This week, Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook are joined by Relationship Expert, Rachel DeAlto. Rachel shares the #1 most important value for any healthy relationship, your new favorite analogy involving TJ Maxx (you'll never look at shopping the same), and answers so many juicy relationship questions. Get excited for responses to questions like:  "How do you know when it’s time to call it quits? "What do you do when you're stuck in a pattern of dating the same type of person who isn't a fit?" Simple tips for success in a long-distance relationship? How do we handle one of the leading causes of breakups, separation, and divorce (MONEY)? Hot tips for virtual dating?! How can we keep the excitement going in a long-term relationship? Why do people really stay in unhappy relationships, and what can they do about it? For exclusive rewards and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week, the girls are reflecting on the greatest and hardest things they experienced in 2021. They share what they learned, how their perspectives have changed, and the ways this year has inspired next year’s intentions and resolutions. They cover relationships, career, and health - plus offer some tips for reducing stress during the holiday season! For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week, we are joined by consent educator and founder of Comprehensive Consent, Sarah Casper. Sarah shares how we can practice consent daily in our relationships, offers tips for communicating our desires and needs (plus specific tips for people-pleasers!), how social media has impacted the discussion around consent, and even the role that approval and popularity play. Plus, some consent exercises you can do today with the kids and adults in your lives! For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week, we're joined by craniosacral therapist and registered nurse, Joey Miller. Joey explains the science behind craniosacral therapy, how the body responds to it, and some potential results you can experience with this kind of treatment. Plus, the impact craniosacral therpay has had on Kelsey's health.  For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week, we are joined by Palliative Care Social Worker and mother, Karyn Trowbridge. Karyn shares how she navigated her grief after the loss of her daughter, how this experience changed her life - and the way she views death, and the impact it had on her marriage and other relationships. Plus, what helped Karyn cope vs. what didn’t, how others react when they find out about her loss, and her response to the question, “how many kids do you have?" For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week, Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook are joined by intimacy and relationship expert, Michaela Boehm. Michaela shares the key components of Tantra, the common misconceptions, and offers practical applications to strengthen your relationship with your partner, and yourself. Plus, the 1 area of the human body we should all be tending to A LOT more to keep things fired up in the bedroom (it’s not what you think!). For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We are joined by mental health counselor and anxiety expert, Justine Carino. Justine breaks down, step-by-step, the 6 phases we must go through to break a toxic relationship pattern (and make it stick). Whether you’re experiencing toxicity with a romantic partner, family member, friend, coworker - or anyone else, this episode provides the tips and tools you need in order to be hyper-aware, establish and practice new boundaries, and become the healthiest version of yourself. Plus, find out how anxiety plays a role in perpetuating destructive patterns. For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.com  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Kelsey Cook and Delanie Fischer are joined by their former co-host (and recurring guest), Taylor Tomlinson! Taylor offers her favorite tips for long-distance relationships, and shares her personal experience. Plus, the #1 reason why some long-distance relationships fail. For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.com”.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook are discussing, "The Body Keeps the Score," by Bessel van der Kolk. The book describes how the body and mind react to trauma, shares essential tools for healing and recovery, and breaks down the differences between normal memories and traumatic ones. Plus, the girls share some personal experiences - including recent losses and strengthening their gut instinct.  For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook are discussing self-doubt. They share the negative behaviors that can be associated with self-doubt (one of these is SHOCKING), different ways to manage these feelings, and their personal go-to tips for when self-doubt creeps into their lives. Plus, enjoy a quotable buffet that’ll get you fired up! For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.