

It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain
Sony Music Entertainment
Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise.
On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions.
Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for!
A Sony Music Entertainment production.
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain.
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions.
Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for!
A Sony Music Entertainment production.
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain.
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
Episodes
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Dec 22, 2023 • 33min
LIVE: Redhanded x LalalaLetMeExplain - Bad Boys for Life
True Crime meets Relationship advice...It's the podcast mash-up no one saw coming! Lala joins Hannah and Suruthi from the Redhanded podcast to celebrate the Best Podcasts of the Year on Amazon Music.
Recorded in front of a live audience in London they explore Hybristophilia, audience red flags and Lala shares a slightly disturbing question from a listener.
Find out more about Redhanded Podcast here: https://www.instagram.com/redhandedthepod/?hl=en
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dec 20, 2023 • 22min
Inappropriate Withheld Caller, Abusive Messages and Broken Girlcode Trust
What would you do if you found out your partner is sending his ex horrible messages? How would you react to an inappropriate withheld caller? When do we need to step back from a friend that is in a messy space?
Lala always nails it with her agony aunt answers!
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
A Sony Music Entertainment production
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dec 18, 2023 • 17min
Seasonal Dating Trends: Should We Be Listening?!
Lala get's into the latest seasonal dating trends flying around our socials to find out more! Should we be taking notes, or is it just the same old dating scene?!
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
A Sony Music Entertainment production
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dec 15, 2023 • 20min
Reindeer Antlers, On All Fours and Football Reaction Icks
Today is a festive culmination of stairs icks, pub floor icks and of course, antler icks!
Lala also gets to grips with the f**k boys in your life. Yes they do NOT leave our lives just because it's the holidays!
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
A Sony Music Entertainment production
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dec 13, 2023 • 21min
Cuddle Sessions, Opposing Views and Questionable Snapchats
Are you struggling with your friends views and opinions? Is JUST cuddling enough? Or are you in two minds whether to believe your loving partner? As ever, Lala has come to rescue us! What WOULD we do without her?!
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
A Sony Music Entertainment production
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dec 11, 2023 • 24min
The Law Of Attraction: Can It Help You?
lifeline in the tough times, and a way to thrive in the good times.
Listen for Lala's top "LOA" tales, tips and top recommendations of where you can learn more.
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
A Sony Music Entertainment production
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dec 8, 2023 • 20min
He Called It What?! One Kebab Barry, and Animal Photo ICKS
This week is full to the brim of cat, balloon and penis name ICKS and Lala's love for Kathy Burke! And whilst we're on the subject, if you missed Lala's podcast with lovely Kathy, what are you waiting for, go and listen back right after this episode!
Lala also decides if your red flags are red flaggy or totally fine, babes!
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
A Sony Music Entertainment production
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dec 6, 2023 • 19min
My Friend Won't Listen To Me, Am I Enough?! and He Won't Date Me
Is your friend just not listening to you? Are YOU being messed around by your date AGAIN? Why does it seem EVERYONE is in a relationship apart from you?!
Lala's back to help with all biggest dating questions!
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
A Sony Music Entertainment production
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dec 4, 2023 • 23min
The Pain Of Heartbreak: What NOT To Do
Have you ever felt like your heart is PHYSICALLY breaking after a break-up? Have you ever felt silly for feeling like this because, hey... it was only a relationship... I was only with them for 6 months... why am i not over it by now... WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?! US TOO!
It's ok though, Lala's always by our side to remind us, IT'S NOT US, and we're ok! Whether you're currently going through a break up, or never got over your ex, Lala has all the answers!
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
A Sony Music Entertainment production
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dec 1, 2023 • 22min
Karate Kicks, Wheelie Bin Ice Baths and Slow Cooker Icks
Do you still get a 'main' present at Christmas? Would you put him in the bin for using a wheelie bin ice bath? Lala gets into your icks and decifers your red flags.
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
A Sony Music Entertainment production
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices