It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain
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Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise.
On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions.
Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for!
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To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain.
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions.
Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for!
A Sony Music Entertainment production.
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain.
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
Episodes
Mentioned books
Jan 15, 2024 • 26min
The Dark Side Of Paedophile Hunters
Please note: this episode contains descriptions of violence against children and human trafficking.
Paedophile Hunter groups can have a positive effect on our communities, getting dangerous people off of our streets. What happens, though, when these groups are not managed properly or are even lead by dangerous people themselves?
Lala discusses the true effects these untrained groups can have and how they can do more harm than good.
If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram.
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Jan 12, 2024 • 23min
Rugby Boot and Dressing Gown ICKS and He Stuffed What Inside What?!
You lot get icky about crossing the road, tuna baguettes and not enough dressing gowns in this week's Friday episode, and Lala has SOME of her own thoughts on your distress!
Also Lala tests the waters on the texts you're not sure about sending. How would a f*ck boy reply? Lala's in the know!
If you'd like to be involved and ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
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Jan 10, 2024 • 22min
Should I Date A Gambling Addict, Creepy Dad? and Getting Body Confidence Back
Are you feeling low about your body postpartum? Wondering whether to date a guy recovering from addiction? Or maybe you're unsure of whether to intervene with a possible safeguarding issue? Lala let's us know all her feels.
If you'd like to be involved and ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
A Sony Music Entertainment production
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
Helpful links from this episode:
NSPCC: www.nspcc.org.uk
To contact the MASH (Multi Agency Safeguarding Hub) team, search for the local team for the person who you are safeguarding
For help with a loved one with a gambling addiciton head to Gam-Anon: www.gam-anon.org
To get educated for the bedroom, head to: www.beducated.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Jan 8, 2024 • 21min
New Year..... Same You!
As we settle in to 2024, do we REALLY need to transform ourselves into someone we've never been before? Should we be setting more realistic goals to look after ourselves? Or can we put all that to one side and just be, still fabulous US! Lala has some ideas of her own! SPOILER ALERT..... YOU DO YOU BABES XOXO
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Jan 5, 2024 • 22min
Trolley Coin, Adult Skateboarding Icks and Did He Literally Just Wave At Me?!
In this episode, Lala discusses topics such as trolley coins on dates, annoying situations like skateboarding, the acceptability of behaviors like colored LED lights, whether asking about sexual history is a red flag, and the importance of respecting sex workers.
Jan 3, 2024 • 19min
Why Didn't He Choose Me? Can I Call Her A Slut? Your Boner Problems Answered
Exploring derogatory terms like 'fat boy' and 'slut,' comparing slut shaming to misogyny, the issue of pressuring women for sex, navigating heartbreak and moving forward.
Jan 1, 2024 • 22min
Best of The Icks Part 2
It's our final Best of the Icks episode to bring in 2024 and these will keep you laughing into 2025! From sickly reactions to Lord Coldimort, repulsion from a welcomed breeze, aversions to roof racks, or sadness from stepping on a snail, buckle up for the Best of the Icks! You're welcome!
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Dec 29, 2023 • 29min
Heartless Crew Join Lala For Your F**k Boy Replies
Lala is joined in the studio by the OG's of old school garage, DJ Fonti and MC Bushkin from Heartless Crew! They help Lala with your replies to those f**k people who just won't give us a break!
You'll also hear a VERY special collab on the mic, exclusive to this podcast!
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Dec 27, 2023 • 23min
Casual Sex Regrets, Neighbour Troubles and How Do I Keep My Daughter Safe?
Are you struggling with difficult conversations with your children around sex? Are you wondering how to help your neighbour in a time of need? Or has casual sex brought on more feelings than you'd like?
Lala helps to answer them all!
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
A Sony Music Entertainment production
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
Lala's book recommendations in this episode:
'Mummy Laid An Egg' by Babette Cole
'Lets Talk About Body Boundaries, Consent, and Respect' by Jayneen Sanders
'Sex Is A Funny Word' by Cory Silverberg
'It’s My Body: A Book About Body Privacy' by Louise Spilsbury Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Dec 25, 2023 • 23min
Best of The Icks Part 1
MERRY CHRISTMAS! As a little present we wanted to bring you the BEST of the Icks all in one easily accessible place for you to listen to over and over again. From dick slapping, naked panic, doubling up of words and Lala trying to bring justice to asthmatics, this episode is sure to bring a smile to you face...but don't laugh too hard as you don't want to give someone the ick!
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
A Sony Music Entertainment production
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
