
Calmly Coping
Calmly Coping is the go-to podcast for high-achieving professionals who look like they have it all together—but inside, they’re overthinking, self-doubting, and feeling the weight of constant pressure.
I’m Tati Garcia, a licensed therapist and coach specializing in high-functioning anxiety. I help ambitious professionals break free from the cycle of overworking, overthinking, and never feeling good enough, so you can cultivate confidence, balance, and peace—without sacrificing success.
If you struggle with:
✔ Overanalyzing everything and second-guessing yourself
✔ Feeling stuck in busyness but unsure how to slow down
✔ Putting immense pressure on yourself to always do more
✔ Trouble relaxing, switching off, or setting boundaries
✔ Self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and fear of failure
Then you’re in the right place.
Each bite-sized, evidence-based episode is designed to help you manage anxiety, improve focus and performance, communicate more confidently, and build the inner calm you crave.
New episodes every other week. Hit follow and start breaking free from the anxiety-driven cycle today.
Latest episodes

Dec 23, 2020 • 11min
How To REALLY Disconnect From Work
If you struggle with fully disconnecting from work, turning off your mind and letting go of the thoughts, stress, and pressure that come from your responsibilities, then this episode is perfect for you! You’re not alone- it can be very difficult to disconnect from work, especially if you struggle with high-functioning anxiety. In this episode you will learn: The ONE THING driving your difficulty disconnecting from work My 4 tips to help you REALLY disconnect from work and stop overthinking The importance of boundaries and how they are actually FREEING ++++++++ Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for overthinkers who struggle with anxiety. Calmly Coping is not about *fixing* you, it's about uncovering the amazing person that is already there (and that you are just too afraid to let out). Episode links: Download my FREE guide: how to be more productive without burning out. Inside this free guide you will learn: How to create the optimal environment for productivity How to create a routine to maximize your productivity & focus My secret to motivating yourself when you just can't focus Shia LaBeouf "Just Do It" Motivational Speech Intro/outro music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead ++++++++ Want to connect? Follow me on Instagram. Join my free supportive community for high achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Interested in working with me? Learn more here.

Dec 16, 2020 • 15min
8 Types Of Self-Care You Need When You Have Anxiety
If you are struggling with anxiety and want to start prioritizing your needs so you can feel better, then this episode is perfect for you! In this episode you will learn: 8 types of self-care you need when you have anxiety Why self-care is so important for decreasing anxiety How to STOP feeling so guilty about self-care! ++++++++ Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for overthinkers who struggle with anxiety. Calmly Coping is not about *fixing* you, it's about uncovering the amazing person that is already there (and that you are just too afraid to let out). Episode links: ➡ Download my FREE guide: Goodbye Overwhelm: Your Guide To Accomplish More By Doing Less Other Calmly Coping episodes mentioned: Episode 019: How to stop overthinking at night Episode 025: Exercising to decrease anxiety and how to make it a habit Intro/outro music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead ++++++++ Want to connect? Follow me on Instagram. Join my free supportive community for high achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Interested in working with me? Learn more here.

Dec 9, 2020 • 9min
Are You Processing Your Emotions In A Healthy Way?
In this episode I’m going to share some questions to help you determine if you’re processing your emotions in a healthy way or not… and what you can do about it. In this episode you will learn: 4 questions to ask yourself to help you determine if you’re processing your emotions in a healthy way or not What leads to emotional build-up and unhealthy emotional processing And my action tips to help you start processing your emotions in a healthy way ++++++++ Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for overthinkers who struggle with anxiety. Calmly Coping is not about *fixing* you, it's about uncovering the amazing person that is already there (and that you are just too afraid to let out). Episode links: ➡ FREE Masterclass: How To Stop Your Emotions From Controlling You Insight Timer Intro/outro music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead ++++++++ Want to connect? Follow me on Instagram. Join my free supportive community for high achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Interested in working with me? Learn more here.

Dec 2, 2020 • 13min
8 Signs Your Emotions Are Controlling You
Emotions are an inherent part of being human, yet you may not have the skills to properly manage and cope with difficult emotions. The reality is, that your behaviors can often be clues to your emotional turmoil under the surface. In this episode you will learn: 8 signs that your emotions are controlling you Why these behaviors are a sign of emotions that are being avoided under the surface And an action tip that takes less than 30 seconds to help you start healing difficult emotions ++++++++ Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for overthinkers who struggle with anxiety. Calmly Coping is not about *fixing* you, it's about uncovering the amazing person that is already there (and that you are just too afraid to let out). Episode links: ➡ FREE Masterclass: How To Stop Your Emotions From Controlling You Source: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/06/070622090727.htm Intro/outro music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead ++++++++ Want to connect? Follow me on Instagram. Join my free supportive community for high achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Interested in working with me? Learn more here.

Nov 25, 2020 • 14min
What Is The Key To Less Stress?
Everybody experiences stress. It is a product of difficult situations, people, and circumstances. So what causes you to get stressed? A massive to-do list? Deadlines at work? A fight with your partner? Traffic? These are the cornerstones of what causes stress. Especially if you are constantly negatively reacting to every little thing that occurs. And it’s entirely possible to make changes so that you are more in control of what stresses you out, rather than being a victim to your circumstances. In this episode you will learn: The difference between stress and anxiety The 3 key things that influence how you respond to stress 5 questions to help you transform your relationship to how you view stress My concrete tips to STOP reacting to stressful things as much ++++++++ Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for overthinkers who struggle with anxiety. Calmly Coping is not about *fixing* you, it's about uncovering the amazing person that is already there (and that you are just too afraid to let out). Episode links: ➡ Download my FREE guide: Goodbye Overwhelm: Your Guide To Accomplish More By Doing Less This guide will take you step-by-step through the process of: Getting all those thoughts and overwhelming “what if’s” out of your head. Taking intentional, focused action. Getting more accomplished by not trying to do “all the things,” all the time. Download the free guide. Intro/outro music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead ++++++++ Want to connect? Follow me on Instagram. Join my free supportive community for high achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Interested in working with me? Learn more here.

Nov 18, 2020 • 12min
How To Slow Down And Appreciate Your Life
Learning how to slow down can be challenging, especially for those of you who feel guilty taking a break or thrive off of always being busy. But continuing to live your life moving from one thing to the next and never taking the time to slow down comes at a cost… The cost is that you are missing your life. In this episode you will learn: The beliefs that are preventing you from slowing down The #1 thing that you need to change you start slowing down in life And my 4 tips to help you start slowing down and appreciating your life! ++++++++ Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for overthinkers who struggle with anxiety. Calmly Coping is not about *fixing* you, it's about uncovering the amazing person that is already there (and that you are just too afraid to let out). Episode links: ➡ Download my FREE step-by-step productivity guide to help you be MORE productive WITHOUT burning out: https://calmlycoping.com/productive Intro/outro music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead ++++++++ Want to connect? Follow me on Instagram. Join my free supportive community for high achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Interested in working with me? Learn more here.

Nov 11, 2020 • 15min
Do You Put Too Much Pressure On Yourself?
Everybody puts pressure on themselves at one time or another. Pressure to be a better person, be healthier, do more work, be a better wife, husband, parent, the list goes on. But how much of this pressure is healthy, and how much of it just results in more stress, tension, and anxiety? In this episode you will learn: How to know when you’re putting too much pressure on yourself Why you think putting pressure on yourself is helping you, but it’s actually making things harder for you The types of pressure you experience and how they influence you Concrete action steps to help you stop putting so much pressure on yourself And more! ++++++++ Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for overthinkers who struggle with anxiety. Calmly Coping is not about *fixing* you, it's about uncovering the amazing person that is already there (and that you are just too afraid to let out). Episode links: ➡ Download my FREE guide: Goodbye Overwhelm: Your Guide To Accomplish More By Doing Less This guide will take you step-by-step through the process of: Getting all those thoughts and overwhelming “what if’s” out of your head. Taking intentional, focused action. Getting more accomplished by not trying to do “all the things,” all the time. Download the free guide. Intro/outro music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead ++++++++ Want to connect? Follow me on Instagram. Join my free supportive community for high achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Interested in working with me? Learn more here.

Oct 28, 2020 • 19min
The Best Ways To Organize Your Tasks and Ideas When You Have High-Functioning Anxiety
When you have clutter everywhere… it can feel overwhelming and stressful. The same applies when you have digital and mental clutter. If you’re feeling overwhelmed with all of the tasks, thoughts, and ideas running through your mind and having difficulty getting organized without over-analyzing things, then this episode is perfect for you! In this episode you will learn: My top 3 tips to help you organize your tasks and ideas My favorite organizational tools And the 5 questions to ask yourself to help you prioritize your tasks and ideas ++++++++ Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for overthinkers who struggle with anxiety. Calmly Coping is not about *fixing* you, it's about uncovering the amazing person that is already there (and that you are just too afraid to let out). Episode links: ➡ Download my FREE guide: Goodbye Overwhelm: Your Guide To Accomplish More By Doing Less This guide will take you step-by-step through the process of: Getting all those thoughts and overwhelming “what if’s” out of your head. Taking intentional, focused action. Getting more accomplished by not trying to do “all the things,” all the time. Download the free guide. ➡ Todoist ➡ Airtable Sources: https://www.shape.com/lifestyle/mind-and-body/how-cleaning-and-organizing-can-improve-your-physical-and-mental-health Intro/outro music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead ++++++++ Want to connect? Follow me on Instagram. Join my free supportive community for high achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Interested in working with me? Learn more here.

Oct 21, 2020 • 18min
Exercising To Decrease Anxiety & How To Make It A Habit
Exercise is about more than just losing weight and getting into physical shape. Exercise is massively important for your mental health and for decreasing anxiety, and in this podcast episode I’m going to share why, along with my top 4 tips for how to make exercising a regular habit! In this episode you will learn: The research and science supporting the benefits of exercise for your mental health The 3 reasons why exercise decreases anxiety and depression My 4 tips to help you make exercising a habit, especially when you struggle with high-functioning anxiety ++++++++ Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for overthinkers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety. Calmly Coping is not about *fixing* you, it's about uncovering the amazing person that is already there (and that you are just too afraid to let out). Episode links: ➡ Join Calmly Coping, my free supportive community for high achievers with high-functioning anxiety. ➡ Spark by John J Ratey* Intro/outro music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead ++++++++ Want to connect? Follow me on Instagram. Join my free supportive community for high achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Interested in working with me? Learn more here. *As an Amazon associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

Oct 14, 2020 • 1h 12min
Ayurveda For Anxiety & Digestion with Lindsey Varney
In this episode I’m speaking with Lindsey Varney, an Ayurvedic lifestyle coach, all about how the food you eat and the awareness you bring to your daily life has an impact on your mental health. Lindsey talks about her struggles with anxiety and how this manifested in digestive issues, as well as her journey to discovering Ayurveda and whole body techniques to supplement her healing. If you have ever struggled with digestive issues because of anxiety, or wondered how the food you eat impacts your mental health, then this episode is perfect for you! Through her work, Lindsey helps women break through the toxic cycle of dieting by learning how to intuitively eat to better fuel their whole self leveraging the sacred practice of Ayurveda. She loves to demystify Ayurveda and share it's everyday wisdom to help others feel their best self. In this episode we discuss: ➡ Integrating the lifestyle rituals and self-care practices that help you feel grounded and balanced. ➡ How the seasons, your body type, physical characteristics, emotions, and other qualities are all interconnected. ➡ How you can balance these aspects with different food and self-care practices. ➡ The integration of Eastern grounded practices and whole body healing into addressing physical and mental health. ➡ Lindsey’s experience with anxiety, learning that her digestive problems were related to anxiety, and her struggles with health anxiety growing up as a result of coping with sick parents. ➡ The connection between physical symptoms (e.g., IBS, upset stomach, feeling cold) and anxiety. ➡ Caffeine and how it can make anxiety worse. ➡ Calming rituals and routines to help with anxiety. ➡ Small, actionable tips to help you make lifestyle habits that will help you start creating balance and calm in your day. ➡ The problems with Western diet culture and how that can set you up for failure. ➡ Are there good or bad foods for your mental health? ➡ The power of awareness in recognizing how foods make you feel. ➡ Ayurvedic tips to cope with anxiety. Learn more about Lindsey! https://www.instagram.com/_lindseyvarney/ https://www.lindseyvarneywellness.com/ ---------- Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for overthinkers who struggle with anxiety. Calmly Coping is not about *fixing* you, it's about uncovering the amazing person that is already there (and that you are just too afraid to let out). ++++++++ Want to connect? Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc Join my free supportive community for high achievers with high-functioning anxiety: https://calmlycoping.com/group Interested in working with me? Learn more here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me ++++++++ Intro/outro music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead