High-achieving women have built their lives around independence, control, and success—but beneath the polished exterior, many secretly long to be taken care of, cherished, and adored.

The problem? They don’t know how to let it in.

In this episode, Dr. Jordin Wiggins ND explores the hidden tension between being a powerhouse and craving softness. Inspired by the film Baby Girl, she unpacks why so many ambitious women struggle to receive love, why their relationships feel transactional, and how learning to be rather than do is the key to deep connection and intimacy.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• What "Baby Girling" really means—and why high-achieving women resist it.

• Why receiving love and support feels unsafe (and where this conditioning starts).

• The mindset shift that allows you to go from over-functioning to being deeply cherished.

If you’ve ever fantasized about letting go—about someone else planning the date, taking the lead in bed, and making you feel safe enough to relax—this episode is for you.

How do you really go from Achiever to Receiver?

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