

It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain
Sony Music Entertainment
Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise.
On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions.
Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for!
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To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain.
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions.
Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for!
A Sony Music Entertainment production.
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain.
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
Episodes
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Nov 29, 2023 • 21min
Happy Family Pretence, Boyfriend's Racist Family and Questionable Coke Binge
Do you have an ex who oversteps their mark? Is your boyfriend’s behaviour making you worried? Lala is back to help you spot and deal with those crimson red flags that pop up in life in this weeks Agony Aunt episode.
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Nov 27, 2023 • 21min
Understanding Limerence: From Infatuation to Obsession
Have you ever found yourself completely infatuated, to the point where it feels like a rollercoaster ride of emotions? Well, you're not alone. Lala unravels the often overlooked yet relatable topic of limerence - an obsessive infatuation that blurs the line between normal crushes and disturbing obsession.
Lala delves deep into its addictive nature, its impact on our daily lives, and why it's more common than you might think.
This episode has previously been released.
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Nov 24, 2023 • 21min
Damn Right Dirty Tea, Horny 90s Sexing and Bad Ass Squirrel Icks
Can Lala get to grips with your wild animal icks, hot drink icks and sexing like it's the 90s icks? We'll find out this Friday!
Lala also deals with the f*ck boy replies YOU need help with!
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Nov 22, 2023 • 19min
Deceitful Boys, He's Still Online and Out Right W*nkers!
Please note: this episode features description of sexual assault.
Have you cancelled your online dating profile and they haven't? Will his ex always win?! You're learning from the best when Lala gets into the answers to YOUR questions!
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Nov 20, 2023 • 26min
He Just Wanted To Be Pampered: Vickys Dating Story
We've all had AT LEAST one date in our lives that our friends have NEVER let us off the hook about. Why did you go in the first place?! Why did you stay for another drink?! Why did you EVER see them again?!
Long time follower and listener of the podcast, Vicky, joins Lala LIVE ON THE LINE as Lala picks apart Vickys date she'll never forget.
Got your very own dating story for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Nov 17, 2023 • 24min
Kelechi Okafor Solves Your Dating Dillemas!
Actress, author, dancer and out right fierce legend Kelechi Okafor joins Lala to solve YOUR dating dillemas. Get ready to feel the ULTIMATE empowerment with Kelechi on your team!
Plus, Kelechi let's us in to her own personal denim ICK! Listen now for some serious cringe!
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Nov 15, 2023 • 18min
Overly Keen Dad, Faking It and Is It Me?
Have you ever faked an orgasm?! Do people mistake your friendliness for flirting?! Lala is, as ever, on hand to answer YOUR big questions on the big wide world of dating.
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Nov 13, 2023 • 20min
Ghosting: It's Really NOT You!
Have YOU ever been ghosted?! Silly question isn't it! Haven't we all?!
This Monday, Lala shares a couple of her own ghosting stories, and why we really are all in this together when it comes to someone leaving you in the lurch!
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Nov 10, 2023 • 24min
Cheesy Potatoes, Confusing Spooning and Olympic W*nker Icks
ALERT! Your icks this week contain high volumes of sport, cheese, teeth brushing and toilet troubles. Listen now for Lala's views on your most icky icks!
Lala also highlights the red flags you shouldn't be accepting in your life as a Spectacular Buff Ting!
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Nov 8, 2023 • 20min
Too Much Too Soon, Mismatched Sex Drives, and No Labels Fuck Boys
Has your sex life changed since you moved in with your partner? Is the guy you're dating blowing hot and cold and you're just not sure where you stand? Lala is back to give her expert opinion on your dating woes!
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
A Sony Music Entertainment production
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
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And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/"
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