It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain
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Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise.
On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions.
Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for!
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To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain.
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions.
Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for!
A Sony Music Entertainment production.
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain.
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
Episodes
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Nov 6, 2023 • 23min
Embarrassing Clownery: Why Do We Do It?!
Why do we insist on TRYING to get our crush to love us?!
If they're obsessed with us, we'll know....right?!
Lala discusses the lengths we'll go to get our love interest to notice us.... and why we ignore the constant red flags.
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Nov 3, 2023 • 28min
Kathy Burke Tackles Your Dating Dilemmas
The one, the only, Kathy Burke joins Lala to get into the nitty gritty of your dating dilemmas. The wisest woman in show business, you're going to want to hear Kathy's answers!
Plus, who doesn't want to hear Kathy Burke's major ICK story?!
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Nov 1, 2023 • 16min
Herpes Revelations, Settling For Non-Feminists and Taking Advantage Of Sex Workers
Are you putting your morals aside to be in a relationship? Are you questioning your boyfriends VERY questionable online activities? Lala answers your dating woes and curiosities!
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
A Sony Music Entertainment production
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To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Oct 30, 2023 • 25min
Let's Normalize Not Having Children
As the number of women who are choosing NOT to procreate, increases, Lala gets into a discussion on a woman's choice to have children. Is it what we're made to do, or do we do it because we think we should? Should we be having children with men we KNOW can't provide the love and care the child needs JUST because we want a baby? Lala delves deep!
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Oct 27, 2023 • 23min
Period Drama Dramas, Dodgy Doggy, and Long Green Vegetable Icks
Lala tackles your Gareth ICKS, your Floppy ICKS, your Courgette ICKS, it's ICK-tastic.
She also shares her f**k boy replies and responds to text messages that you need to avoid sending! Plus Lala reminds us how we can always count on the trusty vibrator, FACT.
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
A Sony Music Entertainment production
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Oct 25, 2023 • 22min
Love-Bombing, Genital Warts and Teenage Dating Worries
Has someone you THOUGHT you trusted lied about an STI? Are you fretting about the new boy your teenage daughter is texting? Lala's here to help with your questions on her weekly Wednesday Agony Aunt episodes.
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
A Sony Music Entertainment production
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Oct 23, 2023 • 19min
Tinder Select: The People Who Are Paying To Slide Into Your DMs
A new membership for paying customers has launched on Tinder called 'Tinder Select', it gives the paying members access to message ANYONE, even if you don't match with them. Lala looks at the dangers of this new feature, whilst discussing her thoughts on the evolution of dating apps.
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
A Sony Music Entertainment production
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Oct 20, 2023 • 23min
Genital Fruit Bowls, Midweek Biscoff Lattes, and Your Holiday is Not a Movie Icks
It's Ick Friday for your listening pleasure. This week’s irrational reactions range from people trying to live out their best blockbuster movie life to someone bending over to reveal their "genital fruit bowl"!
Lala also tackles a range of potential red flags including monitoring online activities, first date gifts, and love-bombing. Plus Lala’s Friday night reminder encourages us to hold ourselves accountable and listen when someone has been clear with their intentions.
DM Lala on Instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain with your questions and dating dilemmas.
And to keep across the conversation head to @lalalaletmeexplain on Instagram.
Sony Music Entertainment production.
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Oct 18, 2023 • 19min
Abusive Father-In-Law, Office Lust and Schoolgirl Fantasies
What would you do if you ended up crushing on the person you hired? Is your partner making you uncomfortable in the bedroom? Lala delves into more of your relationship qualms this week!
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
A Sony Music Entertainment production
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Oct 16, 2023 • 31min
Married At First Sight: Recognising and Escaping Narcissistic Abuse and Spiritual F**kboys
Lala explores the disturbing dynamics of Bradley and Shona’s relationship from E4's popular television series Married at First Sight UK. She's looks at numerous example from the programme to help you understand signs of an unhealthy relationship and red flags, from narcissistic and controlling behaviour, to emotional manipulation.
Plus Lala gets a first-hand account from Shona looking back at the turbulent relationship that has unfolded on our screens.
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
A Sony Music Entertainment production
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
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MAFS UK Broadcast on E4 and produced by CPL Productions
Clip 1, 2 and 3 - Married At First Sight UK / E4 / CPL Productions. Series 8, Episode 9 - Source:
https://www.channel4.com/programmes/married-at-first-sight-uk/on-demand/73829-009
Clip 4 - Married At First Sight UK / E4 / CPL Productions. Series 8, Episode 10 - Source:
https://www.channel4.com/programmes/married-at-first-sight-uk/on-demand/73829-010
Clip 5, 6 and 7 - Married At First Sight UK / E4 / CPL Productions. Series 8, Episode 13 - Source:
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