
Self-Helpless
Described as "an unfiltered thera-brunch with your best friends" where we can have "light conversations about heavy sh*t," Self-Helpless candidly explores the highs, lows, and in-betweens of personal growth—with a strong emphasis on everyday activism. Featuring a variety of specialists, public figures, and subscribers, the show garners millions of downloads, frequents the top Apple & Spotify charts, and has been featured on Conan and The Tonight Show. If you're interested in conscious consumption, holistic health, creativity, purpose—basically trying to figure out wtf we're all doing here and how to make the most of it, you'll be into Self-Helpless. Past guests include: Tan France, Michael Buble,' Rachel Rodgers, Pete Holmes, Dr. Ramani, Ed Winters, Kati Morton, Preacher Lawson, Kris Carr, Jessamyn Stanley, Freddie Prinze Jr., Rachel Ricketts, Nikki Glaser, Sonya Renee Taylor, Amie McNee, and more.Hosted by Delanie Fischer, Co-Author of MockTales, Creative Activist, and resident homebody, Self-Helpless has 400+ episodes to browse including a hot combo of long-form and minis ("Self-Helpless Snacks")—integrating guests, solo deep-dives, and even life hacks from extra cool and qualified people like Delanie's dad. New episode every Monday!
Latest episodes

Aug 17, 2020 • 50min
Our Favorite Time Management Hacks
Taylor Tomlinson, Kelsey Cook, and Delanie Fischer discuss all things time management this week. They share their favorite hacks, surprising stats, what's really behind procrastination, and lots more.
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Aug 10, 2020 • 59min
Instagram vs Reality
Taylor Tomlinson, Kelsey Cook, and Delanie Fischer share some photos they've posted on Instagram in the past, and what was going on in their lives at the time the photos were posted. They reveal the insecurities these pictures were trying to mask regarding relationships, breakups, career choices, body image, and more. If you're looking for an episode that's equal parts embarrassing, healing, and encouraging, this one's for you! Hashtag yikes.
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Aug 3, 2020 • 53min
Spiritual Activism with Racial Justice Educator, Rachel Ricketts
The girls are joined by racial justice educator, Rachel Ricketts. Rachel shares about her experience as a lawyer, what led to her calling, and provides some of the information that's available in her Spiritual Activism 101 webinar. Check out Rachel's work and join her newsletter at rachelricketts.com.
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Jul 27, 2020 • 57min
The 4 Attachment Styles (And Our Quiz Results)
This week, the girls discuss attachment theory. They take an attachment style quiz, break down the 4 attachment styles, and share the perceived origins behind their own styles. Plus, Taylor and Delanie quiz their partners to get their attachment style results, and Kelsey shares some exciting news!
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Jul 20, 2020 • 1h 49min
Glowing-Up with Whitney Cummings
The hosts are joined by comedian, Whitney Cummings. Grab your notebooks for this one because it's jam-packed with nuggets of wisdom. Whitney shares tips for managing your finances, navigating toxic relationships, tools she learned in her 12-step program, and even reveals her skincare secrets. Warning: you'll probably want to tattoo most of these takeaways somewhere on your body.
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Jul 13, 2020 • 51min
Year of Yes by Shonda Rhimes
The hosts discuss, "Year of Yes," by Shonda Rhimes. This book documents 1 year of Shonda’s life saying “yes” to everything that scared her (as an introvert!). The girls also describe the steps they’re taking in their own lives to experience more balance.
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Jul 6, 2020 • 1h 14min
Let's Play 21 Questions!
As requested by listeners, this week the girls are asking 21 questions that they’ve never asked each other before. They discuss everything from biggest regrets, how they’d spend $1,000, most ridiculous arguments they’ve had, and what roles they’d play in a zombie apocalypse. Plus, a pretty gross habit is revealed by one of them.
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Jun 29, 2020 • 52min
Unfinished Business with Jackie Fabulous
The hosts are joined by comedian, Jackie Fabulous. Jackie shares about her transition from law to comedy, her new-but-not-so-new relationship, and her favorite self-care practices. Plus, Jackie reveals something she's studying for that may come as a big surprise to her fans!
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Jun 22, 2020 • 47min
How Quarantine's Changed Us
The girls discuss what they've learned about themselves during quarantine, how their perspectives have changed, and what they'll be doing differently moving forward.
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Jun 15, 2020 • 30min
What's Most Important with Michael Bublé
The girls are joined by four-time Grammy Award winning singer, songwriter, and record producer, Michael Bublé. They discuss performance and creativity during quarantine, Michael shares stories about homeschooling his kids, and of course there is a fair amount of fangirling. We are proud to report that nobody passed out during this interview.
For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless
Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com
Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.com
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