You Are Not A Frog

Research shows that loneliness could be as detrimental to our health as cancer, and it’s not an issue affecting older people, but those in their teens and 20s. This episode offers practical steps to help you create more healthy, high-quality connections in your life.LinksThe dangers of loneliness – TEDx St AlbansDownload the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupMentioned in this episode:Say it So You’re Heard A FREE crib sheet for clear and calm communication in high-stress moments.

Get more control over your time by clearly defining and enforcing your personal boundaries. Discover why it feels like people overstep them, and what to do when that happens.LinksDownload the THRIVE Week PlannerDownload the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook group

When someone on your team isn't pulling their weight, it's not only demoralising for the rest of the team, but detrimental to the person in question. If performance management isn’t put into practice, workplaces can become toxic, which can hamper performance and lower job satisfaction.High-functioning teams enable everyone to speak up, challenge each-other, and share their mistakes and learning. And it all starts with giving feedback.Download the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupMentioned in this episode:Say it So You’re Heard A FREE crib sheet for clear and calm communication in high-stress moments.

If you’re caught in a cycle of constant work, you might feel like you can't afford even a short break. But that only leads to burnout, so what do you do if you feel you’re too busy to take a break?LinksHow to Avoid Amygdala Hijack Part 1 – Episode 169How to Avoid Amygdala Hijack Part 2 – Episode 171Download your THRIVE Week PlannerDownload your Overwhelm SOS guide

Discover how to find your voice at work and use it effectively in this insightful podcast. From overcoming self-doubt and imposter syndrome to exploring intuition and fostering belonging, learn valuable strategies for authentic self-expression and effective communication in professional settings.

Comparing ourselves to others can be toxic, and lead us to ignore our own needs, and forget our unique limits. It’s time to follow our own path, to note when we're "shoulding" on ourselves, to stop feeling guilty about our differences, and to ditch the idea that we're somehow wrong for having different constraints.Download the Thrive Week PlannerDownload the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupHow to Escape the Tyranny of the ‘Shoulds’ – Episode 196 with Charlotte HousdenLife’s Too Short NOT to Love What You Do – Episode 209, with Dr Sarah GouldingHow to Have More Impact with Less Effort – Episode 159

Making the right decision can feel tricky, especially when they involve important life transitions. But there's a way out, and it starts with asking ourselves some fundamental questions around why we want what we want, and what we truly hope to gain when we get it.Download the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Download your free Overwhelm SOS guideJoin the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupThe Mole and the Mountain: A little book about finding freedom – Jane’s bookHow to Stop Making Decisions Based on Fear – Episode 162 with Henri StevensonHow to Get Moving Again When You Feel Stuck – Episode 207 with Nicola Rylett-JonesMentioned in this episode:Say it So You’re Heard A FREE crib sheet for clear and calm communication in high-stress moments.

If you're questioning whether a job or a relationship is right for you, it's worth exploring further, and taking those thoughts seriously. Remember that change is often a sign of growth, not failure. So focus on the potential positives that can arise from change, rather than asking “what if it doesn’t work?”Download your free Overwhelm SOS guideHow to Ditch the Saviour Complex and Feel More Alive – Episode 88, with Rob BellHow to Decide if You Need to Stay or Leave a Difficult Situation – Episode 201, with Corrina Gordon-BarnesHow to Live With No Regrets – Episode 123, with Georgina ScullFinding Your North Star – Episode 208Download the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook group

It’s easy to to find ourselves thinking that money holds the key to our happiness, security, and freedom. We can project our desires and aversions onto money, believing that once we have “enough”, we can finally get the life we want. But thinking like this often keeps us from truly living our lives; instead we're stuck constantly chasing the next thing.⭐️ Work Well Webinars Money is a story we create, not something with inherent power. It's a piece of paper; a digit in a computer we assign value to. But by disentangling our sense of self from our relationship with money, we can reclaim our personal agency and free up a lot of creative energy.Even while recognising that everyone’s financial situations are different, dysfunctional money stories lead to a constant need to chase, where we're forever stuck in a loop of wanting more but never feeling satisfied. But by untangling our sense of self-worth from our financial status, we can start to experience a life that flows more naturally, with and without the constraint of money.🤔 Take Our Quiz & Get a Personalised Episode Playlist Listen to this episode toLearn how our narratives about money can influence our actions and happiness, and how changing these narratives can free up creative energy.Understand how to disentangle our sense of self from our relationship with money, leading to a life that flows more naturally.Discover how acknowledging that money has no inherent power can shift our perspectives and affect our personal and professional development.Episode highlights[00:02:57] Our response to money[00:05:47] Money stories on a global level[00:09:25] Our individual money stories[00:13:20] The "lack-of-funding" problem within the NHS[00:16:29] The "time is money" story[00:19:31] Excavating your own money stories[00:21:52] Projections of money meaning[00:25:22] Selfishness and self-image[00:31:53] Healing unhelpful money stories[00:34:22] Tackling our projections head-on[00:43:25] Dealing with money conflicts[00:48:02] Money as an expression of appreciation[00:51:20] Every big change begins with a big lie[00:54:57] Agnes' top tipsAbout the guestAgnes Otzelberger is a trainer and therapist, working people who feel burnt out and stuck. She’s particularly interested in the relationship people have with money and how it affects their sense of self, their relationships with others, and their impact on the world. Agnes helps people untangle their sense of self from their relationship with money and break down unhelpful money narratives.Website LinkedIn | FacebookResourcesWatch the video version on YouTubeHow to Stop Your Finances Controlling Your Career – Episode 142, with Dr Tommy PerkinsDefining Your Own Success in Life – Episode 107, with Dr Claire KayeDownload the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Agnes’ CU*money courseJoin the You Are Not a Frog Facebook groupEnjoyed this episode?Write a review and share this with your friends.Connect with RachelHave any questions? Contact Rachel through these platforms:LinkedIn: @Dr-Rachel-MorrisTwitter: @DrRachelMorrisEmail: hello@youarenotafrog.comFind out more about our trainingMentioned in this episode:Say it So You’re Heard A FREE crib sheet for clear and calm communication in high-stress moments.

What happens when we're not feeling well, or when we're feeling overwhelmed at work? Often, we turn to our colleagues for support. But what happens when that support doesn't come, or it's not as helpful as we’d hoped?🛟 Download your free Overwhelm SOS guideWhen we're all in the same boat, it's tricky to get a different perspective. Even well-meaning advice from a colleague can feel misplaced or missing the mark, as it’s shaped by their own experiences and limitations. This can leave us feeling resentful and even more stressed than before.⭐️ Work Well Webinars We need to look outside our immediate work environment, to seek out "useless friends”, understand why we're asking for advice and be clear about what we hope to gain from itIn this quick dip episode, Rachel lays out where to seek help when we’re stressed, and some pitfalls to watch out for.Our colleagues – even the most supportive ones – mean well. But often, so do those who aren’t in a position to help. So we need to make sure to get an outside perspective so we don’t become resentful or frustrated, and damage our work relationships.🤔 Take Our Quiz & Get a Personalised Episode Playlist Listen to this episode toHandle disappointment if colleagues aren’t able to support youFind friends who can give you an unbiased perspectivePinpoint your needs, set clear expectations, and avoid the pitfalls of short-term solutionsEpisode highlights[00:02:01] What we expect of our colleagues[00:04:50] Our colleagues are human[00:11:38] You're all in the same boat[00:14:24] Knowing what you want[00:17:45] Our colleagues' hidden agendas[00:18:56] Being demanding and entitled[00:19:57] Continuing down the wrong pathResourcesTHRIVE Weekly PlannerWatch the video version on YouTubeDownload your free Overwhelm SOS guideFinding Your North Star – Episode 208Why You Should Expect Pushback and What to do About it – Episode 177Very Nice People and Other Deadly Perils –Episode 56Download the episode’s podsheet. You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD.Enjoyed this episode?Write a review and share this with your friends.Connect with RachelHave any questions? Contact Rachel through these platforms:LinkedIn: @Dr-Rachel-MorrisTwitter: @DrRachelMorrisEmail: hello@youarenotafrog.comFind out more about our training