Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)

If you are buying a new home while getting divorced or post-divorce, this is an episode you must hear. There are a lot of important things to know (and things you have to be sure your real estate agent and real estate attorney know!), and you'll find out exactly what they are. Whether it's choosing your agent or lawyer - and knowing whether or not you even need one or both - we give you the information you need and the questions to ask. (Guest: Jill Sodafsky, Real Estate Attorney) Follow us on TikTok and Instagram @exexperts. Email hello@exexperts.com if you would like to book a private session with T.H. and Jessica to help you through your divorce process!

Is this you? Wouldn't you like to feel some community as we enter into the holiday season? While we pride ourselves on the engagement and community we're building through exEXPERTS, we love to give a shout-out to others that have a similar mission, and Divorced Over 40 definitely does. We know how lonely, isolating and sad getting divorced is, and this group has grown from just six people to hundreds across the country. Their in-person events and trips has attracted people from all over (including us!), and two of its core members, Amy and Travis, tell all about what they offer and how they do it. This is a must-listen for anyone divorced because it's stone-cold proof you are not alone! (Guests: Amy Greene & Travis Rolo, Divorced Over 40) Follow us on TikTok and Instagram @exexperts. Email hello@exexperts.com if you would like to book a private session with T.H. and Jessica to help you through your divorce process!

You've heard of a pre-nup, but a post-nup? This is a similar document detailing both people's assets and what will be divided in a divorce, however it is negotiated and agreed upon AFTER a marriage, versus before. The concept of having an agreement in place in case a couple divorces can make things much easier during the actual divorce process, so this is an option for anyone who got married without having a pre-nup in place beforehand. There are specific things to know about how to approach and work out a post-nuptual agreement, and this episode gives all the details. (Guest: Andrea Vacca, Collaborative Divorce Attorney) Follow us on TikTok and Instagram @exexperts. Email hello@exexperts.com if you'd like to book a private session with Jessica and T.H. to help you through your divorce!

Delve into the complex world of sexless marriages and their emotional toll. Discover how differing sexual desires can create misunderstandings and intimacy issues. The hosts discuss barriers to intimacy, including body image and fatigue, and how communication is vital for reviving healthy relationships. Learn practical tips to cope with the aftermath of a sexless marriage and enhance your sex life in future relationships. Engaging insights from expert Kim Bowen provide valuable support for navigating these sensitive dynamics.

Are you wondering what a Divorce Coach actually does and why you need one? The practice of divorce coaching has become more common and is often the best first step to take in your divorce process. They are different than your divorce lawyer (and less expensive) but can actually help guide you through many of the issues you face so that you only use your lawyer for the essentials - thereby saving you money. We brought in a top divorce coach who has also been through divorce, to help break down exactly what they do and how they can help you every step of the way, so that you know if this is the right choice for you. (Guest: Deb Perullo, Divorce Coach and Advisor) Follow us on TikTok and Instagram @exexperts. Email hello@exexperts.com if you would like to book a private session with Jessica and T.H. to help you through your divorce process!

Mediation is a method of negotiation used in almost every divorce, whether you go to court or not. It's important to understand that typical mediation involves both spouses and one mediator who is trying to help both sides come to a settlement. The mediator is not more inclined to one party over the other, and that can be difficult for some people in the process. You can have a lawyer to help you through the mediation process, and in some states you are required to have your own lawyer sign off on the final mediated terms. There is a lot to know, and this episode explains it all! (Guest: Gabriella Formosa, Family Law Attorney) Follow us on TikTok and Instagram @exexperts Email hello@exexperts.com if you would like to set up a private session with Jessica and T.H. to help with your process!

It's challenging to go through divorce while also trying to manage "self care", including watching your eating habits. So many of us fall into unhealthy eating patterns - either stress eating too much or not eating at all due to the stress. There is a simple solution in "mindful eating", which can actually allow you to eat what you want and need, when you want and need it. It's really being aware of your choices, being aware of every bite you take and enjoying the food that you're eating. The choices we make impact our blood levels and stress levels, so if we keep reaching for the wrong things, we can actually be adding stress rather than reducing it. We spoke to a registered dietician who offers tons of helpful tips on how to adapt our already overwhelming lives and improve our eating patterns, so it's not another thing you have to tackle when the divorce is over and beyond. (Guest: Hillary Irwin, Registered Dietician) Follow us on TikTok and Instagram @exexperts. Email hello@exexperts.com if you would like to set up a private session with T.H. and Jessica to help with your divorce process!

In this episode, we talk to a parenting mediator/divorce coach/author whose personal experience through her own parents' divorce taught her that divorce is not a problem in our culture, but rather a potential solution to a problematic marriage. No one is advocating for divorce, but there is a way to have a mindset that allows you to embrace - and yes, even love - divorce...for what it is. It's a refreshing and uplifting perspective that helps shed some of the stigma surrounding divorce, and will help inspire everyone who listens! (Guest: Tara Eisenhard, Parenting Mediator, Divorce Coach, Author "The D Word: Divorce Through a Child's Eyes") Follow us on TikTok and IG @exexperts. Email hello@exexperts.com if you would like to book a private session with T.H. and Jessica to help you through your divorce process!

Divorcing a narcissist is very difficult because the process will almost definitely be more acrimonious, longer, and will cost more money. We've got three amazing exEXPERTS to join us for our next live Open House event "Divorcing a Narcissist" on Monday October 17 at 7pm EST. Kimberly Weeks, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and Certified Trauma Recovery Coach and Supervisor @iamkimberlyweeks; Nawal Houghton, a UK family lawyer, divorce coach @yourdivorcecoach; and Bradley Richardson, Author and Founder of Advanced Adulting @iambradleyrichardson. Tickets are on sale now www.exexperts.com or @exexperts!

One big mistake most people make when getting divorced is using their lawyer as a therapist - but what about when your lawyer is actually a trained therapist? The POV from this kind of duel-licensed professional is a game-changer. Hear from one family law partner who is also a therapist, and use her best tips and advice to figure out better ways to navigate and negotiate your own divorce settlement. Everyone needs to hear this information! (Guest: Abby Rosmarin, Family Lawyer/Therapist) Follow us on TikTok and IG @exexperts.