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Author Soraya Chemaly challenges the notion of resilience, highlighting its complexities and societal implications. The conversation explores the impact of societal norms on masculinity and the need to redefine resilience beyond perseverance. Critiques on American culture's unwavering optimism and the importance of embracing interdependence for facing challenges are also discussed.

When Nora was about to marry her first husband Aaron, they were in the thick of his cancer treatment. So the day before the wedding, she got a small tattoo to remind her to stay in the present moment.  This was an excerpt from Nora’s first book, It’s Okay To Laugh (Crying is cool, too) which is available here._If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day with the opposite of a doom scroll.Created and hosted by Nora McInerny.Find Nora’s weekly newsletter here.We’re on YouTube, with new videos twice a week! Subscribe here._“It’s Going To Be OK” is brought to you by The Hartford. The Hartford is a leading insurance provider that connects people and technology for better employee benefits.  Learn more at www.thehartford.com/benefits. _Share your OK thing at 612.568.4441 or by emailing a note or voice memo to IGTBO@feelingsand.co. Start your message with “I’m (name) and it’s going to be okay.” _The IGTBO team is Nora McInerny, Claire McInerny, Marcel Malekebu, Amanda Romani and Grace Barry._The transcript for this episode can be found here.Find all our shows and our store at www.feelingsand.co. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Julia Winston, an experienced egg donor, shares her emotional transformation and insight into family structures. She discusses her decision to donate eggs to a gay couple, challenging traditional family norms. The podcast explores the evolving dynamics of non-traditional family roles and personal stories of redefined relationships.

The podcast features obituaries that are touching, humorous, and heartfelt. Nora reads some of the favorite submissions from listeners, making you laugh and cry. The episode also includes promotions for Foria and BetterHelp, along with a message from the host expressing gratitude to the audience.

In this insightful discussion, Sarah Super, an activist who transformed her trauma into a mission for survivors of sexual violence, reflects on her journey. She shares her experiences with the legal system and the emotional hurdles of healing. The conversation delves into the burdens of activism, balancing personal recovery while advocating for change. Sarah also highlights her journey of self-discovery, revealing how she embraces her identity beyond being a survivor and the significance of community support in the healing process.

In case you didn't know, we're still making episodes that are available exclusively on Nora's Substack! -We have a big update about the future of TTFA, and something a lot of you have been asking about since the last episode, where I mentioned *casually* in the credits that we were going to be taking an indefinite hiatus. I wanted to talk more about what that means going forward, and thank all of you for listening and supporting our show. xo,Nora—You can read the transcript of this update here.—Find all our shows and more at feelingsand.co.—Find TTFA on social: TTFA on Instagram | TTFA on Facebook  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Join Minnesota journalist Jack El-Hai, who reflects on the hidden complexities of suburban life in the 1970s and the secret sexual revolution among middle-aged couples. Delve into the mysterious Silver Chain club, with its tangled history and quirky newsletters. Paul Ditty's pursuit to connect with a member named Carol reveals unexpected hurdles, adding drama and intrigue to his investigation. The conversation explores shifting societal norms and the longing for connection amidst the shadows of a bygone era.

In case you didn't know, we're still making episodes that are available exclusively on Nora's Substack! -For years, Nancy could picture her ideal partner. She wanted someone who would make her laugh, who would love her son, and who would make her feel confident and empowered. When she met Noa, he checked all the boxes. Everything she thought other people made up about love suddenly came true. But…this perfect love didn’t last forever. Today we hear from both Nancy and Noa as they perform an autopsy of sorts on their relationship and why it didn’t work. – Our Substack is a great way to connect with us and other listeners (and get more Terrible in your inbox). Join us here.                      The episode transcript can be found here.—We’re lucky to only work with sponsors and brands we know and love. Using our links and codes saves you money and supports our independent production!Foria: FORIA is offering a special deal for our listeners. Get 20% off your first order by visiting foriawellness.com/TERRIBLE OR use code TERRIBLE at checkout. Sundays: Get 40% off your first order of Sundays. Go to sundaysfordogs.com/TERRIBLE or use code TERRIBLE at checkout.You can find our full sponsor list here.—Find all our shows and our store at feelingsand.co.—Find TTFA on social: TTFA on Instagram | TTFA on Facebook See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In the early 1990s, a cache of abandoned newsletters found its way from a safety deposit box in Minneapolis, Minnesota to the state’s historical society, where they were left to gather dust. The newsletters detailed the inner workings of a secret 1970s swingers society: The Silver Chain Social Club. Fifty years later, TV writer and host Paul Ditty tracks down the club’s surviving members to uncover the group’s mysterious history and the ties that connected its members long after the swingers club closed its doors for good. For a deeper look inside Time Capsule, read Paul's newsletter. Learn more about Time Capsule at timecapsulepodcast.com. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this podcast, the hosts read listener-submitted grudges, including ones about chargers, Abercrombie and Fitch, and toxic bosses. They debate whether it's petty to email LinkedIn about a fired person's profile. The importance of showing up for loved ones during difficult times is highlighted. The narrator reflects on unacknowledged grief and the need for true support. They also discuss Foursquare obsession, lack of emotional depth, and appreciation for listener grudges and subscribers.