Thanks For Asking

In case you didn't know, we're still making episodes that are available exclusively on Nora's Substack! We wanted to give all of our listeners a little preview of our most recent episode! Consider joining Nora's Substack to listen to the rest of the episode, get additional bonus episodes, and ad-free episodes!_In 2022, Prolonged Grief Disorder was added to the DSM-V. A new mental health disorder tied to grief ruffled a lot of feathers, including Nora’s. She talked about it on TTFA (including skepticism around this diagnosis) and you all shared your thoughts on this news as well. This episode is a very cool follow up because we get to learn more about this disorder from one of the doctors who created the diagnosis. Nora interviews Dr. Katherine Shear from Columbia University’s Center for Prolonged Grief about the difference between grief and prolonged grief, the treatment plan she and her team developed, and how American culture is still *so* bad at grieving. Listen to the previous episodes: How Long Should Grief Last?How Long Should Grief Last? Part 2 _Please send us your questions and comments about this episode or any other! You can email us at ttfapremium@feelingsand.co or leave us a voicemail at 612-568-4441. —Check us out on YouTube.Find all our shows and more at feelingsand.co Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Subscribe to TTFA Anthologies here.Two days after Nora’s husband Aaron died, she celebrated Thanksgiving with her family. Well... maybe not “celebrated.” Every year, millions of people do the same thing during the holidays. In this episode, we talk with some of those folks, including Dr. Lucy Kalanithi and comedian Amber Tozer. We also spend some time with some of the women of the Hot Young Widows Club, talking about their hopes and dreams for the upcoming year. Plus, stories of some of the worst holidays ever. _Come see the Happyish Holidays Live Show: A Petty LIttle Christmas at The Parkway Theatre in Minneapolis on December 4th and 5th, or join the livestream on December 5th!_It’s the most wonderful time of the year… um, but is it really? The holiday season can be complicated. Sometimes instead of cozy nights with hot cocoa and meaningful moments, we get tears, ruined plans, and nights spent hiding in the bathroom at family parties. If the holiday season hasn’t always lived up to your expectations, join us for Happyish Holidays, a collection of holidays gone wrong presented by Terrible, Thanks for Asking. Happyish Holidays to you and yours!Terrible, Thanks for Asking tells the real stories of real people who have lived through the terrible things in life. TTFA Anthologies are a curated collection of some of our best stories; released in seasons that focus on a specific topic. You can find our entire episode catalog ad-free on Apple+ or Patreon. Created and hosted by Nora McInerny.-Find Nora’s weekly newsletter here! Also, check out Nora on YouTube._The Feelings & Co. team is Nora McInerny, Claire McInerny, Marcel Malekebu and Grace Barry._Find all our shows at www.feelingsand.co. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Subscribe to TTFA Anthologies here.If the holidays make you want to tear your hair out or cry on the bathroom floor, YOU ARE NOT ALONE. It's a hard time for a lot of people, and still we have to force a smile and say through gritted teeth, "Happy Holidays!"But the holidays aren't always happy. Most of the time, all we can ask for is HappyISH Holidays. In this episode, Nora McInerny and producer Marcel Malekebu dive into AITA stories of holidays gone wrong. You can play judge, jury, and executioner with them. If you need a holiday survival guide, we're sorry, this isn't it. But it just might make you feel better about your holiday blunders!_Come see the Happyish Holidays Live Show: A Petty LIttle Christmas at The Parkway Theatre in Minneapolis on December 4th and 5th, or join the livestream on December 5th!_It’s the most wonderful time of the year… um, but is it really? The holiday season can be complicated. Sometimes instead of cozy nights with hot cocoa and meaningful moments, we get tears, ruined plans, and nights spent hiding in the bathroom at family parties. If the holiday season hasn’t always lived up to your expectations, join us for Happyish Holidays, a collection of holidays gone wrong presented by Terrible, Thanks for Asking. Happyish Holidays to you and yours!Terrible, Thanks for Asking tells the real stories of real people who have lived through the terrible things in life. TTFA Anthologies are a curated collection of some of our best stories; released in seasons that focus on a specific topic. You can find our entire episode catalog ad-free on Apple+ or Patreon. Created and hosted by Nora McInerny.-Find Nora’s weekly newsletter here! Also, check out Nora on YouTube._The Feelings & Co. team is Nora McInerny, Claire McInerny, Marcel Malekebu and Grace Barry._Find all our shows at www.feelingsand.co. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In case you didn't know, we're still making two episodes a month for our Patreon and Apple Plus subscribers. We wanted to give all of our listeners a little preview of our most recent episode! Consider joining our Patreon to listen to the rest of the episode(or watch the episode!), get additional bonus episodes, ad-free episodes, and join a community of Terribles. (Or, if you’re an Apple Podcast listener, you can sign up for TTFA Premium right in the app!)_Refamulating, one of our other shows at Feelings and Co, is back today with its second season! To celebrate, we wanted to share one of their episodes from season 1. It’s called “Seahorse Dad” and features former TTFA guest Liam Magan (from Liam and the Letters). When Nora interviewed Liam a few years ago, he shared his experience of coming out as trans and the conflict that caused with his evangelical family. Liam is in a very different place in his life these days, and in this episode of Refamulating he talks about his journey of trying to get pregnant as a trans man. Listen to the new season of Refamulating now! _Please send us your questions and comments about this episode or any other! You can email us at ttfapremium@feelingsand.co or leave us a voicemail at 612-568-4441. —Check us out on YouTube.Find all our shows and more at feelingsand.co Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this engaging discussion, guest Kate Kennedy, host of "Be There in Five," shares her insights on navigating the anxieties of Election Day through lighthearted banter. The duo explores whimsical reflections on pop culture, personal anecdotes about art and fashion, and the complexities of modern relationships. They humorously delve into the challenges of telescope talk and the ethics of public recording, all while promoting self-care and camaraderie. It's a delightful escape from political tension, encouraging listeners to enjoy life with a sense of humor.

In case you didn't know, we're still making episodes that are available exclusively on Nora's Substack! We wanted to give all of our listeners a little preview of our most recent episode! Consider joining Nora's Substack to listen to the rest of the episode, get additional bonus episodes, and ad-free episodes!_Three years ago we published a TTFA episode called ‘Don’t You Want Somebody To Take Care Of You?’, an interview with Gina Demillo Wagner about her experience growing up in a dysfunctional family and being a caregiver as a child. Gina’s brother Alan had a rare genetic disorder that caused him to veer from loving to violent. His illness put stress on the entire family, including her parents, whose mental illnesses went untreated. Since that episode, Gina’s written a book about this experience called Forces of Nature: A Memoir of Family, Loss and Finding Home. On this episode, Gina and Nora catch up about writing the book, how writing helped her process and how some of the Real Housewives helped give her the courage to cut off contact with some family members. _Please send us your questions and comments about this episode or any other! You can email us at ttfapremium@feelingsand.co or leave us a voicemail at 612-568-4441. —Check us out on YouTube.Find all our shows and more at feelingsand.co Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Marisa Franco, a professor and author of "Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make—and Keep—Friends," dives into the nuances of adult friendships. She discusses the rise of loneliness and how tech is shaping social connections, highlighting the importance of platonic love for mental health. Franco emphasizes how our childhood perceptions of love affect adult relationships and offers insights on navigating social interactions. This conversation offers invaluable tips on strengthening friendships amidst life's challenges.

Dive into heartfelt stories that celebrate the lives of loved ones through the art of obituary writing. Reflect on emotional journeys of loss and love, revealing the power of storytelling. Hear moving tributes, including a mother's heart-wrenching choice to save one twin, showcasing profound resilience. Explore the vibrant spirit of a passionate foodie, whose culinary adventures inspire those around her. Each story is a beautiful reminder of life, laughter, and shared memories.

Annie, a heartful widow, shares her deeply personal story of loss following her husband Jim's suicide. She reflects on the letters exchanged between them — one left behind and one written in her grief. Their discussion navigates the complexities of guilt and the misunderstood nature of suicide, highlighting that it’s rarely anyone’s fault. Annie candidly explores her mental health challenges and the importance of connection and vulnerability while coping with profound loss.

The hosts reflect on the evolution of their show, sharing authentic stories of overcoming adversity. They announce the launch of a collection of themed anthologies, particularly focusing on suicide awareness. Personal experiences illuminate the complexities of grief and the impact of losing loved ones. The conversation navigates societal perceptions while emphasizing the importance of self-reflection and communication about suicide. They introduce their first anthology, filled with unique narratives that shed light on loss and healing.