To Your Space And Schedule: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/256a652b/10-tips-for-applying-minimalism-to-your-space-and-scheduleThe 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/33b48b31/the-7-habits-of-highly-effective-people-by-stephen-r-coveyYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 4, 2024 • 5min
Self-Helpless Snack: This Analogy Simplifies The Stock Market (+ 3 Awesome Investing Tips!)
Personal finance expert and self-made millionaire, Delyanne, simplifies the stock market, investing, debt, and building wealth — in under 5 minutes.Full episode with Delyanne: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/1f2d8edd/how-to-build-wealth-with-delyanne-the-money-coachYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 2, 2024 • 1h 9min
Waking Up With Amnesia, Unsolved Mysteries, And Life With Uncertainty with Olly Dove
Delanie Fischer is joined by Olly Dove, who shares about a series of traumatic experiences — including waking up in the hospital with amnesia due to a mysterious seizure. She describes how these experiences impacted her OCD, relationships, and outlook on life. Plus, what's kept her grounded through fear and uncertainty, and how she's been able to accomplish big academic and athletic goals along the way. This episode is part of our summer series, "Subscriber Stories."Plus:+ 1 Story Olly Tells Herself To Reduce Anxiety+ Olly's Favorite Quote For Tough Days+ 3 Things That Are Helping Her HealMore episodes related to this topic:Living With Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) with Cy Amundson: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/219d26ec/living-with-obsessive-compulsive-disorder-ocd-with-cy-amundsonOCD and Overcoming Fear with Brian Regan: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/d79d56c0/ocd-and-overcoming-fear-with-brian-reganPost-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) with Licensed Therapist, Nadirah Habeebullah: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/327baacc/post-traumatic-stress-disorder-ptsd-with-licensed-therapist-nadirah-habeebullah15 Tips For Managing Stage Fright In Work And Life with Em Schulz and Delanie Fischer: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/21e3bc9e/15-tips-for-managing-stage-fright-in-work-and-life-with-em-schulz-and-delanie-fischerYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.