
Self-Helpless
Described as "an unfiltered thera-brunch with your best friends" where we can have "light conversations about heavy sh*t," Self-Helpless candidly explores the highs, lows, and in-betweens of personal growth—with a strong emphasis on everyday activism. Featuring a variety of specialists, public figures, and subscribers, the show garners millions of downloads, frequents the top Apple & Spotify charts, and has been featured on Conan and The Tonight Show. If you're interested in conscious consumption, holistic health, creativity, purpose—basically trying to figure out wtf we're all doing here and how to make the most of it, you'll be into Self-Helpless. Past guests include: Tan France, Michael Buble,' Rachel Rodgers, Pete Holmes, Dr. Ramani, Ed Winters, Kati Morton, Preacher Lawson, Kris Carr, Jessamyn Stanley, Freddie Prinze Jr., Rachel Ricketts, Nikki Glaser, Sonya Renee Taylor, Amie McNee, and more.Hosted by Delanie Fischer, Co-Author of MockTales, Creative Activist, and resident homebody, Self-Helpless has 400+ episodes to browse including a hot combo of long-form and minis ("Self-Helpless Snacks")—integrating guests, solo deep-dives, and even life hacks from extra cool and qualified people like Delanie's dad. New episode every Monday!
Latest episodes

Aug 28, 2024 • 8min
Self-Helpless Snack: The #1 Thing To Notice About Your Dreams Tonight (And The Shocking Link Between Depression And Dreaming)
Integrative Mental Health Specialist and Dreamworker, Claudia Barfoot, shares why we dream, what they're trying to tell us, how to remember and leverage your dreams to benefit your waking state, and the shocking link between dreaming and depression. Full episode with Claudia: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2078ac9f/the-importance-of-your-dreams-literally-with-claudia-barfootYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 26, 2024 • 48min
The Reality Behind Reality TV with Renee Ash of Peacock's Love Undercover: Online Critics, Public Heartbreak, And Personal Growth
Delanie Fischer is joined by Renee Ash, TV personality from Peacock's Love Undercover, to discuss her experience as a cast member, and all that comes with it -- including visibility, online criticism, public heartbreak, personal growth, and more. Plus, the inside scoop on how a production like this operates! Whether you're a fan of reality shows, you're going through a break-up, or you're navigating some criticism, this episode has helpful tips, insights, and fun takeaways. Plus:+ 2 Ways To Filter Online Criticism To Help You Process+ Renee's Favorite (And Least Favorite) Quotes+ What Public Heartbreak Has Taught Her MostMore Self-Helpless episodes related to this topic:Self Expression with Queer Eye's Tan France: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2263ab7f/self-expression-with-tan-franceThe 4 Intimacy Styles with Dr. Viviana Coles of Married At First Sight: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2f3f2d2c/the-4-intimacy-styles-with-dr-viviana-colesYour Burning Relationship Questions Answered with Rachel DeAlto of MAFS: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/3f1ddb9c/your-burning-relationship-questions-answered-with-rachel-dealtoYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 21, 2024 • 5min
Self-Helpless Snack: Former Adult Film Star Jessie Rogers on How To Protect Yourself From Manipulation In The Industry
Ex porn star, Jessie Rogers, shares what she wishes she knew before she got into the adult entertainment industry, misconceptions people have about adult film actors, and what new entertainers should consider before getting involved.Full episode with Jessie: https://podcasts.apple.com/il/podcast/ex-porn-star-jessie-rogers/id1251196416?i=1000513934034You can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 19, 2024 • 1h 2min
Burnout, A Breakdown, And Beginning Again with Jessica Gemme
Delanie Fischer is joined by Jessica Gemme, who shares a variety of her personal experience as a former educator including being a substitute teacher, paraprofessional, running her own classroom, assisting kids with special needs, teaching history to research and technology, and working in inner city and rural schools. She opens up about the pressures she felt, safety concerns, her workload, hitting major burnout, and gives some hot tips for handling difficult behaviors in the classroom. Whether you're considering (or have) a career in education, are struggling in your current job, or you're overwhelmed with personal stuff, this episode offers insights and solidarity. This ep. is part of our summer series, "Subscriber Stories."Plus:+ Practicing Post-Burnout Self-Care+ Breaking out of The Comparison Trap+ 5 Awesome Insider Tips for EducatorsMore episodes related to this topic:Hurry Sickness And The Busy Brain Cure with Dr. Romie Mushtaq: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/243d15fa/hurry-sickness-and-the-busy-brain-cure-with-dr-romie-mushtaqDepression, Antidepressants, and Burnout: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/22cc22cb/depression-antidepressants-and-burnoutSigns And Symptoms of Creator Burnout (Plus, Some Hot Tips!): https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/5112ba1f/signs-and-symptoms-of-creator-burnout-plus-some-hot-tipsHitting Burnout with Taylor Tomlinson, Kelsey Cook, and Delanie Fischer: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/29322712/hitting-burnout-with-taylor-tomlinson-kelsey-cook-and-delanie-fischerYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 14, 2024 • 15min
Self-Helpless Snack: 3 Ways To Manage Thanatophobia (Fear of Death) with Meditation Teacher, Kelvin Chin
Kelvin Chin, meditation teacher and founder of Overcoming The Fear of Death Foundation, shares methods for reducing both short-term and long-term death anxiety, expanding consciousness, and feeling less fearful and more present in your daily life. Full episode with Kelvin: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/overcoming-the-fear-of-death/id1251196416?i=1000563287770You can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 12, 2024 • 59min
10 Fertility Myths Debunked with OBGYN and Fertility Doctor Natalie Crawford, MD
Delanie Fischer is joined by Dr. Natalie Crawford, who is a board-certified OBGYN and fertility physician. Dr. Natalie is debunking the myths, misconceptions, and outdated "hacks" that surround the fertility conversation — touching on everything from sex positions and frequency, contraception, c-sections, secondary infertility, pregnancy loss, and so much more. Whether your desire is to conceive, or not, this episode is jam-packed with invaluable information about human health that will empower you to make the best choice for yourself, become your greatest advocate, and feel supported in whatever decision you make.Plus:+ A HUGE Birth Control Pill Myth Debunked+ What's The Deal With Age 35 And Female Fertility?+ 1 Question To Ask Your Doctor When Stuck In IndecisionMore episodes related to this topic:Matrescence: Caring For Yourself During Pregnancy, Childbirth, and Beyond with Dr. Sarah Oreck: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/29bc38a6/matrescence-caring-for-yourself-during-pregnancy-childbirth-and-beyond-with-dr-sarah-oreckUTIs, Interstitial Cystitis, and Pelvic Floor Dysfunction with Dr. Rena Malik: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/1c573a89/utis-interstitial-cystitis-and-pelvic-floor-dysfunction-with-dr-rena-malikIMOMSOHARD with Kristin Hensley and Jen Smedley: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2410683d/imomsohard-with-kristin-hensley-and-jen-smedley3 Moms of Newborns Tell All: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/317ab0f6/3-moms-of-newborns-tell-allMy Experience With Postpartum Depression with Jessi Selleh: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/fda9b0f6/postpartum-depression-with-jessi-sellehHow To Adopt A Child with Adoption Lawyer, Lucrece Bundy: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2dc4b6b4/how-to-adopt-a-child-with-adoption-lawyer-lucrece-bundyYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 7, 2024 • 8min
Self-Helpless Snack: 3 Big Misconceptions About Adopting A Child with Adoption Attorney, Lucrece Bundy
Adoption Attorney, Lucrece Bundy, is sharing the 3 biggest misconceptions about adopting a child — including finances, trauma, and how long adoption takes. Whether you're curious about adopting, or you're amidst the process, this episode provides awesome tips for saving time and money, avoiding scams, and ensuring you've selected the right kind of adoption for you.Full episode with Lucrece: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2dc4b6b4/how-to-adopt-a-child-with-adoption-lawyer-lucrece-bundyYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 5, 2024 • 53min
Get Unstuck And Think Globally: Tips For Living, Working, And Traveling Abroad with Will Mulford
Delanie Fischer is joined by her brother-in-law and someone with 15 years of experience living, traveling, and working abroad, Will Mulford. Will offers guidance for anyone who is considering an international stint, or move, what tools, apps, and programs make travel easier, affordable (and even free!), tips for packing (and purchasing) light without depriving yourself, and the impact that this lifestyle has had on his confidence, relationships, and what it's taught him about himself. Whether you want to make a move, or simply have a new experience, there are so many great nuggets in this episode for how we can become more open, and available, for opportunities and growth. This ep. is part of our summer series, "Subscriber Stories."Plus:+ Platforms For Traveling With More Ease+ Will's Favorite Packing Method And Functional Souvenirs+ 3 Must-Have Outfits For A Small SuitcaseYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 31, 2024 • 15min
Self-Helpless Snack: Delanie's 3-Step Minimalist Skincare Regimen (Vegan and Cruelty-Free)
Delanie Fischer is sharing her simple skincare regimen, what she doesn't put on her skin, and the products and brands she uses and trusts — including the biggest secret ingredient in her routine that will truly shock you to your very core. Plus, what she wishes she could go back in time 20 years and do to treat her acne instead of 2 rounds of Accutane. These tips are for anyone who is tired of skincare products that have 200 ingredients we can't pronounce, shady brands who are sourcing their shit unethically, and for those who want to get to the root of their skin issues holistically vs. pumping chemicals into their bods.You can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 29, 2024 • 1h 53min
Diagnosed Narcissist (Lee Hammock) and Clinical Psychologist (Dr. Ramani) Offer Insights Into Manipulation And Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)
Delanie Fischer is sharing an epic mashup with you today. In the first half of the episode you'll hear from clinical psychologist, Dr. Ramani Durvasula, who provides an overview of narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder — the different types, signs and symptoms, definitions of popular buzzwords, etc., and you'll hear from Lee Hammock in the second half of the episode, who is a self-aware narcissist with a clinical diagnosis of NPD. Lee shares what it's like to live with this disorder, the whys behind his behaviors, and guidance for people who are in relationship with someone like him. This episode supports, and destigmatizes, those who have been impacted by this disorder.Plus:+ A Breakdown of The 8 Types of Narcissism+ The Root Cause of Narcissism and NPD+ How To Stop A Toxic Relationship PatternMore episodes related to this topic:The Impact of Gaslighting with Dr. Sarkis: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-psychological-impact-of-gaslighting-with/id1251196416?i=1000528606106Living with Borderline Personality Disorder Featuring Chris: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/26123a37/living-with-borderline-personality-disorder-featuring-chrisLiving with Narcissistic Personality Disorder with Lee Hammock: https://podcasts.apple.com/pk/podcast/living-with-narcissistic-personality-disorder-with/id1251196416?i=1000519855834Demystifying Borderline Personality Disorder with Dr. Ramani: https://podcasts.apple.com/lu/podcast/demystifying-borderline-personality-disorder/id1251196416?i=1000581362476Narcissism and NPD with Dr. Ramani: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/narcissism-and-narcissistic-personality-disorder-with/id1251196416?i=1000514861059How To Heal From Narcissistic Relationships with Dr. Ramani: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/how-to-heal-from-narcissistic-relationships-with-dr/id1251196416?i=1000647934771You can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.