#250: What if, instead of chasing perfection, we focused on the valuable lessons learned along the way?In this special solo episode, I'm celebrating my 35th birthday by sharing 35 impactful lessons I've learned from my experiences with wellness routines, relationships, career development, and more.Whether you're marking a milestone or simply searching for inspiration, join me for a heartfelt discussion on how to embrace growth, overcome challenges, and uncover the true sources of happiness for your life.Catch up on these related episodes:How to Get Unstuck: My 25 by 25 Case StudyResources:Subscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesKeep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Shop limited-edition Balanced Black Girl merchWatch on YouTube @BalancedBlackGirlFollow on IG: @balancedles @balancedblackgirlpodcastFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:Alo Moves | Try Alo Moves for 30 days free, and get 20% off an annual membership. Visit alomoves.com and use code BALANCED30.Biosil | Get 30% off your first order of Biosil. Visit biosil.beauty and enter the code BALANCEDLES.Bobbi Brown | Bobbi Brown Weightless Skin Foundation feels like nothing on your skin. Discover your perfect shade at Bobbibrown.comCaraway | Their internet famous cookware set comes with a Sauté Pan, Fry Pan, Dutch Oven and Sauce Pan. Plus, lids for all of them, a canvas lid holder and magnetic pan rack for storage! It’s the ultimate kitchen set-up and will save you $150 versus buying the items individually. Visit Carawayhome.com/balancedles to take an additional 10% off your next purchase.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transitioning into your 30s brings an exciting evolution in beauty and style. The host shares essential maintenance tips and favorite products for hair and skin, spotlighting seasonal beauty must-haves. Discover transformative clothing hacks that elevate self-expression, alongside a journey towards natural makeup that celebrates, rather than conceals. Plus, hear about the impact of daily choices on personal style and hydration, ensuring you feel fabulous as you embrace your unique beauty!

#248: Journaling can seem intimidating, but guess what—there’s no right or wrong way to do it!In this solo episode, I’ll walk you through the essentials of best case scenario journaling and help you create a practice that fits your unique needs.We’ll also explore how to use guided prompts, choose accessible tools, and develop rituals that make journaling a powerful practice for achieving your goals.Catch up on these related episodes:Episode 239: How to Start Journaling & Benefits of Having a Journaling Practice with Nya Jones of Inside Then OutEpisode 96: Benefits of Journaling, Tips and Tricks for Establishing a Journaling Practice, and How to Journal ConsistentlyResources:Download the Best Case Scenario journal promptSubscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesCheck out “The Artist Way: A Spiritual Path to Higher Creativity” by Julia CameronRead “Thank You, More Please: A Feminist Guide to Breaking Dumb Dating Rules and Finding Love” by Lily WombleKeep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Shop limited-edition Balanced Black Girl merchWatch on YouTube @BalancedBlackGirlFollow on IG: @balancedles @balancedblackgirlpodcastFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:LMNT | LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Smartwater | Smartwater alkaline will keep you hydrated throughout your active life– whether you’re running miles or running meetings. To learn more visit drinksmartwater.comRhoback | Get 20% off all shorts, tanks, dresses, hoodies, and more by visiting rhoback.com and using the code BALANCED.Biosil | Get 30% off your first order of Biosil. Visit biosil.beauty and enter the code BALANCEDLES.Philadelphia Cream Cheese | Philadelphia makes everything creamier. Visit creamcheese.com for recipe inspiration and to purchase Philadelphia Cream Cheese so you can start adding it to your recipes at home!Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#247: Ever find yourself wanting to try something new or move in a different direction, but the possible opinions of others stops you in your tracks? We’ve all been there.In today’s solo episode, I’ll share actionable tips for overcoming the fear of judgment and shifting your focus back to what truly matters—your own dreams and goals.Tune in to learn how to break free from the cycle of comparison and embrace a mindset that empowers you to thrive.Catch up on these related episodes:Episode 244: How to Start Over in Your 30sEpisode 239: How to Start Journaling & Benefits of Having a Journaling Practice with Nya Jones pf inside Then OutResources:Try ClassPass for two weeks freeSubscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesKeep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Shop limited-edition Balanced Black Girl merchWatch on YouTube @BalancedBlackGirlFollow on IG: @balancedles @balancedblackgirlpodcastFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:Shopify | Get your online business up and running with Shopify. Sign up for $1 per month trial period at shopify.com/balancedblackgirlSmartwater | Smartwater alkaline will keep you hydrated throughout your active life– whether you’re running miles or running meetings. To try it out visit drinksmartwater.comIQBAR | Refuel smarter in 2024 with IQ BAR’s Ultimate Sampler Pack with 7 IQ BARs, 4 IQ MIX sticks, and 4 IQ JOE sticks. Get 20% OFF all IQ BAR products, plus get FREE shipping by texting GIRL to 64000. Message and data rates may apply. See terms for detailsGoodR | Stylish sunglasses starting at $25 a pair! Go to goodr.com/BALANCEDLES and use code BALANCEDLES for free shippingNOCD | NOCD offers accessible OCD treatment. Go to nocd.com and schedule a free 15-minute call with their team.Philadelphia Cream Cheese | Philadelphia makes everything creamier. Visit creamcheese.com for recipe inspiration and to purchase Philadelphia Cream Cheese so you can start adding it to your recipes at home!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Feeling stuck in your self-care routine? Discover unique hacks to revitalize your daily practices and boost productivity! Explore effective strategies for morning and night routines, stylish activewear, and the power of high-protein breakfasts. Dive into essential tips for managing menstrual health and mastering time management. Plus, learn how a tidy living space can enhance focus and well-being! Get ready to energize your life with fresh insights and practical advice!

#245: Ready to step into the best version of yourself to reach your goals and achieve your dreams? It’s time to meet your alter ego and transform your life!In today’s solo episode, I’ll teach you how to harness your inner alter ego to upgrade your habits, make smart personal investments, and use archetypes to achieve your dreams.I also talk about…How to identify your personal archetypeAffirmations and rituals that will help you step into your alter egoWays to transform into your dream job, lifestyle, and social lifeHow to close the gap between who you are and what you want to beEmbracing growing pains and unlocking new versions of yourselfCatch up on these related episodes:Episode 240: Your Summer Glow-Up Plan: How to Become Your Healthiest, Hottest SelfEpisode 236: How to Become Your Highest Self: Essential Glow-Up Tips with Jaz TurnerResources:Subscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesRead “The Alter Ego Effect: The Power of Secret Identities to Transform Your Life” by Tom HermanRead “The New Rules of Lifting for Women: Lift Like a Man, Look Like a Goddess” by Lou SchulerKeep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Follow on IG: @balancedles @balancedblackgirlpodcastFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:LMNT | LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Lipton Green Tea | Drinking two cups of Lipton Green tea daily is an easy hack to support your well-being. Try New Lipton Green Tea!Nutrafol | Nutrafol is the number one dermatologist-recommended hair growth supplement, with over 1 million people seeing thicker, stronger, faster-growing hair with less shedding. Go to nurtafol.com/BALANCEDLES and use promo code BALANCEDLES for discount.Smartwater | Smartwater alkaline will keep you hydrated throughout your active life– whether you’re running miles or running meetings. To try it out visit drinksmartwater.comPhiladelphia Cream Cheese | Philadelphia makes everything creamier. Visit creamcheese.com for recipe inspiration and to purchase Philadelphia Cream Cheese so you can start adding it to your recipes at home!Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Tips on starting afresh in your 30s, from career changes to relocation. Reflecting on dissatisfaction in 20s, transitioning in corporate America, and decluttering for a new beginning. Emphasizing self-reflection, setting goals, and essential steps for life changes.

#243: Whether you’re happily single, dating, or in a relationship, it’s essential to recognize the importance of prioritizing yourself amidst societal relationship standards.In today's solo episode, I’m shifting the spotlight away from finding ‘the one’ and delving into the journey of what it truly means to become the main character of your own life.Catch up on these related episodes:Episode 206: The SECRET to Choosing Yourself with Eni PopoolaEpisode 215: How to Have Your Best Dating Experience Ever with Damona HoffmanEpisode 106: Having a Healthy Relationship with Yourself + Breaking Through the Self-Development TrapKeep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Shop limited-edition Balanced Black Girl merchWatch on YouTube @BalancedBlackGirlFollow on IG: @balancedles @balancedblackgirlpodcastFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSubscribe to our newsletter, Mirror NotesSponsors:Shopify | Get your online business up and running with Shopify. Sign up for $1 per month trial period at shopify.com/balancedblackgirlNike | Find your feel with Nike bras & leggings that deliver supportive flexibility and comfort for whatever your day brings. Shop now at Nike.comVionic Shoes | The Vionic Vitals collection has the best essential styles for everyday wear to get you ready for the season. Use code BALANCEDLES at checkout for 15% off your entire order at www.vionicshoes.com when you log into your account. One-time use only.Lipton Green Tea | Drinking two cups of Lipton Green tea daily an easy hack to support your well-being. Try New Lipton Green Tea!Culina Health | Culina Health’s award-winning nutrition care is trusted by 7,500+ patients and 600+ providers nationwide. Our diverse, multilingual team of registered dietitians provides nutrition care for sustainable weight loss, diabetes and prediabetes, gastrointestinal health, eating disorders, general healthy eating, and more. We accept all major insurance plans, and we offer affordable out-of-pocket options. Sign up today at www.culinahealth.com.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#241: Healing and “doing the work” have been hot topics for years — but what does doing the work truly mean? And how do we know when we’ve healed?In today’s episode, I’m welcoming self-healing expert and mental wellness advocate, Yasmine Cheyenne back to the show for a deep dive on how to identify what serves you best and understanding how relationships shape our healing journey.Whether you're seeking clarity in your romantic partnerships, friendships, or family, Yasmine offers wisdom on balancing meaningful connections with self-care and joy.We also talk about…Yasmine’s experience embracing curiosity in her healing journeyWhat inspired her new book “Wisdom to Path: The Beautiful and Bumpy Ride to Healing and Trusting Our Inner Guide”Establishing healthy relationships while focusing on yourselfOvercoming people pleasing and honoring your feelingsSetting boundaries and accepting change in relationshipsAdvice on prioritizing your wants, needs, and goalsResources:Follow Yasmine on Instagram @yasminecheyenneCheck out Yasmine’s new book “Wisdom of the Path: The Beautiful and Bumpy Ride to Healing and Trusting Our Inner Guide”Listen to my previous episode with Yasmine “Building a Foundation for Self-Healing”Keep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Shop limited-edition Balanced Black Girl merchWatch on YouTube @BalancedBlackGirlFollow on IG: @balancedles @balancedblackgirlpodcastFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSubscribe to our newsletter, Mirror NotesSponsors:Delta Air Lines | Delta Air Lines helps you feel at home, even if you’re 30,000 feet above it. Learn more at delta.com.NOCD | NOCD offers accessible OCD treatment. Go to nocd.com and schedule a free 15-minute call with their team.Shopify | Get your online business up and running with Shopify. Sign up for $1 per month trial period at shopify.com/balancedblackgirlNike | The Nike Free Metcon 6 is the perfect shoe for every way you like to move. Shop now at Nike.com.Vionic Shoes | The Vionic Vitals collection has the best essential styles for everyday wear to get you ready for the season. Use code BALANCEDLES at checkout for 15% off your entire order at www.vionicshoes.com when you log into your account. One-time use only.Lipton Green Tea | Drinking two cups of Lipton Green tea daily is an easy hack to support your well-being. Try New Lipton Green Tea!Culina Health | Culina Health’s award-winning nutrition care is trusted by 7,500+ patients and 600+ providers nationwide. Our diverse, multilingual team of registered dietitians provides nutrition care for sustainable weight loss, diabetes and prediabetes, gastrointestinal health, eating disorders, general healthy eating, and more. We accept all major insurance plans, and we offer affordable out-of-pocket options. Sign up today at www.culinahealth.com.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#241: While anxiety and depression are commonly discussed, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) often goes unnoticed, especially among Black women, leading many of us to feeling hesitant to seek help.In this episode, I’m joined by licensed therapist and Clinical Supervisor, Saraa Lee (LCSW) from NOCD, for a conversation about mental health, misconceptions in the healthcare industry, and how OCD can manifest into our daily lives.Together, we discuss the ins and outs of OCD, Saraa’s experience living with the disorder, and why treatment for overcoming intrusive thought patterns has to be handled with care.We also talk about…Early symptoms of OCD and why they’re overlookedThe difference between OCD and anxietyCommon types of OCD and their triggersWhy specialized, evidence-based treatment is more effective for OCD than talk therapyHow exposure therapy (ERP) works for OCDHow OCD can affect friends, family, and romantic relationshipsHow to support someone experiencing OCDResources:Follow NOCD on Instagram @treatmyocdIf you think you might be struggling with OCD and want to talk to someone, NOCD can help. Visit nocd.com to book a free call with their team and learn more about how working with a NOCD Therapist can help you start regaining your life from OCD.Keep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Shop limited-edition Balanced Black Girl merchWatch on YouTube @BalancedBlackGirlFollow on IG: @balancedles @balancedblackgirlpodcastFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSubscribe to our newsletter, Mirror NotesSponsors:Alo Moves | Stay on top of your wellness routine wherever you go. Use code BALANCED30 for a free 30-day trial at alomoves.com.NPR Black Stories, Black Truths | In NPR’s Black Stories, Black Truths you’ll find a collection of some of NPR’s best podcast episodes celebrating the Black experience. Listen here.LMNT | LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix that will keep you hydrated this summer. Go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any drink mix order.Quince | Get quiet luxury without luxury prices at Quince. Go to quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day return on your next order.Nike | The Nike Free Metcon 6 is the perfect shoe for every way you like to move. Shop now at Nike.comThrive Market | Save time and money on groceries and household essentials at Thrive Market. Go to thrivemarket.com/balancedles for 30% off your first order plus a $60 gift!Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.