Language of Love with Dr. Laura Berman

Your loved ones, even after passing, are still with you, guiding you, and sending signs of their presence. In this Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Maureen Hancock, a renowned medium, holistic healer, and comedian. For decades, Maureen has been helping people heal from grief by bridging the gap between this world and the next.After surviving lead paint poisoning, a near-death experience, and a serious car accident, Maureen discovered her unique gift to communicate with the spirit world. But Maureen’s work goes beyond delivering messages from the other side—she helps people reframe their grief, teaching them that love never dies and their loved ones are always near.In this episode, we explore: How Maureen’s near-death experiences opened her to the spirit world The role of humor in healing and why laughter is a powerful tool for raising your vibration What life is like on the other side—do our loved ones continue to grow and have “jobs” in the spirit world? How to recognize signs from spirit and feel their presence in your daily life The power of raising your vibration to receive messages from the other side The importance of self-care and grounding to stay connected to your intuition and spiritual guidance If this conversation opened your heart or got you thinking, why not dive deeper? Check out Maureen’s upcoming events and courses on her website, or join her for a live Zoom session to experience her incredible healing energy in real time. You can also follow her on Facebook or explore Helping Parents Heal for even more support.Got a question or a story about connecting with a loved one in spirit? We’d love to hear it! Send us an email at languageoflovepod@gmail.com, and be sure to visit my website for tools like the Good Grief Course to help you stay connected with those you love. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Can love truly heal the wounds of the past? It’s a question many of us ask ourselves when past traumas creep into our relationships, casting long shadows over the love we’re trying to build. For Brian and Stacey, one of the amazing couples who come on the show to get support, this question isn’t just philosophical—it’s a daily reality. How do you rebuild trust when intimacy feels like a minefield? How do you show affection when touch triggers painful memories? And can love, no matter how strong, truly heal the wounds of the past?In this Language of Love Session, we dive deeper into the emotional rollercoaster of Brian and Stacey’s relationship. Will they find a way to bridge the growing distance between them, or will past traumas continue to pull them apart? If you’ve been following their journey, you know this is a story filled with raw emotion, vulnerability, and the struggle to heal. If you’re new, buckle up—this is a journey you won’t want to miss. And if you would like to come on the show to get some support, make sure to email us at languageoflovepod@gmail.comHere’s what you’ll learn in this episode: How past sexual trauma can distort feelings of love and connection Why physical affection can feel both comforting and threatening The double bind of wanting closeness but fearing intimacy How to create non-sexual physical touch that fosters connection The importance of tuning into your partner’s emotional needs Practical tools for building warmth and trust in a relationship How to navigate the Drama Triangle without blaming each other The power of pausing and shifting energy during conflicts Why avoiding each other can feel safer—but isn’t the answer Check out my free quiz and 7 Days to Better Sex to start improving intimacy today. Healing and connection are journeys best taken with the right tools. For trauma recovery, tools like EMDR and the Drama Triangle can be incredibly helpful. Got questions or stories to share? Email me at languageoflovepod@gmail.com—and don’t forget to share this episode, because love is a journey we take together. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you unknowingly sabotaging your relationship? Are you caught in a cycle of recurring arguments, wondering why the spark that once brought you together feels like it’s slipping away? The truth is we often blame our partner for the growing distance between us, convinced they’re the one creating tension—when in reality, it might be the subtle, unnoticed mistakes we’re both making. In this Language of Love Bite, I dive deep into the five common mistakes that could be quietly eroding the connection between you and your partner. I also reveal simple, actionable tips to turn things around and reignite that spark. Plus, stick around until the end for a transformational question you can ask your partner tonight that could change everything. Ready to uncover what’s been holding you back? Let’s get started!Also, don’t miss out on the 7 Days to Better Sex program and the Free quiz, What Do You Want Out of Love? — both designed to guide you on your journey to deeper connection and fulfillment. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Did you know menopause comes with 34 symptoms—yet most women are never told what to expect? Instead, they’re left guessing, struggling, and wondering if it’s all just in their heads.In this episode of The Language of Love Conversations, I sit down with Tamsen Fadal, Emmy Award-winning journalist and menopause advocate, to get real about what’s happening to our bodies and why so many women feel unprepared. Her new book, How to Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life, and Feel Even Better Than Before, is changing the conversation—because menopause isn’t the end. It’s a new beginning.Tamsen shares her personal journey through menopause, from the initial confusion and misdiagnosis to becoming a leading voice in the menopause movement. She discusses the societal stigma surrounding menopause, the flawed research that silenced a generation of women, and how she’s working to change the narrative.If you or someone you love is going through menopause,  or you’ve ever felt dismissed, confused, or alone in your menopause journey, this episode is for you. Tamsen’s story is one of resilience, advocacy, and hope, and her message is clear: you can feel better than ever before.We dive into: The truth behind the Women’s Health Initiative study that misled an entire generation about hormone therapy How to recognize perimenopausal symptoms—because it’s not just hot flashes! The 34 symptoms of menopause and why so many women go undiagnosed What doctors should be asking you (and how to advocate for yourself if they don’t) Hormone therapy: who it’s for, who it’s not for, and what the latest science says Non-hormonal strategies for managing menopause—nutrition, strength training, sleep, and stress management How menopause affects your sex life (and what you can do about it) The cultural stigma around aging and how we can redefine what it means to thrive after 40 If you're ready to take control of menopause, pre-order Tamsen Fadal’s book, How to Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life, and Feel Even Better Than Before today.For deeper insights, watch The M Factor, her must-see documentary on menopause. Join the conversation—follow Tamsen on Linkedin, visit her website and connect with a community breaking the silence on menopause. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The "work spouse" dilemma – why is this modern trend causing so much tension in relationships? You’ve likely heard the term before… It's that coworker who knows your partner’s schedule better than you do, the one who grabs a meal with your partner before a big meeting, or the person your partner vents to when work gets overwhelming. In this episode of Language of Love Session , I dive into a listener’s question about this emotionally charged topic: the concept of a "work wife" or "work husband." Heather, one of our listeners, shares her discomfort with her husband calling a female coworker his "work wife," even though their relationship appears purely professional. Heather finds herself torn between feeling overly sensitive and wanting to protect the trust and boundaries in her marriage.Here’s what we’ll dive into: Why titles like "work wife" can carry ah emotional weight—and why they can actually be a threat to your relationship. How to validate feelings of jealousy or insecurity without letting them take over. The importance of open, honest communication when addressing sensitive topics. Practical strategies for expressing your feelings without placing blame or creating defensiveness. The emotional risks of developing close workplace friendships—and how to maintain healthy boundaries. Why emotional intimacy with colleagues can sometimes overshadow your primary relationship—and how to prevent it. Also, don't miss out on the 7 Days to Better Sex program and my free quiz, What Do You Want Out of Love? — both designed to guide you on your journey to deeper connection and fulfillment. Happy exploring! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How many times have we overlooked the little moments that make our relationship special? The gentle touches, the inside jokes, the quiet ways our partner shows they care. It’s so easy to focus on what’s missing that we forget to appreciate what’s already there. But here’s the secret: gratitude isn’t just a feel-good idea—it’s a powerful force that can reignite passion, deepen your connection, and completely transform your love life.In this Language of Love Bite, I pull back the curtain on how gratitude works like a love potion for your relationship. I show you how a simple “thank you” releases oxytocin—the bonding hormone—and creates a ripple effect of connection, intimacy, and yes, even better sex. Plus, I share a game-changing daily practice and a heartfelt exercise that leaves your partner feeling seen, cherished, and deeply loved.We uncover: Why gratitude is the ultimate aphrodisiac (yes, really!) How focusing on the good stuff can rewrite your relationship story A simple, daily gratitude hack that takes less than a minute but works like magic The power of gratitude dates—and how they can bring back the butterflies A heartfelt exercise: writing a love letter that will leave your partner speechless And if you’re ready to take your love life to the next level, I’ve got something special for you. Head over to my website and check out my free course on Quantum Sex. You’ll learn how to unlock full-body orgasms, use sex magic to manifest your dreams, and connect with your partner on a deeper, more intimate level. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is your hesitation—your fear of being fully seen—actually keeping you from the deep, lasting connection you crave?In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Lindsay Jill Roth, award-winning producer and author of Romances and Practicalities: A Love Story (Maybe Yours) in 250 Questions. Lindsay isn’t afraid to tackle the tough stuff. We dive deep into the role of religion in relationships, the stigma around dating divorced people, and why so many of us shut down love before it even has a chance to grow.She also takes on a challenge so many career-driven women face—hitting their 40s, finally ready to settle down, only to realize that most of the men they’re meeting are already dads. How do you navigate that? How do you avoid getting stuck in this situation in the first place? And most importantly—how do you move forward without settling for something that isn’t right for you?We’re diving into: Why so many people feel lost in love—even with endless advice at their fingertips The hidden ways we sabotage our relationships without realizing it How asking the right questions can transform how we connect with a partner The surprising link between communication and attraction (yes, talking can be sexy!)  Why those “butterflies” you feel might actually be a red flag The tough topics we avoid—like religion, divorce, and long-term compatibility Why we’re too quick to write people off early in relationships (and what we might be missing) How self-awareness and personal growth shape who we attract The key to building emotional safety, trust, and deeper intimacy Want more from Lindsay? Connect with her on Instagram and check out her book Romances and Practicalities: A Love Story (Maybe Yours) in 250 Questions for even deeper insights. Remember to check out my Quantum Sex Course for next-level intimacy and connection. And as always, let’s keep having these conversations about love, sex, and relationships—because even though it’s still a taboo topic, it’s one we need to be talking about.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you stuck in the same argument over and over again? It starts with something small—an offhand comment, a last-minute plan, or a simple misunderstanding. Before you know it, you’re in yet another argument, saying things you don’t mean, feeling unheard, and wondering, how did we get here again?In this episode of The Language of Love Session, we check in with Brian and Stacey, a couple who love each other deeply but keep getting stuck in frustrating fights. Their latest? A basketball game invitation that—on the surface—seemed harmless. But for Stacey, it wasn’t just about the game. It was about priorities, commitment, and feeling like she mattered.Here’s where things got messy: Brian had already skipped their usual weekly sporting activity together. So when he jumped at the chance to go out with a friend instead, Stacey felt like she was coming in second. A simple, innocent decision spiraled into yet another heated argument.But here’s the real issue—it wasn’t about basketball. It was about unspoken fears, emotional triggers, and the stories we tell ourselves when we feel hurt.In this episode, we’re breaking it all down: Why small decisions can feel like big betrayal How unspoken fears and insecurities sneak into your conversations and turn them into battles The power of pausing before you react  How to recognize when you’re stuck in the Drama Triangle—and what to do about it The art of making your partner feel heard without silencing your own needs If you’ve ever felt stuck in the same frustrating arguments, wondering why your partner just doesn’t get it, this episode will shift your perspective. Want to go deeper? Check out my Quantum Sex Course for relationship-transforming tools.Got a love dilemma of your own? Email me at languageoflovepod@gmail.com, and don’t forget to share this episode with someone who needs it. Because love isn’t defined by the big moments—it’s built in the small ones. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Did you know that your sexual energy isn’t just about what happens between the sheets? It’s the fuel that powers your confidence, your creativity, and that magnetic glow that attracts others and makes life feel exciting. But here’s the kicker—it’s easy to lose sexual energy, especially when emotions like guilt, shame, or stress build up, they act like roadblocks, keeping that energy stuck.  The good news? You can turn it back on.In this Language of Love Bite, I’m sharing how to break free from energy blocks that shut down your sexual centers,  and wake up your full-body vitality. We dive into deep breathwork, hip-opening movement (yes, your hips hold way more power than you think), and one game-changing daily practice that will keep your sexual energy flowing effortlessly.In this episode, we cover: Why sexual energy is the key to confidence, joy, and creativity  How trapped emotions like guilt and shame block your energy flow  A simple breathwork technique to instantly boost sexual energy  The surprising role of hip movement in unlocking your passion  A powerful daily practice that will supercharge your arousal and vitality And if you’re ready to take your pleasure and connection to the next level, visit my website check out my free course on Quantum Sex—where you’ll learn to expand your sexual response, manifest through sex magic, and experience deeper intimacy.Your energy is your power. Let’s unlock it together. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There are whispers of a place—an unseen archive where every thought, every decision, every soul’s journey is etched into existence. Some call it the Akashic Records, an infinite library beyond time and space, containing the secrets of the past, present, and even the future. In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I’m joined by Daniela Gil—an intuitive healer, psychic, and guide known as the “psychic’s psychic” and “healer’s healer.” She works with the Akashic Records, plant medicine, and spiritual transformation, helping people connect with their divine essence.Daniela shares her journey as a highly sensitive child, the challenges she faced with mental health and addiction, and how plant medicine helped her reclaim her gifts. We explore the healing power of sacred plants and how they deepen our connection with ourselves, Pachamama (Mother Earth), and the divine.Whether you're curious about the Akashic Records, plant medicine, or finding your path to healing, this conversation will leave you inspired.In this episode, Daniela and I explore: The Akashic Records and how they can guide us The role of Wachuma, Ayahuasca, and Dieta in spiritual healing Overcoming fear, building faith, and living in love Soul contracts, twin flames, and the deeper nature of relationships Daniela’s journey from struggle to spiritual awakening The transformative power of facing death and embracing change If you’re feeling drawn to Daniela’s work, you can connect with her on Instagram and explore all that she offers on her website. Daniela also hosts transformative retreats in Peru, where she works with sacred plants like Wachuma and Ayahuasca to guide deep healing and spiritual growth. And if the Akashic Records intrigue you, she also offers courses and mentorship programs to help you access and understand this powerful source of wisdom.Looking for more insight? Check out these powerful reads: The Map of Consciousness by David Hawkins and The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk.And if you’re craving even more guidance, be sure to visit my website, where you’ll find free resources tailored to support your unique journey. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices