
Beyond the Self with Africa Brooke
Welcome to our unfiltered corner. The voicescapes you'll be taking in are created by myself, Africa Brooke.In a worldly sense, I am a globally acclaimed consultant, mentor, writer, and artist. My deepest desire with this podcast is to remind us ALL of the power inherent in taking simple, consistent, and often uncomfortable steps towards personal integrity.I'm all too aware that overwhelm and societal pressures make it easy to become fixated on external influences, tiptoe around potentially sensitive issues and cross our own boundaries in the process. And this kind of environment often leads to self-sabotage.That's where Beyond the Self steps in to be your guiding light. In this house, we FOCUS ON WHAT WE CAN CONTROL.I will be using all my intellectual property, training, tools and wisdom to help you in uncovering your own blind spots and learning to tolerate discomfort so that you can rekindle curiosity, creativity, deeper and more intimate relationships, pleasure, play, and a sense of groundedness.In every episode I'll lay out encouraging insights about our shared human complexities, both messy and fucking beautiful. I really do value a nuanced understanding and more importantly, practical, evidence-based tools and resources to help you integrate the learnings into your life.If you're looking for an uncompromising approach to personal development and life philosophy, you've found yourself in the right place. Here, we don't hold back. Welcome to Beyond the Self.
Latest episodes

Jun 3, 2024 • 54min
#081 - You need to initiate sex, avoiding conflict in relationships, desire, & MORE
Joining the conversation is Todd Baratz, a renowned psychotherapist and sex therapist known for his insightful book, 'How To Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind.' He dives into how personal histories impact modern relationships and intimacy. The discussion covers the significance of emotional intimacy and self-awareness in overcoming societal pressures. Todd also emphasizes addressing past traumas to improve adult relationships, while advocating for better sexual education to enhance understanding and communication around desire.

May 27, 2024 • 22min
#080 - An update: my book IS OUT, signing to Steven Bartlett, success on my terms, & MORE
This week is all about celebrating personal milestones! The author reflects on the whirlwind journey of launching their new book, discussing the challenges and joys of staying grounded. Excitement fills the air as they share insights from the book's release and the community's support. Upcoming projects, including a new podcast, promise deeper dives into love and intimacy. As a significant birthday approaches, the speaker hints at thrilling in-person events ahead.

Apr 15, 2024 • 1h 25min
#079 - Releasing cult-like thinking & rigid identities - w/ Mark Vicente
Mark Vicente, an author and filmmaker known for his role as a whistleblower for NXIVM and his work on 'Sarafina!', engages in a profound discussion about authenticity in a social media-driven world. He shares his journey of navigating identity and vulnerability after leaving a cult-like environment. Mark highlights the pressures of societal expectations, the significance of critical thinking in personal growth, and the importance of embracing emotions to foster genuine connections. Their conversation delves into the complex dynamics of self-worth and the struggle for honesty in self-expression.

Apr 1, 2024 • 27min
#078 - How to deal with rejection (I'm facing it in real time!)
Dive into a heartfelt exploration of rejection and its emotional landscape. The speaker shares personal experiences and offers strategies to view rejection not as defeat, but as valuable feedback for growth. Emphasis is placed on community support, highlighting how open conversations can aid healing. Discover insights on embracing vulnerability, including the surprising benefits of mushrooms like reishi. It's a transformative discussion that encourages resilience and deeper self-reflection in the face of adversity.

Mar 25, 2024 • 33min
#077 - Rejecting urgency culture
Explore the importance of rejecting urgency culture and embracing your own timeline. Learn about setting realistic expectations without compromising standards and the power of going deeper in relationships. Discover how rejecting urgency culture can enhance creativity and personal growth, while navigating expectations wisely in the journey of personal development.

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Mar 18, 2024 • 1h 20min
#076 - Dark side of dating apps, heartbreak, raw attachment style truths - w/ Rebecca Archer
Exploring the dark side of dating apps, heartbreak, and attachment styles with poet Rebecca Archer. They discuss setting boundaries, channeling experiences into poetry, and the gritty realities of 'situation ships'. Reflecting on modern dating, disposability, and lack of emotional intimacy in online interactions.

Mar 4, 2024 • 20min
#075 - Let people f*cking help you!
Exploring the obstacles of seeking help and accepting it, the podcast dives into the lesson of opening up and smashing through the fear of vulnerability. The host shares insights from a mind-blowing psychedelic trip and deep meditation, emphasizing the value of reciprocity and collaboration. Preordering the host's book, 'The Third Perspective,' opens up opportunities for engagement with workshops and master classes, reinforcing the message of embracing help and breaking free from hyper-independence.

Feb 26, 2024 • 36min
#074 - How to refuse living in shame
Exploring personal struggles with alcoholism, the importance of self-acceptance, honesty, and embracing personal change. Reflecting on growth, resilience, identity, integrity, and the transformative power of staying true to oneself. An introspective journey of self-discovery, sobriety, and extending grace in the face of societal expectations.

Feb 19, 2024 • 27min
#073 - Be okay with disappointing people
Exploring the fear of disappointing others in a cancel culture world, setting boundaries, reclaiming authenticity, and prioritizing happiness over approval. Embrace the liberation of disappointing others for growth and happiness. Dare to disappoint together!

Feb 12, 2024 • 53min
#072 - It’s time to manage who has access to you
Explore the importance of managing who has access to you in various aspects of life - physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual. Learn how setting boundaries can lead to greater peace, happiness, and personal evolution. Delve into topics like self-reputation, success, heartache, acknowledgment, support, and intentional interactions for personal growth and well-being.
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