#169 - No Consent, No Trust: The Reality of Porn Addictions

Many high-achieving women find themselves stuck in relationships where trust is broken, intimacy is lacking, and boundaries aren’t respected. Sound familiar? 

Today, we’re tackling a raw and real question from a listener:

“My partner appears to be addicted to porn. I’ve confronted him, set boundaries, brought it up in couples therapy, but he continues to lie and hide it. I don’t trust him anymore. I’ve threatened to leave, but we have young kids. I don’t want to stay in a loveless relationship where I feel like I’m just the financial and emotional glue holding everything together. What do I do?”

In this episode, Dr. Jordin dives deep into:

• If porn is actually addictive. (Spoiler: The medical community doesn’t classify it as an addiction, but that doesn’t mean it’s not a problem in your relationship.)
• How healing begins with radical honesty and setting real boundaries.
• The reality of staying in an unfulfilling relationship and its impact on your holistic health.

It’s time to shift the focus from fixing him to healing you. Tolerating disconnection, loneliness, and a lack of intimacy is killing you. This episode will help you get clear on your desires, how to identify and enforce your boundaries, and decide what’s truly best for your well-being.

If today’s episode struck a nerve, or if you’re feeling the anger and betrayal of boundaries being ignored, send Jordin a direct message on Instagram to find what solution can help you feel fulfilled and connected again.

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