Self-Helpless
Crossover Media Group
Self-care with a conscience for everyday activists, but ya know, fun.Described by fans as "light conversations about heavy sh*t," Self-Helpless candidly explores all things (ethical) personal growth and practical activism—alright, with the occasional episode about Delanie's favorite sweet, sweet treats. Featuring a variety of changemakers including specialists, public figures, and subscribers, the show aims to close the gap between one-dimensional self-help and advocacy. Self-Helpless garners millions of downloads, frequents the top Apple & Spotify charts, and has been featured on Conan and The Tonight Show. Past guests include: Tan France, Michael Buble,' Rachel Rodgers, Pete Holmes, Dr. Ramani, Ed Winters, Kati Morton, Preacher Lawson, Kris Carr, Jessamyn Stanley, Freddie Prinze Jr., Rachel Ricketts, Nikki Glaser, Sonya Renee Taylor, Amie McNee, Babette Davis, and more.Hosted by resident homebody Delanie Fischer, co-author of MockTales, Comedy Writer, and Creative Activist, themes include conscious consumption, holistic health, cognitive neuroscience, exploring social conditioning, creativity, spirituality, and purpose. Fischer's recognized by listeners for her sharp, organic, and fluff-free hosting style that skips the small talk and gets to the substance we crave.New episode every Monday!
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Mar 22, 2021 • 50min
What I Wish People Knew About Sex Work with Ex-Porn Star Jessie Rogers
*Some contents of this interview might be difficult for survivors of abuse.
The girls are joined by ex-porn star and internet personality, Jessie Rogers. Jessie shares what she wishes she knew before she got into the adult entertainment industry, misconceptions people have about sex work, what life has been like after leaving the industry, and what she encourages others to consider before becoming an adult film star. Tune in to witness the moment that Kelsey finally gets to meet her doppelgänger!
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Mar 15, 2021 • 1h 25min
Living With A Chronic Illness with Walt Drennan
We're joined by host of The Ask Me About My Type 1 Podcast and rider from the documentary, Bike Beyond, Walt Drennan. Walt shares his experience living with Type 1, the events that led to his diagnosis, what biking across the country taught him, issues around the accessibility of insulin, and the life-threatening experience he had recently. We also discuss ableism and what people without disabilities can do to best support people with disabilities.
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Mar 8, 2021 • 42min
The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
The hosts discuss, "The Power of Now," by Eckhart Tolle. The book offers guidance on how to be more present in our day-to-day, why observing our thoughts, surroundings, and interactions with a fresh lens is important, and how getting out of our head and tuning in to our body can help us connect with our true nature. Plus, personal experiences about presence, anxiety, and spirituality in their daily lives.
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Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com
Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Mar 1, 2021 • 55min
Releasing Shame Around Desire with Jessica Parra-Fitch
We're joined by sex educator and intimacy coach, Jessica Parra-Fitch. We discuss shame, desire, pleasure, consent, turn-ons, purity culture, asexuality, orgasms, and self-intimacy as a form of activism. Tune into this episode, and your pleasure (wink)!
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Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Feb 22, 2021 • 56min
When Your Life Is Public
The girls discuss their experience with navigating visibility. They discuss the pros and cons of a public career, touch on the Britney Spears documentary and Oprah’s statements about living in the public eye, and share what they’ve learned as their lives have gone from private to more on display.
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Feb 18, 2021 • 48min
Introvert, Extrovert, or Ambivert?
The girls are discussing the differences between introversion and extroversion. They share some surprising facts, bust some myths, and determine where they think they fall on the spectrum. Find out whether you’re an introvert, extrovert, or ambivert!
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Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com
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Feb 15, 2021 • 57min
Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix
The girls discuss, "Getting The Love You Want," by Harville Hendrix. The book offers insight into what we look for in a partner and why, how to effectively navigate conflict, and why self-love and self-awareness are vital to a successful partnership. They also share personal experiences about what they’ve been attracted to, and turned off by, in past relationships.
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Taylor: https://ttomcomedy.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Feb 1, 2021 • 51min
Q & A Part 2: Taylor Tomlinson, Kelsey Cook, and Delanie Fischer
Join the girls for the 2nd part of their 200th episode celebration where they're answering your questions about favorite first date ideas, the worst place they've crapped their pants, things they dislike most about themselves, and current goals. Plus, the one who would definitely be the last to survive a zombie apocalypse!
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Jan 25, 2021 • 1h 9min
200th Episode! Q & A with Taylor Tomlinson, Kelsey Cook, and Delanie Fischer
The girls are celebrating 200 episodes of Self-Helpless with a Q & A! They're answering your questions about their first impressions of each other, the best purchases they've ever made, weirdest habits, biggest "oh shit" moments as a group, jokes they're most proud of, and much more! Plus, they have the honor of naming a subscriber's BABY. Thank you for tuning in, celebrating with us, and reflecting on years of growth!
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Jan 18, 2021 • 55min
Managing Impostor Syndrome with Taylor, Kelsey, and Delanie
The girls are talking impostor syndrome - the different types, their most recent encounters with it, and tips for coping. Plus, some of their personal strategies for combatting career-related impostor syndrome.
For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless
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Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.com
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