

Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)
T.H. Irwin and Jessica Herzberg
T.H. and Jess are best friends who lived parallel lives - engaged a month apart, married a month apart, and after 13 yrs found out their husbands were cheating and traveling with their girlfriends as couples...for years!
Divorce etc... is a funny, uplifting, no-BS conversation with best friends who know how important friendship is during hard times. We've lived it, so we get it!
We ask the hard questions to lawyers, financial advisors, therapists, dating experts and anyone who can help you get through divorce. You don't know what you don't know, but we do!
@exexperts (TikTok, IG, FB)
Divorce etc... is a funny, uplifting, no-BS conversation with best friends who know how important friendship is during hard times. We've lived it, so we get it!
We ask the hard questions to lawyers, financial advisors, therapists, dating experts and anyone who can help you get through divorce. You don't know what you don't know, but we do!
@exexperts (TikTok, IG, FB)
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Jan 30, 2023 • 27min
Divorced and Ready to Date | S3, Ep. 5
If you're divorced and ready to date, there is a better way to do it, according to Smart Dating Academy. From recognizing the difference between green and red flags (spoiler alert: butterflies are NOT always a good thing!) to knowing how to how the crucial conversations , we get down to the details in this episode in order to help you enjoy the dating process and find a new healthy relationship! (Guest: Bela Gandhi, Smart Dating Academy)
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Jan 23, 2023 • 39min
Best Tips for Divorce Settlement Negotiation | S3, Ep. 4
Want the best tips for divorce settlement negotiation? It's a difficult and often emotionally painful process, but there are certain strategies that can help you streamline the process. In this episode, you'll get some of the best ideas on how to strategize, how to start the negotiation and why it's important for you to make the first move. (Guest: Joseph Willmore, Family Attorney)
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Jan 17, 2023 • 30min
Divorce and Cancer - Rebuilding an Inspirational Life | S3, Ep. 3
Can you imagine getting diagnosed with stage-three cancer right after finding out your spouse was having an affair and divorcing you? To be a single parent with three small kids and dealing with divorce, surgery, chemo and more might completely break many of us and our spirits. But TV personality Barbara Majeski rose to all the challenges and rebuilt her life bigger and better than before, and shares how she did it (you can, too!) and her life philosophy to help inspire us all. (Guest: Barbara Majeski, TV Personality and podcast host "Baring it All")
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Jan 11, 2023 • 31min
How to Deal With Financial Fraud During Divorce | S3, Ep. 2
Thinking about financial fraud in your marriage or divorce is a scary prospect, but unfortunately it happens quite often. As with most things when it comes to divorce, knowing what to look for and having the right information in order to protect yourself is crucial. In this episode a fraud coach and forensic accountant talk about what to look for and how to protect yourself if you are dealing with financial fraud or abuse. (Guest: Tracy Coenen, Divorce Money Guide, Forensic Accountant and Fraud Coach)
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Jan 8, 2023 • 3min
Getting Divorced and Don't Know Where to Start?
Are you getting divorced and don't know where to start? We have the answers in this month's virtual Open House event on Wednesday Jan 11 at 7pm EST! Our guests are divorce lawyers, mediators, co-parenting experts, divorce coach and forensic accountant and fraud coach. You'll be able to ask all of your questions and get them answered live by: Renee Bauer, Brian Martel, Tracy Coenen and Jennifer Warren Medwin - plus US! Even if you can't attend live, if you register for a ticket you can send in your questions and get them answered so you can watch the replay! Go to www.exexperts.com for tickets and use the code SAVE for $10 off!
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Jan 3, 2023 • 30min
Is Divorce the Right Answer? | S3, Ep. 1
Making the decision to divorce can be extremely difficult, and often comes with thoughts around whether there is anything more you can do to make it work. The beginning of the year sees the most divorce filings, so we spoke to divorce coach Karen McMahon on how to know when to mend or to end - listen to her tips on how to know if your marriage can be saved or if getting divorced is the answer. (Guest: Karen McMahon, Divorce Coach & Founder of Journey Beyond Divorce)
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Dec 23, 2022 • 35min
Don't Feel Rushed to Divorce - Take the Time You Need | S2, Ep. 75
Even when the decision is made to divorce, it's important to take the time you need to prepare, find the right attorney and understand what you want your process to look like. Wendy Sloane, co-host of the "Divorce Doesn't Suck" podcast and host of "What's Up with Wendy" podcast, opens up about her process in an effort to help others not to find themselves in the same situation. Wendy offers up some great tips and insight that will be helpful for anyone dealing with the divorce process. (Guest: Wendy Sloane, co-host "Divorce Doesn't Suck" podcast)
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Dec 21, 2022 • 38min
The Top 5 Best Episodes of Divorce Etc... Season 2 and What You'll learn From Them | S2, Ep. 74
In this episode, we briefly recap which are our top 5 highest-rated and most-listened to podcast episodes from this past season - the guests, the topic and some of the best, most useful pieces of information that you'll take away from each. These episodes were all about dealing with difficulties, whether it be divorcing a narcissist or moving on from a difficult relationship, trauma recovery, and focusing back on yourself.
No. 1: Melissa Gragg, “How to Find Hidden Money in Divorce” - Season 2, Ep. 60
No. 2 (and 2.5): Ina Hansen, “Narcissist v. Asshole –There is a Difference” - Season 2, Ep 57 & 58
No. 3: Nawal Houghton, “How to Divorce a Difficult Person” - Season 2, Ep. 46
No. 4: Jennifer Lazor, “The One Thing You Can Control During Divorce” - Season 2, Ep.38
No. 5: John Nachlinger and Christina Previte, “The Most Common Mistakes of Men and Women in Divorce” - Season 2, Ep. 11
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Dec 12, 2022 • 32min
Best Episodes of Divorce etc...Season 1 and Why You Need to Hear Them | S2, Ep. 73
As 2022 draws to a close, we have gone back to find out highest rated and most listened to episodes of Divorce etc... from Season 1, and in this episode we re-cap why you need to hear them and the amazing nuggets of information you will get from each one. Our list covers everything from self-care and empowerment to the male perspective to money to family – each aspect of what we focus on here at exEXPERTS. Here’s our countdown:
No. 1 – Gabriella Formosa, “What Your Divorce Lawyer Doesn’t Want You to Know” | Season 1, Episode 4
No. 2 – Julie Wein, “Rebound Relationship or Real Thing - How Do You Know?” | Season 1, Episode 61
Bonus No 2 - Tara Gilvar, “Empowering Women - Creating Your Girl Gang” | Season 1, Episode 6
No. 3 – James Bastian and John Nachlinger, “What Men Really Think About Divorce and Getting Through It” | Season 1, Episode 41
No. 4 – Tracy Byrnes, “How to Create a Budget and Pay for Your Divorce” | Season 1, Episode 2
No. 5 – Sarah Corcoran, “Custody and Parenting Rights You Need to Know” | Season 1, Episode 30
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Dec 7, 2022 • 24min
Seasonal Setbacks and Resetting Your Life | S2, Ep. 72
Moving forward in divorce isn't always a straight line of progress and momentum - we all have periods where we and moving with momentum and then times where it seems we're stuck moving backwards. This is all part of the process and it's important to understand that a series of steps forward and back is completely common. In this interview, we talk to Sadie Marie, host of the Divorced and Happy podcast all about seasonal setbacks (in her case it was a summer setbacks) and resetting your life. The joy and pain are relatable to all of us, and you will walk away with insight that will empower you to keep moving forward in your own journey. (Guest: Sadie Marie, host of Divorced and Happy podcast)
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