
Self-Helpless
Described as "an unfiltered thera-brunch with your best friends" where we can have "light conversations about heavy sh*t," Self-Helpless candidly explores the highs, lows, and in-betweens of personal growth—with a strong emphasis on everyday activism. Featuring a variety of specialists, public figures, and subscribers, the show garners millions of downloads, frequents the top Apple & Spotify charts, and has been featured on Conan and The Tonight Show. If you're interested in conscious consumption, holistic health, creativity, purpose—basically trying to figure out wtf we're all doing here and how to make the most of it, you'll be into Self-Helpless. Past guests include: Tan France, Michael Buble,' Rachel Rodgers, Pete Holmes, Dr. Ramani, Ed Winters, Kati Morton, Preacher Lawson, Kris Carr, Jessamyn Stanley, Freddie Prinze Jr., Rachel Ricketts, Nikki Glaser, Sonya Renee Taylor, Amie McNee, and more.Hosted by Delanie Fischer, Co-Author of MockTales, Creative Activist, and resident homebody, Self-Helpless has 400+ episodes to browse including a hot combo of long-form and minis ("Self-Helpless Snacks")—integrating guests, solo deep-dives, and even life hacks from extra cool and qualified people like Delanie's dad. New episode every Monday!
Latest episodes

Jan 25, 2021 • 1h 9min
200th Episode! Q & A with Taylor Tomlinson, Kelsey Cook, and Delanie Fischer
The girls are celebrating 200 episodes of Self-Helpless with a Q & A! They're answering your questions about their first impressions of each other, the best purchases they've ever made, weirdest habits, biggest "oh shit" moments as a group, jokes they're most proud of, and much more! Plus, they have the honor of naming a subscriber's BABY. Thank you for tuning in, celebrating with us, and reflecting on years of growth!
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Jan 18, 2021 • 55min
Managing Impostor Syndrome with Taylor, Kelsey, and Delanie
The girls are talking impostor syndrome - the different types, their most recent encounters with it, and tips for coping. Plus, some of their personal strategies for combatting career-related impostor syndrome.
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Jan 11, 2021 • 59min
Our Favorite Tips For More Self-Love
The girls are discussing all things self-love, and offering tips for building a daily practice around it. Plus, some of their favorite, unconventional techniques for taking better care of themselves.
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Jan 4, 2021 • 1h 17min
Raising Kids Without Social Media with Dustin Nickerson
The girls are joined by comedian, Dustin Nickerson. Dustin shares what parenting's been like during quarantine, the negative impact of social media on kids, and the secret to his 20-year marriage. The girls also describe their current love-hate relationship with social media.
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Dec 28, 2020 • 48min
Goodbye 2020: End of Year Wrap Up
Join the girls for an end of year reflection as they share what they learned this year, their hopes for the future, and what changes they're making as we move into 2021. Plus, resolutions they didn't keep, which binge-able shows provided a much-needed escape for them this year, and some overall gratitude amidst the chaos.
For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless
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Dec 21, 2020 • 1h 6min
Mini Habits by Stephen Guise
The hosts discuss, "Mini Habits," by Stephen Guise. This book shares why starting small can lead to big results, how to leverage our core motivations to achieve goals, and a variety of ways to experience massive growth. Plus, the girls' favorite tips for tricking their minds into better self-care.
For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless
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Dec 14, 2020 • 1h 5min
Working The 12 Steps with Amanda Hill
The girls are joined by 12 step advocate, Amanda Hill. Amanda shares her story of sobriety by walking us through her experience with a 12 step program, explaining the difference between rock-bottom vs. high-bottom, and how the decision to get sober has affected her health and relationships. Lots of juicy nuggets in this episode everyone can benefit from!
For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless
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Dec 7, 2020 • 1h 2min
Coping With Social Anxiety
The hosts are discussing social anxiety. They share hilarious (and traumatic) moments when their anxiety got the best of them - from puberty, social media, to live performances, as well as offer some personal tips for managing this kind of anxiety including, "the anti-spiral list."
For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless
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Nov 30, 2020 • 54min
Feeling Pressured with Aubrie McCarthy
The girls are joined by social worker and therapist, Aubrie McCarthy. They're discussing pressure - societal, career, and relationships. Aubrie also opens up about the pressure she faces as a mental health professional, and even shares what visits with her own therapist feel like!
For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless
Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com
Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.com
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Nov 23, 2020 • 1h 6min
The Impact Teachers Have Had On Our Lives
The girls discuss the impact their teachers have had on their lives - the good, the great, the bad, and the creepy. They also share what kind of students they were, their preferred learning styles, and the most memorable moments of their academic career. Plus, some seriously shocking stories.
For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless
Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com
Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.com
Taylor: https://ttomcomedy.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.