
Beyond the Self with Africa Brooke
Welcome to our unfiltered corner. The voicescapes you'll be taking in are created by myself, Africa Brooke.In a worldly sense, I am a globally acclaimed consultant, mentor, writer, and artist. My deepest desire with this podcast is to remind us ALL of the power inherent in taking simple, consistent, and often uncomfortable steps towards personal integrity.I'm all too aware that overwhelm and societal pressures make it easy to become fixated on external influences, tiptoe around potentially sensitive issues and cross our own boundaries in the process. And this kind of environment often leads to self-sabotage.That's where Beyond the Self steps in to be your guiding light. In this house, we FOCUS ON WHAT WE CAN CONTROL.I will be using all my intellectual property, training, tools and wisdom to help you in uncovering your own blind spots and learning to tolerate discomfort so that you can rekindle curiosity, creativity, deeper and more intimate relationships, pleasure, play, and a sense of groundedness.In every episode I'll lay out encouraging insights about our shared human complexities, both messy and fucking beautiful. I really do value a nuanced understanding and more importantly, practical, evidence-based tools and resources to help you integrate the learnings into your life.If you're looking for an uncompromising approach to personal development and life philosophy, you've found yourself in the right place. Here, we don't hold back. Welcome to Beyond the Self.
Latest episodes

Mar 24, 2025 • 58min
#091 - are you 'protecting your peace' or is it just avoidance in disguise?
Is protecting your peace a noble act or just clever avoidance? The host dives into the murky waters of self-sabotage disguised as empowerment, challenging the notion that solitude means strength. From the silent treatment as boundary-setting to using isolation as a badge of honor, these patterns subtly undermine true connection. The conversation encourages listeners to reflect on their own behaviors, exploring how avoidance masquerades as self-care and the impact of these choices on intimate relationships. It's time to confront, not evade!

Mar 10, 2025 • 1h 2min
#090 - I let myself down, this breakup was my most brutal lesson in self-integrity, pain of duality, & MORE
In this candid discussion, the host opens up about the raw emotions surrounding a recent breakup, emphasizing the importance of self-integrity and personal growth. They explore the painful process of grieving while still loving someone and the hard lessons learned from heartbreak. The conversation highlights the journey towards embracing courageous expression and navigating vulnerability. Listeners will resonate with themes of self-discovery, the impact of community support, and a commitment to authenticity.

Sep 23, 2024 • 1h 24min
#089 - The cost of belonging, identity, and being okay with being the unconventional one - w/ Caro Gomez
Caro Gomez, a visionary shaman’s apprentice and award-winning fashion designer, shares her inspiring journey of cultural navigation and identity. She reflects on the emotional complexities of belonging while balancing her Mayan roots with new life in the UK. The conversation dives into themes of privilege, the struggles of immigration, and the importance of honoring one’s heritage. Caro's insights on embracing authenticity and the joy of creative self-expression paint a vivid picture of the quest for connection and self-acceptance in an unconventional world.

Sep 9, 2024 • 17min
#088 - Be brave enough to ask for help!
In a heartfelt conversation, themes of resilience and vulnerability take center stage. The host emphasizes the importance of embracing help from others, weaving in personal anecdotes that highlight collaboration's value. Listeners are urged to see asking for help as a transformative act of freedom, overcoming the fear of rejection. By expressing oneself authentically, deeper connections and personal growth can emerge. A warm invitation to connect further adds a personal touch to the insightful discussion.

Jul 29, 2024 • 57min
#087 - Put an end to sex & intimacy related SELF-SABOTAGE
Dive into the intricate world of sexuality and self-sabotage. Discover how societal pressures and childhood shame can hold you back in the bedroom. Hear personal stories of transformation through self-love and tantric practices. Learn about the mind-altering effects of porn and how to reclaim your sexual power. Embrace authenticity and break free from old patterns to unlock your true potential.

Jul 8, 2024 • 1h 11min
#086 - Being brutally honest about my relationship with identity & money - w/ Sharmadean Reid
In this engaging dialogue, Sharmadean Reid, founder of The Stack and a celebrated cultural visionary, shares her journey of breaking societal barriers. She discusses her evolving relationship with identity and money, highlighting the importance of financial empowerment and self-leadership for women. Sharmadean emphasizes overcoming scarcity mindsets and harnessing community support as essential tools for success. Her upcoming book, 'New Methods for Women,' aims to inspire readers by providing practical strategies for redefining personal success and fostering equity.

Jul 1, 2024 • 31min
#085 - It's time to face the conflict you're avoiding
This discussion dives deep into the often-avoided topic of conflict and its surprising effect on relationships. It highlights how upbringing shapes our conflict styles and how facing conflict can actually strengthen intimacy. Listeners are encouraged to embrace vulnerability and proactive resolution to foster deeper connections. Personal reflections weave through the conversation, demonstrating the transformative power of honest communication and self-compassion. It's an enlightening take on the complexity of emotional intimacy.

Jun 24, 2024 • 20min
#084 - Why every woman should try an erotic massage
Dive into the transformative power of tantric massages and their role in sexual awakening. Discover how intentional touch can foster emotional well-being and help you embrace your desires. The speaker shares personal experiences from their journey, highlighting the importance of creating a safe space for exploration. From understanding sexual frustration post-breakup to finding empowerment through sensual experiences, this conversation is a refreshing take on self-discovery and pleasure.

Jun 17, 2024 • 45min
#083 - What your discomfort is trying to teach you
Discomfort might feel unbearable, but it could be your greatest ally in personal growth. Embracing it helps to step outside your comfort zone, leading to rewarding transformations. Delve into the fascinating science behind how discomfort fuels development. Personal stories highlight its role in relationships and confidence-building. Plus, discover tips on shifting your mindset and waking up as a morning person. Uncover the positive aspects of discomfort—it's a powerful tool for self-discovery!

Jun 10, 2024 • 43min
#082 - What if your 'imposter syndrome' is correct?
Ever wonder if the nagging feeling of being a fraud is actually a sign to grow? This conversation redefines imposter syndrome, suggesting it might stem from real skill gaps rather than a flawed mindset. Discover how discomfort can be a guiding force for personal development, emphasizing the importance of intellectual humility and honest self-assessment. Plus, learn about the power of feedback in enhancing leadership and communication skills, turning challenges into opportunities for growth.
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