ADHD with Jenna Free

Join the waitlist for ADHD Groups here - adhdwithjennafree.com/groups You can get your free ADHD Regulation Guide here - adhdwithjennafree.com/adhdguide Chapters 00:01 Introduction to Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria 02:00 The Bad Review and Initial Reaction 04:00 Understanding the Physical Response 06:00 Reactive vs. Responsive Thinking 08:00 Step-by-Step Regulation Process 10:00 Physical Regulation Techniques 12:00 Cognitive Restructuring and Taking Feedback 14:00 Information vs. Implementation Balance 17:00 Using Criticism Constructively 19:00 The Gift of Taking Feedback 21:00 Final Thoughts and Action Steps Summary In this episode, I dive into rejection sensitivity dysphoria (RSD) - that debilitating feeling when criticism makes you want to run away or quit everything. Using a recent podcast review as a real-time example, I walk through exactly how dysregulation shows up physically and mentally when facing criticism, and more importantly, how to regulate through it. I share the specific steps I used to go from heart-racing panic to productive action, demonstrating how regulation allows us to take in valid feedback instead of staying defensive. This episode includes a detailed action plan for managing RSD episodes. Action Steps for Managing Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria: Observe the dysregulation - Notice physical symptoms (racing heart, clenched stomach, tense shoulders) and mental reactions (all-or-nothing thinking, panic responses) Regulate physically - Take deep breaths, consciously relax your body, remind yourself "I'm safe, this isn't dangerous" Shift your thinking - Challenge catastrophic thoughts, move from reactive to responsive mode Assess the feedback - Once calm, objectively evaluate if there's valid insight to take from the criticism Take productive action - Use the feedback constructively rather than defensively Takeaways Rejection sensitivity dysphoria is dysregulation triggered by perceived criticism or rejection. The ADHD brain tends to focus more on negative feedback than positive reviews. Physical symptoms include racing heart, stomach clenching, and muscle tension. Dysregulation causes cognitive distortions and reactive rather than thoughtful responses. Regulation takes practice - your nervous system needs training like building muscle. Being able to take feedback non-defensively is a superpower for growth and success. You don't need more information, you need consistent implementation of basics. It's safe to be imperfect and use criticism as a tool for improvement. The goal is responding thoughtfully rather than reacting emotionally. Taking feedback well allows you to learn, grow, and improve continuously. Connect with Me Instagram TikTok

You can get your free ADHD Regulation Guide here - adhdwithjennafree.com/adhdguide Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Less is More Philosophy 01:00 The More is More Dysregulated Mindset 02:00 Trying to Do It All vs. Focused Action 03:00 Physical Items and Hoarding Tendencies 05:00 Information and Knowledge Overload 07:00 Prioritization and Focus Strategies 08:00 ADHD Tools and Overcompensation 10:00 Purpose Over Perfectionism 12:00 Abundance vs. Scarcity Mindset 14:00 Episode Length and Content Value Summary In this episode, I explore the concept of "less is more" for ADHDers, particularly how dysregulation leads to a "more is more" mindset that actually creates more problems. I discuss how being in fight or flight mode causes us to believe we need more calendars, more lists, more information, and more of everything to feel safe. I cover practical areas where streamlining can help: physical possessions, information consumption, prioritization, ADHD tools, task focus, and developing an abundance mindset. This episode also marks the transition to audio-only format as an example of the less is more philosophy in action. Takeaways Dysregulation causes a "more is more" mindset rooted in scarcity and fear. Physical hoarding and keeping items "just in case" stems from feeling unsafe. Information overload prevents implementation and creates overwhelm. Having too many priorities means having no real priorities. Multiple ADHD tools often become counterproductive overcompensation. Focusing on task purpose prevents getting stuck in perfectionism. True abundance mindset recognizes that "enough" already exists. Streamlining creates space for better focus and execution. Less work can often produce better results when done intentionally. Challenging the "more is more" impulse helps regulate the nervous system. Connect with Me Instagram TikTok

You can get your free ADHD Regulation Guide here - adhdwithjennafree.com/adhdguide Chapters 00:00 Understanding Dysregulation and Its Components 05:02 The Role of the Conscious Mind 12:37 Exploring the Subconscious Mind 14:32 The Nervous System's Impact on Regulation 21:54 Aligning the Three Parts for Regulation Summary In this episode of ADHD with Jenna Free, we discuss the intricate relationship between the conscious mind, subconscious mind, and nervous system in the context of dysregulation, particularly for individuals with ADHD. I explain how these three components can often be in conflict, leading to feelings of being stuck or overwhelmed. I emphasize the importance of aligning these parts to achieve emotional regulation and personal growth, providing insights into how to navigate this complex journey. Takeaways Dysregulation can feel like an internal tug of war. The conscious mind is aware of the need for change. The subconscious holds ingrained beliefs that can hinder progress. The nervous system reacts automatically to perceived threats. Aligning the conscious, subconscious, and nervous system is crucial for regulation. Understanding the invisible barriers is the first step to overcoming them. It's normal to feel resistance when trying to slow down. Creating new belief systems is essential for personal growth. Dysregulated behavior often stems from underlying beliefs. Patience and grace are necessary in the journey towards regulation. Connect with Me Instagram TikTok

Take the quiz: adhdwithjennafree.typeform.com/adhdquiz You can get your free ADHD Regulation Guide here - adhdwithjennafree.com/adhdguide Chapters 00:00 Understanding Rushing in ADHD 08:50 The Three Levels of Rushing 18:23 Breaking the Cycle of Rushing Summary In this episode, I discuss the common trait of rushing among dysregulated ADHDers. I emphasize the importance of slowing down to improve executive functioning and offer practical strategies to interrupt the cycle of rushing (yes it's a cycle and we are trapped in it!) We go over the three levels of rushing—physical, mental, and impatience—and highlight the need for self-awareness and mindfulness in making changes. I'm excited to see what you notice if you choose to practice these shifts this week! Takeaways Rushing is a major issue for ADHDers (even though a lot of the time it can feel helpful). It signals danger to the nervous system, causing dysregulation! Rushing skews our perception of time and creates a scarcity mindset. There are three levels of rushing: physical, mental, and impatience. Challenging the belief of 'not enough time' is crucial. You can achieve more by doing less when regulated. Connect with Jenna Instagram TikTok

You can get your free ADHD Regulation Guide here - adhdwithjennafree.com/adhdguide Chapters 00:00 Understanding Overstimulation and Dysregulation 10:49 Coping with Overstimulation 24:16 Long-term Regulation Strategies Summary In this episode of the ADHD with Jenna Free podcast, we dive into the concepts of overstimulation and dysregulation for ADHDers. I explain the differences of overstimulation and dysregulation and where they overlap. It's important to understand these two concepts so you can make the best decisions in how to cope. Dealing with the immediacy of overstimulation and long term dysregulation will improve your quality of life 100 fold! Takeaways Overstimulation is a state where the brain receives too much sensory information. Dysregulation occurs when the nervous system is imbalanced, often stuck in fight or flight mode. Dysregulation can make individuals more sensitive to overstimulation. Understanding the difference between overstimulation and dysregulation is crucial for effective coping. You deserve to have a life that's easier and more enjoyable. Connect with Me Instagram TikTok

You can get your free ADHD Regulation Guide here - adhdwithjennafree.com/adhdguide Chapters 00:00 Understanding the Fight or Flight Response 03:24 The Impact of Chronic Stress on Consumption 09:14 Balancing Consumption and Creation 14:35 Finding Fulfillment Through Creation Summary In this episode I explore the effects of the fight or flight response on consumption behaviors. I discuss how these stress responses lead to overconsumption of food, goods, and content as a means of coping. I share the importance of balancing consumption with creation to foster well-being and self-regulation. We wrap this episode encouraging you to reflect on your consumption habits. Takeaways Overconsumption is often a coping mechanism for dysregulation. Dopamine-seeking behavior can lead to unhealthy consumption patterns. Balancing consumption with creation is crucial for mental health. Creation fosters a sense of purpose and self-esteem. Connect with Jenna Instagram TikTok

Explore the hidden fawn response in ADHD and how it drives people-pleasing behaviors rooted in survival instincts. Learn how being in survival mode can skew relationships and hinder self-advocacy. Discover practical strategies to break free from these patterns, set healthy boundaries, and embrace vulnerability. It's essential to express your needs, take up space, and feel empowered to say no. By understanding these dynamics, you can foster authentic connections and prioritize your well-being.

You can get your free ADHD Regulation Guide here - adhdwithjennafree.com/adhdguide Chapters 00:00 Understanding ADHD and Rest 00:49 The Impact of Dysregulation on Enjoyment 04:26 Chronic Fight or Flight and Its Effects 07:44 Challenging Thoughts and Beliefs 11:08 Nervous System Regulation Strategies 13:56 All or Nothing Thinking in Rest 16:35 Finding Balance in Rest and Productivity 19:30 Transitioning Between Tasks 25:51 Overcoming Barriers to Rest Summary In this episode of the ADHD with Jenna Free podcast, I dive into rest and ADHD, exploring the struggle between dysregulation and the ability to relax. I get into how external factors often get blamed for difficulties in resting, while the real issues may lie within our thoughts, beliefs, and nervous system regulation. I talk about how to challenge all-or-nothing thinking, the importance of finding balance in daily life, and practical strategies for achieving a more regulated state that allows for genuine enjoyment and rest. Takeaways Rest is often hard for those with ADHD due to dysregulation. Chronic fight or flight states hinder relaxation. External factors are not the sole cause of our inability to rest. Nervous system regulation is crucial for relaxation. Slowing down can help manage dysregulation. All or nothing thinking can prevent effective rest. Regulated rest is about balance, not extremes. Rest should be integrated into daily life, not seen as a reward. Connect with Jenna Instagram TikTok

Explore the complexities of ADHD regulation and how the nervous system plays a pivotal role in emotional balance. The podcast uncovers the dysregulation cycle and its impact on daily life, particularly how the fight or flight response can heighten ADHD symptoms. Listeners are introduced to a holistic approach that combines nervous system management, cognitive restructuring, and behavioral changes for lasting improvement. Discover practical insights for achieving emotional regulation and a more balanced life.

Check out the ADHD and Intuitive Eating workshop here - adhdwithjennafree.com/ieworkshop You can get your free ADHD Regulation Guide here - adhdwithjennafree.com/adhdguide Chapters 00:00 Introduction to ADHD and Food Relationships 04:29 Understanding Unhealthy Relationships with Food 09:47 My Personal Journey with Food and ADHD 15:58 Principles of Intuitive Eating 21:36 The Role of Dysregulation in Eating Habits 24:36 Workshop Announcement!! Summary In this episode of the ADHD with Jenna Free podcast, I discuss the complex relationship between ADHD and food. I dive into the challenges faced by ADHDers regarding their eating habits, including unhealthy relationships with food, binge eating, and the impact of dysregulation. I share my personal journey from dieting to intuitive eating and how you can use intuitive eating and regulation to begin building a more balanced and healthy relationship with food. Takeaways ADHD can significantly impact your relationship with food. Many individuals with ADHD struggle with binge eating and dysregulation. A healthy relationship with food involves nourishment and enjoyment, not punishment. Intuitive eating can help create balance in eating habits. Ditching diet culture is essential for a healthy food relationship. No foods should be labeled as good or bad to avoid moral judgments. Regular eating can help regulate emotions and prevent binge eating. Connect with Jenna Instagram TikTok