
Self-Helpless
Described as "an unfiltered thera-brunch with your best friends" where we can have "light conversations about heavy sh*t," Self-Helpless candidly explores the highs, lows, and in-betweens of personal growth—with a strong emphasis on everyday activism. Featuring a variety of specialists, public figures, and subscribers, the show garners millions of downloads, frequents the top Apple & Spotify charts, and has been featured on Conan and The Tonight Show. If you're interested in conscious consumption, holistic health, creativity, purpose—basically trying to figure out wtf we're all doing here and how to make the most of it, you'll be into Self-Helpless. Past guests include: Tan France, Michael Buble,' Rachel Rodgers, Pete Holmes, Dr. Ramani, Ed Winters, Kati Morton, Preacher Lawson, Kris Carr, Jessamyn Stanley, Freddie Prinze Jr., Rachel Ricketts, Nikki Glaser, Sonya Renee Taylor, Amie McNee, and more.Hosted by Delanie Fischer, Co-Author of MockTales, Creative Activist, and resident homebody, Self-Helpless has 400+ episodes to browse including a hot combo of long-form and minis ("Self-Helpless Snacks")—integrating guests, solo deep-dives, and even life hacks from extra cool and qualified people like Delanie's dad. New episode every Monday!
Latest episodes

Nov 16, 2020 • 57min
4 Powerful Questions with Mike Birbiglia
The girls are joined by comedian, Mike Birbiglia. Mike shares some hot tips from his favorite self-help book, how he tends to his mental health, and some wild stories about his career. Plus, find out Mike's mindset hack for feeling pretty good about your day-to-day.
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Nov 2, 2020 • 51min
9 Habits That Have Changed Our Lives
The girls discuss habits they wish they had vs. habits they actually have. They share self-care practices they're currently implementing daily, things they do less frequently, and what they've actually been able to stick to long-term. If you're curious about everything from how to drink more water to how to say no to sh*t you don't want to do, this episode is for you. Plus, find out who left a tupperware in her sink for so long that it grew its own ecosystem.
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Oct 26, 2020 • 1h 10min
Self Help Me with Liz Miele
The girls are joined by comedian, Liz Miele. Liz opens up about her rock bottom, finding the silver lining in failure, and how she took charge of her mental health and career.
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Oct 19, 2020 • 55min
IMOMSOHARD with Kristin Hensley and Jen Smedley
Delanie, Kelsey, and Taylor are joined by the comedy duo and hosts of The #IMOMSOHARD podcast, Kristin Hensley and Jen Smedley. Kristin and Jen share what they wish they would've known before having kids, biggest differences in how they spend their time, how parenthood has impacted their perfectionism and identity, and the societal pressures women experience regarding motherhood. And of course it wouldn't be a normal episode without a little nipple hair talk - so there's that too!
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Oct 12, 2020 • 1h 10min
9 Things We Wish We Knew in High School
Taylor Tomlinson, Kelsey Cook, and Delanie Fischer reflect on their high school experience, and reveal 9 things they wish they could tell their high school selves. They discuss the ways those years shaped who they are today, the biggest lessons they learned, and how some of the shittiest moments turned out to be the greatest gifts. Find out who faked their way through 3 years of marching band, why one of them was forced into homeschooling, and who actually LOVED high school (I know, nuts right?).
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Oct 5, 2020 • 1h 7min
Pursuit of Happiness with Ravi Patel
The girls are joined by comedian, Ravi Patel. They discuss navigating boundaries with family, marriage, reinventing yourself after a breakup, and how relationships change as you get older.
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Sep 28, 2020 • 48min
Netflix Documentary Discussion: The Social Dilemma
Taylor, Kelsey, and Delanie discuss the fascinating Netflix documentary, "The Social Dilemma." The documentary features tech experts who reveal the manipulative mechanisms behind social media platforms, how it affects human behavior, and what we can do about it. The girls also discuss their personal relationship with social media - everything from pressures of having hundreds of thousands of followers to leaving social media completely.
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Sep 21, 2020 • 59min
And That's Why We Drink with Em Schulz and Christine Schiefer
The girls are joined by, Em Schulz and Christine Schiefer, from the hit paranormal and true crime podcast, And That's Why We Drink. They discuss their experience with therapy, communicating with ghosts, and how they decompress amidst ingesting heavy information for their show. Have you ever taught a ghost how to use an iPhone? Em has. Give it a listen!
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Sep 14, 2020 • 54min
People-Pleasing with Taylor Tomlinson, Kelsey Cook, and Delanie Fischer
The girls are learning about people-pleasing this week, and oh boy do they feel called out. They share signs of people-pleasing, tips for preventing burnout and resentment, and open up about the origins of their own people-pleasing tendencies. Plus, SO many good quotes in this episode.
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Aug 31, 2020 • 1h 20min
Self-Expression with Tan France
The girls are joined by fashion designer and Queer Eye's, Tan France. Tan shares how his love for fashion was born, booking Queer Eye (and being scared sh*tless about it), his self-care practices, handling criticism, and so much more. He also dishes out a hot tip that will set you up for success every morning in under 2 minutes!
For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless
Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com
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Taylor: https://ttomcomedy.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.