In case you didn't know, we're still making two episodes a month for our Patreon and Apple Plus subscribers. We wanted to give all of our listeners a little preview of our most recent episode! Consider joining our Patreon to listen to the rest of the episode(or watch the episode!), get additional bonus episodes, ad-free episodes, and join a community of Terribles. (Or, if you’re an Apple Podcast listener, you can sign up for TTFA Premium right in the app!)_Refamulating, one of our other shows at Feelings and Co, is back today with its second season! To celebrate, we wanted to share one of their episodes from season 1. It’s called “Seahorse Dad” and features former TTFA guest Liam Magan (from Liam and the Letters). When Nora interviewed Liam a few years ago, he shared his experience of coming out as trans and the conflict that caused with his evangelical family. Liam is in a very different place in his life these days, and in this episode of Refamulating he talks about his journey of trying to get pregnant as a trans man. Listen to the new season of Refamulating now! _Please send us your questions and comments about this episode or any other! You can email us at ttfapremium@feelingsand.co or leave us a voicemail at 612-568-4441. —Check us out on YouTube.Find all our shows and more at feelingsand.co Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this engaging discussion, guest Kate Kennedy, host of "Be There in Five," shares her insights on navigating the anxieties of Election Day through lighthearted banter. The duo explores whimsical reflections on pop culture, personal anecdotes about art and fashion, and the complexities of modern relationships. They humorously delve into the challenges of telescope talk and the ethics of public recording, all while promoting self-care and camaraderie. It's a delightful escape from political tension, encouraging listeners to enjoy life with a sense of humor.

In case you didn't know, we're still making episodes that are available exclusively on Nora's Substack! We wanted to give all of our listeners a little preview of our most recent episode! Consider joining Nora's Substack to listen to the rest of the episode, get additional bonus episodes, and ad-free episodes!_Three years ago we published a TTFA episode called ‘Don’t You Want Somebody To Take Care Of You?’, an interview with Gina Demillo Wagner about her experience growing up in a dysfunctional family and being a caregiver as a child. Gina’s brother Alan had a rare genetic disorder that caused him to veer from loving to violent. His illness put stress on the entire family, including her parents, whose mental illnesses went untreated. Since that episode, Gina’s written a book about this experience called Forces of Nature: A Memoir of Family, Loss and Finding Home. On this episode, Gina and Nora catch up about writing the book, how writing helped her process and how some of the Real Housewives helped give her the courage to cut off contact with some family members. _Please send us your questions and comments about this episode or any other! You can email us at ttfapremium@feelingsand.co or leave us a voicemail at 612-568-4441. —Check us out on YouTube.Find all our shows and more at feelingsand.co Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Marisa Franco, a professor and author of "Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make—and Keep—Friends," dives into the nuances of adult friendships. She discusses the rise of loneliness and how tech is shaping social connections, highlighting the importance of platonic love for mental health. Franco emphasizes how our childhood perceptions of love affect adult relationships and offers insights on navigating social interactions. This conversation offers invaluable tips on strengthening friendships amidst life's challenges.

Dive into heartfelt stories that celebrate the lives of loved ones through the art of obituary writing. Reflect on emotional journeys of loss and love, revealing the power of storytelling. Hear moving tributes, including a mother's heart-wrenching choice to save one twin, showcasing profound resilience. Explore the vibrant spirit of a passionate foodie, whose culinary adventures inspire those around her. Each story is a beautiful reminder of life, laughter, and shared memories.

Annie, a heartful widow, shares her deeply personal story of loss following her husband Jim's suicide. She reflects on the letters exchanged between them — one left behind and one written in her grief. Their discussion navigates the complexities of guilt and the misunderstood nature of suicide, highlighting that it’s rarely anyone’s fault. Annie candidly explores her mental health challenges and the importance of connection and vulnerability while coping with profound loss.

The hosts reflect on the evolution of their show, sharing authentic stories of overcoming adversity. They announce the launch of a collection of themed anthologies, particularly focusing on suicide awareness. Personal experiences illuminate the complexities of grief and the impact of losing loved ones. The conversation navigates societal perceptions while emphasizing the importance of self-reflection and communication about suicide. They introduce their first anthology, filled with unique narratives that shed light on loss and healing.

Author Soraya Chemaly challenges the notion of resilience, highlighting its complexities and societal implications. The conversation explores the impact of societal norms on masculinity and the need to redefine resilience beyond perseverance. Critiques on American culture's unwavering optimism and the importance of embracing interdependence for facing challenges are also discussed.

When Nora was about to marry her first husband Aaron, they were in the thick of his cancer treatment. So the day before the wedding, she got a small tattoo to remind her to stay in the present moment.  This was an excerpt from Nora’s first book, It’s Okay To Laugh (Crying is cool, too) which is available here._If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day with the opposite of a doom scroll.Created and hosted by Nora McInerny.Find Nora’s weekly newsletter here.We’re on YouTube, with new videos twice a week! Subscribe here._“It’s Going To Be OK” is brought to you by The Hartford. The Hartford is a leading insurance provider that connects people and technology for better employee benefits.  Learn more at www.thehartford.com/benefits. _Share your OK thing at 612.568.4441 or by emailing a note or voice memo to IGTBO@feelingsand.co. Start your message with “I’m (name) and it’s going to be okay.” _The IGTBO team is Nora McInerny, Claire McInerny, Marcel Malekebu, Amanda Romani and Grace Barry._The transcript for this episode can be found here.Find all our shows and our store at www.feelingsand.co. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Julia Winston, an experienced egg donor, shares her emotional transformation and insight into family structures. She discusses her decision to donate eggs to a gay couple, challenging traditional family norms. The podcast explores the evolving dynamics of non-traditional family roles and personal stories of redefined relationships.