
Self-Helpless
Described as "an unfiltered thera-brunch with your best friends" where we can have "light conversations about heavy sh*t," Self-Helpless candidly explores the highs, lows, and in-betweens of personal growth—with a strong emphasis on everyday activism. Featuring a variety of specialists, public figures, and subscribers, the show garners millions of downloads, frequents the top Apple & Spotify charts, and has been featured on Conan and The Tonight Show. If you're interested in conscious consumption, holistic health, creativity, purpose—basically trying to figure out wtf we're all doing here and how to make the most of it, you'll be into Self-Helpless. Past guests include: Tan France, Michael Buble,' Rachel Rodgers, Pete Holmes, Dr. Ramani, Ed Winters, Kati Morton, Preacher Lawson, Kris Carr, Jessamyn Stanley, Freddie Prinze Jr., Rachel Ricketts, Nikki Glaser, Sonya Renee Taylor, Amie McNee, and more.Hosted by Delanie Fischer, Co-Author of MockTales, Creative Activist, and resident homebody, Self-Helpless has 400+ episodes to browse including a hot combo of long-form and minis ("Self-Helpless Snacks")—integrating guests, solo deep-dives, and even life hacks from extra cool and qualified people like Delanie's dad. New episode every Monday!
Latest episodes

Mar 13, 2023 • 47min
10 Powerful Journal Prompts with Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook
Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook are discussing their favorite journal prompts! They share the questions that help them gain perspective holistically, what they use for daily check-ins, and the prompts that have influenced their most important life and business decisions. Tune in to put these to use in that journal of yours, or simply ask yourself the questions if journaling isn’t really your thing!
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Mar 6, 2023 • 1h 3min
Is it Anxiety or Generalized Anxiety Disorder? with Dr. Luana Marquez
Delanie and Kelsey are joined by Associate Professor of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School and former President of the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, Dr. Luana Marquez. Dr. Luana explains why Generalized Anxiety Disorder occurs, what options for treatment are available, offers tons of practical tips for breaking anxious thought spirals, and how GAD differs from other anxiety disorders, ADHD, and much more. Plus, some VERY eventful life updates from Delanie and Kelsey!
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Feb 27, 2023 • 55min
When A Family Member Has Dementia with Kelsey Cook
Kelsey shares her experience around her mom's dementia diagnosis. She talks about navigating unexpected life changes, caregiver burnout, and finding support during difficult times. This is an emotional one -- if you're caring for a loved one with dementia, know that you’re not alone.
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Feb 20, 2023 • 52min
Adrenal Insufficiency with Dr. Shirisha Avadhanula
We’re joined by Dr. Shirisha Avadhanula, MD to discuss adrenal insufficiency. Dr. Shirisha explains the difference between adrenal insufficiency and adrenal exhaustion, the root causes of each, signs and symptoms, as well as treatment and management options. Plus, the connection between thyroid + hormone imbalances and adrenal issues.
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Feb 13, 2023 • 1h 2min
Building A Routine With A Fluctuating Schedule with Tommy Brennan
Kelsey is joined by one of her good friends and comedian, Tommy Brennan. He talks about navigating ADHD, understanding what motivates him, and the struggles of maintaining a routine with an irregular work schedule.
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Feb 6, 2023 • 59min
What Fuels Us vs. What Drains Us with Kelsey Cook and Delanie Fischer
Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook are sharing what fuels their energy vs. what drains it -- tasks, activities, events, and the environments they enjoy most, or try to avoid at all costs. Plus, their favorite hacks for sustaining their energy throughout the week! We hope this episode inspires you to audit your own workload, tasks, and responsibilities for reduced stress and more joy.
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Jan 30, 2023 • 1h 7min
How To Create A Schedule You Love with Delanie Fischer
Delanie Fischer is providing a snapshot of what her current weekly schedule looks like, and sharing how she’s set it up to reflect her biggest values. She answers your FAQs and offers tips for freeing up time, taking real vacations as a business owner, implementing productivity methods at a day job, prioritizing what lands on your calendar, and leveraging + protecting your energy for higher-quality work and doing more of what you love most. Plus, some shocking findings from studies on happiness!
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Jan 23, 2023 • 58min
Our Top 10 Takeaways From The Netflix Documentary ‘Stutz’
Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook discuss Jonah Hill’s Netflix documentary, ‘Stutz,’ about his psychiatrist’s unique body of work. They share which of Dr. Stutz’ therapeutic tools resonated with them most, offer personal anecdotes that relate to the film, and explore the dynamic of a client / clinician relationship. They also celebrate the shocking reveal from the documentary!
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Jan 16, 2023 • 1h 11min
What’s Your Human Design? with Krystle Alfarero
Kelsey Cook and Delanie Fischer are joined by Human Design Teacher, Krystle Alfarero. Krystle shares what human design is, why it’s effective, and how to utilize it as a tool for living a more aligned life. Krystle also gives Delanie and Kelsey their unique human design readings and WOW is it eerily accurate. Plus, some shocking moments, practical tips, and seriously good vibes.
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Jan 9, 2023 • 1h 4min
Work-Life Balance, Creator Burnout, And Authenticity with Jamie Paige
This week, Kelsey fan-girled so hard because she’s joined by one of her all-time favorite YouTube beauty creators, Jamie Paige! They talk about finding work-life balance, being vulnerable on the internet, and struggling to cope with the ongoing issue of creator burnout. Plus, one of their favorite quotes!
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Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com
Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.