

The Pleasure Principles with Dr Jordin Wiggins
Dr Jordin Wiggins ND
The Pleasure Principles Podcast is where sex, science and sensuality meet. Host, Dr. Jordin Wiggins, a Naturopathic Doctor, entrepreneur, women's sexual health disruptor and author of The Pink Canary, is on a mission to revolutionize the way we deliver, educate, and talk about sexual health, wellness, and pleasure for women.
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Oct 24, 2024 • 41min
#151 - The Dark Side of Power and Control: A Conversation About Coercive Control, Gaslighting and Domestic Violence with Guest Dr. Kelly Lamoreaux
In honor of Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we are opening up in a raw conversation about domestic violence. In this episode, Jordin is joined by special guest Dr. Kelly Lamoreaux to discuss a critical but often overlooked topic: domestic violence and coercive control. Jordin and Kelly dive into the many forms abuse can take—beyond just the physical—and the emotional, financial, and psychological impacts that often go unnoticed. They address common misconceptions around domestic violence, especially among high-achieving women, and explore how even subtle forms of manipulation and gaslighting are present in many relationships. They also share their personal stories of domestic abuse. Key topics include: The different facets of domestic violence and coercive control. Personal experiences with domestic violence. How abuse can affect anyone, regardless of success or strength. Recognizing red flags in relationships and the subtle ways power dynamics play out. The importance of breaking the silence and supporting victims. How to identify and reclaim your power in your personal relationships. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, resources are available. For those in the U.S., contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). For those in Canada, call 1-800-363-9010 or visit sheltersafe.ca.

Oct 18, 2024 • 20min
#150 - Mastering Power Dynamics: The Key to Unlocking Intimacy and Connection in Your Relationship
In this episode, Jordin dives into a hidden factor that's likely draining your energy and killing your intimacy: power dynamics in relationships. As high-achieving women, we're often taught to over-function, control everything, and manage every detail in life, leaving us feeling drained, unseen, and unfulfilled in our personal relationships. While these strategies might bring success in your career, they wreak havoc on your connection, passion, and intimacy in relationship. Listen to this episode to hear more about: The invisible power dynamics at play in your intimate relationships and how they might be blocking your ability to receive love, support, and pleasure. Why being “in control” leaves you feeling powerless, disconnected, and exhausted. How to step out of “Superwoman Mode” and let your partner lead, both in and out of the bedroom. Simple shifts you can make to rebalance the power in your relationship, reignite intimacy, and experience deeper pleasure. Jordin also shares a real-life client success story: how one of the biggest over-functioners she’s ever worked with transformed her relationship—both emotionally and physically—by learning to let go and embrace her feminine energy. If you’re ready to take off the Superwoman cape, reclaim your pleasure, and build a relationship that lights you up from the inside out, this episode is a must-listen. Listen now and learn how to balance the power dynamics in your relationship for deeper connection, intimacy, and pleasure. 💗 CLICK HERE to apply for The Mentorship 💗 CLICK HERE to follow @drjordinwiggins on Instagram 💗 CLICK HERE to join Jordin’s email list

Oct 11, 2024 • 24min
#149 - “Am I Doing This Right?”: $1M Blow Jobs & 3 Game-Changing Intimacy Tips for High-Achievers
In this episode, Jordin takes a deep dive into the lives of high-achieving women (aka Superwomen) who seem to have it all together on the outside, but are often struggling with exhaustion, disconnection, and a lack of fulfillment in their personal and intimate relationships. She explores why success in your career doesn’t translate to success in intimacy and shares practical, actionable tips to shift from trying to “do it right” to game-changing intimacy with your partners. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The telltale signs of "Superwoman Syndrome" and why high-achieving women often feel empty despite their success Why your career strengths won’t bring you joy and connection in your relationships—and how to change that 3 tips to stop over-giving, reconnect with your pleasure, and bring more intimacy into your life How to stop being "good at sex" and start experiencing mind-blowing intimacy The importance of getting out of your head and into your body to experience deeper pleasure 💗 CLICK HERE to apply for The Mentorship 💗 CLICK HERE to follow @drjordinwiggins on Instagram 💗 CLICK HERE to join Jordin’s email list

Oct 4, 2024 • 20min
#148 - How To Get An Underfunctioning Man to Step Up: Mistakes High-Achieving Superwomen Make That Erode Intimacy and Connection (PART 2)
In today’s episode, Jordin dives into a question she hears all the time: “How do I get my under-functioning partner to step up?” If you’ve been holding everything together in your career and at home, constantly fixing, showing up for everyone else, and still feeling unseen, unappreciated, and exhausted, this episode is for you. Jordin explains how over-giving leads to burnout, impacts our ability to connect with our partners, and creates the very dynamic we're trying to avoid. She shares why simply communicating more or going on date nights doesn’t fix the issue, and the hard truth: half of the problem is us. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why over-functioning leads to under-functioning partners The impact of burnout on intimacy and connection How to shift from survival mode to feeling fully supported and desired Practical steps to turn your pleasure centers back on and invite deeper connection into your relationship Jordin also shares personal stories of her clients, whose partners have gone from passive to proactive, taking the lead in ways that transformed their relationships. If you’ve been giving and giving, feeling like you’re still not getting what you need, tune in to discover the real solution. 💗 CLICK HERE to apply for private coaching 💗 CLICK HERE to apply for The Mentorship 💗 CLICK HERE to follow @drjordinwiggins on Instagram

Sep 27, 2024 • 47min
BONUS EPISODE: I’ll Have What She’s Having with Kylie Larson
In today’s episode of The Pleasure Principles podcast, Jordin has an intimate chat Kylie Larson, founder of Elemental Coaching, exploring how pleasure is essential in both our personal and professional lives. The conversation begins with Kylie’s journey and her desire for a more feminine influence in her business. They delve into Kylie's unique approach to fitness and nutrition, advocating for slowing down in exercise, particularly for high-achieving women, while critiquing 'bro science' in health discussions. The episode addresses topics like perimenopause, feminine burnout, and the necessity of rest and recovery, alongside Kylie's personal pleasure practices that enhance well-being. As the conversation concludes, they highlight the significance of prioritizing pleasure, redefining what it means to feel “enough,” and introducing the idea of a 'pleasure revolution' to foster overall health and fulfillment. The episode wraps with actionable insights on seeking personal growth and the importance of feeling good in one's body. Listen now to hear more about: The importance of mindset & lifestyle in the wellness journey The importance of feeling good during workouts Fitness and wellness for perimenopausal women The art of doing less but doing it better Prioritizing pleasure for overall well-being Much more! Click here to find Kylie on Instagram!

Sep 20, 2024 • 26min
#147 - The Superwoman Trap: Traits That Get You Success in Career But Have You Feeling Stuck and Disconnected in Relationships
Are you exhausted from doing it all but still feeling unfulfilled in your relationships? In this episode, Dr. Jordin Wiggins, ND breaks down the "superwoman conditioning" that keeps high-achieving women stuck in a cycle of over-giving and burnout, even as they excel in their careers. In this episode, Jordin details how high-functioning woman are getting stuck in the "superwoman trap", exploring the 5 traits that get you massive success in career but have you feeling stuck and disconnected in relationships. Listen now to hear more about: The true definition of a "superwoman" The 5 superwoman traits leaving you stuck The toll of over-giving and feminine burnout Why your relationship feels off Practical steps to shift from survival mode to thriving Much more! 💗 CLICK HERE to apply for private coaching 💗 CLICK HERE to apply for The Mentorship 💗 CLICK HERE to follow @drjordinwiggins on Instagram

Sep 13, 2024 • 23min
#146 - Mistakes High-Achieving Superwomen Make That Erode Intimacy and Connection (PART 1)
In this episode, Jordin explores themes of fulfillment and feminine burnout, addressing issues often overlooked in traditional therapy. The episode highlights common mistakes that high-achieving women make when it comes to intimacy and their personal lives. This includes neglecting personal life for work, ineffective communication with partners, and the challenges posed by feminine burnout on relationships, intimacy, and overall health. Stay tuned for the next episode where Jordin explores strategies for shifting behaviors and rebuilding intimacy. Listen to this episode to hear more about: Fleeting Satisfaction vs. Deep Fulfillment The "Pleasure Tank" and It's Impact on Intimacy & Fulfillment Physical, Emotional and Relational Impacts of Feminine Burnout Mistakes High-Achieving Women Make in Relationships Much more! 💗 CLICK HERE to apply for private coaching 💗 CLICK HERE to apply for The Mentorship 💗 CLICK HERE to follow @drjordinwiggins on Instagram

Sep 6, 2024 • 24min
#145 - Lessons From Millionaire Women: The Fastest Way to Increase Fulfillment, Happiness, Desire & Reconnect Your Relationship
In this episode, host Jordin Wiggins addresses the challenges faced by high-achieving women who excel in their careers yet struggle in their personal lives and relationships. The episode begins by discussing alarming trends in antidepressant prescriptions among women and the feelings of exhaustion and discontent that often accompany outward success. Jordin delves into the concept of "feminine burnout" and links it to what she termed the 'pleasure problem', which highlights how societal conditioning leads women to delay their own fulfillment. To combat these issues, she provides listeners with simple daily practices to implement that will enhance their well-being and ability to receive pleasure. Tune in to hear more about: The pleasure problem Symptoms of feminine burnout Superwoman conditioning Superwoman deconditioning Simple strategies for pleasure mastery So much more! 💗 CLICK HERE to apply for The Mentorship 💗 CLICK HERE to follow @drjordinwiggins on Instagram

Aug 16, 2024 • 39min
BONUS EPISODE: I’ll Have What She’s Having with Best Selling Romance Author Giana Darling
In today’s episode of The Pleasure Principles podcast, Jordin has an intimate chat with erotic romance author Giana Darling, who shares her inspiring transition from aspiring lawyer to successful writer, emphasizing the importance of pursuing personal dreams. The discussion delves into how erotic fiction can serve as a means of exploring desire and fostering communication in pleasure, as Giana highlights her Fallen Men series and addresses themes like the reverse age gap in relationships. The conversation further explores sexual enlightenment, relationship dynamics, and the portrayal of masculine characters in her works, stressing the benefits of reading erotic fiction. Listen to this episode to hear all about: Using fiction as a tool to explore desire Importance of communication in pleasure Communication in relationship The importance of feeling safe with your partner Realistic relationship dynamics Much more! Click here to visit Giana Darling’s website! Click here to follow Giana Darling on Instagram! Click here to follow Jordin on Instagram! Click here to explore how you can work with Jordin!

Jul 26, 2024 • 29min
#144 - The Symptoms You Can’t Ignore That Are Major Red Flags For Feminine Burnout (And This Applies To Men Too)
*TW: Mention of suicide* In this insightful episode of The Pleasure Principles, Jordin delves into the often overlooked but critical topic of feminine burnout. Drawing from her extensive experience as a Naturopathic Doctor and Pleasure and Intimacy Coach, Jordin identifies the emotional, physical, and relational symptoms that serve as major red flags for feminine burnout. She shares her firsthand observations on how this condition can gradually steal away women's joy, energy, and passion. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to recognize and address the early signs of burnout before it leads to more severe consequences like divorce or illness. Tune in to hear more about: How feminine burnout uniquely affects women (and some men) The emotional signs of feminine burnout The physical signs of feminine burnout The relational signs of feminine burnout Real-life examples of how these symptoms show up Actionable tips for identifying feminine burnout Click here to apply for 1:1 private coaching with Jordin Click here to apply for The Mentorship 2025 SUMMER SALE