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It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain
Why Didn't He Choose Me? Can I Call Her A Slut? Your Boner Problems Answered
Jan 3, 2024
Exploring derogatory terms like 'fat boy' and 'slut,' comparing slut shaming to misogyny, the issue of pressuring women for sex, navigating heartbreak and moving forward.
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- The podcast distinguishes between derogatory terms like 'fuckboy' and 'incel' and highlights the importance of considering their connotations as descriptors rather than insults.
- The podcast emphasizes the need for clear boundaries and communication in intimate situations, while acknowledging that intentional coercion is a violation of consent.
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The use of derogatory terms and their meanings
The podcast discusses the use of terms like 'fat boy', 'incel', and 'slut', and their different connotations. The host explains that she uses these terms as descriptors rather than insults. For example, she defines 'fuckboy' as someone who engages in manipulative and toxic behavior. She also distinguishes between an incel struggling with relationships and an incel involved in misogynistic forums that encourage violence against women. Additionally, she clarifies that labeling a woman as a slut perpetuates unfair judgments about her sexual activities while disregarding the harmful intentions associated with terms like fuckboy and incel.
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